posted October 05, 2013 08:41 AM            

it seems we share some same house placements.
i got sun in capricorn in the 4th house.

listen, i disagree with 4th house descriptions as being homebodies. at least that it doesnt count for me. i love to be at home, nice and cosy but not for too long indoors or itll make me realy restless which i am already. just enough to reload.

ive said this before in another thread about the 4th house that to me it has more to do with the body as a house.

i think it has more to do with the body as a house, such as the need to withdraw, it just mean that i need private time in order to balance out my emotions, thoughts, feelings etc and refine it but not necessarily between four walls.

it has more to do with the four walls in the body of man. You know... the first wall is the coarse or physical body. the second, the body of feelings. the third, the body of the understanding and the fourth is the body of awareness.

thats it.

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Originally posted by elixir:
what about you?

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posted October 05, 2013 08:43 AM            

now i wanna see you chart!

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Originally posted by elixir:
Really? Thats so interesting that it works the same way from the guy's perspective. I have sun cancer/moon aqua/aries rising. I think my aries rising and aries mars in first make me restless too though

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posted October 05, 2013 10:40 AM            

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Originally posted by Plutonic Capricorn:
how does it work out for you?

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I am not *at all* afraid to initiate things. I don't sit by and wait to be "Lead". I look out for others just as much as I look out for myself.

I often end up being the 'catalyst for change' or an inspiration for people without even trying!

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
I wanna play

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*throws Barbie a rope*

posted October 05, 2013 10:50 AM            

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Originally posted by elixir:
If he reads a lot and is well read on many topics i really like that. Im a homebody (cancer sun in 4th) but i cant sit still in one place for too long. i can have talks with over a cup of coffee. Someone who likes to try new things is definitely another plus. So does any of that sound like you? I think that is what venus in 3rd looks for (at least i do.)

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Cancer Sun in the 4th? With Aries-Rising AND Aries Mars?

I know you must be conflicted! Haha. And quite complex! I'm Aries Sun & Cancer Moon so I totally relate to you.

I'd rather have 'talks' over some wine or a cocktail. But coffee/frappucinos are fine too.

I do enjoy reading (as long as it's a subject that grabs me) and I do know a little about a lot. I *do* enjoy trying new things. Especially traveling to new places!! I'm at a place in my life where I'm all about the JOURNEY.

posted October 05, 2013 10:59 AM            

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Originally posted by Plutonic Capricorn:

my sun is in cap/moon cancer/libra rising.

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You sexy MF! I like that combo! Pluto in the 1st too?

posted October 05, 2013 05:26 PM            

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Originally posted by elixir:
Btw, its not that we dont know how to attain love..its much more complicated ...too complicated to explain lol

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I don't care LOL. Explain!

And I looked at your chart. We both have our Jupiter in 5th House!

posted October 05, 2013 09:12 PM            

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Originally posted by elixir:
Are these guys you are attracting the same venus sign?

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No. They all simply share the same HOUSE. They all are the 'smooth operator' types and can TALK off a women's panties.

Guy #1
Aquarius Venus

Guy #2
Taurus Venus

Guy# 3
Aries Venus

posted October 05, 2013 09:58 PM            

With mars in the 3rd you have a lot of mental energy and are probably not afraid to express yourself. You are very uranian when you talk lol and i think that attracts the 3rd house types who like to discuss ideas. I can totally see why you attract them. You dont seem like you have a censor on yourself and i like that lol.

posted October 05, 2013 10:09 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
I don't care LOL. Explain!

And I looked at your chart. We both have our Jupiter in 5th House!

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First of all it would be a tragedy to end up with someone who doesnt like to learn. Or someone boring. We are aware of that somewhere in the back of our minds so we exercise restraint in who we give our heart to lol. If i cant have good conversations with someone it is doomed. I can become infatuated with someone then very bored. That makes me sound bad lol but i dont think this placement is superficial. It actually wants something deeper which is why if it thinks it hasnt found it, it will withdraw and keep looking.Does that sound like any of your guys?

posted October 05, 2013 11:43 PM            

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Originally posted by elixir:
First of all it would be a tragedy to end up with someone who doesnt like to learn. Or someone boring. We are aware of that somewhere in the back of our minds so we exercise restraint in who we give our heart to lol. If i cant have good conversations with someone it is doomed. I can become infatuated with someone then very bored. That makes me sound bad lol but i dont think this placement is superficial. It actually wants something deeper which is why if it thinks it hasnt found it, it will withdraw and keep looking.Does that sound like any of your guys?

My DC ruler is venus in the third so that emphasizes it even more for me. I have an air moon and venus in gemini so it makes me more detached but at the same time i have 5th house cancer and a lot of water energy. Its conflicting sometimes. Lol but who cares, my love life is screwed anyways because i have saturn transiting my 7th.

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So how does that placement of Saturn affect you? I have a friend with Saturn in his 7th. I think he's in denial about it LMAO.

And I'm still learning about my Jupiter! With it being in the 5th...I do definitely entertainment!

I love to learn.
I love trying new things.
I hate being bored.
So we agree there.

Thing is...I have my Venus (in Taurus) in the 8th House. So I am *very* serious about love. That is (1) area of my life where I very much MUST have security!!! Unpredictability turns me off -- I'll run faaaar away from you if you aren't consistent! When I give you my heart, I need to know that you aren't playing games and that you are in it for the long haul. OR I'M OUTTA THERE BEFORE YOU CAN EVEN BLINK.

All (3) of these guys were quite unpredictable. I never changed who I was though - I'm far too *REAL* for that flip-flopping shyt. They all liked me quite a bit (and I liked them also) but I think they *knew* that they couldn't give me what I required. So...I either kept them at a distance or let them go ALTOGETHER.

posted October 06, 2013 01:22 PM            

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Originally posted by elixir:
Also I fell out of touch with a lot of people in my life during this time. Some were friends who I drifted away from and some were people I cut out of my life because I was tired of their BS.

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Totally relate to you on this!

I recently ended my friendship with a person I knew for 14 years! She was my best friend. I emphasize the WAS -- she became a different person that I just didn't *know* anymore. I was being a much better friend to her than she was to me the last couple of years. I gave her a couple of chances to show me that we could still be close...also gave her some "space" to think things over when she needed it. But she dropped the ball! So I have no bitterness towards her, but I'm done with our relationship.

I'm a HUGE supporter of "actions speak louder than words". I'll give you the benefit of the doubt. But after awhile...I simply tell you to F*CK OFF. My time is precious & my relationships are important to me. I don't have time for half-a**ing. Step up or step off!!

posted October 07, 2013 05:02 PM            

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Originally posted by elixir:
Btw, its not that we dont know how to attain love..its much more complicated ...too complicated to explain lol

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lolz it is complex yes, besides i dont really like to explain myself. the chart speaks for itself and furthermore i like things to be spontaneous on that matter.

posted October 07, 2013 05:22 PM            

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Originally posted by elixir:
First of all it would be a tragedy to end up with someone who doesnt like to learn. Or someone boring. We are aware of that somewhere in the back of our minds so we exercise restraint in who we give our heart to lol. If i cant have good conversations with someone it is doomed. I can become infatuated with someone then very bored. That makes me sound bad lol but i dont think this placement is superficial. It actually wants something deeper which is why if it thinks it hasnt found it, it will withdraw and keep looking.

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thats how it is. i meet new people on a regular basis, i live near and work downtown in amsterdam. a small city which is full with tourists the whole year. so its always nice to talk with people from all over the world and in general.

but it really need to be something special to create or maintain a friendship, how much more would it take for a relationship? im pretty much direct on the first meeting or date and eager too if there is some mutual interest we are in line with and so could enrich eachother, evenso i may be somewhat indirect to find this out. and concerning this, i have very little patience.

posted October 07, 2013 05:28 PM            

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Originally posted by elixir:
http://i1258.photobucket.com/albums/ii527/elixirmoon/7a85011a-a85f-40d5-b28a-9cc8 9bb0afad.jpg

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i c your mars in aries is at 29 degrees, what does it do? does it make you like a mature mars in aries or a super one?

posted October 07, 2013 05:36 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
You sexy MF! I like that combo! Pluto in the 1st too?

What are your Venus/Mars? What Houses?

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explain why you like that combo?

my venus is in sag 3rd house.

my mars and pluto is in scorpio 1st house conjunct.

why dont you post up your chart as well.

posted October 07, 2013 05:48 PM            

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Originally posted by Plutonic Capricorn:
explain why you like that combo?

my venus is in sag 3rd house.

my mars and pluto is in scorpio 1st house conjunct.

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So you are...

Cap Sun
Cancer Moon
Libra ASC
Sag Venus
Mars Scorpio?

Yeah...sounds HOT to me.

We share some things in common (Cancer Moon, Libra ASC), but we are different too, in a good way.

I adore Scorpio-Mars. And not just because of 'the sex' but because of the depth of mind...the intensity of the spirit. Yep!

Capricorn males are usually take-charge & principled, and I admire that! I cannot stand a man who is a pushover!

posted October 07, 2013 05:53 PM            

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Originally posted by Plutonic Capricorn:
here's my chart
http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=jfav6b&s=4#.UlMY79LwakI

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You also have SATURN in Scorpio in your 1st House. You are a TRIPLE Scorpion?!