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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I am happy that things are working out fo you now.I was going to add that you both have Venus/Pluto square- which often suggests that you both illicit insecurity either in yourselves when in a relationships- by being overly suspicious and fussy on whether or not your lover will have your back.
This could also work in the opposite way: where you attract a demanding person who is deeply insecure and needs constant reassurance that they are loved i.e mostly in terms of sexual expression.
Sort of like they have a psychological hangup about being abandoned or the love not being reciprocated.
Also,he has Uranus/Mercury square which on one hand can give moments of brilliant insight and active communication. And then on other times...pure silence 
This is no good for your "lets keep debating about it until I come out on top" Mercury/Mars sqaure. As you often put a lot of passion in the expression of your thoughts and his more "detached" stance can at times throw you completely off.Or make it seem like he just doesn't "care".
His Venus opposes your Moon- ill timing: He could respond in a rational way(Venus in Cap) when you need more sensitivity(Cancer Moon).
Or you can find yourself reacting in emotional extremes(Cancer Moon) because he has failed to adequately express that he cares(Venus in Cap).