posted June 12, 2013 11:29 AM            

I simply don't function that way.

Are there aspects in synastry or in a natal chart that would explain it?

I'm skeptical I hear ''it's love at first sight'' My inner voice says ''oh yeah? girl, you'll snap out of it soon enough''

But I can totally fall in love with someone am corresponding with, for instance. What aspects would pinpoint this? Is it Mercury in the 7th house? It conjuncts my sun and venus and Saturn chart ruler.

What about you?

Ever experience love at first sight?

posted June 12, 2013 11:38 AM            

Synastry - angles and Nodes..
Some say Uranus and Pluto, too.

You feel it straight away!

For me it's even bigger because natally my ASC/DSC axis falls exactly on my SN/DSC axis, so. It's very strong.

Usually for me, there's some Watery thing going on, too, especially 12th house. I have a thing for people who put their Venus in my 12th, sometimes.

posted June 12, 2013 11:40 AM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
But I can totally fall in love with someone am corresponding with, for instance. What aspects would pinpoint this? Is it Mercury in the 7th house?

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Yes, but there has to be something else.
Like Aqua/Uranus or 11th house connected to relationship significators.

posted June 12, 2013 12:08 PM            

I'm an early degree Scorpio Asc and he's an early degree Taurus Asc.

posted June 12, 2013 12:18 PM            

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Originally posted by mockingbird:
"Well...you weren't naked. I'd remember that."

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posted June 12, 2013 12:21 PM            

But love at first sight..nah...never happened to me..

posted June 12, 2013 12:22 PM            

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Originally posted by starmoon:
I didn't believe it was possible either but then it happened and it's exactly as you hear - when you meet "the one" you will instantly know. The best part is they know too so it's reciprocal. It happened for me a little over two years ago the first instant i saw my current bf - when i looked at synastry we have venus exact conjunct uranus and venus exact conjunct to pluto. I wish the feeling for everyone - it's amazing

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posted June 12, 2013 12:23 PM            

I'm sure it'll happen to you sometime
Just you wait and see!

When someone activates that Venus/Uranus aspect of yours.. you'll know.

posted June 12, 2013 12:25 PM            

So what about a venus/uranus DW ( venus trine uranus 0 deg. and venus quincux uranus 2 deg.)

There's also a venus/pluto DW ( trine 0 deg. and quincux 0 deg. both aspecting.)

posted June 12, 2013 12:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Jessica,

I'm sure it'll happen to you sometime
Just you wait and see!

When someone activates that Venus/Uranus aspect of yours.. you'll know.

(unless all the Saturn influence kills it )

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Can we have love at ''first email''?

If yes, then it happened already

Someone has activated my venus/uranus and I activated his too.

posted June 12, 2013 12:35 PM            

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Originally posted by tgem:
I get the venus conjunct uranus aspect with some venus/ pluto in there too. Makes sense..

So what about a venus/uranus DW ( venus trine uranus 0 deg. and venus quincux uranus 2 deg.)

There's also a venus/pluto DW ( trine 0 deg. and quincux 0 deg. both aspecting.)

Would that be felt as strong as a venus/ uranus conjunction?

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posted June 12, 2013 12:55 PM            

When I was that age, I wasn't into instant emotions either. Basic MO was to take off pants first and then determine level of love. That was back then, and a long time ago.

7th House Uranus aspects abound. Pluto Conjuncts. Moon Squares. Jupiter Quincunxs (whatever that means). Oppo. ASC, etc. That's just me. She has a bunch too.

The synastry and composite aspects are even more interesting.

posted June 12, 2013 01:17 PM              

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Originally posted by Orange:
yes, there is only one aspect responsible for that and it is the notorious Venus/Uranus conjunction or the hard aspect between these two planets in synastry.
Needs to be a very close orbit. It had happened to me before and it's most amazing feeling.

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posted June 12, 2013 01:18 PM            

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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
I wonder if it could happen to me.

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posted June 12, 2013 01:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
I was about to post this lol. It usually dies off after a while.

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Yes, it does

unless it is supported by Saturn, like with my Scorpio.
Our synastrical Venus/Uranus conjunction is the closest aspect.. it is, amazingly, at exact 0.00 degree. My Uranus, his Venus. We, however, have another exact (0 degree)aspect invloving Saturn, and it is my Saturn opposing his Scorpio Sun. It's been a long time.

posted June 12, 2013 02:06 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
causes the effect as if a high voltage electricity ran thruough your veins which consequently released a flock of butterflies in your stomach.

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I have that with someone, but we do not share a Venus-uranus-aspect.
I would have expected it, too, but it just isn´t there.
Unless you count a very very very wide square o my Uranus on 1 SCorpio to his Venus on almost 26 Capricorn.

However, as I just remember, when we met

his pr Venus trine my natal Uranus
(my pr Sun was just on the verge of progressing into Aquarius and a square with nmatal Uranus).

Presently we have my pr Venus-Mercury conjunction (In Aquarius) squared by his Uranus.
his pr Sun-MErcury-conjunction (in Aquarius) squared by my Uranus

(also the day we met both our pr Psyche were conjunct his natl ERos. lol)

Well, I guess that is enough to satisfy the Uranian voltage.

Of course progressions are a passing thing though, just that this one seems to be quite long lasting. lol

posted June 12, 2013 07:28 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
like with my Scorpio honey.

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:throws a jealousy tantrum:

Ceri,

when are you guys getting together?!
Sounds like the chemistry is off the charts!