posted October 06, 2013 06:36 AM            

Moon quindecile Moon
Mercury quindecile Sun
Venus quindecile Juno

posted October 06, 2013 11:13 AM            

I don't think we'll ever be out of each other's lives. Even at the height of estrangement, he still never stopped trying to reestablish a connexion - sometimes frequently. It seems there's an unspoken 'we'll just keep trying and eventually something will change somewhere' sense, as we're both obsessive over it - albeit quietly.

posted October 06, 2013 12:09 PM            

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Originally posted by its_aqua:
It was fun calculating the quindeciles, I will calculate the quindeciles in my natal later, for now I checked the ones between me and a guy Im interested in. We have:

Moon quindecile Moon
Mercury quindecile Sun
Venus quindecile Juno

Does anyone have an idea how these may play out??

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The most quindecile-heavy relationship I had was with my first. He was also my best friend; lab partners in college astrophysics. We bonded immediately, even though he was so not my type physically. Both being writers (transgressive) we just had so much in common and became very close quickly - despite our usual reservations in social situations, and tendency to be lone wolves.

It was a complicated, constant 'casual' relationship for about 2 years. Hell, he even moved into my campus apartment. He'd have to go back to his home state for summer, and man, that always sucked.

I don't even think we intended to be sexual at all - that's what's nuts. But, lo and behold, one night, after watching The Wall, it became tentatively physical. After that, boy, we were off to the races; like the first humans discovering sex. We hurt each other a lot, too. As he was not my type romantically, (at that time, what I perceived it must be) I was always still 'looking', and he and I became the 'weird relationship' among our group: playing, 'oh, yeah? Well, then I'll just - ' power struggle games, jealousy tactics, and so on. Ugly.

We remained constant though, for 11 years. Our song 'Wish You Were Here' then really haunted me, as we'd become stupidly and suddenly estranged, once I tried to get him to see how terribly unhappy he was with his current girlfriend. He chose to satisfy her demands over our friendship, and I was crushed. That finally ended after 3 years of periodic hell last March. I can't say how relieved I am. We're not BACK yet, to the level of prior intimacy we had; but we can get there, and that's what matters.

He's still unhappy, but I've learnt to just let that be. I always wanted him to find someone as a steady partner and be truly happy. When I realised he wasn't ... how can you just LET your best friend be unhappy? Anyway.

In terms of quindeciles, we have the following:

Our Suns
Sun / Pluto
Mercury / Sun
Mercury / Mars
Venus / Moon
Mercury / Mercury
Mercury / Eros
Mars / Eros
Venus / Uranus
Sun / Lilith
Jupiter / Amor
Venus / Valentine

... for the most part.

His Sun, Mercury, Venus, and Mars - all in my 8H.
My Sun, Mercury, Pluto, Eros, and Lilith - all in his 8H.

posted October 07, 2013 06:46 AM            

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Originally posted by its_aqua:
It was fun calculating the quindeciles, I will calculate the quindeciles in my natal later, for now I checked the ones between me and a guy Im interested in. We have:

Moon quindecile Moon
Mercury quindecile Sun
Venus quindecile Juno

Does anyone have an idea how these may play out??

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posted October 07, 2013 06:56 AM            

"His Sun, Mercury, Venus, and Mars - all in my 8H.
My Sun, Mercury, Pluto, Eros, and Lilith - all in his 8H."

posted October 07, 2013 08:05 AM            

His progressed Venus close to complete our already existing venus-venus quindecile in synastry (same planet quindeciles seem to be pretty popular).
- My venus 29 Cancer.
- His venus 14 Cap.
- His progressed venus 12'** Aqua.

How interesting!

Ow and lavendeL.. about my inventing a new configuration pattern.. wouldn't that be the least to expect from an Aqua-mars quindecile Virgo asc/merc

posted October 07, 2013 08:30 AM            

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Originally posted by Lavender CrystalSwan:
The moon/moon quindecile sounds very deep!
I take it that you both have a very strong emotional connection filled with highs and lows. You bring out all kinds of emotions in one another, for better or for worse, which can get very exhausting at times.
The good side of this aspect I'd say would be an intimate, empathic/intuitive understanding.
Sun/Mercury would also help with the communication, though there may a bit too much fixation of thoughts on the other, especially the Mercury individual, they won't be able to stop thinking about the Sun.
Venus/Juno is a lovely aspect that will boost the romance between you, with a willingness/desire to commit to one another.
If you get together in a relationship, there will be plenty of mutually intense lovey-dovey feelings between you.

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Hey, thanks so much for the insight! We had sth casual in the past but I'm still pretty much obsessed with him! I hope he does think about me, he is the Merc. He has moved on but still this doesnt change much my feelings

posted October 07, 2013 05:14 PM            

"I just notice we have a real *sweet* venus/venus/venus "quindecile Yod" coming up in the progressions.
His progressed Venus close to complete our already existing venus-venus quindecile in synastry (same planet quindeciles seem to be pretty popular).
- My venus 29 Cancer.
- His venus 14 Cap.
- His progressed venus 12'** Aqua."

Aww that sounds so lovely!

"Ow and lavendeL.. about my inventing a new configuration pattern.. wouldn't that be the least to expect from an Aqua-mars quindecile Virgo asc/merc"

Oh well in that case its not surprising then!
What degree is your Asc/Mercury at?
I'm also a Virgo Mercury with Sun in Virgo as well.
But my Mercury is quindecile Saturn booo.

" nothing outstanding in the composite here. No interesting quindecile patterns (to natal), just a C. Pluto/venus quindecile C. Mars (0/2) without a reassuring outlet."

posted October 07, 2013 05:46 PM            

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Originally posted by its_aqua:
Hey, thanks so much for the insight! We had sth casual in the past but I'm still pretty much obsessed with him! I hope he does think about me, he is the Merc. He has moved on but still this doesnt change much my feelings

I should definitely calculate my natal quindeciles sometime

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You're welcome, aqua.

posted October 08, 2013 12:12 PM            

Hihi.. my asc at 3'51 virgo and mercury at 4'32 virgo. It seems I Always notice significant virgo placements.. well I guess most often the first decan virgo pleasantly grabs me by the throat with their refined way of expressing .. aahww how recognizable ... love *IT*

Nietzsche.. the 'dark' genius.. Venus virgo 6!

My Saturn is square the 2 virgos in me (to merc 0,08 ).. I dunno what's worse, the quindecile or mine lol.

The Composite Pluto/Mars exact quindecile btw is the result of a DW P/M exact trine & square in synastry *ahum*! ; ) (C pluto conj. C venus 1,5)

posted October 19, 2013 10:46 PM            

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Originally posted by Lavender CrystalSwan:
Indigo,

"His Sun, Mercury, Venus, and Mars - all in my 8H.
My Sun, Mercury, Pluto, Eros, and Lilith - all in his 8H."

...Oh my lordi Jesus!!
All that 8th house action mixed in with the quindeciles –- LOL no wonder you both have trouble fully moving on from one another!!!

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Yeah. It was all-or-nothing for a long, long time. God, I practically wanted to wipe it from my memory; 'youthful indiscretions' and the like. Honestly, I've no idea why I was such a b*tch in that arena. I think it all affected me on SUCH a deep level, I haven't been able to handle that much 8H energy again until very recently.