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Topic: Paranoid boyfriend driving me insane
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birdy
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posted July 08, 2013 07:42 PM
  
He smiles? hm he is probably projecting then. That's not a normal reaction when sincerely concerned about the subject.IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
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From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted July 08, 2013 07:43 PM
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Originally posted by charlie:
Are you the one who's boyfriend went through wallet without asking? If so, and based on this: get rid of him.
My wallet? I think you meant my phone. He doesnt need to ask. I got nothing to hide.
I grab my friends phones all the time so what.
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charlie
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posted July 08, 2013 07:51 PM
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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
My wallet? I think you meant my phone.He doesnt need to ask. I got nothing to hide.
I grab my friends phones all the time so what.
Sorry, phone. As I do recall you said "I caught him going through (or looking) my phone". When someone is "caught" doing something, doesn't that imply they are doing something they shouldn't? Either way, a jealous and suspicious human will most likely never change and if anything, they'll get worse.
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Venusian Moon
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posted July 08, 2013 07:55 PM
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Originally posted by charlie:
Sorry, phone. As I do recall you said "I caught him going through (or looking) my phone". When someone is "caught" doing something, doesn't that imply they are doing something they shouldn't? Either way, a jealous and suspicious human will most likely never change and if anything, they'll get worse.
Oh shut up. I bet ur an aquarius.
They talk too much trash and dont know when to hush.
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charlie
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From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted July 08, 2013 08:04 PM
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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
Oh shut up. I bet ur an aquarius.They talk too much trash and dont know when to hush.
Why are you protecting someone you came here to complain about? Makes no sense to my Cancerian head.. IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted July 08, 2013 08:08 PM
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Originally posted by charlie:
Why are you protecting someone you came here to complain about? Makes no sense to my Cancerian head..
What the hell is this sesame street. The word of the day is projecting. Crap its annoying. So what i am complaining. I never said me or him were perfect did i? Calm down. Take a look at yourself. You keep complaining about him. I mean whos boyfriend is it mine or yours?
Sheesh
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StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 08, 2013 08:10 PM
I appreciate what Aquarius says. They always seem to know what they are talking about, even if I rebel at first against hearing their message  *takes a note* never ask sun Cancers for dating advice :S IP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 850
From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted July 08, 2013 08:14 PM
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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
What the hell is this sesame street. The word of the day is projecting. Crap its annoying. So what i am complaining. I never said me or him were perfect did i? Calm down. Take a look at yourself. You keep complaining about him. I mean whos boyfriend is it mine or yours? Do you think a message board is the right place for someone that can't objectively deal with various opinions of other board members? This is a very general question so no need to take it personal.
Sheesh
Either way, I was giving my opinion. You don't have to agree or even like it but cut the rudeness. There's no need for it!
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Venusian Moon
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted July 08, 2013 08:15 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I appreciate what Aquarius says. They always seem to know what they are talking about, even if I rebel at first against hearing their message *takes a note* never ask sun Cancers for dating advice :S
They think they know and the ones who do talk dont stop. Only an idiot would sit there and listen.
Cancers are lunatics. The ones mixed with leo even worse. They got mommy issues.
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Venusian Moon
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted July 08, 2013 08:18 PM
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Originally posted by charlie:
Either way, I was giving my opinion. You don't have to agree or even like it but cut the rudeness. There's no need for it!
Opinion righttttt. U were being a smart ass so dont come acting innocent now acting like u were giving advice.
Go watch the news on tv old man.
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charlie
Knowflake Posts: 850
From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted July 08, 2013 08:20 PM
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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
Opinion righttttt. U were being a smart ass so dont come acting innocent now acting like u were giving advice.
Go watch the news on tv old man.
Ok. Just gotta change my tampon first. I hate those womanly times of the month..sighs IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted July 08, 2013 08:21 PM
calm down y'all..IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
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From: Nyc
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posted July 08, 2013 08:21 PM
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Originally posted by charlie:
Ok. Just gotta change my tampon first. I hate those womanly times of the month..sighs
Ur old. Its menopause for u. Go take a progestin pill and have a good night granny. IP: Logged |
birdy
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posted July 08, 2013 08:23 PM
People were trying to be helpful but you want to lash out. I dont agree with Charlie's "let him go" response because it's easier said than done. It's obvious to me you dont really want to examine the unhealthy habits of the relationship to work on them. He smiles when you react, he accusing you of cheating...thats not normal. The smiling thing is strange.IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 751
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted July 08, 2013 08:29 PM
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Originally posted by birdy:
People were trying to be helpful but you want to lash out. I dont agree with Charlie's "let him go" response because it's easier said than done. It's obvious to me you dont really want to examine the unhealthy habits of the relationship to work on them. He smiles when you react, he accusing you of cheating...thats not normal. The smiling thing is strange.
My ex boyfriends use to get a kick out of my anger too. I got a bad temper. I guess they were all strange bi polar psychos that might kill me in my sleep???? IP: Logged |
birdy
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posted July 08, 2013 08:43 PM
Stop complaining about his behavior and get use to it. Theres nothing you can do about it and you probably secretly enjoy it. You could get advice from all the best shrinks in the world, and you probably still wouldn't listen.IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
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posted July 08, 2013 08:47 PM
I empathize with Venusian. Relationships are some of the toughest, most challenging parts of ourselves we can face in life. They have their ups and downs.IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 751
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted July 08, 2013 08:50 PM
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Originally posted by birdy:
Stop complaining about his behavior and get use to it. Theres nothing you can do about it and you probably secretly enjoy it. You could get advice from all the best shrinks in the world, and you probably still wouldn't listen.
I can complain and vent all i want because thats what people do here. If ur gonna give advice at least speak about astrology. That was my point in the first place.. But u kept blabbing and blabbing without sticking to astrological points like i had mentioned in the first place.
This is an astrology forum did u forget. And no hun i dont enjoy having someone **** me off on purpose.
Im not a junior high girl.
Dont accuse me based on your experiences.
Oh and i dont need a shrink. So dont exagerrate. Im not mentally challenged and dont cut myself or have a boyfriend who beats me so dont exagerrate.
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birdy
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posted July 08, 2013 08:51 PM
StarlightSmileSupreme-I agree completely.IP: Logged |
birdy
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posted July 08, 2013 08:52 PM
Actually I asked his venus sign and I knew he had venus square pluto which is why I asked if there was a chance of projection. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 08, 2013 08:52 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I empathize with Venusian. Relationships are some of the toughest, most challenging parts of ourselves we can face in life. They have their ups and downs.
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birdy
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posted July 08, 2013 08:57 PM
You obviously sound very hurt by the honesty people have given you so Im not going to keep going back and forth with you. I had no intention to upset you..was trying to helpful at first then you made it very difficult. Goodnight.IP: Logged |
themischievousone
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posted July 09, 2013 12:25 AM
The topic of this thread caught my eye immediately. My SO is driving me up the wall with being paranoid and clingy to the point I am getting ready to pack up my bags and run. Interesting that mine has a venus-pluto aspect (albeit soft aspect).
It’s always been a constant keep tabs on me and passive aggressive comments about why I didn’t answer my phone timely or just habits. Why? Well come to find out he was the not loyal one. But I forgave and trusted again and again and again….To the point of being numb and done a long 3+ years later. I’ve never cheated and nor would I. But I am at a very detached point of this.
Long story short, I feel your pain. Relationships can be tough. I appreciate your venting. Hope all turns out well for you. <3
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geea
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posted July 09, 2013 02:38 AM
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Originally posted by birdy:
He smiles when you react, he accusing you of cheating...thats not normal. The smiling thing is strange.
its not that strange actually. I know two cancer venus men who did that to me. Its a very diabolical passive agressive behaviour where he is the fake victim and you the torturer, and he brings you to a point where you will do anything just to make him feel better and fulfill his every wish. This, plus he likes the drama and the make-up moments, he thinks they are romantic.(imo)
Venusian, you have to keep calm, tell him once and then make it clear you are not on his game. You are innocent, so why worry? ------------------
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hikoro
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posted July 09, 2013 03:58 AM
does he have any crazy scorpio/pluto aspects?IP: Logged |
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