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Topic: Fall, detriment, affliction and other cute things
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peachbeigeblue
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posted November 02, 2013 10:20 PM
  
My Jupiter is in detriment but is dignified in its' own face.
Gemini 2 degrees
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I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 3012
From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 02, 2013 10:20 PM
BarbieMaybe. But I'm wondering for how long. It would be kinda frustrating for the person whose needs are not satisfied. Btw, work on keeping secrets if it was a secret ^^
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nove731
Knowflake Posts: 166
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Registered: Jun 2009
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posted November 02, 2013 10:21 PM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
nove, you won this thread 
So I guess I don't need to post my crappy aspects to bolster my credentials...?  hahaha quote:
Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
Well... kinda, lol.I do have Venus in Libra and Mars in Scorpio, so this can add to this. What I desire sexually, is different than what I desire romantically. (I guess that's how I feel) I compartmentalize the two for sure though. Like if I truly love a girl, I feel like if I have sex, I'm degrading her in a way, while a ***** I would feel like they don't value love anyway, might as well treat them like a sexual object. (That was kinda mean I know) I just feel that love is much more than sex, while sex is it's lowest form. That's just my opinion. But then again, I think I can live without sex. Lol.
I can actually really identify with this. I have a similar combination, but in reverse: I have my Venus in Pisces and my Mars in Aquarius. What turns me on in a guy (Aquarius) is totally at odds with my romantic inclinations (Pisces). It totally doesn't help that Venus also squares my Moon in Sag. Usually this means that I end up in relationships with guys that I'm attracted to or have great sex with, but that I don't care for deeply/respect, or I'm with guys that I really care about, but that just don't turn me on and/or we do not enjoy the same things sexually. Ugh IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 1845
From: 👾🔮The Moon
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 10:24 PM
I didn't know it was a secret. I still wish I were!  IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 3012
From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 02, 2013 10:27 PM
Lol. If he talked here about it then I don't get this drama.Anyway, I have Venus in Aquarius and Mars in Taurus but they trine each other so that probably that helps. I also have Moon square Venus (same element though). I didn't notice this conflict in me but I'm not really experienced so maybe I'll be surprised  ------------------
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Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 1845
From: 👾🔮The Moon
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 10:29 PM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
BarbieMaybe. But I'm wondering for how long. It would be kinda frustrating for the person whose needs are not satisfied. Btw, work on keeping secrets if it was a secret ^^
It wouldn't matter how long if they're compatible. They'd still get enjoyment no matter what they're doing right? Lol IP: Logged |
MsPrism
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posted November 02, 2013 10:31 PM
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Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
I just feel that love is much more than sex, while sex is it's lowest form. That's just my opinion.
Sex literally does stem from our lower form. The Sacral chakra rules sex but love is ruled by the Heart chakra. Our animal nature is ruled by the Root which is Survival, Sacral which is sex/creation and Solar Plexus which is willpower, which start from the base of the spine up to the stomach. On from here are the Heart, Throat, 3rd Eye and Crown chakras. The Heart rules love, the Throat communication, the 3rd Intuition and the Crown Spirituality. Love IS more than sex but the physical body wants to represent that higher form of expression with the lower form's physicality. It's the merging of masculine and feminine, like a battery needing both negative and positive poles. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 3012
From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 02, 2013 10:33 PM
Prism
Kids, don't do casual sex, it makes holes in your etheric body 
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So I guess I don't need to post my crappy aspects to bolster my credentials...? hahaha
You can if you like. I'm all ears...I mean, eyes. I feed off others' misery
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Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 1884
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 11:06 PM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
nove, you won this thread
Merc, sounds like you do suffer from this syndrome. Try to think about it this way - sex is a beautiful expression of love (if love is present). And it doesn't even have to be vanilla. There's nothing wrong about being a little rough or kinky. If your girlfriend wouldn't like it that would simply mean you're not sexually compatible. THIS is the problem. Where is your Moon?
Gemini Moon Edit - I just noticed Barbie said it already, lol. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 1845
From: 👾🔮The Moon
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 11:08 PM
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Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
Gemini MoonEdit - I just noticed Barbie said it already, lol.
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Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 1884
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 11:09 PM
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
I disagree it doesn't mean that they'd be sexually incompatible it just means that the girl wouldn't like it. A person can not like something that someone does and still be sexually compatible with the other person. He has Gemini moon and he's also a Virgin so how can he know what he likes if he's never had sex before?
It's not that I don't like how sex feels, just that I view it differently than other people.
Sure, it will feel good physically, but I view it differently. IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 1884
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 11:11 PM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
If that's a big part of someone's sexuality then it's hard to talk about compability. I didn't know Merc was a virgin.
You didn't know I was a Virgo!? Lol jk, I know what you meant Virgin and proud. No really, I actually am.
I can stand here and say I don't ever care to have it, unless she wants it. Then I will do it for her, not for me. IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 1884
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 11:12 PM
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
I'm sorry sweetheart if you didn't want me to say anything.  if it's a big part of someone's sexuality and they are compatible with the other person and care for that person then they'd let up on them about that and both parties involved should work it out.
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Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 1845
From: 👾🔮The Moon
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 11:13 PM
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It's not that I don't like how sex feels, just that I view it differently than other people.
Sure, it will feel good physically, but I view it differently.I'm sorry if I offended you by telling other people I didn't mean to if I did IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 1884
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 11:16 PM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
BarbieMaybe. But I'm wondering for how long. It would be kinda frustrating for the person whose needs are not satisfied. Btw, work on keeping secrets if it was a secret ^^
No, I would do it for her, but not for me.
If she asked for it, I'll happily give it to her. I'm doing it to make her happy because that's what makes me happy. Sounds really inappropriate; "give it to her"
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Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 1884
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 11:21 PM
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Originally posted by nove731:
I can actually really identify with this. I have a similar combination, but in reverse: I have my Venus in Pisces and my Mars in Aquarius. What turns me on in a guy (Aquarius) is totally at odds with my romantic inclinations (Pisces). It totally doesn't help that Venus also squares my Moon in Sag. Usually this means that I end up in relationships with guys that I'm attracted to or have great sex with, but that I don't care for deeply/respect, or I'm with guys that I really care about, but that just don't turn me on and/or we do not enjoy the same things sexually. Ugh
Yeah.
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Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 1845
From: 👾🔮The Moon
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 11:22 PM
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Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
No, I would do it for her, but not for me.
If she asked for it, I'll happily give it to her. I'm doing it to make her happy because that's what makes me happy.Sounds really inappropriate; "give it to her"
you're so cute and so romantic. I understand what you mean lol IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 1884
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 11:25 PM
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Originally posted by MsPrism:
Sex literally does stem from our lower form. The Sacral chakra rules sex but love is ruled by the Heart chakra. Our animal nature is ruled by the Root which is Survival, Sacral which is sex/creation and Solar Plexus which is willpower, which start from the base of the spine up to the stomach. On from here are the Heart, Throat, 3rd Eye and Crown chakras. The Heart rules love, the Throat communication, the 3rd Intuition and the Crown Spirituality. Love IS more than sex but the physical body wants to represent that higher form of expression with the lower form's physicality. It's the merging of masculine and feminine, like a battery needing both negative and positive poles.
Yeah I was thinking of it in a scientific way as in sex is instinctual and primitive as it is the cornerstone of evolution. Which isn't intellect based.
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Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 1884
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 11:28 PM
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
you're so cute and so romantic. I understand what you mean lol
Thanks and I'm glad you understand I just feel like do you love me for me as in my mind, or me as in my penis and body? IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 1845
From: 👾🔮The Moon
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 11:32 PM
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Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
Thanks and I'm glad you understand I just feel like do you love me for me as in my mind, or me as in my penis and body?
What about all three your mind of course always being first lol IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 1884
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 11:38 PM
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
What about all three your mind of course always being first lol
I knew you or someone was going to say that, lol. Plus you being a Libra, will pick the middle path, lol. No, I went into the relationship for her mind, not her body, so I expect the same.
I look at sex and think of animals to be quite honest. And yes I know humans are technically animals s well, but should we not fight our instincts and surcome to the same thing and think sex is such a great and very important thing? Sure, we can have sex, but for enjoyments as in a game that just feels physically better. But not for emotions or love, that's just not how I see it. Sex is not what makes me feel like you love me. IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 1884
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 11:38 PM
dp mistake and posted trice
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Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 1884
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posted November 02, 2013 11:39 PM
dp mistake and posted trice IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 1845
From: 👾🔮The Moon
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 11:41 PM
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Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
I knew you or someone was going to say that, lol. Plus you being a Libra, will pick the middle path, lol.No, I went into the relationship for her mind, not her body, so I expect the same.
I look at sex and think of animals to be quite honest. And yes I know human are technically animals s well, but should we not fight our instincts and surcome to tha same thing and think sex is such a great and vey important thing. Sure, we can have sex, but for enjoyments as in a game that just feels physically better. But not for emotions or love, that's just not how I see it.
Hahaha how'd you know. If I had to pick one I'd go with your mind. I understand what you mean. Sex when in love with the person is the most beautiful thing. I agree with it being for enjoyment that's what it has to be for me or none at all. IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 1884
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 11:44 PM
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
Hahaha how'd you know. If I had to pick one I'd go with your mind. I understand what you mean. Sex when in love with the person is the most beautiful thing. I agree with it being for enjoyment that's what it has to be for me or none for me.
But people see it as very important in a relationship, I don't. That will mean video games are important, which they are not, lmao. (since sex is only a game to me if in a relationship, selfish desire if not in a relationship. hence using them) You don't need video games to have fun. You can go out, sports, etc.
Just like you don't need sex in a relationship to say and feel that you both love each other. IP: Logged |
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