posted June 19, 2013 06:35 PM            

With that attitude and at some point you being the other guy or "affair", I wouldn't keep in contact (and I say that for the both of you).

*sighs* oh some virgo men...

I'm curious, what are your moon and venus signs OP?

posted June 19, 2013 07:32 PM            

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Originally posted by themischievousone:
The parts that really come to my attention of this is "Why she acts like that with that stupid manner??" and "I am talking about a woman with a low IQ."

With that attitude and at some point you being the other guy or "affair", I wouldn't keep in contact (and I say that for the both of you).

*sighs* oh some virgo men...

I'm curious, what are your moon and venus signs OP?

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I said that for the IQ just because i wanted to give you the picture of the person and not to criticize her! Because i thought that she did all that after the break up because of her low level. That's how it looked like to me. For sure emotions have a lot to do also.

I knew she wasn't the smartest person from start but i never told her anything or insulted her about that.

Besides one of my best mates last night told me that i just lost time with her and she did all that in fbook because of her low level and she acted like a 15 yr old. He now sees her in a completely different way and told me he is not even going to say hi to her again!! Also he said that i should cut her off completely and not to have sex again because her new boyfriend looks so bad and low and it would be disgusting..

My moon is in Aries and Venus in Cancer. What do think?

By the way when you said attitude you mean my attitude or hers??

posted June 19, 2013 07:39 PM            

and that venus in cancer...phew....cant let go....

posted June 19, 2013 10:34 PM            

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Originally posted by liquido:
I said that for the IQ just because i wanted to give you the picture of the person and not to criticize her! Because i thought that she did all that after the break up because of her low level. That's how it looked like to me. For sure emotions have a lot to do also.

I knew she wasn't the smartest person from start but i never told her anything or insulted her about that.

Besides one of my best mates last night told me that i just lost time with her and she did all that in fbook because of her low level and she acted like a 15 yr old. He now sees her in a completely different way and told me he is not even going to say hi to her again!! Also he said that i should cut her off completely and not to have sex again because her new boyfriend looks so bad and low and it would be disgusting..

My moon is in Aries and Venus in Cancer. What do think?

By the way when you said attitude you mean my attitude or hers??

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The reoccurring questioning her intelligence - if this is the way you view/picture her, imo you probably shouldn't worry about keeping in contact- that was the only point I was making. I was not trying to critique attitudes. Just putting my 2 cents in where its not wanted in my virgo fashion and lunar aries doesn't take advice from anyone anyway LOL jk :P

But you seem to think she is low level and not smart (or yanking a chain), why worry?

From my understanding (I am newer at this, so don't take it too much to heart), Moon and Venus signs for men have an indication of what kind of girl would attract them.
Yours seem almost conflicting to me. Where Aries moon men like more aggressive and independent women supposedly and are quite selfish and impatient but don't typically hold a grudge and live in the moment. Where venus in cancer (as someone put it cannot let go), may be prone to holding a grudge, but are normally caring and want to take the time to know someone and not rush into things and know to trust someone first. But doesn't handle rejection well. I believe they like more family oriented and sweet partners.

I was guessing a leo moon for you tho haha.

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Virgo Sun
Gemini Moon
Cancer Asc
Leo Mercury
Libra Venus
Capricorn Mars

posted June 19, 2013 11:12 PM            

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Originally posted by hikoro:
you're a virgo...arent you?
curious as to what you were going to write...

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posted June 19, 2013 11:14 PM            

By the way I'm not really in a relationship. Just put that as my status because I found out he secretly spies on me on FB with another account of his :P

Oh, but it has nothing to do with my "low IQ". I don't think that has anything to do with intelligence by the way. She's probably just hurt over it, and trying to get you to notice or "pretend" that she's better off without you.

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Guys, calm down; for all we know she actually did do it for revenge.

I'm sorry but two weeks sounds like too short a time to actually get over your (ex) boyfriend and find someone else..

So, either she wants to get a reaction out of you, or she's in a rebound relationship.

And some Scorpios actually are always in a relationship, just for the sake of being with someone.
So it's not that far from the truth (even though we're not all this way, obviously).

Point is, liquido, you don't want to be with her anymore, right?
So why don't you just tell her.

No need to complicate things, just tell her the truth so that you both can move on and live your lives.

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posted June 20, 2013 02:19 AM            

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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
The ex is a Scorpio not a Virgo o_O

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mmm....
i quoted charlie on this...how did you miss that? *_*:

quote:Originally posted by charlie:
*fights the temptation*....*starts whistling and walks on to next thread*

you're a virgo...arent you?
curious as to what you were going to write...

posted July 05, 2013 11:56 AM            

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Originally posted by liquido:
she attempted to get in touch a few times but i ignored her.. this week i called her just to check up on her. A bit later she txted me that she would like to see me.. I told her that we'll arrange it.
Then i call her again two days later and after a short conversation she txted me again that she wants to meet up. So i went to her place that night and we had maybe the most intense night since we met... Passion was on red line!!
We had deep flaming sex for all night. I don't know what to do.. We are so messed up. I think i will keep having just sex with her and get rid any other feelings.
She told me she's gonna call me next weekend when she's gonna be in town.
And she's still with that guy which looks horrible but does whatever she asks him. He even got her a dog!! He must be a big victim..

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This sounds hot! Post your synastry!!

posted July 05, 2013 12:39 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
This sounds hot! Post your synastry!!

btw, why you never wanted to admit you had feelings for her? have you been in love with her? Why you always tried to sabbotage the relationship?

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Rising Taurus
Sun Virgo
Moon Aries
Mercury Virgo
Venus Cancer
Mars Scorpio
Jupiter Virgo
Saturn Virgo
Uranus Scorpio
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Libra
N. Node Leo

I did admit on my 1st post that we were deeply in love. And i still am. I think of her all time.
Actually i didn't exactly tried to sabotage the relationship but i couldn't keep up because of my difficult financial condition. That's why i became cold and distant lately, because i felt so bad and helpless that i couldn't do anything to save it and i knew she was loosing her patience. Another mistake i did was that i didn't talk to her about these issues before the break up and i let it flow.. So we didn't have proper communication.

posted July 05, 2013 12:45 PM            

anyway,

posted July 05, 2013 12:49 PM            

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Originally posted by siralop:
You never took responsibility for the relationship, you're in no position to call anyone immature or weak.

And you clearly don't respect her, so do the right thing and let her find someone that does, even if she thinks she has feelings for you.

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posted July 05, 2013 12:51 PM            

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Originally posted by liquido:
what i have noticed in most Scorpios is that they always need to be with someone even if they don't really like him. they can't be alone.

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posted July 05, 2013 01:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
you did make sure to point out in every post of yours that she wanted you madly but you constantly pushed her away as if you couldn't make up your mind if you wanted her or not.

anyway,

can you post the synastry - it's the interaction/aspects formed between her planets and your planets

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This is partly true because there were some things i didn't like in her.. BUT i love her a lot.

Sorry but i have no clue about her planets.
All i know is she has Scorpio Sun.

posted July 05, 2013 01:04 PM            

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Originally posted by Emsie:
Originally posted by siralop:
You never took responsibility for the relationship, you're in no position to call anyone immature or weak.

And you clearly don't respect her, so do the right thing and let her find someone that does, even if she thinks she has feelings for you.

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I agree that i didn't took responsibility but that happened because i had my issues and they affected me and my relationship.

posted July 05, 2013 02:42 PM            

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Originally posted by liquido:
I agree that i didn't took responsibility but that happened because i had my issues and they affected me and my relationship.

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To me this "smells" like kind of playing around with this girl. You should've been more distinct right at the beginning by saying NO to a relationship with her.

Are you sure you really REALLY wanted this relationship so much, or just couldn't say no to sex with her? Or did you have pity on her?

I think you wasted her time and not her wasting yours, because you weren't frank with her earlier when you really had so much grief going on in your life. I have the feeling you only used her for sex and this is not a nice thing. So to speak.

So please, don't speak about her supposedly "low IQ level". You should accept her decision and move on with your life by cutting contact and not playing around by USING HER. (Now you waste your own time as well.)

posted July 05, 2013 03:15 PM            

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Originally posted by Emsie:

Have a little emotional intelligence, please.

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Well since the sign stereotyping is rampant (e.g. Scorpios need to be with someone, etc.), I will say he's a Virgo male & he can't have emotional intelligence. He's too busy over-analyzing his analysis of the analysis LOL!!

posted July 05, 2013 04:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Geeky:
Well since the sign stereotyping is rampant (e.g. Scorpios need to be with someone, etc.), I will say he's a Virgo male & he can't have emotional intelligence. He's too busy over-analyzing his analysis of the analysis LOL!!

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My latest flatmate (and love interest) is a Virgo. Now he's gone back to his sister's flat because of financial problems.

When I told him that I liked him, he DID say no to me. He told me he liked me back, but rejected me due to chaotic things going on in his life.

posted July 05, 2013 05:20 PM            

One of my besties is a Virgo male and he just sucks the life out of life. I've seen him miss out on so much just thinking about doing something. That one is all thought, full of worry/stress, no action.

posted July 05, 2013 05:33 PM            

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Originally posted by Geeky:
One of my besties is a Virgo male and he just sucks the life out of life. I've seen him miss out on so much just thinking about doing something. That one is all thought, full of worry/stress, no action.

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posted July 05, 2013 05:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Geeky:
I'm a Virgo female, but I have a lot of fire & water influence. And I do analyze things very deeply, but I am also impulsive and can discern a situation/problem and make a quick decision (right or wrong).

One of my besties is a Virgo male and he just sucks the life out of life. I've seen him miss out on so much just thinking about doing something. That one is all thought, full of worry/stress, no action.

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posted July 05, 2013 07:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Emsie:
I have Jupiter in Virgo. I often do this analyzing thingy, too. And being a Sagittarius Sun - it makes me go crazy. lol

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I am sooooooooooo very thankful for my Sag moon & Leo Asc. It keeps me from getting in a rut.

posted July 06, 2013 03:30 AM            

Well, why do you care if she moved on or not? You dont want her so, just get over your ego being hurt, and let her continue with her life.

And for the record, saying that shes a woman of low IQ doesnt make your IQ any higher, especially since you had a relationship with her.

posted July 06, 2013 03:52 AM            

That's such a virgo insult....

You do know IQ tests are complete rubbish..