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lulz unregistered
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posted August 10, 2013 11:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by orocairion: Is not about being a bad guy or a good guy. I can see why someone would feel the need to test someone, but it's something that can backfire badly and you might miss on someone great.And like I said, there are better ways to check for someone's loyalties.
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sugarnfeist Knowflake Posts: 63 From: USA Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 10, 2013 11:18 PM
quote: Originally posted by lulz: what if he just uses sex every time to take your mind of the issue? you forgot that one. 
Who told you that you could add an option E.  IP: Logged |
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posted August 10, 2013 11:20 PM
it's either that or option A! JK! IP: Logged |
sugarnfeist Knowflake Posts: 63 From: USA Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 10, 2013 11:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by lulz: it's either that or option A! JK!
How about we just work on moving you towards option C.  ------------------ Pisces Sun/Virgo Moon/Aqua Venus IP: Logged |
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posted August 10, 2013 11:38 PM
you can always play possum and then... IP: Logged |
sugarnfeist Knowflake Posts: 63 From: USA Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 10, 2013 11:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by lulz: you can always play possum and then...
Option F will probably have me ending up in handcuffs. Unless of course you see option F as an aphrodisiac that would lead to option E. Me thinks not.  Option F does seem very Pisces rage like though. Once my brother humiliated me at a family event. I was stewing the whole night. Everyone left and I was still angry. I walked past and smacked him hard on the back of the head. To his credit he didn't hit me back. **Thank goodness because he could surely kick my @#%** In retrospect that was wrong...but it felt good. Bro is a Virgo though, so he cursed me but didn't get too emotional about it. ------------------ Pisces Sun/Virgo Moon/Aqua Venus IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness Knowflake Posts: 3202 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 11, 2013 12:10 AM
I like loyal type. Yup someone that will stick with me no matter what. I do test it, I've got trust issues . IP: Logged |
ScorpioMoon Knowflake Posts: 187 From: Atlanta. Georgia, United States Registered: Jan 2013
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posted August 11, 2013 12:17 AM
quote: Originally posted by lulz: what type do you like?someone that will stick withcu no matter what? or someone that will stick with you when you are right? do you test it? (to leo/ scorpio people especially)
I like someone who will stick with me no matter what. No, I don't test loyalty, I think it's pretty annoying that people test me all the time to see if I'm loyal, so U won;t do it to anyone else, but, I will watch and listen to how people treat me, and if they do me wrong, I cut them off no questions asked.Cancer sun 4th house, Scorpio moon 8th house, Pisces rising.
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starrystratosphere Knowflake Posts: 297 From: Registered: May 2013
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posted August 11, 2013 12:21 AM
quote: Originally posted by ScorpioMoon: [QUOTE]Originally posted by lulz: [b]what type do you like?someone that will stick withcu no matter what? or someone that will stick with you when you are right? do you test it? (to leo/ scorpio people especially)
I like someone who will stick with me no matter what. No, I don't test loyalty, I think it's pretty annoying that people test me all the time to see if I'm loyal, so U won;t do it to anyone else, but, I will watch and listen to how people treat me, and if they do me wrong, I cut them off no questions asked.Cancer sun 4th house, Scorpio moon 8th house, Pisces rising.[/B][/QUOTE] Yeah, I find people who pull antics to "test" people are very insecure themselves. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 4457 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 11, 2013 12:22 AM
quote: Originally posted by ScorpioMoon: I like someone who will stick with me no matter what. No, I don't test loyalty, I think it's pretty annoying that people test me all the time to see if I'm loyal, so U won;t do it to anyone else, but, I will watch and listen to how people treat me, and if they do me wrong, I cut them off no questions asked.Cancer sun 4th house, Scorpio moon 8th house, Pisces rising.
How do people test you? I never notice anyone testing me. If they did, I wouldn't care though. It's a silly mind-game antic/tactic to me so it's meaningless. Their issue - not mine. I am similar to you about low tolerance for bs, I have natal moon in eighth.IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 6115 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted August 11, 2013 12:28 AM
loyalty is great but Im detached. I'm generally carefree but I do take mental notes and I'm very observant, for example if you're being shady with a "friend" I'll be sure to be careful around you... So there's no need for me to test people because that's just unfair and hypocritical because I usually opt out of relationships that require me to prove my worth .
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12muddy Knowflake Posts: 748 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted August 11, 2013 12:32 AM
Stick with me when I'm right. No I don't test. To me it is a bit like emotional manipulation. Capricorn sun/aries moon IP: Logged |
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posted August 11, 2013 12:45 AM
i had this taurus acquaintance once. he's a minor celeb and he went to the beach with us once and hung out with my lady friends a little or more than a little. anyway i was dating a girl who had a psycho ex bf. not rly psycho but acted like one... they can turn territorial when the other is moving on. (i've done it too hehe so i understood) so he issues threats and we meet somewhere. i beat the crap out of him but it wasn't a fair fight. i wouldn't say he's that small coz he was juiced up but i'm a lot taller and heavier. little people don't have arm strength to knock someone out. so back to the taurus. now this guy was a muscled midget if i ever saw one. psycho ex bf comes up to him in the gym to apologize (we were acquaintances too actually) and asks if he was my friend. taurus idget says no lol! coward. but that's coz he didn't know he was going to apologize. psycho ex bf tells me this later. this was years back when i was still studying btw. maybe i wasn't even 20. IP: Logged |
Zander916 Knowflake Posts: 913 From: I visit a lot of planets, but the Sun is my home. Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 11, 2013 12:48 AM
I'm just making a pit stop. I'm sorry. Leo Pride, you know. I'm not proud to be prideful... what?? LOL No but I apologize. As far as established loyalty? Like the sun of course. Giving away my age. My best friend has been my best friend for 32 years. (Me being 37 real soon) 4 or so others for 15-20 years. Then some newer friends of course, and despite those signs of loyalty, friendships lost also. My best friend I see on a very regular basis. The others not so much but we are aware of each others presence in the world and are there when needed. I don't test friendships or things like that. So let me get this straight. Option E is sex, yes? Option F is violence? So option E+F could be a movie? Or... if F leads to E a movie that they can't play in theaters. Which ever you like. I've been slapped once that I REMEMBER. I kinda stood there with this stunned look and said, "What was that for?" I really didn't know!
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posted August 11, 2013 01:07 AM
option A is violence. option F is passive aggressive violence!  if it were a movie... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G92Z8jF8yK4 (don't watch it btw) IP: Logged |
Zander916 Knowflake Posts: 913 From: I visit a lot of planets, but the Sun is my home. Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 11, 2013 01:15 AM
quote: Originally posted by lulz: option A is violence. option F is passive aggressive violence!  if it were a movie... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G92Z8jF8yK4 (don't watch it btw)
So F - A - E... got it! IP: Logged |
sugarnfeist Knowflake Posts: 63 From: USA Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 11, 2013 01:31 AM
quote: Originally posted by Zander916: So F - A - E... got it!
LOL. @Lulz- Yeah that movie is a bit extreme. FYI Option E may work temporarily...but at some point we are going to discuss that issue. Don't kid yourself gentlemen, women have a long memory. Whatever you are trying to avoid discussing will come up again. To get back on topic...I don't demand loyalty from friends. Because if they aren't loyal, then we wouldn't be friends. There are only two friends that I trust with my deepest secrets. But I got dirt on them as well. Though to be honest even if they did betray me, I probably wouldn't use it, because it would make me no better than them. I would just cut them out of my life and pretend they didn't exist. ------------------ Pisces Sun/Virgo Moon/Aqua Venus
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LionFish Knowflake Posts: 826 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 11, 2013 03:33 PM
quote: Originally posted by lulz: option A is violence. option F is passive aggressive violence!  if it were a movie... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G92Z8jF8yK4 (don't watch it btw)
I love you  I'm not sure that hiding your crazy from somebody is exactly passive aggressive, more like smart if you want to lure someone in lol Unfortunately, I now have to watch said movie.. IP: Logged |
LionFish Knowflake Posts: 826 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 11, 2013 03:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by sugarnfeist: LOL.@Lulz- Yeah that movie is a bit extreme. FYI Option E may work temporarily...but at some point we [b]are going to discuss that issue. Don't kid yourself gentlemen, women have a long memory. Whatever you are trying to avoid discussing will come up again. [/B]
It's true. No matter how mind blowing the sex is, the issue will still be there when the woman is finished, but now he's too spent to listen. Besides, who wants to fight directly after sex? IMO option E is smart on the part of the man, even though distractions only last for so long. Because no woman is gonna be like "dang that was great" and then start harping on the guy who did it Well, maybe not "no woman," but most women wouldn't. So he once again, snagged himself a get out of jail free card, even if it was just for one night. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 48658 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 11, 2013 04:49 PM
I am very loyal( cancer Moon and Mars) and if a person betrays me, that is the end of them  ------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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posted August 11, 2013 05:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by LionFish: I love you  I'm not sure that hiding your crazy from somebody is exactly passive aggressive, more like smart if you want to lure someone in lol Unfortunately, I now have to watch said movie..
 don't watch it. it's really bad and not even the good kind of bad like point break which i don't even get coz i thought it was so great! IP: Logged |
ScorpioMoon Knowflake Posts: 187 From: Atlanta. Georgia, United States Registered: Jan 2013
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posted August 11, 2013 06:42 PM
quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme: [QUOTE]Originally posted by ScorpioMoon: [b]I like someone who will stick with me no matter what. No, I don't test loyalty, I think it's pretty annoying that people test me all the time to see if I'm loyal, so I won;t do it to anyone else, but, I will watch and listen to how people treat me, and if they do me wrong, I cut them off no questions asked.Cancer sun 4th house, Scorpio moon 8th house, Pisces rising.
How do people test you? I never notice anyone testing me. If they did, I wouldn't care though. It's a silly mind-game antic/tactic to me so it's meaningless. Their issue - not mine. I am similar to you about low tolerance for bs, I have natal moon in eighth.[/B][/QUOTE]Some people test me by telling me personal, sometimes really intimate things about themselves to see how I'll react, some other people tell me made up things about themselves to see how I'll react. Lastly, if I have something, some people will ask me "Can I have one"? again, just to hear what I'll say.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 48658 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 11, 2013 06:55 PM
Having just had a Libra Moon betray me, I will watch moons before I trust someone. I trust Taurus, Cancer and Cappy. I have had good luck with Leo Moon, too. I trust Scorpio women with various Moons as they seem to value loyalty like I do.
------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 48658 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 11, 2013 07:08 PM
Right now, I would be leery of an Air Sun and an Air Moon, first of all.Then, I would be leery of any Sun, except Scorpio or Cappy with an Air Moon. The best way to learn about loyalty in Astrology is to be burned lol ------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Zander916 Knowflake Posts: 913 From: I visit a lot of planets, but the Sun is my home. Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 11, 2013 07:32 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Having just had a Libra Moon betray me, I will watch moons before I trust someone. I trust Taurus, Cancer and Cappy. I have had good luck with Leo Moon, too. I trust Scorpio women with various Moons as they seem to value loyalty like I do.
Sorry to hear that but you seem to be doing okay from here. lol I've got a real good e-vantage point here on the interwebs. As a Fire Sun Air Moon (referring to your other post), I won't really bother to defend. LOL
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