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Metatron017
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posted July 24, 2013 03:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Metatron017     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Sun-Capricorn

Asc-Aries

Moon-Pisces

I'm attracted to(And in no particular order)... Female..

Scorpios, Cancers, Libras, and Aries.

I usually wind up attracting Libras, and Sagittarius without making any effort on my part.

Had a lengthy relationship with a Libra, and have had several awesome Scorpion friends...IRL & online.

Edit...not 100%sure but my Asc may be in aquarius instead of Aries(See my post/and if the link(s) work).
It's been many years since I last had an astrological reading done, and my ifo may be out of whack.

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its_aqua
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posted July 24, 2013 04:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for its_aqua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
5th house- Libra
7th house- Saggitarius
8th house- Capricorn

Really, I have never been romantically interested in any of these signs, but I havr many many many Saggy friends!
I'm very attracted to Cancer guys of the last decan- maybe cause Cancer is my South Node and Capricorn is my first dominant sign ( so its the opposites that are attracted maybe?)
And Scorpios of course, makes sense since my Sun is in the 8th and is quintile Pluto (in Scorpio), my Moon is quincunx Pluto and Venus is square Pluto. Also I have Vertex in Scorpio 5th house, Eros in Scorpio 5th house , Valentine in Scorpio and Cupido in Scorpio (pretty much all the love asteroids )
I generally fall for Water guys who have some air elements in their chart.

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posted July 24, 2013 05:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by its_aqua:
5th house- Libra
7th house- Saggitarius
8th house- Capricorn

Really, I have never been romantically interested in any of these signs, but I havr many many many Saggy friends!


Makes sense.
The 7th house is usually not so much about "animal magnetism", but genuine liking and having the feeling that we can actually partner with that person. But if the attraction is soley 7th house based, it actually might end up being rather platonic.

Of course that is just a vry generalized view, it depends on the overall chart. And let´s not forget sometimes we do not like these qualities at all. It is also the house of "open enemies".
Basically it encompasses everything that we encounter and that leaves an impression on us, good or bad.
As I said it depends a little on our natal chart, how we react to it.

For me the sign of my 7th house often falls into the "shadow-category", while the ruler of my 7th house is more "partner potential".
But this can be different for other people.

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posted July 24, 2013 06:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lotis,

"I particularly liked how mention that we both have Cancer 8th houses but that because of the planets in our 8th, our taste manifests in pretty much opposite directions"
Yes, I just noticed that. ANd was fascinated with how much it related to our preferences.


". I like watery Moons due to my 8th house Moon, whereas you are pulled more towards Saturn/Capricorn types because of Saturn in your 8th house."
Yes, but interestingly not to Capricornian Moons, though I very often am drawn to gentlemen who have Sun or Moon in challengng aspect to Saturn. Somehow there seems to be a subtle difference.

I wonder though, you have Sun in Cappy and Moon in Cancer, right?
And I have Sun in Sag and Moon in aquarius. Probably that figures in. As you do like water Moons and I like fire Moons (and sometimes air moons,b ut more for friendship).

That is actually what I mean if I say that the houseruler dynamics have to seen in context with the personal planets as well.


"I also remember from looking at your natal chart that a good amount of Pisces falls into your secondary 7th house (the 3rd house),"
Yes, Pisces is actually intercepted in 3rd house, contains my chartruler Jupiter, and yes I can feel it strongly. Nothing hidden about that one.


"I think this may enhance your love for Sag energy, and perhaps a Pisces flavor as well (like Pisces Asc falling into your 3rd house, maybe)."
Yes, I have a definite preference for Pisces ASC in men. (my Draconic ASC is in Pisces, too).
But interestingly not so much for other placements in Pisces for strong attraction; though having said that in the cases when Sun, Mercury, Venus or Mars was in Pisces (can`t do anything with Pisces Mooners), there is a resonance, but on a friendshiplevel, which would makes sense given it is the secondary 7th house.

Also I did not mention it but I have had a phase in my life when I would fall for EVERY Aries crossing my way, Moth to flame, and I burned.
As a matter of fact usually Pisces ASC in my region of the world will have Aries intercepted in 1st house.
But the attraction to Aries is both, deeply sexual and magnetic as well as feeling very very deep, scarily so actually.

Aries is in my 4th house, and since Cancer is in my 8th house, of course the 4th house is my secondary 8th house, and the ruler, Mars, leading back into SAgittarius in 12th house conjunct Neptune and widely square Jupiter. ROFL
Can`t escape!

My secondary 5th house is the 2nd house with Capricorn at its cusp, ruler in Cancer, and containing Moon (but in Aquarius).
Despite Moon being mentioned twice here, Cancer is still not my favourite.


"In my case, the secondary 7th house ends at like 3 degrees Pisces, so the pull towards Aqua is much stronger for me, then it probably is for you. My 3rd house is almost entirely taken up by Aquarius."
Yes, makes sense.
Though I do like Aquarius, don´t get me wrong. Just not in that sparkly sexy way.

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posted July 25, 2013 05:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for meissieri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
5th house: Aquarius with ruler Uranus in the 3rd (= Gemini influence). Large part of it falls in Pisces.

I like Aquarius as long as their Sun is very early in the sign, so it trines my Ascendant. Mid-sign is a bad match, though - there's nothing in my chart that could support their energy as I'm mostly Earth/Water. Late sign planets fall on my NN but oppose my Sun, which I don't like in the long run.
Pisces. Especially the Moons.

7th house: Aries. Ruler Mars in the 11th.
Yes, I love it! Pretty straightforward synastry here. These people feel like a friend with common interests as well as someone I'd could see myself with. Vertex is also in this house.
Dsc ruler conjunct Mercury, so Gemini again.

8th house: Taurus. Venus in Virgo, 12th house & is also chart ruler. Yup, anything dumped into my 8th makes me very attracted. I like the laidback attitude and stability. They complete a Grand Trine for me.

Capricorn is another favourite with my Saturn being conjunct the rulers of both my 5th house signs. Their Sun is often on my Moon and if it's not, their Mercury or Venus is. Also Scorpios - my 7th, 8th (+1st) and 11th house ruler all aspect Pluto.

So I'd say those are my major attractions.

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posted July 25, 2013 05:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for IrisRainbow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I tend to notice Leo men when they walk in the room first(Asc in Leo)but then,my interest is all over Aquarius men(Moon in Aquarius.Aquarius is also my 7th house cusp.Uranus in Aquarius.Venus conjunct Mars in Gemini)
I like intelligent men.
Then,I also like Scorpio men.They don't catch my attention first but they certainly know how to keep it.(I guess my 4rth house in scorpio)
Sagittarius excite me.(5th house)
Pisces in 8 house not so much.

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posted July 25, 2013 08:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lotis White     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Ceri,

quote:
Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Lotis,
I wonder though, you have Sun in Cappy and Moon in Cancer, right?
And I have Sun in Sag and Moon in aquarius. Probably that figures in. As you do like water Moons and I like fire Moons (and sometimes air moons,b ut more for friendship).

That is actually what I mean if I say that the houseruler dynamics have to seen in context with the personal planets as well.


Even with my Sun in Capricorn, and Moon in Cancer, I still love Fire Moons (I love Fire everything!). For love, my preference would be a Fire or Water Moon, probably because of my inner emotional core (Cancer Moon in the 8th house is so flippin emotional, my Cap side has to work hard to control it).

I like Air Moons in buddies because I find them really interesting, and they always seem to know juicy tid bits of info I may have missed. Earth Moons call to me the least in general... Unless they aspect my chart in certain specific ways, like a trine to the Sun, a sextile to the Moon, or a square to Mercury which is my 7th house ruler (from Virgo).

Actually, I've noticed that people with Virgo or Pisces planet squares to my Mercury catch my attention. They make me curious. It might not be a harmonious vibration, but I enjoy the intellectual stimulation of it, and also the certain degree of affection/liking that comes with it too.


quote:
Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Yes, Pisces is actually intercepted in 3rd house, contains my chartruler Jupiter, and yes I can feel it strongly. Nothing hidden about that one.

Yes, I have a definite preference for Pisces ASC in men. (my Draconic ASC is in Pisces, too).
But interestingly not so much for other placements in Pisces for strong attraction; though having said that in the cases when Sun, Mercury, Venus or Mars was in Pisces (can`t do anything with Pisces Mooners), there is a resonance, but on a friendshiplevel, which would makes sense given it is the secondary 7th house.


Yes!

quote:
Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Also I did not mention it but I have had a phase in my life when I would fall for EVERY Aries crossing my way, Moth to flame, and I burned.
As a matter of fact usually Pisces ASC in my region of the world will have Aries intercepted in 1st house.
But the attraction to Aries is both, deeply sexual and magnetic as well as feeling very very deep, scarily so actually.

Aries is in my 4th house, and since Cancer is in my 8th house, of course the 4th house is my secondary 8th house, and the ruler, Mars, leading back into SAgittarius in 12th house conjunct Neptune and widely square Jupiter. ROFL
Can`t escape!

My secondary 5th house is the 2nd house with Capricorn at its cusp, ruler in Cancer, and containing Moon (but in Aquarius).
Despite Moon being mentioned twice here, Cancer is still not my favourite.


"In my case, the secondary 7th house ends at like 3 degrees Pisces, so the pull towards Aqua is much stronger for me, then it probably is for you. My 3rd house is almost entirely taken up by Aquarius."
Yes, makes sense.
Though I do like Aquarius, don´t get me wrong. Just not in that sparkly sexy way.


Oooh Yeah! (rubs hands together) I love going into secondary house cusps. Thanks for Bringing this up.

With the secondary 7th, I also have Eros in Aquarius in the 3rd house, and I do find Uranus energy thrilling. So added to the fact that a lot of Aqua fills up my secondary 7th house, there's the Eros factor too. I've found the asteroids Eros, Psyche, and Juno, to be especially telling about extra little details to do with taste.

I've always thought of Eros as a tiny little dart with a similar flavor to the 5th house. It has this whole euphoria/excitement thing going on. Psyche has more of an 8th house flavor, she has to do with private encounters, intuition, and our journey to reach loving union.

Psyche seems to show how we 'jump through hoops' for a loved one, and how we use our resourcefulness to solve problems in relationships (She has good intentions but she can be a little sneaky. Like in the myth, she uses a candle to view Eros's face even though she wasn't supposed to).

Juno has a 7th house type flavor. Juno give extra details about what we 'require' from a partner in order for them to be a suitable mate, and about what traits inspire our liking, approval, commitment, and loyalty. Juno also seems to have some type of association with what we view as beautiful/ attractive. I've read before that Juno has to do with adornment, accessories, and decoration. Juno is sort of like a mini-Venus that's more interesting in commitment then seeking pleasure.

Back to the secondary houses...

Aries on the 5th. My secondary 5th is the 1st house... My Asc is Sag. I've got so many indicators pointing to Sag energy it's almost not worth mentioning. Like you, Ceri, it seems I can't escape either!

With the 8th house, Cancer on the cusp refers back to my 4th house. 4th house contains Pisces. I not normally drawn to Pisces by sign, but I do find Neptune to be kind of a sexy planet. I like when it's strong in the chart. This is reinforced by the fact that my 7th house ruler falls into the 12th house (conjunct the Asc from behind). Strong Neptune is hot. I especially like Neptune/Venus soft aspects in the natal.

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elise11
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posted February 26, 2014 04:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for elise11     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have
5h Capricorn in Libra in 2nx
7h pisces in saggi in 4th
8h pisces too

I m madly drawn to pisces energy! An astrologer Said this is because it relaxes my pluto-moon opposition: moon is trine neptune and nep is sextile pluto. On the other Hand, this would be more the Case if so touchied my neptune with a soft aspect?? Hierher, it s simple neptune placements that make me like in Heaven.
But ususlly with Rhode people it doesn t work out for me although i have a nice taurus stellium. I usually end up with virgo and saggi, due to my first house and a 9 th house stellium! 4thhouse is usually present sonewhere, often they put their moon in my 4th or/and 4th house composite sun/moon.
I m not drawn to my 5th and 7th house

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posted February 26, 2014 04:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sibyl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm not very fussy on the star sign... I like scorpios though. Virgo's cool. Leo too.

But scorpio placements is definitely the favorite. Maybe it's my scorp lilith which is up to no good

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posted February 26, 2014 04:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarlightSmileSupreme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Signs that cover my third and ninth houses. I have no idea why. Just works out that way.

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posted February 26, 2014 10:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mercury89     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Only men with strong and prominent Mercuries. (gemini, virgo, and sometimes aquarius)

If they have Sun or Moon in earth or water, and a strong Venus much better.

7th house in Gemini (Mercury in Libra)
Sun and Mars in Virgo


8th house in Cancer. Yes Im physically attracted to sweet emotional men who are caring or that seem to need care.

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posted February 27, 2014 12:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Chiemi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
All I know is that I can't help being attracted to anyone with a Virgo Moon. Put me in a room with 100 guys and have 1 with a Virgo Moon and sooner or later you'll find me drawn to that person like a magnet.

I have a Virgo Sun, Virgo IC, and my Leo moon is in the Virgo Duad though.


Someone with hard aspects to Neptune/Uranus/and or Pluto also catch my attention.

Scorpio on 5th House cusp (Mars,Pluto,Jupiter in this house)
Capricorn on 7th House cusp (Uranus, and Neptune)
Aquarius on 8th House cusp

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posted February 27, 2014 12:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Celestica     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aries Sun guys are by far the ones I'm attracted to the most. Aries rules my 4th house, I have Mars in the 7th (makes sense imo). I have Cancer on my 7th cusp but I've never really been into Cancer guys. For the most part I just think they're adorable and would rather squish their faces and hug them then have any type of romantic involvement. Aquarius guys would come in second, maybe cuz I have Aquarius Moon/Scorpio Venus. Leo on the 8th, I've never been into any Leo guys either.

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posted February 27, 2014 01:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunMoonStars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Two quite different signs come to mind first: Scorpio and Aquarius.

I get turned on by Aqua men for obvious reasons: Uranus rules my 7th and 8th houses, and I also have Sun conjunct Uranus. Aquas turn me on hot and get on my nerves at the same time!

As for Scorpios, I have Virgo Sun sextile Mars in Scorpio (0 orb) and I get along great with the Scorpio energy (much better than the Aqua energy).

I like fixed, stubborn men, probably because my Sun is mutable and I am ready for compromise (Moon&Venus conjunction in Libra) and flexible and like my man to lead...

I also like my man to be intellectual and somewhat secretive and both these signs have those qualities, although in a different way.

I am with an Aqua now. If it was easier to just go and choose, I think I would be happier with a Scorpio, because the Sun energies are more compatible.

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posted February 27, 2014 10:00 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Scorpio men with venus in libra


5th house in scorpio
Mars in libra 3rd house
Pluto in libra 4th house

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Gemini sun 12th.(Gemini/cancer cusp)
Cancer asc 1st
Taurus moon 11th
Taurus venus 11th
Libra mars 3rd
Gemini mercury 11th

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posted February 27, 2014 10:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AscTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Any placement of Taurus.(Sun, Moon, Mercury,Venus or Mars)

Any placement of Libra.(Sun, Moon, Mercury,Venus or Mars)

My Pluto in Scorpio in aspect to their Mercury.(opposition, square,trine, sextile,conjunction)

Their Sun aspecting my Venus in Scorpio.(square,opposition,trine,sextile, conjunction)

My Jupiter in Sagittarius aspecting their Mercury(trine, sextile,conjunction, opposition or square)

My Venus in Scorpio aspecting their Pluto or their Pluto aspecting my Mars in Libra.

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posted February 27, 2014 11:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by meyray:
Physically I get drawn by Gemini and Leo placements (especially if it’s a masculine planet). Platonically Sagittarius and Virgo.

ASC – Gemini
IC – Leo
5th House – Virgo
DSC – Sagittarius
8th House – Sagittarius on the cusp, Capricorn through most of the house

I have a love-hate, attract-repel relationship with Capricorn and all their planetary placements – especially with the men. All of the men who have had a major impact on me in terms of attraction (both psychical and emotional) have had a Leo Mars.

I can say for sure that the sign that repels me the most in all of its placements and in both genders is Aquarius (which is my MC).


Heyyy thats my chart!

quote:
Originally posted by Doux Ręve:
^ *cries tears of joy*

I love you, too.


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posted February 27, 2014 12:46 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I find that is people who are on one of my four points or at least have a personal planet there. (ac/dc/mc/ic)

Ascendant works best for me.

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posted February 27, 2014 06:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lotis White     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
I find that is people who are on one of my four points or at least have a personal planet there. (ac/dc/mc/ic)

Ascendant works best for me.


Yes. But for Libra rising, the 1st house is the secondary 7th house. Aries Dsc can be attracted to to 7th or 1st house synastry... Aries Dsc = attraction to 1st house synastry, because they looking to have their identity/outlook affirmed in a relationship.

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quote:
Originally posted by Lotis White:
Yes. But for Libra rising, the 1st house is the secondary 7th house. Aries Dsc can be attracted to to 7th or 1st house synastry... Aries Dsc = attraction to 1st house synastry, because they looking to have their identity/outlook affirmed in a relationship.

That makes complete sense to me!

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I have a Scorpio Sun, my Asc and Mars are in Fire. 8th house is in Water, 7th house is in Air.

I'm usually attracted to guys who have lots of Fire in their chart, preferably both Sun & Mars are in Fire, and the rest of personal planets are in Air & Water. Cancer is an exception, though, maybe because my chart totally lacks it. They tend to like me, no idea why.

For someone with a lot of Water, it's a bit strange but prominent Earth does nothing for me in that regard. If I try to imagine a guy who probably has no chance whatsoever to pick me up in a bar (lol not that I do that a lot, but anyway), his chart could look like this:
Capricorn Sun, Taurus Moon, Virgo Venus, Libra Mars

and for a guy who'd have a really good chance like this:
Aries Sun, Gemini Moon, Scorpio Venus, Sag Mars

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posted March 01, 2014 03:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
5th house libra + juno in libra
Usually it's the other way around, but I do find some libras attractive…but most often I just think they are a bit too flighty(luckily not the guy I'm with now who is libra!)

7th house Capricorn - I have never dated a capricorn sun yet, but most of the guys I've dated had capricorn dominant in their chart, so kinda the same
I like them, because they are loyal and serious and looks trustworthy

8th Aquarius - they are like poison to me! They are like that piece of candy that looks so good but is filled with freakin poison! Never again! NO!

Besides these signs, I mostly like scorpios and pisces. I really love scorpios, they are the perfect match for me I think…then comes pisces, just because…its PISCES!

My libra boyfriend has pisces moon and his pisces moon sextile capricorn saturn in 8th house He is the whole package lol <3

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