posted September 08, 2013 11:44 PM            

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Originally posted by 12thhouser:
She'll probably find out more by posting her chart and seeing what aspects in synastry are creating her puzzlement about air signs.

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posted September 08, 2013 11:53 PM            

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Originally posted by 12thhouser:
Well, I noticed that the OP spoke about how she was turned off by some Aqua males in terms of dating, yet I never saw her post her chart to see what possible friction / turn-offs might show up in synastry. Just read some generalizing about air signs, particularly Aquas.

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There was no need to post a chart for this particular discussion.

And I did not *read* about them. This is from my personal experiences with them.

Thank you.

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I bet she really wants to find out more which is why she created this topic

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posted September 08, 2013 11:56 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
And I did not *read* about them. This is from my personal experiences with them.

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posted September 08, 2013 11:57 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
Also,

I am not puzzled by them LOL. I just prefer for people to have some complexity to their personality, is all. Not always trying to rationalize or over-think everything. Layers...that's what I enjoy.

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Both aquaguy and I have our Aqua suns in the 12th house.

posted September 08, 2013 11:59 PM            

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Originally posted by 12thhouser:
Both aquaguy and I have our Aqua suns in the 12th house.

12th house = complexity central.

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And that's something I plan to pay more attention to before jumping the gun from here on out.

posted September 09, 2013 12:01 AM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
And that's something I plan to pay more attention to before jumping the gun from here on out.

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posted September 09, 2013 12:02 AM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I understand totally, LovelyAries, it's your dramatic language. 12thHouser is sensitive to it but he sounds like a wonderful person and he means no harm

I know what you mean about trying to grasp an element that's either void or nearly void in your natal chart. I am the same with the water element. Water signs fascinate me endlessly.

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You're killing me with this 'dramatic language'. I cannot help it, I'm an Aries.

posted September 09, 2013 12:04 AM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
You're killing me with this 'dramatic language'. I cannot help it, I'm an Aries.

So Starlight...can you do a hypothetical soul-mate?? What's your dream WATER placements in a man?

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posted September 09, 2013 12:11 AM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I like all the water placements. My biggest crush ever was on a guy with Venus conjunct Mars in Cancer.

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What is your mars again Starlight? Venus in good aspect to Mars is always a plus, I imagine.

I forget which placement it was, but I was reading about one of the guys that was trying to pursue me and it stated that he was "unfaithful" and "unstable".

posted September 09, 2013 12:18 AM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
What is your mars again Starlight? Venus in good aspect to Mars is always a plus, I imagine.

I forget which placement it was, but I was reading about one of the guys that was trying to pursue me and it stated that he was "unfaithful" and "unstable".

Eh...that couldn't be good LMAO.

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posted September 09, 2013 02:29 AM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
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I am not puzzled by them LOL. I just prefer for people to have some complexity to their personality, is all. Not always trying to rationalize or over-think everything. Layers...that's what I enjoy.

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You know, aquas and geminis do have complexity in their personalitys-they just doesnt show it to anyone they're not interested in, simple as that.
Do you understand how generalising all these statements are? I mean this way of approaching actually this topic is lacking depth.

posted September 09, 2013 08:34 AM            

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Originally posted by its_aqua:
You know, aquas and geminis do have complexity in their personalitys-they just doesnt show it to anyone they're not interested in, simple as that.
Do you understand how generalising all these statements are? I mean this way of approaching actually this topic is lacking depth.

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Air signs are very interested in me. I simply haven't shared their same interest on many occasions LOL. That's my point - I wondered if I may be acting a bit unfairly towards them. I said that near the start of this thread.

Unless their aspects prove otherwise, an Aquarius simply isn't going to have the same depth to their persona as a Scorpio or a Cancer would. We will simply have to agree to disagree.

I do enjoy Aquarians though, they are fun friends.

posted September 09, 2013 08:37 AM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
Different strokes for different folks. If they're not your style then do them a favor as well as yourself and leave them for those of us who DO like them that way.

And I disagree that air signs lack complexity or are fake, if anything that shows an equal lack of understanding that strong air signs sometimes do for strong water signs.

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posted September 09, 2013 08:48 AM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
Air signs are very interested in me. I simply haven't shared their same interest on many occasions LOL. That's my point - I wondered if I may be acting a bit unfairly towards them. I said that near the start of this thread.

Unless their aspects prove otherwise, an Aquarius simply isn't going to have the same depth to their persona as a Scorpio or a Cancer would. We will simply have to agree to disagree.

I do enjoy Aquarians though, they are fun friends.

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You just cant generalise people on their Sun Sign. Its exactly what astrology ISNT about. Thats why there are charts. Im sick and tired of topics like this generalising Sun Signs.

I believe that deciding if someone has depth is something you cant even tell if you havent known them for years. Because after all, we see what other people choose to show to us.

I dont agree at all with generalising like that , all Cancers have more depth than all Aquarius. <---this is a statement that has no depth. Because, whether or not someone has depth has to do with other factors too.

posted September 09, 2013 09:17 AM            

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Originally posted by its_aqua:
You just cant generalise people on their Sun Sign. Its exactly what astrology ISNT about. Thats why there are charts. Im sick and tired of topics like this generalising Sun Signs.

I believe that deciding if someone has depth is something you cant even tell if you havent known them for years. Because after all, we see what other people choose to show to us.

I dont agree at all with generalising like that , all Cancers have more depth than all Aquarius. <---this is a statement that has no depth. Because, whether or not someone has depth has to do with other factors too.

Anyway, I'm not here to start a catfight, you probably are biased due to your personal experiences and thats fine.

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I'm glad that you don't intend to catfight because that was not my intention at all.

I understand that everything isn't determined by the Sun Sign. You're right! Hell, I'm much more complex than your typical Aries LOL. I just wanted to discuss that (1) aspect for a moment though to discuss my experience. If you noticed, I did list a couple of "chart ideas" for the Aquarian Man that would attract me romantically. I realize that I should consider being more flexible...

posted September 09, 2013 09:35 AM            

I love Aries people because they're fierce and free. They tell you what they have in their mind-sometimes they're too blunt maybe, but to me they seem like a carefree child who expresses freely what they have in mind.

The reason that I disagreed with you so strongly is because I believe that stereotyping is bad for ourselves firstly and secondly for the others. When we stereotype people we just miss their really good parts. We may believe someone is superficial bc their Sun Sign is that, but right there at the very moment that we decide this and put the person into the stereotyped category we think he belongs- we just fall into our trap and we miss the true colous of that very person we ditched just to fulfil our stereotype.

Really, people are so different, and that is what makes everything so interesting. If I get to compare all my friends of the same sign trying to find common ground, it is certain that I will end up to the conclusion that everyone has a small different side that totally distinguishes him from the other.

I wish we were all able to accept other as they are, being free from all kind of stereotypes.
Why does it matter if someone is tall or short, fat or skinny, black or white, gay or straight, Cancer or Libra?
Its everyones soul and heart that matters

posted September 09, 2013 09:38 AM            

I have not read the whole thread or scoped out the interactions between people but if anyone tries to bait you, just ignore.

Human nature is what it is, even in the best of places, so just ignore anyone if you get the FEELING you are being baited.

The person will go away if ignored enough.

Take it from a pro who learned by doing everything wrong

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posted September 09, 2013 09:44 AM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Lovely Aries

I have not read the whole thread or scoped out the interactions between people but if anyone tries to bait you, just ignore.

Human nature is what it is, even in the best of places, so just ignore anyone if you get the FEELING you are being baited.

The person will go away if ignored enough.

Take it from a pro who learned by doing everything wrong

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posted September 09, 2013 09:46 AM            

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posted September 09, 2013 09:53 AM            

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Originally posted by its_aqua:
Hmm you know what I dont exactly blame you..who doesnt jump to conclusions? Most people do.. We all stereotype people, many of us stick to our first impression. We are just human beings and thats why we act like this.

I love Aries people because they're fierce and free. They tell you what they have in their mind-sometimes they're too blunt maybe, but to me they seem like a carefree child who expresses freely what they have in mind.

The reason that I disagreed with you so strongly is because I believe that stereotyping is bad for ourselves firstly and secondly for the others. When we stereotype people we just miss their really good parts. We may believe someone is superficial bc their Sun Sign is that, but right there at the very moment that we decide this and put the person into the stereotyped category we think he belongs- we just fall into our trap and we miss the true colous of that very person we ditched just to fulfil our stereotype.

Really, people are so different, and that is what makes everything so interesting. If I get to compare all my friends of the same sign trying to find common ground, it is certain that I will end up to the conclusion that everyone has a small different side that totally distinguishes him from the other.

I wish we were all able to accept other as they are, being free from all kind of stereotypes.
Why does it matter if someone is tall or short, fat or skinny, black or white, gay or straight, Cancer or Libra?
Its everyones soul and heart that matters

-Sorry this got totally off topic and I was talking about everyone, myself included, its just that I felt the need to take all this off mu chest

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Oh that's fine! Get it OFF your chest! I'm a fan of doing that LOL. All of us do "generalize" at times and we all need to get away from that. Which is why I wanted to create this thread - to call myself out Haha. I truly love interating w/ people from ALL walks of life - it's food for my Aries Soul!

Air/Fire interaction can go just about anywhere! Thank you for this discussion.

posted September 09, 2013 09:57 AM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
Oh that's fine! Get it OFF your chest! I'm a fan of doing that LOL. All of us do "generalize" at times and we all need to get away from that. Which is why I wanted to create this thread - to call myself out Haha. I truly love interating w/ people from ALL walks of life - it's food for my Aries Soul!

Air/Fire interaction can go just about anywhere! Thank you for this discussion.

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when I get mad on someone for sth they said, I always try to see if Im any better than them. And yeah I was ****** off by your statements, by I know I do they same thing at time, so its okay