posted June 19, 2013 03:51 PM            

His chart:

Sun 10 Aqu 13'29"
Moon 2 Sag 25'37"
Mercury 28 Aqu 7'56"
Venus 23 Cap 41'1"
Mars 23 Aqu 52"28"
Jupiter 10 Lib 20'33"r
Saturn 9 Lib 39'56"r
Uranus 29 Sco 35'49"
Neptune 24 Sag 0'58"
Pluto 24 Lib 20'30"r

My chart:
Sun 20 Leo 15'29"
Moon 29 Can 31'3"
Mercury 17 Vir 5'32"
Venus 11 Can 50'56"
Mars 17 Gem 56'53"
Jupiter 28 Gem 41'41"
Saturn 20 Leo 22'40"
Uranus 8 Sco 1'13"
Neptune 13 Sag 24'44"r
Pluto 12 Lib 8'33"

any ideas? I am new to this? Are we compatible? Does this show his aloofness, etc?

posted June 19, 2013 04:39 PM            

I like Leos, I really do! This is coming from someone that "only" has a stellium in Aquarius' house and thus only have Aqua traits.

Leos get on my nerves sometimes. They can be overly needy and "in your face" and dramatic. I on the other hand, am quiet and introverted and find them to exhaust my last energies.

If you feel they withdraw from you maybe you need to tone yourself down a bit?

I only know two Aqua guys and they need SPACE and they are also very "moody".

posted June 19, 2013 08:26 PM            

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Originally posted by joyful1:
I am falling for a guy I am seeing who is an Aquarius. I have only been in love one other time in my life and it was also with an Aquarius (who happened to have the same name as the one I am now falling for). They say opposites attract I guess. I am a Leo that needs to be reassured that he still "likes" me and I feel it is getting on his nerves and he is becoming more aloof and emotionally distant. It's rather maddening. Is this typical Aquarius/Leo behavior? I noticed that this happened in my prior Aquarius relationship as well and we were together 2 1/2 years. In fact we broke up because I was too "insecure" for him and he was too emotionally distant for me. So, I am just wondering how to better relate to an Aquarius and get into their head.

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Im an Aqua Sun! I really dislike the insecurity that most Leo men have and how they always wait to make sure the other person is in them in order to make a move. Its especially frustrating since im a girl and guys are the one who should be doing the chase. So that doesnt exactly apply to your situation.

posted June 19, 2013 09:18 PM            

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Originally posted by its_aqua:
Im an Aqua Sun! I really dislike the insecurity that most Leo men have and how they always wait to make sure the other person is in them in order to make a move. Its especially frustrating since im a girl and guys are the one who should be doing the chase. So that doesnt exactly apply to your situation.

Its a myth that Aquas are distant and aloof and all that. In my opinion they are like that when they are not interested enough, when they are not crazy for the other person.
But really judging only by his sun sign doesnt say much, you should provide us with more info of his chart!

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posted June 19, 2013 09:43 PM            

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Originally posted by 12thhouser:
Not to mention, trying to "get into [an Aquarian's] head" might not be the best way to get to know him.

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posted June 19, 2013 10:03 PM            

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Originally posted by its_aqua:
Haha yeah thats so true, I mean Aquas are really stubborn, personally If someone tried to get into my head to get to know me I would feel angry and I would intentionally try to confuse him and start the mind games

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posted June 20, 2013 12:22 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
Smiles....

I like Leos, I really do! This is coming from someone that "only" has a stellium in Aquarius' house and thus only have Aqua traits.

Leos get on my nerves sometimes. They can be overly needy and "in your face" and dramatic. I on the other hand, am quiet and introverted and find them to exhaust my last energies.

If you feel they withdraw from you maybe you need to tone yourself down a bit?

I only know two Aqua guys and they need SPACE and they are also very "moody".

ps. My room mate is a Leo and I can only deal with her in small amounts. Also dated and lived with a Leo for 7 years and my Dad is a Leo Moon. I do find them very "comforting" however.

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posted June 20, 2013 12:25 PM            

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Originally posted by its_aqua:
Im an Aqua Sun! I really dislike the insecurity that most Leo men have and how they always wait to make sure the other person is in them in order to make a move. Its especially frustrating since im a girl and guys are the one who should be doing the chase. So that doesnt exactly apply to your situation.

Its a myth that Aquas are distant and aloof and all that. In my opinion they are like that when they are not interested enough, when they are not crazy for the other person.
But really judging only by his sun sign doesnt say much, you should provide us with more info of his chart!

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posted June 20, 2013 12:27 PM            

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Originally posted by its_aqua:
Haha yeah thats so true, I mean Aquas are really stubborn, personally If someone tried to get into my head to get to know me I would feel angry and I would intentionally try to confuse him and start the mind games

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posted June 20, 2013 12:55 PM            

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Originally posted by joyful1:
I am falling for a guy I am seeing who is an Aquarius. I have only been in love one other time in my life and it was also with an Aquarius (who happened to have the same name as the one I am now falling for). They say opposites attract I guess. I am a Leo that needs to be reassured that he still "likes" me and I feel it is getting on his nerves and he is becoming more aloof and emotionally distant. It's rather maddening. Is this typical Aquarius/Leo behavior? I noticed that this happened in my prior Aquarius relationship as well and we were together 2 1/2 years. In fact we broke up because I was too "insecure" for him and he was too emotionally distant for me. So, I am just wondering how to better relate to an Aquarius and get into their head.

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posted June 20, 2013 01:22 PM            

I am the emotionally neurotic variety of aquarius, so my emotional upheavals actually brought me closer to my leo hubby, as it gave him all the assurance he needs in ABUNDANCE that i like him and need him.

However, I also have that aloof aquarian quality. But that only comes out if A: I don't feel emotionally attached to you or B: I feel secure in your feelings toward me.

After I feel secure with you (or I don't really like you all that much), then I want you to give me lots of space. :-D

Basically, if you really want and need that constant assurance from your romantic interest, then this type of aloof aquarius will probably not give you what you need, and you will just end up getting hurt. Try going for another fire sign! I am sure another Leo or even an Aries would just love this from you.

posted June 20, 2013 02:26 PM            

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Originally posted by britterfly:
I am an aquarius. My husband is a leo.

I am the emotionally neurotic variety of aquarius, so my emotional upheavals actually brought me closer to my leo hubby, as it gave him all the assurance he needs in ABUNDANCE that i like him and need him.

However, I also have that aloof aquarian quality. But that only comes out if A: I don't feel emotionally attached to you or B: I feel secure in your feelings toward me.

After I feel secure with you (or I don't really like you all that much), then I want you to give me lots of space. :-D

Basically, if you really want and need that constant assurance from your romantic interest, then this type of aloof aquarius will probably not give you what you need, and you will just end up getting hurt. Try going for another fire sign! I am sure another Leo or even an Aries would just love this from you.

Or go for a last decanter Aquarius, like me, who thrives on that barnacle-like relationship!

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posted June 20, 2013 03:15 PM            

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Originally posted by libraschoice77:
Even though you say you really are falling for him, and you understand he is attracted as well, I think the fact that you need reassurance about the relationship over time might become an issue again with this current Aqua. It sounds really important for you to have a very expressive romantic partner, I personally think your denying yourself that if you keep on with someone who not have that kind of personality. Who knows mabe this Aqua has some placements that might help him open up to you over time, but if not you might want to seek somebody who gives you emotionally what you want. I am married to a Leo Sun man, and he needs alot of reassurance also, which I am more than happy to give him. Then again I am a Libra Sun with lots of water in my natal chart. Other planets in the chart also can make a big difference as well.

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posted June 20, 2013 03:51 PM            

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Originally posted by its_aqua:
Im an Aqua Sun! I really dislike the insecurity that most Leo men have and how they always wait to make sure the other person is in them in order to make a move. Its especially frustrating since im a girl and guys are the one who should be doing the chase. So that doesnt exactly apply to your situation.

Its a myth that Aquas are distant and aloof and all that. In my opinion they are like that when they are not interested enough, when they are not crazy for the other person.
But really judging only by his sun sign doesnt say much, you should provide us with more info of his chart!

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I agree that the Aquas are distant/aloof is a myth. It's easy to say b/c they take a diff approach to intimacy and romance. I wouldn't bother trying to "get into his head" - most likely, he has no idea what's going on in there either, lol. I think you'll have no doubt when and if an aqua adores you but you will have to be patient or willing to make a clean break.

I think Leo is my most compatible sign - I dunno, their arrogance or confidence is kinda funny to me. I just roll my eyes, nod my head & smile...and they are lighthearted, that's the best part of them. They don't drag me down like cancer or pisces, which makes me insecure as hell, like I'm being examined. With leos, I just know I'm laughing or shaking my head. lol

posted June 20, 2013 04:27 PM            

I've been called everything that Charlie, its_aqua and 12thhouser said here. Clingy, insecure, bossy, too demanding, too emotional. I do have very strong feelings and I don't like them being taken lightly, which is how I've felt Aquarius treated them. The detachment drives me crazy, especially because it didn't use to be that way - things always started out with lots of excitement (which drew me in in the first place. I like the passion ). It makes me wonder what the hell I did, I feel pushed away and rejected. I don't like people checking in and out just whenever they feel like it. Funniest thing is that I'd totally give them space for as long as they'd like if they'd just ask.

The reassurance, yeah, it is a big deal for me. Wouldn't need it every day and it doesn't have to be big, but timing is so important! I mostly want to know you're still interested in me and my life - once someone never asks me how my exams went or if this ill relative is getting better, I'm starting to think the guy doesn't care about me at all. Even more when I start to withdraw and they don't even notice.

posted June 20, 2013 05:23 PM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I never thought about Leo being too emotional. It's a fire sign, not water.

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posted June 20, 2013 05:31 PM            

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Originally posted by libraschoice77:
In my personal experience with Leos, they seem to be the most romantic and an relationship oriented of the three fire signs.

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posted June 20, 2013 05:38 PM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I thought fire meant passion and water is emotion? Sometimes, I hear Scorpio described as passionate.

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posted June 20, 2013 05:43 PM            

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Originally posted by libraschoice77:
Yes they have a ton of passion, but also alot of warmth that wants to be reciprocated by their partner
Scorpios can be emotional, but not so much with an air moon. And my ex who was a Scorpio...well lets not go there lol.

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I definitely know that about sun Leos. They are really put off by what they say is a bad attitude in others. They are warm and want others to be just like them when they are around. From what I have seen, they are more enthusiastic than Sags and sun Sags are the ones who have the reputation for it.

posted June 20, 2013 05:54 PM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I definitely know that about sun Leos. They are really put off by what they say is a bad attitude in others. They are warm and want others to be just like them when they are around. From what I have seen, they are more enthusiastic than Sags and sun Sags are the ones who have the reputation for it.

My biggest problem with my Leo friends has been my subdued attitude. I am not peppy like them. Just not being peppy is enough to put a Leo in a funk, lol. I don't even realize I am coming off so sullen. It's like, they interpret anything that isn't extra uber peppy as sullen and negative. I like their enthusiasm, just please, don't expect me to be the same all the time.

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posted June 20, 2013 06:06 PM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I definitely know that about sun Leos. They are really put off by what they say is a bad attitude in others. They are warm and want others to be just like them when they are around. From what I have seen, they are more enthusiastic than Sags and sun Sags are the ones who have the reputation for it.

My biggest problem with my Leo friends has been my subdued attitude. I am not peppy like them. Just not being peppy is enough to put a Leo in a funk, lol. I don't even realize I am coming off so sullen. It's like, they interpret anything that isn't extra uber peppy as sullen and negative. I like their enthusiasm, just please, don't expect me to be the same all the time.

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True, the contrast usually ends up being a problem. I do prefer things to be happy and fun, but if someone's not in the mood, I won't bug them. Just say the word and I'm off your back. I ask because I'm worried they're sad about something and hope I can cheer them up.

posted June 20, 2013 06:49 PM            

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Originally posted by meissieri:
True, the contrast usually ends up being a problem. I do prefer things to be happy and fun, but if someone's not in the mood, I won't bug them. Just say the word and I'm off your back. I ask because I'm worried they're sad about something and hope I can cheer them up.

Of course you wouldn't have to be happy happy all the time. Why would anyone expect that of you? Kinda wondering if the Ascendant has to do with it because of what people see...

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posted June 21, 2013 01:14 PM            

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Originally posted by meissieri:
Hey! This sounds exactly like what it's been like for me with men who had planets in Aquarius. This is more about other placements than the suns.

I've been called everything that Charlie, its_aqua and 12thhouser said here. Clingy, insecure, bossy, too demanding, too emotional. I do have very strong feelings and I don't like them being taken lightly, which is how I've felt Aquarius treated them. The detachment drives me crazy, especially because it didn't use to be that way - things always started out with lots of excitement (which drew me in in the first place. I like the passion ). It makes me wonder what the hell I did, I feel pushed away and rejected. I don't like people checking in and out just whenever they feel like it. Funniest thing is that I'd totally give them space for as long as they'd like if they'd just ask.

The reassurance, yeah, it is a big deal for me. Wouldn't need it every day and it doesn't have to be big, but timing is so important! I mostly want to know you're still interested in me and my life - once someone never asks me how my exams went or if this ill relative is getting better, I'm starting to think the guy doesn't care about me at all. Even more when I start to withdraw and they don't even notice.

So, what do you like in him? What did you fall for? It helps to think of that when things aren't going so well.
Sorry he's becoming distant. I think you should definitely try to talk to him before your insecurity starts taking over completely. If getting some space means so much to him, he can tell you that himself rather than have you guess. Good luck!

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