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Topic: Fixed signs should marry eachother?
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Diplopoda
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posted September 27, 2013 05:17 PM
 
I feel that a Cardinal sign should never marry a fixed sign. They will feel that they made a wrong choice down the road when they wake up.Unless it's male cardinal - female fixed, it may work. I don't believe a female cardinal sign will ever be happy with a male fixed sign I am not sure about mutable signs. I feel mutable signs need to be reigned in, and a fixed sign can do just that to help them. What do you think? Mutables have erratic energy and the Cardinal will not help the mutable reign the erratic energy. But a fixed sign would. I have known pisces female - male scorpio to work tremendously. does anyone have any examples of successful mutable -fixed?
Fixed-fixed works the best because they can work their magic on each other.
Taurus-Taurus is good
Taurus man - Leo woman is great
Fixed signs need another fixed sign to give up their control. they know their personalities are similar, so this leads to mutual respect.
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Newrise
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posted September 27, 2013 05:25 PM
Interesting Dip :-)I have cardinal sun, moon, Jupiter, but mercury, mars, and Venus are mutable.. Sometimes I feel like I need Fixed, but I can see why it could be a problem .. A bit of a tough situation for me  I do have Scorpio ascendent to give FIxed signs The taste of their medicine IP: Logged |
Diplopoda
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posted September 27, 2013 05:28 PM
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Interesting Dip :-)I have cardinal sun, moon, Jupiter, but mercury, mars, and Venus are mutable.. Sometimes I feel like I need Fixed, but I can see why it could be a problem .. A bit of a tough situation for me
You mean you need a fixed sign man? Do elaborate if u like. IP: Logged |
Newrise
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posted September 27, 2013 05:29 PM
Yes, that's what I meant And as I said I have Scorpio ascendent to give fixed signs the taste of their medicine  IP: Logged |
Diplopoda
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posted September 27, 2013 05:33 PM
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Yes, that's what I meant And as I said I have Scorpio ascendent to give fixed signs the taste of their medicine
Well its a case by case basis. I think your Scorpio rising helps. I take it you are an Aries? You're a real person I hope. I hate talking to a dub. It's not amusing at all to me.
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Newrise
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posted September 27, 2013 05:40 PM
^ Haww .. What does that suppose to mean?  Of course I am IP: Logged |
Diplopoda
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posted September 27, 2013 05:45 PM
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^ Haww .. What does that suppose to mean? Of course I am
:/ If you aren't a real Aries then I'm losing faith in forums. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted September 27, 2013 05:53 PM
Hmm i prefer cardinal and mutable energy.
People with mutable/cardinal energy make great leaders, very diplomatic.Fixed signs are too controlling for me. IP: Logged |
Newrise
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posted September 27, 2013 05:53 PM
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Originally posted by Diplopoda:
:/ If you aren't a real Aries then I'm losing faith in forums.
Lol! What do you mean?! No worries, I am a REAL Aries, you're very right IP: Logged |
Diplopoda
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posted September 27, 2013 06:02 PM
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Lol! What do you mean?! No worries, I am a REAL Aries, you're very right
Na you're too sweet and even tempered to be aries. I know the Aries energy well IP: Logged |
Diplopoda
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posted September 27, 2013 06:06 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Hmm i prefer cardinal and mutable energy.
People with mutable/cardinal energy make great leaders, very diplomatic.Fixed signs are too controlling for me.
But fixed signs can reign you in. My tables need rules to follow. A lot of my tables respect strength in the form of fixed signs. If u see marriage stats most mutable a marry fixed signs Alyssa sharpe married a Scorpio. I think it's her pisces rising that likes the Scorpio. Her moon is in taurus also. Fixed signs in chart are the key to other fixed signs IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted September 27, 2013 06:13 PM
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Originally posted by Diplopoda:
I don't believe a female cardinal sign will ever be happy with a male fixed sign.
Cardinal and fixed are the best combination imo. quote:
I am not sure about mutable signs. I feel mutable signs need to be reigned in, and a fixed sign can do just that to help them. What do you think? Mutables have erratic energy and the Cardinal will not help the mutable reign the erratic energy. But a fixed sign would.
Only if it's Gemini and Scorpio. Mutable works best with other mutables. Fixed is way too stubborn and dogmatic to handle most mutable placements. Mutables like to be free to flutter from flower to flower, not stagnating in a bog.IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
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posted September 27, 2013 06:20 PM
No.
I would sooner chomp off my own arm than marry a Scorpio.
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Aquacheeka
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posted September 27, 2013 06:23 PM
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Originally posted by Diplopoda:
I feel that a Cardinal sign should never marry a fixed sign. They will feel that they made a wrong choice down the road when they wake up.Unless it's male cardinal - female fixed, it may work. I don't believe a female cardinal sign will ever be happy with a male fixed sign I am not sure about mutable signs. I feel mutable signs need to be reigned in, and a fixed sign can do just that to help them. What do you think? Mutables have erratic energy and the Cardinal will not help the mutable reign the erratic energy. But a fixed sign would. I have known pisces female - male scorpio to work tremendously. does anyone have any examples of successful mutable -fixed?
Fixed-fixed works the best because they can work their magic on each other.
Taurus-Taurus is good
Taurus man - Leo woman is great
Fixed signs need another fixed sign to give up their control. they know their personalities are similar, so this leads to mutual respect.
Statistically, Taurus man and Leo woman is one of the least common marriage combos on planet earth: http://www.aureas.org/rams/castille02us.pdf
Every sign goes best with their own sign, and then it's a toss-up for spot #2. As an Aquarius woman, my second-most-likely-to-marry sign is Capricorn male. They are cardinal.
It really depends on the signs. IP: Logged |
Diplopoda
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posted September 27, 2013 06:23 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Diplopoda:
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I don't believe a female cardinal sign will ever be happy with a male fixed sign.
Cardinal and fixed are the best combination imo. quote:
I am not sure about mutable signs. I feel mutable signs need to be reigned in, and a fixed sign can do just that to help them. What do you think? Mutables have erratic energy and the Cardinal will not help the mutable reign the erratic energy. But a fixed sign would.
Only if it's Gemini and Scorpio. Mutable works best with other mutables. Fixed is way too stubborn and dogmatic to handle most mutable placements. Mutables like to be free to flutter from flower to flower, not stagnating in a bog.[/B][/QUOTE]
I agree Gem and Sco are very alike.
Regarding cardinal and fixed, yes if cardinal male fixed female
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Kerosene
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posted September 27, 2013 06:35 PM
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Originally posted by Diplopoda:
But fixed signs can reign you in. My tables need rules to follow. A lot of my tables respect strength in the form of fixed signs. If u see marriage stats most mutable a marry fixed signsAlyssa sharpe married a Scorpio. I think it's her pisces rising that likes the Scorpio. Her moon is in taurus also. Fixed signs in chart are the key to other fixed signs
Her moon is probably opposite her husbands sun which is very magnetic combination. I don't need to be reigned in by anyone.
Some people like partners to be possessive and controlling I for one do not. I need independence and equality in partnerships. But I do like modes together. All my planets are in cardinal houses and personal planets in mutable signs so i do relate to those modes the most. IP: Logged |
Diplopoda
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posted September 27, 2013 06:42 PM
If u are in excess of mutable you'd end up with a fixed sign for sure. Do u kno Gwen stefanis asc? I kno she's a libra with cancer moon married to a Scorpio IP: Logged |
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posted September 27, 2013 06:44 PM
Hm.....................................I'm drawn to mutable people usually. Mostly Virgos and Pisces. I'm Scorpio/Gemini myself...IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted September 27, 2013 06:51 PM
The only fixed signs i've dated is Aqua/Leo and we make better friends, the chemistry isn't that great but I've never been romantically drawn to Scorpios or Taureans. But I've always liked virgo pisces, cancer,cap, and aries. IP: Logged |
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posted September 27, 2013 06:54 PM
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Originally posted by Diplopoda:
I am not sure about mutable signs. I feel mutable signs need to be reigned in, and a fixed sign can do just that to help them. What do you think? Mutables have erratic energy and the Cardinal will not help the mutable reign the erratic energy. But a fixed sign would.
I'm a mutable sign and I've only had bad experiences with fixed signs. They have a whole "it's my way or the highway" attitude. They're completely inflexible and make you feel like you have no say in anything. They come across like they'd sooner lose you than ever compromise or admit they're wrong about something. Fine... Goodbye!IP: Logged |
Diplopoda
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posted September 27, 2013 06:57 PM
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Originally posted by VirGuy:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Diplopoda:
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I am not sure about mutable signs. I feel mutable signs need to be reigned in, and a fixed sign can do just that to help them. What do you think? Mutables have erratic energy and the Cardinal will not help the mutable reign the erratic energy. But a fixed sign would.
I'm a mutable sign and I've only had bad experiences with fixed signs. They have a whole "it's my way or the highway" attitude. They're completely inflexible and make you feel like you have no say in anything. They come across like they'd sooner lose you than ever compromise or admit they're wrong about something. Fine... Goodbye![/B][/QUOTE]Yeah but virgos usually get taken in by tau n Sco anyway
I think virgos are the martyrs. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted September 27, 2013 07:38 PM
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Originally posted by Diplopoda:
If u are in excess of mutable you'd end up with a fixed sign for sure. Do u kno Gwen stefanis asc? I kno she's a libra with cancer moon married to a Scorpio
Absolutely not it's the WORST combination. I know because my mom is a Leo sun, dad a Sagittarius sun with Pisces moon and he drove her crazy because they were so different and my mother is a hundred times more determined, controlling and stubborn. She tried to remake him into a fixed sun and he rebelled by leaving, true to mutable form. When a mutable doesn't like something, they generally try to go toward what they are comfortable with. If a fixed sun wants to stay with someone who has a mutable they better let go of some of their fixity and let the mutable go be a mutable.IP: Logged |
Diplopoda
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posted September 27, 2013 07:43 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Diplopoda:
[b]If u are in excess of mutable you'd end up with a fixed sign for sure. Do u kno Gwen stefanis asc? I kno she's a libra with cancer moon married to a Scorpio
Absolutely not it's the WORST combination. I know because my mom is a Leo sun, dad a Sagittarius sun with Pisces moon and he drove her crazy because they were so different and my mother is a hundred times more determined, controlling and stubborn. She tried to remake him into a fixed sun and he rebelled by leaving, true to mutable form. When a mutable doesn't like something, they generally try to go toward what they are comfortable with. If a fixed sun wants to stay with someone who has a mutable they better let go of some of their fixity and let the mutable go be a mutable.[/B][/QUOTE] I think a fixed needs someone to control
So mutable are easy targets as well as cardinals Unless a fixed sign can give up that insecurity they will always be seeking victims. I know a fixed sign when I see one. The energy is cloying and that's what they're fixated at. If u control them they fight back
If u don't they control u
They want it to be a win lose - they win u lose! IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted September 27, 2013 07:56 PM
A fixed sign can work with another fixed sign and even their own sign, like Aqua with Aqua or Leo with Leo. Fixed can get along with both fixed and Cardinal. Cardinal will inspire fixed. I know of one Gem sun (male) and Scorpio sun (female) who met while teenagers. They dated all through their teens then married after they lived together a few years. They have three kids and are now divorced. The relationship has been turbulent. As teenagers they got along some but they fought a lot, too. Still, they managed to stay together a while so I'd say all in all Gem and Scorpio can make it work for a while. It's not the easiest combination but better than some. She tried to remake him, classic fixed sun mistake. Didn't work, of course. The fixed signs will try to make over the mutables and will get nowhere causing the fixed sun a lot of mental anguish and frustration which leads me to the conclusion both are too different to make a lasting relationship. The fixed sun can get their heart broke easily by a mutable. Mutables, generally, will have many relationships over the course of their lives, or at least two or three where a fixed can stay with one person for 100 years, no problem. They feel really comfortable with what is very familiar and want things to stay the same forever. They feel threatened by change while mutables crave different environments and people. IP: Logged |
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posted September 27, 2013 07:58 PM
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