posted September 29, 2013 09:08 PM            

I found some Aqua women I have met are more this way. The men on the other hand, the handfull I have met, the opposite. I felt they were really fast with things.

But then again Aqua is like the one sign I dont have a good grasp of. I need to start meeting more Aqua people to figure them out. lol It's like a mystery sign to me. All the ones I meet are so different.

posted September 29, 2013 09:37 PM            

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Originally posted by foxxyxo:
i've also noticed that aquariuses seem to have been screwed over by a lover atleast once that has kinda traumitized them

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posted September 29, 2013 09:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Liliya:
I dated an Aqua, who broke up with his Aqua gf to be with me, then got back to her, then to me, then to her... Obviously, at this stage it was too much for me (and for her, probably), so when he came back again, it was definitely over. Then few years later, he tried again... Fair play for trying haha

Definitely, love for a chase!

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I've had this experience w/aqua men too - they want to come back after returning to a former gf. they make such solid friendships it's easy for them to just go backwards again to a former gf. but I don't allow it - not interested in taking any guy back or staying friends afterwards

posted September 30, 2013 12:45 AM            

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Originally posted by CatMote:
aquarians generally are very free people. you cant expect to cuddle with them and coddle them all the time. in fact, you cant really even chase them. if you are dating one, you have to just be available for them. yes you can love them and yes they will love you back, once they get over that fear, but you have to give them room to be free.

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posted September 30, 2013 01:42 AM            

In our conversations, he avoids talking about feelings and will let me take centre stage.

The other day he said that I am "devoid of emotions" and is always trying to get me to open up and be more emotional with him.

Problem is, I get the impression that he is just interested in "cracking the code" so to speak. Once that is done, he'll simply move on.

I don't mean to play on this Aquarian-Sagittarian game that many sites mention; where both signs avoid being emotionally vulnerable with each other.

But it just happens that with Aquarians, more than any other signs, I can just be an a** and stone cold.I think they prefer friendship to all-consuming, passionate love.

If you are to say you love them, don't mention the actual "L" word itself , just be quirky by saying stuff like " You know that the depths of my affections run as deep as a bathroom sink"

posted September 30, 2013 11:05 AM            

I take commitment very seriously, so usually I'm very afraid to get close to someone to only end up losing them in the end... The one time I was upfront about liking a guy and pursuing him (my very first crush), he ended up hooking up with another girl to get "experience" before getting together with me (he was a Pisces)... Needless to say, that never happened, no matter what he did.

posted September 30, 2013 11:10 AM            

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Originally posted by foxxyxo:
o yea there known for going really fast in the beginning and then backing off and playing hot and cold hot and cold....i only know this because i seem to attract aquarius's left and right. i just find them creepy sometimes cause i know they like me but then will hardly talk to me...and then they'll be really upset when i leave. are you guys just extremely nervous? scared of love?

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This is exactly why I've avoided them in the past! I don't enjoy the 'hot & cold' game! However, I've been trying to be more open-minded towards them lately.

If they have enough Water in their chart...I think we could possibly get along great.