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Topic: Venus/Saturn natal aspects
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NeptunianSag
Knowflake Posts: 248
From: Your imagination
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 21, 2013 02:09 PM
  
I have the conjunct, I feel ugly as sin, i have to try abit harder for people to like me, although it does work, there's always some nervousness involved like questions "will they like me?" ect, afraid of rejection.I wonder if the trine still has the feeling of being "ugly?" IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 5661
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted October 21, 2013 02:12 PM
I have the square. These aspects can zap self confidence.IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
Knowflake Posts: 4070
From:
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted October 21, 2013 02:19 PM
I too have the conjunction. I don’t care about opinions of other people. I set my own standards and I feel ugly if I can’t meet them. My questions are like “ will I like myself?” .IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 3509
From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted October 21, 2013 02:20 PM
I have a wide conjunction and a complicated relationship with my body too.------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag
Knowflake Posts: 248
From: Your imagination
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 21, 2013 02:22 PM
quote:
Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
I have a wide conjunction and a complicated relationship with my body too.
It's awful, causes alot of paranoia and anxiety with people. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 3509
From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted October 21, 2013 02:26 PM
I don't know. I don't obsess over being liked by others.------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
Knowflake Posts: 4070
From:
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted October 21, 2013 02:30 PM
NeptunianSag, do you have Libra ASC?IP: Logged |
IrisRainbow
Knowflake Posts: 584
From: Pluto
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted October 21, 2013 02:30 PM
I have Venus sextile Saturn which I kind of like in my chart because my venus is in gemini and so is my mars(they are in conjunction)so this reduces the ''flying around".I don't think I am ugly but sometimes I catch myself looking for flaws(on my face mostly) and saying smth like ''Oh a plastic. surgery could help this...or this..or that..'' I am somewhat a perfectionist in everything since saturn touches all my personal planets expect moon and mars. IP: Logged |
Delilah423
Knowflake Posts: 41
From:
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 21, 2013 02:37 PM
I have the conjunction, and if people don't like me because of how I look, that's their problem/loss.Although I don't think I look ugly. IP: Logged |
DaniPepper87
Knowflake Posts: 677
From: Curitiba, Brasil
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 21, 2013 02:47 PM
quote:
Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
I have a wide conjunction and a complicated relationship with my body too.
I have the conjunction too... in the 1st house..  Feel ugly and fat.. Cappy, where's your Venus-Saturn Conjunction?  IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 3509
From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted October 21, 2013 02:48 PM
In the 5th  Let's see a surgeon together! ------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag
Knowflake Posts: 248
From: Your imagination
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 21, 2013 02:50 PM
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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
NeptunianSag, do you have Libra ASC?
Yes i do, so it feels worse, as i want to be liked, not popular, but i just want people to see i'm a nice person, but with the conjunction it's much harder to receive appreciation. Libra's feed on appreciation.
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StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 5661
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted October 21, 2013 02:51 PM
quote:
Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
Yes i do, so it feels worse, as i want to be liked, not popular, but i just want people to see i'm a nice person, but with the conjunction it's much harder to receive appreciation. Libra's feed on appreciation.
Oh yes me too I am a Libra riser and I have a harsh aspect between Saturn and Venus. It does interfere with the social, outgoing nature of Libra. It blocks it from time to time, or makes you work harder to express it for various reasons due largely to circumstance. IP: Logged |
DaniPepper87
Knowflake Posts: 677
From: Curitiba, Brasil
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 21, 2013 02:53 PM
quote:
Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
In the 5th Let's see a surgeon together!
\o/ Let's!! I "blame" this conjunction to late my love life. I'm turning 26 in November and I had no commited boyfriend. And having Venus in the 1st, things don't go easy alone... IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 3509
From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted October 21, 2013 02:53 PM
Ouch...My condolences. quote:
Originally posted by DaniPepper87:
\o/ Let's!!I "blame" this conjunction to late my love life. I'm turning 26 in November and I had no commited boyfriend. And having Venus in the 1st, things don't go easy alone...
Don't worry. I'm over 20, a virgin and forever alone  So it could've been worse.
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I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 7104
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 21, 2013 02:55 PM
I kind like how my s.o has venus sextile saturn..I don't think I could date someone that was too superficial and into themselves.
I tend to respect people who don't care about being attractive and popular even though they are lol. IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag
Knowflake Posts: 248
From: Your imagination
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 21, 2013 02:58 PM
quote:
Originally posted by DaniPepper87:
\o/ Let's!!I "blame" this conjunction to late my love life. I'm turning 26 in November and I had no commited boyfriend. And having Venus in the 1st, things don't go easy alone...
*Hugs* I've had relationships although they were very passionless and just material based for fear of being alone, but now i don't mind being single, i think this aspect makes us be with the right person in the end, i know i'm choosey at this stage in my life. With all the aspects in my chart the only thing i'll settle for is a soulmate, where there is actual love, not just for material or fear of being alone reasons.
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DaniPepper87
Knowflake Posts: 677
From: Curitiba, Brasil
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 21, 2013 03:02 PM
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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
*Hugs* I've had relationships although they were very passionless and just material based for fear of being alone, but now i don't mind being single, i think this aspect makes us be with the right person in the end, i know i'm choosey at this stage in my life.
 Thanks for the hug! I was needing it! Well, I agree with you. I had some relationships, that fear of being alone. I'm still recovering from my last one, heartbroken here... But I let the Spirituality deals with the Right One for me. I'll try to feel right being single. =D
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DaniPepper87
Knowflake Posts: 677
From: Curitiba, Brasil
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 21, 2013 03:05 PM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Ouch...My condolences. Don't worry. I'm over 20, a virgin and forever alone So it could've been worse.
Wow! I'm a virgin too I noticed this aspect makes me feel attracted for older men. My last boyfriend is 3 years younger, but has Cap Rising.. O.o IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag
Knowflake Posts: 248
From: Your imagination
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 21, 2013 03:07 PM
quote:
Originally posted by DaniPepper87:
Thanks for the hug! I was needing it! Well, I agree with you. I had some relationships, that fear of being alone. I'm still recovering from my last one, heartbroken here... But I let the Spirituality deals with the Right One for me. I'll try to feel right being single. =D
Your welcome It's been a few months since my last relationship, i'm trying not to give in to this aspect, so far i've felt lonely but im trying my best to get involved with other people and building self worth instead of going to partners for insecurity reasons, it is NOT easy, i feel paranoid of rejection. I don't know how long it will last, partnerships increase my happiness alot compared to being single.
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Plutonic Capricorn
Knowflake Posts: 340
From: Quirky
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted October 21, 2013 03:10 PM
aaahhw you guapas are way too cuteIP: Logged |
NeptunianSag
Knowflake Posts: 248
From: Your imagination
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 21, 2013 03:11 PM
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Originally posted by Plutonic Capricorn:
aaahhw you guapas are way too cute
We are in need of love :'( IP: Logged |
DaniPepper87
Knowflake Posts: 677
From: Curitiba, Brasil
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 21, 2013 03:12 PM
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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
Your welcome It's been a few months since my last relationship, i'm trying not to give in to this aspect, so far i've felt lonely but im trying my best to get involved with other people and building self worth instead of going to partners for insecurity reasons, it is NOT easy, i feel paranoid of rejection. I don't know how long it will last, partnerships increase my happiness alot compared to being single.
Yeah! Partnerships makes me feel very very happy! Just being in love makes me feel the queen of the world (Titanic movie came in my mind now! :P). I'm trying to make new friends , going out... to try to forget the last one. Do you mind if I ask what house your conjunction lies?
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DaniPepper87
Knowflake Posts: 677
From: Curitiba, Brasil
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 21, 2013 03:16 PM
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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
We are in need of love :'(
How about a BIG HUG among all Venus/Saturn people here?? IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag
Knowflake Posts: 248
From: Your imagination
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 21, 2013 03:17 PM
quote:
Originally posted by DaniPepper87:
Yeah! Partnerships makes me feel very very happy! Just being in love makes me feel the queen of the world (Titanic movie came in my mind now! :P). I'm trying to make new friends , going out... to try to forget the last one. Do you mind if I ask what house your conjunction lies?
4th house ^^ i think it's a difficult house for saturn, i never feel secure.
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