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posted July 01, 2013 12:54 PM            

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You can be very nonchalant about it
People ask those sorts of questions all the time. I have been asked stuff like that and think nothing of it. I just figure they are curious about what motivated me to appear or whatever they are asking about. I don't presume they are uncomfortable in any way.

Maybe they want me to say, "because I can't go on without you in my presence?"

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posted July 01, 2013 02:21 PM            

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Originally posted by its_aqua:
But why would you cling of someone you didnt want to have a proper relationship in the first place?

Thats what doesnt make sense. Cancers have aflong and come back? Why? It didnt even seem important to them in the first place!

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well my cancer dude didnt want a relationship with me at one point so I moved on....now well its 6 years later and he is trying to get that old thang back...I feel like Cancers are more cautious than tauruses in that sense....my cancer said he didnt wanna be hurt again and was still hurt prior and during meeting me so he couldnt do a relationship with me. but he wont leave me alone now

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posted November 12, 2014 06:40 AM            

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posted November 12, 2014 07:15 AM              

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Originally posted by its_aqua:
I have noticed this pattern with Cancer men.
Whether it was a serious relationship, a fling or just casual sex, they will always come back and re-appear at some point, even if much time has passed (speaking for months etc)

Is it a typical Cancer-ish behaviour?
Or is it something that depends entirely on synastry aspects and not in the specific person?

Which placements/ aspects in natal or synastry would make somebody come back again and again ?

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I've recently blocked a Cancer man from coming back into my life i.e. Blocked facebook, what's app, Twitter, Instagram, phone and texts etc. I'm over his behaviour now because he decided to speak publicly about our relationship and then when I confronted him about it, he decided that he didn't care enough to talk it out. I was a fool - true. But I will be a fool no more. They say Geminis are Jekyl and Hyde characters lol I'm telling you, some Cancerian men are people to watch.

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posted November 12, 2014 07:55 AM            

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They come back because they can hardly control their walk.

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posted November 12, 2014 01:06 PM            

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Originally posted by AriesKat:
becuz they cling for dear life

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Typical of these types of posts, ignorance has to come into to play. Its all relative to the whole chart, just because they have cancer placements or a cancer strong planet doesn't mean they can't turn and not look back, sure there are times when you remember the good times and maybe haven't fully forgot or wanted to see the person again but it also goes the other just as much. Cancer's are sneeky with strength, continually crawling back to someone to "please please take me back" isn't all that strong, just as many move and and find someone else more compatible or more into them. Just my opinion.

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posted November 12, 2014 02:31 PM            

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I only go back to keep what I consider to be an enemy close. I can play that game real well..

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posted November 12, 2014 03:37 PM            

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Originally posted by starrystratosphere:
havent you ever heard the saying "if you make a friend of a cancer, you made a friend for life."

it really is like that with most. there are a few signs that are very very generous with their hearts and cancer is one of them. if they care for you, they will always tend to if you ever need anything.

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This is definitly me smh i only have one cancer placement and its my mars,it interferes with my cut throat scorpio/pluto placements but i really do look back at all the good times i cant help it

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posted November 12, 2014 04:36 PM            

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posted November 12, 2014 06:26 PM            

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Not all of the m do

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posted November 12, 2014 08:24 PM              

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LOL at this thread!! Wouldn't.you know.it my high school best friend, who was terribly flaky and eventually.moved onto better things being a New York lawyer...was a Cancer. I haven't spoken to him in years bc we grew apart but he just called me today. Weird...the other guy I liked came back Nov. 6th and he has Moon in the first house. Star moon is right, if you wait long enough or at least sit tight and don't make a move on them - people will come back. With my Taurus moon I'm the best at that lol

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posted November 12, 2014 11:54 PM            

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Originally posted by ScandinavianCrab:
I've got my own moon in Gemini and i can feel good and cool around other Gemini moons.
Capricorn though, a completely different story...

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YES! You right, so I apologize for all the nice Cancer men out there. This Cancer guy must have a lot of Cancer in him, cuz he is very EMOTIONAL and emotionally Unstable. 1 minute he can be calm, next min he can flip 180 degree to some emotional baby need attention freak.

I actually know 1 Cancer guy, younger age than me though. And he is pretty cool guy, he only in his early 20s', so maybe his Cancer traits haven't mature yet? But he is must more stable than the other Cancer dude.

You have Gemini moon too? Cool, I can see you are a good Cancer man. Cancer guys are caring toward family, and with a Gemini Moon, they can be fun to be around, they likes to communicate, that is good.

By the way, me being a Pisces Sun, I let people step all over me and bully me alot. It would take ALOT, I really mean ALOT for me to get mad. And the only sign I would get so frusterate, loose my cool, amd make me want to scream at him, it would be CANCER, lol. They are just so emotional to the point that it really get on my nerves (well that one specific Cancer guy is), lol.

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posted November 14, 2014 12:06 AM            

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Ha! Meet a Cancer guy today at work, while I went on lunch break. Meet him at lunch, he happened to sit next to my table and we talk the whole time we have our lunch.
I don't know if race have anything with it, but he's White, and good looking.

He is the most CALM guy, given he is a Cancer, lol. I thought he was an Earth sign due to his calmness, but he tell me he is Cancer sign.

So there, my APOLOGY for say most Cancer men are emotional, sure this guy isn't. He is very nice too, we talks alot, and he very friendly. Maybe since we both are water sign.

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