posted November 08, 2013 01:59 AM            

I feel like I have a weak sense of identity despite the fact that I find the notion of a solid identity important.

What I mean by that is, sometimes it's hard for me to know what I really like, what I'm really into. I take on other people's traits and even their interests easily, then later on, I realize what I've done and try to figure out "Do I like that or am I just latching onto what they like?"

posted November 08, 2013 03:46 AM            

I'm not easily swayed, even when I probably should be. I'm the opposite side of the spectrum and that brings problems, too.

In case you aren't familiar - If you go to the a Pullen Astrolog section in astro.com you can find what percentage each modality in your chart is. You can also see the strengths of all your planets and the signs. This might give you some understanding.

Astro.com>Free horoscopes>horoscope drawings and calculation>extended chart selection

posted November 08, 2013 07:59 AM            

I've even taken on other people's mannerisms at times. It's very frustrating because it feels like I have no idea who I am, which is partly why I got into astrology in the first place.

Hmmm, what is up with your ascendant?

If the Ascendant is in Pisces or is conjunct Neptune(which is potent), that could explain this.

If the Ascendant ruler is in the 12th house. This could also be it.

If the MC is close to Neptune or is in Pisces, it could also cause great confusion with regards to direction and identity.

If the ruler of the 10th house is in the 12th house- this could also be it.

Look/contrast and compare.

Also included is Sun in Pisces/Sun in 12th or Sun aspecting Neptune.

Ruler of the Sun is found in 12th house or aspected by Neptune with as square/ conjunction/ opposition.

posted November 08, 2013 12:03 PM            

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Originally posted by PeterPan:
Everyone does this to a certain degree, some more than others. I Think mutable signs are most prone to this tough.

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Did this in part for you:
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum34/HTML/001499.html

posted November 08, 2013 12:51 PM            

I've met quite a number of people like that, but was never that myself. I have a lot of Mutable energy with Gemini Rising, Virgo Moon, and three planets in Sagittarius.

In a way, it seems to be about empathy. You overly relate to people taking on their attributes and then wondering what happened. I have only done that in relationships with Cancers. I would subvert parts of my personality, so that their personality could shine through.

I'm going to guess that perhaps a water element is at play. Otherwise, it just seems as if you're truly fascinated by people to the point of copying them. I don't think this will be a permanent thing for you. I think you will discover your strengths over time, and start to assert yourself.

Another angle is that you're seeking acceptance, and by mirroring people you hope they like you more. You see that kind of behavior a lot in male white artists that do music in a black genre. Macklemore talking to Stephen Colbert doesn't use much slang at all, but Macklemore talking to bongoboy (whoever that is) uses a lot of slang. Same is true for Eminem or JT. Just trying to relate to the audience effectively, I think.

posted November 08, 2013 12:58 PM            

My chart is highly mutable. Apparently I'm a 7 when 6 is already highly mutable. http://astrolibrary.org/elements/

Also, I have my sun ruler, Jupiter, conjunct Neptune and my sun conjunct Neptune as listed above.

posted November 08, 2013 01:12 PM            

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Originally posted by AscTaurus:
[b]Does anyone else relate to this?
I feel like I have a weak sense of identity despite the fact that I find the notion of a solid identity important.

What I mean by that is, sometimes it's hard for me to know what I really like, what I'm really into. I take on other people's traits and even their interests easily, then later on, I realize what I've done and try to figure out "Do I like that or am I just latching onto what they like?"

I've even taken on other people's mannerisms at times. It's very frustrating because it feels like I have no idea who I am, which is partly why I got into astrology in the first place.

Hmmm, what is up with your ascendant?

If the Ascendant is in Pisces or is conjunct Neptune(which is potent), that could explain this.

If the Ascendant ruler is in the 12th house. This could also be it.

If the MC is close to Neptune or is in Pisces, it could also cause great confusion with regards to direction and identity.

If the ruler of the 10th house is in the 12th house- this could also be it.

Look/contrast and compare.

Also included is Sun in Pisces/Sun in 12th or Sun aspecting Neptune.

Ruler of the Sun is found in 12th house or aspected by Neptune with as square/ conjunction/ opposition.

Have fun exploring[/B]

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My ASC is Cancer opposite Neptune. MC is Pisces. Sun is in Capricorn conjunct Neptune. Saturn is conjunct Neptune.

posted November 08, 2013 01:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Ellynlvx:
LIbra?

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posted November 08, 2013 01:21 PM            

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Originally posted by orocairion:
I'm as mutable as they come(Sag stellium, Pisces Asc+Neptune conj. Sun) but I don't think one could be called easily influenced. I know what I like, enjoy and who I am but I have no problem adapting myself and incorporating other things as my own if I find them to be fulfulling or enjoyable.

As long as you really enjoy it whatever it might be, doesn't matter where you got it from, in my opinion.

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That would be my ideal.

posted November 08, 2013 01:29 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
I'm very mutable.
The fact I can do all those things is why I am have so many friends and acquaintances.
I can relate to anyone.
I've had people tell me they have never met anyone so similar to themselves, it's amazing how people react from mirroring their gestures.
It's kinda fun too.

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It's a gift when you use it well and knowingly.

I used to mimic my teacher's writing/speech habits when writing essays for school and they always ended up loving it.

posted November 08, 2013 02:35 PM            

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Originally posted by moonlightx:
That would be my ideal.

I do enjoy most of these things (ex: hobbies), but sometimes it's troubling, like when I take on someone's negative mood/feelings.

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posted November 08, 2013 05:48 PM            

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Originally posted by moonlightx:
Does anyone else relate to this?

I feel like I have a weak sense of identity despite the fact that I find the notion of a solid identity important.

What I mean by that is, sometimes it's hard for me to know what I really like, what I'm really into. I take on other people's traits and even their interests easily, then later on, I realize what I've done and try to figure out "Do I like that or am I just latching onto what they like?"

I've even taken on other people's mannerisms at times. It's very frustrating because it feels like I have no idea who I am, which is partly why I got into astrology in the first place.

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I DO I DO!

Neptune.
Neptune.
Neptune.

Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, Saturn and Pluto all aspecting Neptune.

I know what I like when no one is around but if I meet a new person I start taking on their personality and moods… super annoying.

posted November 08, 2013 07:03 PM            

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Originally posted by moonlightx:
My ASC is Cancer opposite Neptune. MC is Pisces. Sun is in Capricorn conjunct Neptune. Saturn is conjunct Neptune.

I never really escape Neptune despite my Saturnine influences. It anchors me after the fact that I've melded with someone else.

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Hey I'm also Cancer ASC opposite Neptune with sun in Cap conjunct Neptune and Saturn. My MC is Pisces too. I can definitely relate...

Although I'm getting to a point where I'm realllly annoyed with always being content to just blend in and not really asserting myself so I'm hoping this can change lol

What's your moon sign and how is it aspected? Also is your sun in your 7th house?