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Topic: (3rd Housers) They are obsessed with me!!! LOL
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LovelyAries86
Knowflake Posts: 820
From: OH, USA
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 02, 2013 08:45 AM
  
Men w/ their Venus in the THIRD HOUSE. I'm so serious!! I keep attracting them OVER & OVER again. It's gotten completely hilarious now.  *My* Venus is in the EIGHTH HOUSE.
My Mars in Capricorn.
Moon Cancer.
Aries Sun.
Libra ASC. The latest guy:
Aries Venus in 3rd House.
Scorpio Mars.
Sag Moon.
Aqua Sun.
Cap ASC.
I actually think this placement makes for some of the most naturally *charming* people of the Zodiac. Lovely conversationalists also! However, they often tend to present an image that isn't altogrther true - which does not fly with ME. Many of them also tend to be 'players' or 'smooth operators' and I can spot that shyt in them A MILE AWAY. They seem to be in love with the "idea" of love but they don't know a thing about how to actually attain it...or even moreso, how to stay interested once things do truly get very "heavy".
They LOVE me though! I cannot get away from these guys! I dig them, but refuse to get very serious with them. Questions:
What are they most attracted to?
What else can you tell me about them overall??
Can they be faithful in relationships? IP: Logged |
SilverFeather
Knowflake Posts: 1153
From: Mercury sometimes...Jupiter some other times
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted October 02, 2013 08:58 AM
I have five planets including Venus in 3rd house and I've never been attracted to someone with your placements but maybe it's different since I'm a female.
I usually steer away from Cancer Moons ( too emotional ) and Cap Mars ( too bossy). I think your Libra ASC is the reason behind it.
Personally, I'm mostly attracted to Geminian and Sagittarian men with Jupiterian/Mercurial influence.
AS for female friends, I mostly attract Leos and Libras but rarely Arians.IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
Knowflake Posts: 820
From: OH, USA
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 02, 2013 09:04 AM
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Originally posted by SilverFeather:
I have five planets including Venus in 3rd house and I've never been attracted to someone with your placements but maybe it's different since I'm a female.
I know right? I'm not sure what they think we have in common. LOL. I do have 3 planets in the 3rd House:
Uranus
Neptune
Mars When it comes to Dating though...I don't think or feel very 'third house' AT ALL. My Venus-Taurus in the 8th completely DOMINATES my desires in a partner! And these men with their Venuus in the 3rd would not be able to offer me what I need, I feel. IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
Knowflake Posts: 5111
From:
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted October 02, 2013 11:09 AM
3rd housers... *shakes fist* IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 5046
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted October 02, 2013 11:18 AM
I have Mars in the third house and although it's not quite the same thing as Venus and I am not a guy who is romantically attracted, I think it might be your outgoing nature and friendliness, maybe? Third house/Gemini people are attracted to these qualities in others. They want to feel at ease talking with someone, or communicating. They like people who give them impression they are warm and easily approachable because Gemini and Third house likes to hang out and chill with others more than anything. It's their fave thing to do whether it be in the office, at a restaurant or in their neighborhood. You must give off that vibe so they approach you. I get that vibe from you and like I typed, I have third house Mars. IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
Knowflake Posts: 820
From: OH, USA
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 02, 2013 11:36 AM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I think it might be your outgoing nature and friendliness, maybe? Third house/Gemini people are attracted to these qualities in others. They want to feel at ease talking with someone, or communicating. They like people who give them impression they are warm and easily approachable... You must give off that vibe so they approach you.
Hey SSS!  This new guy told me just a couple of days ago that his first impression of me was that I'm a "sophisticated lady with much class". Is that his Cap ASC speaking?? I wouldn't think that's the main trait that Gemini/Third House looks for. I'm not a party animal or obnoxious chatter-box. But I am rather outgoing. As long as you seem friendly, I'll speak to you! If I don't smile, some people assume I'm snobby or stuck-up at first. But once people speak with me, they see that I'm extremely warm & broad-minded. From there, I can usually get even the TOUGHEST cookie to crumble and open up to me. I also have Mars in 3rd. Maybe that is what's drawing the Venus-H3 males to me??  IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag
Knowflake Posts: 199
From: Your imagination
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 02, 2013 11:48 AM
I have uranus and neptune in the thirdI feel confused when it comes to reality, but it does make for interesting conversations. I dislike conservative people who want everything to be ''Normal'' in conversation. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 5046
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted October 02, 2013 12:12 PM
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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
Hey SSS! This new guy told me just a couple of days ago that his first impression of me was that I'm a "sophisticated lady with much class". Is that his Cap ASC speaking?? I wouldn't think that's the main trait that Gemini/Third House looks for. I'm not a party animal or obnoxious chatter-box. But I am rather outgoing. As long as you seem friendly, I'll speak to you! If I don't smile, some people assume I'm snobby or stuck-up at first. But once people speak with me, they see that I'm extremely warm & broad-minded. From there, I can usually get even the TOUGHEST cookie to crumble and open up to me. I also have Mars in 3rd. Maybe that is what's drawing the Venus-H3 males to me??
Similar energy. It just means you put the same level of energy as Venus in third. Mars in third is going to be more outgoing while Venus would be more receptive. So, you attract people who like to socialize and talk.IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
Knowflake Posts: 820
From: OH, USA
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 02, 2013 12:43 PM
@SSS That makes sense! I guess that really is the root of it - my Mars in the 3rd. I don't pay enough attention to that LOL. @NepSag I think we've agreed about that in the past. Conversation with me goes...EVERYWHERE, pretty much. I like to go on "journeys" with the people I'm close to - whether spiritual, mental or emotional. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 5046
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted October 02, 2013 12:50 PM
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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
@SSS That makes sense! I guess that really is the root of it - my Mars in the 3rd. I don't pay enough attention to that LOL. @NepSag I think we've agreed about that in the past. Conversation with me goes...EVERYWHERE, pretty much. I like to go on "journeys" with the people I'm close to - whether spiritual, mental or emotional.
I have Mars in third and my friend has Venus Gemini in ninth. My Mars is in Sag! How's that for odd? It's like we have Venus and Mars in the same place only not exactly, lol. It's uncanny! We are just friends, though. Maybe it works for friendship too? Not enough attention is paid to friendships in synastry, just romantic interests. IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
Knowflake Posts: 820
From: OH, USA
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 02, 2013 01:55 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I have Mars in third and my friend has Venus Gemini in ninth. My Mars is in Sag! How's that for odd? It's like we have Venus and Mars in the same place only not exactly, lol. It's uncanny! We are just friends, though. Maybe it works for friendship too? Not enough attention is paid to friendships in synastry, just romantic interests.
I'm still learning about synastry, actually. You're right that enough focus isn't put onto "friendships". I believe that there's much to be discovered there! Very interesting, you and your friend. I agree with you about not making it romantic - it's not necessary to *always* go there. This guy I mentioned has Mars-Scropio, and as you know...my Venus sits in the 8th. So yet again - here we are.
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Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 1831
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 02, 2013 03:14 PM
I don't have Venus in the 3rd; it's in the 2nd, but I do have Mercury, Mars and N. Node in the 3rd.
I'm attracted to the shy/introverted/intellectual types and in love with the idea of love as well; except I'm not a player I think Venus in the 3rd will be attracted to someone who is witty and can keep an intelligent conversation going. They love to flirt too.
Since Venus in the 3rd is commonly known as the "player," they can't be as faithful as you want them to be, (ofc there are other influencing factors that may diminish that) but I guess you will have to learn this is how they are and allow it a bit, but not let it get out of hand ofc. (although I wouldn't personally)
You can buy them gifts of intellectual purposes like books they'd like or do very clever romantic things for them. IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
Knowflake Posts: 820
From: OH, USA
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 02, 2013 03:51 PM
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Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
I'm attracted to the shy/introverted/intellectual types and in love with the idea of love as well; except I'm not a player I think Venus in the 3rd will be attracted to someone who is witty and can keep an intelligent conversation going. They love to flirt too.
Since Venus in the 3rd is commonly known as the "player," they can't be as faithful as you want them to be, how they are and allow it a bit, but not let it get out of hand ofc. (although I wouldn't personally)
I'm not shy & introverted LOL. I am intelligent, and I do flirt back with them at times. I would never "allow" them to be the 'player' version of themselves. I absolutely REFUSE to commit to a person that does not take commitment as seriously as I do. Or someone who doesn't understand what true loyalty is. That would be a total WASTE of my time. And I don't waste time! I can have all the *fun* in the world with them! There comes a point though (with each one of these men) where I cut them off. That's why it blows my mind how I constantly attract them in the first place... IP: Logged |
Plutonic Capricorn
Knowflake Posts: 301
From: Quirky
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted October 03, 2013 03:08 PM
i have a 3rd house stellium which includes venus in sagittarius.you are right great conversationalists. this is why we love networking and also good in any job that requires communication. IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
Knowflake Posts: 820
From: OH, USA
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 03, 2013 03:14 PM
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Originally posted by Plutonic Capricorn:
you are right great conversationalists. this is why we love networking and also good in any job that requires communication.
So how would you describe yourself in the context of relationships? Is it a challenge for you to be faithful? And are you strongly attracted to people w/ their MARS in the 3rd? IP: Logged |
Plutonic Capricorn
Knowflake Posts: 301
From: Quirky
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted October 03, 2013 04:57 PM
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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
So how would you describe yourself in the context of relationships? Is it a challenge for you to be faithful? And are you strongly attracted to people w/ their MARS in the 3rd?
So how would you describe yourself in the context of relationships?
Dominant, intense, spiritual, depth, affectionate. Is it a challenge for you to be faithful? I provide alot once im in a commited relationship, its not a question of being faithful since i have a cancer moon and 3 planets in scorpio but the difficulty for me to start a relationship. so usually i keep it mild and sociable.
And are you strongly attracted to people w/ their MARS in the 3rd?
thats a flirty question olrite but
this placement can keep the communication flow standing up which i find important.
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Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 1831
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 03, 2013 05:00 PM
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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
I'm not shy & introverted LOL. I am intelligent, and I do flirt back with them at times. I would never "allow" them to be the 'player' version of themselves. I absolutely REFUSE to commit to a person that does not take commitment as seriously as I do. Or someone who doesn't understand what true loyalty is. That would be a total WASTE of my time. And I don't waste time! I can have all the *fun* in the world with them! There comes a point though (with each one of these men) where I cut them off. That's why it blows my mind how I constantly attract them in the first place...
Yeah, I'm glad you don't waste your time with the "player" types.
They aren't worth anyone's time really IP: Logged |
Plutonic Capricorn
Knowflake Posts: 301
From: Quirky
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted October 03, 2013 05:20 PM
hej lovelyaries, i c you got sun moon asc in cardinal signs just like me which is nice.IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
Knowflake Posts: 820
From: OH, USA
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 03, 2013 10:29 PM
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Originally posted by Plutonic Capricorn:
hej lovelyaries, i c you got sun moon asc in cardinal signs just like me which is nice.
We're Besties!!!  *plays jump rope with you*
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Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 1784
From: 👾
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted October 03, 2013 10:30 PM
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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
We're Besties!!! *plays jump rope with you*
I wanna play IP: Logged |
Plutonic Capricorn
Knowflake Posts: 301
From: Quirky
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted October 05, 2013 07:26 AM
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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
We're Besties!!! *plays jump rope with you*
how does it work out for you? IP: Logged |
elixir
Knowflake Posts: 1555
From: United States
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted October 05, 2013 07:43 AM
I have venus in gemini in the 3rd house im attracted to guys who are a bit intellectual. If he reads a lot and is well read on many topics i really like that. Im a homebody (cancer sun in 4th) but i cant sit still in one place for too long. People who watch a lot of tv get on my nerves..and i hate boring conversations. I like to spend time with people who are interested in many creative things and i can have talks with over a cup of coffee. Someone who likes to try new things is definitely another plus. So does any of that sound like you? I think that is what venus in 3rd looks for (at least i do.)IP: Logged |
Plutonic Capricorn
Knowflake Posts: 301
From: Quirky
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted October 05, 2013 07:50 AM
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Originally posted by elixir:
I have venus in gemini in the 3rd house im attracted to guys who are a bit intellectual. If he reads a lot and is well read on many topics i really like that. Im a homebody (cancer sun in 4th) but i cant sit still in one place for too long. People who watch a lot of tv get on my nerves..and i hate boring conversations. I like to spend time with people who are interested in many creative things and i can have talks with over a cup of coffee. Someone who likes to try new things is definitely another plus. So does any of that sound like you? I think that is what venus in 3rd looks for (at least i do.)
Exactly, those are my kinda girls. so what is your sun moon and asc elixir?
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elixir
Knowflake Posts: 1555
From: United States
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted October 05, 2013 08:07 AM
Really? Thats so interesting that it works the same way from the guy's perspective. I have sun cancer/moon aqua/aries rising. I think my aries rising and aries mars in first make me restless too though  quote:
Originally posted by Plutonic Capricorn:
Exactly, those are my kinda girls. so what is your sun moon and asc elixir?
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elixir
Knowflake Posts: 1555
From: United States
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted October 05, 2013 08:09 AM
what about you?IP: Logged |
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