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Topic: I'm Scared: Air Element Men
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LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 2169 From: Pluto-Venusia Registered: Dec 2012
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posted September 08, 2013 01:24 PM
I *run* from them! Haha at least in terms of dating. Especially Aquarius males because I'm really turned off by the "emotional detachment" quality that many of them have. I fear that they will be rudely insensitive to how I feel about things; Also fear that they lack depth & passion in their personality...so I tend to avoid them. I adore their unique, individual styles though! Geminis are excellent for conversation! I love them as friends! However, they (like Aquarians) can sometimes be superficial. Gems can also be flaky & unstable and my Venus-Taurus absolutely CANNOT STAND THAT. Libras I actually like quite a bit! I'm more likely to date them of the (3) signs. But they aren't always super profound either. How do I stop generalizing Airy Males & give them a chance?! Or...am I correct in my assessment of them for the most part? IP: Logged |
IrisRainbow Knowflake Posts: 707 From: Pluto Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 08, 2013 01:29 PM
I absolutely adore Aquarius men..when they are not the cold hearted types :s They are fun,intellectual,witty.I have met quite a lot of them that are passionate but you have to find what they are into..For ex.,I met one that was generally really emotionally detached but he just loved writing poems and there you could see all the emotions that he hid. I don't think airy men are heartless..they just like to use their brain ------------------ I am stuck in a daydream IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 64541 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 08, 2013 01:34 PM
L.A Why does this trouble you, Friend? There are some signs that I could never see myself really attracted to.------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 2169 From: Pluto-Venusia Registered: Dec 2012
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posted September 08, 2013 01:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by IrisRainbow: I have met quite a lot of them that are passionate but you have to find what they are into..For ex.,I met one that was generally really emotionally detached but he just loved writing poems and there you could see all the emotions that he hid. I don't think airy men are heartless..they just like to use their brain
I do believe that Aquarians can be passionate about CAUSES or about their HOBBIES. I'm not convinced though that they know how to demonstrate passion ONE-ON-ONE with a love interest. Even my brother, who I adore, struggles with expressing himself intimately - that's how he lost his last girlfriend. He waited until she was *out* of the door to even EXPRESS how much he loved her. And he's BOTH Sun & Moon in Aquarius!! IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 2169 From: Pluto-Venusia Registered: Dec 2012
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posted September 08, 2013 01:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: L.A Why does this trouble you, Friend? There are some signs that I could never see myself really attracted to.
LOL I guess I feel like I may be acting unfairly towards them. IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 2169 From: Pluto-Venusia Registered: Dec 2012
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posted September 08, 2013 01:37 PM
quote: Originally posted by LovelyAries86: I do believe that Aquarians can be passionate about CAUSES or about their HOBBIES. I'm not convinced though that they know how to demonstrate passion ONE-ON-ONE with a love interest. Even my brother, who I adore, struggles with expressing himself intimately - that's how he lost his last girlfriend. He waited until she was *out* of the door to even EXPRESS how much he loved her. And he's BOTH Sun & Moon in Aquarius!!
I don't believe that they are necessarily cruel or heartless though. Just disconnected.
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IrisRainbow Knowflake Posts: 707 From: Pluto Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 08, 2013 02:00 PM
quote: Originally posted by LovelyAries86: I do believe that Aquarians can be passionate about CAUSES or about their HOBBIES. I'm not convinced though that they know how to demonstrate passion ONE-ON-ONE with a love interest. Even my brother, who I adore, struggles with expressing himself intimately - that's how he lost his last girlfriend. He waited until she was *out* of the door to even EXPRESS how much he loved her. And he's BOTH Sun & Moon in Aquarius!!
I know right?My moon is in Aquarius too.We HARDLY speak about our emotions but I've learnt that it's wiser to let somebody know what you feel before it's too late,although there are ALWAYS people that make do not express their emotions even when they are gun pressed (my father for example is extremely detached from his emotion and he's only a Mars in Aquarius@.@) IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 64541 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 08, 2013 02:10 PM
I have certain signs of guys I would never be interested in. Why? I am not sure. I just have no attraction to the Sun sign and this would make for no real attraction to the person no matter what else what else was in the chart. As friends, these signs are fine but I really don't feel an attraction. To me, the signs are Aries, Leo, Virgo, Libra and Pisces Suns.
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aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 11713 From: Wankety Wankerson Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 08, 2013 02:13 PM
You have to look at the rest of the chart, especially the moon. I'm an aquarius sun and I'm far from cold and heartless.IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 2169 From: Pluto-Venusia Registered: Dec 2012
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posted September 08, 2013 02:32 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: You have to look at the rest of the chart, especially the moon. I'm an aquarius sun and I'm far from cold and heartless.
I've read some of your posts but I don't think we've officially spoken yet. Hello AquaGuy! So how would you describe yourself when it comes to romance then? IP: Logged |
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posted September 08, 2013 02:33 PM
Aquarian men are way too cold. I understand what u mean. Im a gemini by the way with moon and venus in taurus. I find other geminis to be detached too. Even dating an aquarian moon is a nightmare!
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aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 11713 From: Wankety Wankerson Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 08, 2013 02:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by LovelyAries86: I've read some of your posts but I don't think we've officially spoken yet. Hello AquaGuy! So how would you describe yourself when it comes to romance then?
Honestly I need to learn to be more detached in romance, I get too invested if anything.
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12thhouser Knowflake Posts: 1581 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted September 08, 2013 02:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by LovelyAries86: I do believe that Aquarians can be passionate about CAUSES or about their HOBBIES. I'm not convinced though that they know how to demonstrate passion ONE-ON-ONE with a love interest. Even my brother, who I adore, struggles with expressing himself intimately - that's how he lost his last girlfriend. He waited until she was *out* of the door to even EXPRESS how much he loved her. [B]And he's BOTH Sun & Moon in Aquarius!![/B]
I'm a Sun and Moon Aquarius, too. I have no trouble expressing my affection one-to-one. What other placements does he have? What's his rising sign?
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 64541 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 08, 2013 02:46 PM
I do not really warm up to Aqua people. I find them cold, too. However, Aquaguy is very warm. He has a Taurus Moon and venus conj the ASC. I forget he is an Aqua with as warm and sweet as he is.
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LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 2169 From: Pluto-Venusia Registered: Dec 2012
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posted September 08, 2013 02:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: I do not really warm up to Aqua people. I find them cold, too. However, Aquaguy is very warm. He has a Taurus Moon and venus conj the ASC. I forget he is an Aqua with as warm and sweet as he is.
Aww...so he's a sugar sweetie pie? AquaGuy what are your Venus/Mars signs?
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12thhouser Knowflake Posts: 1581 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted September 08, 2013 02:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: I do not really warm up to Aqua people. I find them cold, too. However, Aquaguy is very warm. He has a Taurus Moon and venus conj the ASC.
Me, too. IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 2169 From: Pluto-Venusia Registered: Dec 2012
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posted September 08, 2013 02:57 PM
quote: Originally posted by 12thhouser: I'm a Sun and Moon Aquarius, too. I have no trouble expressing my affection one-to-one. What other placements does he have? What's his rising sign?
He is Virgo-Rising. So he can be occasionally shy & nit-picky. He also has Mars in Sag...so instead of being tender towards a loved one, he can sometimes be too blunt & insensitive. He does have Venus & NN in Pisces though. I've seen that *side* of him before but he doesn't show it often enough.
quote: Originally posted by Venusian Moon: Aquarian men are way too cold. I understand what u mean. Im a gemini by the way with moon and venus in taurus. I find other geminis to be detached too. Even dating an aquarian moon is a nightmare!
My best friend is Aqua Moon & Rising. However, she has Cancer Sun & Mercury to kind of offset that. She is detached at times...super emotional other times. When she gets in that 'weird' head space....I just give her some distance - which is what she needs. But that is FRIENDSHIP and not ROMANCE so it doesn't bother me as much! Venusian, Tell me more about your Gemini/Taurus combo. One of the guys I'm talking to has this!!
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 64541 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 08, 2013 02:57 PM
Aquaguy is a total, total Sweetie pie. You have my word on it ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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12thhouser Knowflake Posts: 1581 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted September 08, 2013 03:03 PM
quote: Originally posted by LovelyAries86: Also fear that they lack depth & passion in their personality
lol This has never been my case, but I can only speak for myself. IP: Logged |
Kerosene unregistered
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posted September 08, 2013 03:09 PM
Well it all depends. I don't really get earth types, I have no interest in them outside of friendship.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 64541 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 08, 2013 03:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: Well it all depends. I don't really get earth types, I have no interest in them outside of friendship.
Someone in your family is an earth void. Is it you? I am one, too. Most guys I dated were earth signs--all except 2. Those 2 were super exciting but I needed the earth
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posted September 08, 2013 03:25 PM
No i have jupiter neptune and uranus in earth signs.I think my family has earth placements. I like water and fire placements more. I have a pluto/water singleton I also have mars/fire singleton. Im really into those elements. I don't like air signs that much either, outside of friendship LMFAO. Maybe I like how emotional and passionate those elements are?
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PlutoFish Knowflake Posts: 1963 From: Sumeria Registered: Sep 2013
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posted September 08, 2013 03:27 PM
Don't have a single air sign in my chart. ------------------ 'The chart is your guide. Use it well.' Lakota, 18. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 64541 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 08, 2013 03:31 PM
quote: Originally posted by PlutoFish: Don't have a single air sign in my chart.
Welcome. PlutoFish You are an Air Void. I am an earth void. Odette is an Air void, too, I think. I am not sure who else is. I know Randall and Doux are Fire voids.
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greatquincunx Knowflake Posts: 170 From: Houston Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 08, 2013 03:50 PM
Could you send the air men my way? They would be hitting the right house placements. IP: Logged |