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Topic: Paranoid boyfriend driving me insane
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Venusian Moon
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From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted July 08, 2013 05:21 PM
  
My boyfriends driving me insane. I know venus square pluto people can be suspicious and jealous but its too much already. It makes me wanna cry because im so loyal. I have never had a man be so suspicious of me.I had one who was venus conjunct pluto who didnt trust me but he wasnt as bad.
I have never cheated on anyone in my life. Never thought about it.
He has been cheated on many times in the past. So have I but i trust him.
Now that i started school he swears im getting to know a new man.
Its not like he yells at me or fights. Just makes comments. Its starting to irk me. ------------------
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Doux Rêve
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posted July 08, 2013 06:01 PM
You shouldn't put up with his accusations..Tell him firmly that you're not seeing anyone else and that you're faithful, and that he should stop accusing you. Then ignore him whenever he brings up the topic, and don't keep reassuring him - he needs a good reality check. IP: Logged |
Emsie
Knowflake Posts: 338
From: Budapest
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted July 08, 2013 06:25 PM
Ugh! This sounds like a tough situation. I'm pretty sure if he continues to accuse you with such things, then you'll definitely go and find a new man at the end... lolIt's like a self-fulfilling prophecy. The negative things he believes will actually come true if he doesn't stop. IP: Logged |
birdy
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posted July 08, 2013 06:34 PM
Is there a chance he's projecting?IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted July 08, 2013 06:38 PM
^ Good point..IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 751
From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted July 08, 2013 06:53 PM
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Originally posted by birdy:
Is there a chance he's projecting?
No he was like that with his ex's too.
Hes been like that since i met him.
We have been together 1 year. IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 751
From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted July 08, 2013 06:57 PM
His nephew told me hes a drama king.
Mars in the 7th????
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birdy
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posted July 08, 2013 07:05 PM
Well maybe he was projecting with his exes too. What is his venus sign?IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 08, 2013 07:08 PM
Was this the guy you broke up with and you were really upset?------------------
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Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 751
From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted July 08, 2013 07:10 PM
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Originally posted by birdy:
Well maybe he was projecting with his exes too. What is his venus sign?
Venus in cancer. IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 751
From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted July 08, 2013 07:11 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Was this the guy you broke up with and you were really upset?
We didnt break up he was just upset about losing his job but he is fine now that he has money coming in.
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Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 751
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted July 08, 2013 07:13 PM
I am the same way but i dont accuse him.IP: Logged |
birdy
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posted July 08, 2013 07:15 PM
How would you feel if he didn't ever act jealous? or at least hid it and never said anything?IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 751
From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted July 08, 2013 07:17 PM
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Originally posted by birdy:
How would you feel if he didn't act jealous ever? or at least hid it and never said anything?
I dont mind someone being jealous because i am very jealous myself. Its the accusations that bother me because i am very loyal. I cant convince him. He has trust issues with women.
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birdy
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posted July 08, 2013 07:19 PM
How do you react?IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted July 08, 2013 07:22 PM
Ok--Good!xx------------------
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Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 751
From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted July 08, 2013 07:24 PM
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Originally posted by birdy:
How do you react?
How i react when i get jealous? IP: Logged |
birdy
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posted July 08, 2013 07:30 PM
How do you react when he accuses you? Do you say nothing or do you have a reaction? Do you have a typical response? IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 751
From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted July 08, 2013 07:34 PM
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Originally posted by birdy:
How do you react when he accuses you? Do you say nothing or do you have a reaction? Do you have a typical response?
I reassure him but today i got fed up and yelled at him. IP: Logged |
Astra
Knowflake Posts: 482
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 08, 2013 07:36 PM
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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
My boyfriends driving me insane. I know venus square pluto people can be suspicious and jealous but its too much already. It makes me wanna cry because im so loyal. I have never had a man be so suspicious of me.I had one who was venus conjunct pluto who didnt trust me but he wasnt as bad.
I have never cheated on anyone in my life. Never thought about it.
He has been cheated on many times in the past. So have I but i trust him.
Now that i started school he swears im getting to know a new man.
Its not like he yells at me or fights. Just makes comments. Its starting to irk me.
I'm sorry to be blunt and I don't intend to hurt you, but are you sure he isn't cheating on you? I have noticed that people who repeatedly accuse their girlfriends or boyfriends of cheating in the absence of even circumstantial evidence, often are cheating or at the very least, have been tempted to stray.
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Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 751
From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted July 08, 2013 07:36 PM
Hes 40 years old and im 31.I have a very high sex drive. A bit of a hornball. If we dont see eachother one day he thinks i wont be able to control myself and find someone to release me for the day. His sex drive isnt as high plus hes diabetic and that affects his drive but he has no problem when the time comes so maybe he feels a bit insecure. He has mentioned my high drive makes him insecure. IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 751
From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted July 08, 2013 07:38 PM
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Originally posted by Astra:
I'm sorry to be blunt and I don't intend to hurt you, but are you sure he isn't cheating on you? I have noticed that people who repeatedly accuse their girlfriends or boyfriends of cheating in the absence of even circumstantial evidence, often are cheating or at the very least, have been tempted to stray.
I am positive hes not. I have heard those sayings before but i am a very loyal person who can be the same way myself and i am not guilty of anything. IP: Logged |
birdy
Knowflake Posts: 838
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posted July 08, 2013 07:40 PM
Well you probably shouldn't react. I think he wants to study your reactions. IP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 850
From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted July 08, 2013 07:41 PM
Are you the one who's boyfriend went through wallet without asking? If so, and based on this: get rid of him. IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 751
From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted July 08, 2013 07:41 PM
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Originally posted by birdy:
Well you probably shouldn't react. I think he wants to study your reactions.
Yeah he smiles and gets a kick out of my angry reactions. IP: Logged |
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