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Topic: (3rd Housers) They are obsessed with me!!! LOL
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Plutonic Capricorn Knowflake Posts: 301 From: Quirky Registered: Jan 2013
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posted October 07, 2013 06:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by LovelyAries86: So you are...Cap Sun Cancer Moon Libra ASC Sag Venus Mars Scorpio? Yeah...sounds HOT to me. We share some things in common (Cancer Moon, Libra ASC), but we are different too, in a good way. I adore Scorpio-Mars. And not just because of 'the sex' but because of the depth of mind...the intensity of the spirit. Yep!  Capricorn males are usually take-charge & principled, and I admire that! I cannot stand a man who is a pushover!
and i adore lotsa arian woman for their enthusiasm and energized spirit! in the relationship i take charge for sure, but im soft in my harshness and harsh in my softness. or in other words i try to be as righteous possible. ive said before, man is like a vertical line and woman a horizontal line. its only obvious that a man leads and a woman inspires so how can you lead without being inspired or how can you inspire without being led. i dont like women who dont have much to say or inspire but to sit there sex slave, that would be draining. back in the day that would be just fine for when i used to be sexual predatory. but nowadays i prefer to be celibate instead having a sex based relationship. IP: Logged |
Plutonic Capricorn Knowflake Posts: 301 From: Quirky Registered: Jan 2013
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posted October 07, 2013 06:37 PM
quote: Originally posted by LovelyAries86: You also have SATURN in Scorpio in your 1st House. You are a TRIPLE Scorpion?!  You & I both have our Cancer-Moon in the 9th House. How cute. 
you know im actually a mix between various signs in my character, and you probably can guess which signs that be. versatile but essentially a capricorn astrologically speaking, that is. IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 820 From: OH, USA Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 07, 2013 10:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by Plutonic Capricorn: and i adore lotsa arian woman for their enthusiasm and energized spirit!in the relationship i take charge for sure, but im soft in my harshness and harsh in my softness. or in other words i try to be as righteous possible. ive said before, man is like a vertical line and woman a horizontal line. its only obvious that a man leads and a woman inspires so how can you lead without being inspired or how can you inspire without being led. i dont like women who dont have much to say or inspire but to sit there sex slave, that would be draining. back in the day that would be just fine for when i used to be sexual predatory. but nowadays i prefer to be celibate instead having a sex based relationship.
We're in agreement. Each partner has a role to play in the relationship - different roles that are equally important & rewarding. One of the best descriptions I've heard on this: "The man is the Head. But the woman is the Neck that *TURNS* that Head!" I'm with you on the sex thing too. I am not into casual sexual relations. If we don't have an insane *connection* on other levels...I get totally bored with you. Period! 
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elixir Knowflake Posts: 1555 From: United States Registered: Apr 2012
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posted October 07, 2013 11:08 PM
I keep meeting people online from Amsterdam lol.I know, I live in the Seattle area and I love all the international presence. There are a lot of "weird"/alternative people here but I love that anything goes here....thats the uranian in me lol. quote: Originally posted by Plutonic Capricorn: thats how it is. i meet new people on a regular basis, i live near and work downtown in amsterdam. a small city which is full with tourists the whole year. so its always nice to talk with people from all over the world and in general.but it really need to be something special to create or maintain a friendship, how much more would it take for a relationship? im pretty much direct on the first meeting or date and eager too if there is some mutual interest we are in line with and so could enrich eachother, evenso i may be somewhat indirect to find this out. and concerning this, i have very little patience.
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elixir Knowflake Posts: 1555 From: United States Registered: Apr 2012
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posted October 07, 2013 11:16 PM
It makes me a super mars in aries and a very unstable one lol. Its good and bad. Mars is my chart ruler so it emphasizes it. I have a hard time balancing the aries and cancer energy in my chart."if Mars is at 29 degrees, the native may devise many plans of actions, worry excessively about the possible actions and different routes to take, and then execute a spontaneous action that is contrary to the decision! " This is true for me. Learning to balance is one of the things I have always had to work on. I also don't have a lot of mutable energy in my chart so maybe thats why I have a hard time with enacting change. quote: Originally posted by Plutonic Capricorn: i c your mars in aries is at 29 degrees, what does it do? does it make you like a mature mars in aries or a super one?i have two planets in 29degree, jupiter and neptune both in sagittarius and 3rd house conjunct.
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Plutonic Capricorn Knowflake Posts: 301 From: Quirky Registered: Jan 2013
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posted October 08, 2013 07:18 PM
quote: Originally posted by elixir: I keep meeting people online from Amsterdam lol.
is that so..
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Plutonic Capricorn Knowflake Posts: 301 From: Quirky Registered: Jan 2013
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posted October 08, 2013 07:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by LovelyAries86: We're in agreement. Each partner has a role to play in the relationship - different roles that are equally important & rewarding. One of the best descriptions I've heard on this: "The man is the Head. But the woman is the Neck that *TURNS* that Head!" I'm with you on the sex thing too. I am not into casual sexual relations. If we don't have an insane *connection* on other levels...I get totally bored with you. Period! 
like a teacher would be useless without a student. you are right, there is no greater helper for a man but his woman.
as much as i love dynamic and strong woman, i dislike a feminist type. a woman should know about her inspirational content naturally without trying to lead as a man should be the leader. IP: Logged |
Plutonic Capricorn Knowflake Posts: 301 From: Quirky Registered: Jan 2013
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posted October 09, 2013 10:19 AM
quote: Originally posted by LovelyAries86: We're in agreement. Each partner has a role to play in the relationship - different roles that are equally important & rewarding. One of the best descriptions I've heard on this: "The man is the Head. But the woman is the Neck that *TURNS* that Head!" I'm with you on the sex thing too. I am not into casual sexual relations. If we don't have an insane *connection* on other levels...I get totally bored with you. Period! 
your mars in the 3rd house, do you enjoy talking during sex ? IP: Logged |
PlutoFish Knowflake Posts: 1340 From: ♑ ♆ ♈ ♇ Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 09, 2013 10:22 AM
I'm a 3rd houser of compassion  Natal; Saturn Pisces 3rd Draconic; Saturn Cancer 3rd------------------ "The Chart is your Guide" Leading Expression & Spirituality is me IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 820 From: OH, USA Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 09, 2013 09:42 PM
quote: Originally posted by Plutonic Capricorn: as much as i love dynamic and strong woman, i dislike a feminist type. a woman should know about her inspirational content naturally without trying to lead as a man should be the leader.
I co-sign. A strong, confident, dynamic woman is wonderful!! Which is what *I* am. I don't support either sex being a DOORMAT. But an overbearing, belligerent feminist who constantly runs from her femininity is quite DIFFERENT than that.
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LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 820 From: OH, USA Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 09, 2013 09:47 PM
quote: Originally posted by Plutonic Capricorn: your mars in the 3rd house, do you enjoy talking during sex ?
Talking? Actually, not too much. Occasional whispers in my ear of something raunchy is hot - just don't talk my head off the whole time, jacking up my concentration!  I mostly enjoy hearing the moans & groans of my partner. Texting me here & there throughout the day (as mental foreplay) sounds nice. Things like that! 
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Plutonic Capricorn Knowflake Posts: 301 From: Quirky Registered: Jan 2013
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posted October 11, 2013 12:00 PM
lovelyaries,are you trying to say that in fact a woman is an precious energy to a man and that everything stands or fall with a woman? or everything a man does in his life, he does it for a woman. and he wouldnt be that motivated in life if it wasnt for the woman, so the fall of a man is often caused by a woman or on the other side of the same coin, the succes or nobility of a man is also due to the woman? IP: Logged |
Plutonic Capricorn Knowflake Posts: 301 From: Quirky Registered: Jan 2013
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posted October 11, 2013 12:09 PM
lmao dont you love it.. im grateful that i grew up in amsterdam, such a small yet international city where you can find about any nationality of this world.seatlle seems very nice! never been there tho. i think you might heard about the weirdness of amsterdam or the things the city is known for. the flag of amsterdam has 3 X's on it and thats pretty much what this city is, X rated.  quote: Originally posted by elixir: I keep meeting people online from Amsterdam lol.I know, I live in the Seattle area and I love all the international presence. There are a lot of "weird"/alternative people here but I love that anything goes here....thats the uranian in me lol.
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LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 820 From: OH, USA Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 11, 2013 04:31 PM
quote: Originally posted by Plutonic Capricorn: lovelyaries,are you trying to say that in fact a woman is an precious energy to a man and that everything stands or fall with a woman? or everything a man does in his life, he does it for a woman. and he wouldnt be that motivated in life if it wasnt for the woman, so the fall of a man is often caused by a woman or on the other side of the same coin, the succes or nobility of a man is also due to the woman?
I don't believe that EVERYTHING you do should be done SOLELY for someone else, No. You do things because you DESIRE to do them - not by force or obligation. You please your partner because it pleases YOU to do so. And in turn you are both happy!! You both ENJOY your roles & you work together as a team. You both know each others' strengths & weaknesses well. You easily communicate as a couple so misunderstandings are rare. That's pretty much what I mean.
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Plutonic Capricorn Knowflake Posts: 301 From: Quirky Registered: Jan 2013
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posted October 11, 2013 05:42 PM
Natural flow indeed. to me its all about teamwork even though i can be explicit stern in the relationship but i like my girl to get involved. basically a partnership with me is pretty much military cos i like see her as a soldier, i would train her as my soldier.really, i cant picture having a real partnership where the woman would be housewife alone without involving her in other matters. for example if we were on a shooting range.. i wouldnt want her to sit on the sideline only and watch, i want her to participate and fire too! become good at it even! and its not just areas on the physical plane but also on the other houses within the body. the importance of present teamwork in the partnership is probably partly cos of my libra asc and sag venus. what about you... do you like it when your bf involve you in many matters? IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 820 From: OH, USA Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 11, 2013 06:11 PM
quote: Originally posted by Plutonic Capricorn: Natural flow indeed. to me its all about teamwork even though i can be explicit stern in the relationship but i like my girl to get involved. basically a partnership with me is pretty much military cos i like see her as a soldier, i would train her as my soldier.really, i cant picture having a real partnership where the woman would be housewife alone without involving her in other matters. for example if we were on a shooting range.. i wouldnt want her to sit on the sideline only and watch, i want her to participate and fire too! become good at it even! and its not just areas on the physical plane but also on the other houses within the body. the importance of present teamwork in the partnership is probably partly cos of my libra asc and sag venus. what about you... do you like it when your bf involve you in many matters?
Oh definitely! I would never want to be left 'out of the loop' on most things. He's the Leader but I still want him to consult with me - that's what partnership is to me.
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Plutonic Capricorn Knowflake Posts: 301 From: Quirky Registered: Jan 2013
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posted October 11, 2013 06:46 PM
quote: Originally posted by LovelyAries86: Oh definitely! I would never want to be left 'out of the loop' on most things. He's the Leader but I still want him to consult with me - that's what partnership is to me.
thatta girl... some women are scared of me... cause they see like this danger in my eyes, and they sometimes say it too... you know, like im one of the bad guys. at times its hard to convince people its okay and that im approachable... but usually i take the initiative. but then again i understand since my mars saturn pluto are in scorpio in the 1st house. and still i have the libra rising and sag stellium, so there are also often other times when im less dark and more easier. IP: Logged |
elixir Knowflake Posts: 1555 From: United States Registered: Apr 2012
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posted October 11, 2013 11:02 PM
Yep..heard about the x'rated scene there, and all your bikes and canals lol. Seems like an interesting place Seattle sounds similar to amsterdam in a lot of ways, although not that x-rated quote: Originally posted by Plutonic Capricorn: lmao dont you love it.. im grateful that i grew up in amsterdam, such a small yet international city where you can find about any nationality of this world.seatlle seems very nice! never been there tho. i think you might heard about the weirdness of amsterdam or the things the city is known for. the flag of amsterdam has 3 X's on it and thats pretty much what this city is, X rated. 
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elixir Knowflake Posts: 1555 From: United States Registered: Apr 2012
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posted October 11, 2013 11:03 PM
Why do you have danger in your eyes..why one of the bad guys? quote: Originally posted by Plutonic Capricorn: thatta girl...some women are scared of me... cause they see like this danger in my eyes, and they sometimes say it too... you know, like im one of the bad guys. at times its hard to convince people its okay and that im approachable... but usually i take the initiative. but then again i understand since my mars saturn pluto are in scorpio in the 1st house. and still i have the libra rising and sag stellium, so there are also often other times when im less dark and more easier.
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LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 820 From: OH, USA Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 11, 2013 11:57 PM
quote: Originally posted by Plutonic Capricorn: some women are scared of me... cause they see like this danger in my eyes, and they sometimes say it too... you know, like im one of the bad guys.
So do you *personally* see yourself as dangerous at all?
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elixir Knowflake Posts: 1555 From: United States Registered: Apr 2012
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posted October 12, 2013 12:21 AM
@lovelyaries, sorry if I missed it, what's your venus sign? IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 1784 From: 👾 Registered: Jul 2013
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posted October 12, 2013 12:31 AM
Hiiiii Aries Hiiiiii Elixir  IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 820 From: OH, USA Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 12, 2013 12:32 AM
quote: Originally posted by elixir: @lovelyaries, sorry if I missed it, what's your venus sign?
Venus in Taurus, 8th House.
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: Hiiiii Aries Hiiiiii Elixir 
Heyyyy Barbie! What you been up to chica?!
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Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 1784 From: 👾 Registered: Jul 2013
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posted October 12, 2013 12:35 AM
Having a complete blast blast blaaaaast! How's your night beautiful!?IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 820 From: OH, USA Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 12, 2013 12:55 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: Having a complete blast blast blaaaaast! How's your night beautiful!?
Last night was great! Went and saw an all-male singing Revue!
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