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LionFish
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posted November 10, 2013 07:24 AM
  
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Originally posted by vickymadness:
For how long do you retreat? I can take up to 3 weeks without any single word and sometimes one month if I am busy.
Playing hard to get is good, I approve, but you really need to know how to balance. Otherwise she'll think you lost interest in her and that's when she looks for it somewhere else.
uhm... how about you give her attention and make her feel special for days, then ignore her ... even if she contacts you act busy or cold. This always gets me 
3 weeks!?!? Omg if I was on the receiving (or non-receiving I suppose, lol) end of that I would go absolutely crazy. For about the first week. And then I would get mad, then get over it. 3 weeks - a month is FAR too long IMO. If you don't show interest mine disappears quickly. I do however agree with what vicky said about making her feel special for a few days and then shutting down. Don't be too cold or harsh because your Aries could take it to mean you just don't give a **** . Answer if she contacts you, but give a short response saying you'll contact her later. Again, I don't recommend playing this game for too long, otherwise her interest will be piqued by someone new. IP: Logged |
Josh LA
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From: Dale City, Va
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 10, 2013 10:23 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Why does it seem like he already has a fan base here?
Lol, I hope people like me here on LL! IP: Logged |
Josh LA
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posted November 10, 2013 10:27 AM
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Originally posted by vickymadness:
Okay. for me it's normal. I have only sun and mercury in Aries, but I act weird when I'm interested in someone... because I feel uncomfortable dealing with emotions, our sign is masculine after all. I will retreat for a while just to double check my feelings, if I find myself attached to you then I will come back, and it would be pretty intense.I'm very jealous, not out of insecurity, but possession. I hate the fact other women are sharing, it's just NO.
To me, a man that is rough around the edges, is hot. on a side note, I had the time of my life when I was in a relationship with a Sag. The energy between us was flowing flawlessly.
Ok this is interesting because this kinda happened, we took a long break then went back to talking I did the reconnect, I felt bad. Not sure if this is just friendship though although I will say that is not my intention. And I don't think its hers she has never used the word friend. I have dealt with Aries females and they are a bit odd. IP: Logged |
Josh LA
Knowflake Posts: 69
From: Dale City, Va
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 10, 2013 10:28 AM
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Originally posted by vickymadness:
For how long do you retreat? I can take up to 3 weeks without any single word and sometimes one month if I am busy.
Playing hard to get is good, I approve, but you really need to know how to balance. Otherwise she'll think you lost interest in her and that's when she looks for it somewhere else.
uhm... how about you give her attention and make her feel special for days, then ignore her ... even if she contacts you act busy or cold. This always gets me
Well she'll start a conversation out of nowhere, lol. Sometimes and I mean ....sometimes I do that but not often. IP: Logged |
Josh LA
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posted November 10, 2013 10:30 AM
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Originally posted by LionFish:
I'm an Aries Venus and I'm gonna go with this answer for your question: Playing hard to get is only good for a while. Aries DOES love to chase and be chased, but eventually we want to know that the chasing/flirting [b]meant something. How long has she known how you feel about her? btw, welcome to LL  [/B]
Well for a little while I guess, and who said I was playing hard to get? Lol, switch that around. IP: Logged |
Josh LA
Knowflake Posts: 69
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Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 10, 2013 10:31 AM
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Originally posted by LionFish:
3 weeks!?!? Omg if I was on the receiving (or non-receiving I suppose, lol) end of that I would go absolutely crazy. For about the first week. And then I would get mad, then get over it. 3 weeks - a month is FAR too long IMO. If you don't show interest mine disappears quickly.I do however agree with what vicky said about making her feel special for a few days and then shutting down. Don't be [b]too cold or harsh because your Aries could take it to mean you just don't give a **** . Answer if she contacts you, but give a short response saying you'll contact her later. Again, I don't recommend playing this game for too long, otherwise her interest will be piqued by someone new. [/B]
^^^^^ Haven't done that yet, don't want to be rude ya know. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted November 10, 2013 12:38 PM
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Originally posted by vickymadness:
For how long do you retreat? I can take up to 3 weeks without any single word and sometimes one month if I am busy.
Playing hard to get is good, I approve, but you really need to know how to balance. Otherwise she'll think you lost interest in her and that's when she looks for it somewhere else.
uhm... how about you give her attention and make her feel special for days, then ignore her ... even if she contacts you act busy or cold. This always gets me
I have to admit, I agree with this.
 Be sweet and attentive, then just pull away for a day or 2 not very long, and not in a rude why..
The object is just to keep her wondering..
Keep u in her head..
She will wonder what changed or happen .. If she texts you, then be nice, but to busy to talk..
Something like,..
Hi, I really want to chat, but I'm tied up right now, I'll call you as soon as i can..
Then call in 2 days... It drives us crazy... It drives men crazy to.. I admit I do this to fishy all the time, every time I do, he's like wtf ..
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vickymadness
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From: Minnesota
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 10, 2013 01:28 PM
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Originally posted by Josh LA:
Well she'll start a conversation out of nowhere, lol. Sometimes and I mean ....sometimes I do that but not often.
Well if she does start contacting when you do this, then chances she likes you. When people don't contact me, I won't -and I really mean it- contact them back for so long, and maybe never, unless something major happened or I like them or they mean a lot to me. We are not people pleasers, or will talk to you just " for the sake of it", time is important to us, hence we won't waste it on unimportant people.
Playing hard to get or ignoring an Aries will NOT work unless they are interested in you, to begin with. Don't move on before telling her how you feel word by word, what's the worst that could happen ? you're moving on anyway, right ? Maybe she's waiting for you to tell.
I really take one of the extreme two roads in a relationship, I either chase ( not so often) or sit there and play hard to get and enjoy being chased ( most of the time). On a side note; I really I'm surrounded by many men, and I assume non likes me... this is how my mentality works,because I'm used to male's attention, I will be oblivious to their advances and assume it's a playful friendly act. Unless you speak the words ... then I will know. Am I helping you?
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vickymadness
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posted November 10, 2013 01:41 PM
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Originally posted by LionFish:
3 weeks!?!? Omg if I was on the receiving (or non-receiving I suppose, lol) end of that I would go absolutely crazy. For about the first week. And then I would get mad, then get over it. 3 weeks - a month is FAR too long IMO. If you don't show interest mine disappears quickly.
lol, really? I'm pretty sure any Aries will see that period normal. There's actually more to it ...
case1: I know you like me, and if you pull away for so long, then I can take it, I just like it when a tension is increasing and the yearning is growing fonder. case2: I don't know that you like me, then not contacting me for so long will send me the wrong signals and I will assume that you lost interest, and I will definitely move on ..."who's next ?" IP: Logged |
birdy
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posted November 10, 2013 02:14 PM
This thread is weird.IP: Logged |
Josh LA
Knowflake Posts: 69
From: Dale City, Va
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 10, 2013 04:18 PM
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Originally posted by birdy:
This thread is weird.
Why is this thread weird birdy? Maybe you are weird! IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted November 10, 2013 04:44 PM
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Originally posted by Josh LA:
Why is this thread weird birdy? Maybe you are weird!
Because you're in your 30's and have dated Aries women before, yet a lot of women on LL are practically falling all over themselves to give you advice on this one Aries girl. Like you were born yesterday. Rofl IP: Logged |
birdy
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posted November 10, 2013 04:50 PM
I dont think you have a sincere interest in Astrology. I think you're here to flirt.IP: Logged |
Josh LA
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From: Dale City, Va
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 10, 2013 08:01 PM
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Originally posted by birdy:
I dont think you have a sincere interest in Astrology. I think you're here to flirt.
I don't care what you think to be honest. IP: Logged |
Josh LA
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Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 10, 2013 08:06 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Because you're in your 30's and have dated Aries women before, yet a lot of women on LL are practically falling all over themselves to give you advice on this one Aries girl. Like you were born yesterday. Rofl
Just so you know I love you all that gave me advice! The rest of you who stood by and didn't say anything but had something to say...to hell with ya! Oh and I will keep you all posted! I have my doubts about this whole thing and don't think it will be the results I had hoped and sorry if I come off flirting didn't know that was against the rules here....BIRDY!!!!IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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From: 👾🔮The Moon
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 10, 2013 08:09 PM
Whaaaat did I miss lol!! Forgot to warn you friend this forum is filled with a bunch of insecure, envious little ******* . Men included. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted November 10, 2013 08:10 PM
edit.IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted November 10, 2013 08:12 PM
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
Whaaaat did I miss lol!! Forgot to warn you friend this forum is filled with a bunch of insecure, envious little ******* . Men included.
Seeing as how me and Birdy are the only ones who found his behavior a bit odd, you're clearly directing that at me. Sad, I thought we were on better footing than that. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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posted November 10, 2013 08:13 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Seeing as how me and Birdy are the only ones who found his behavior a bit odd, you're clearly directing that at me. Sad, I thought we were on better footing than that.
Take it how you'd like. I wasn't aiming at anyoooone. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted November 10, 2013 08:16 PM
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
Take it how you'd like. I wasn't aiming at anyoooone.
Rofl, so Libra. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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posted November 10, 2013 08:18 PM
RoTflmao!  IP: Logged |
birdy
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posted November 10, 2013 08:36 PM
 Take it as you like, Im not aiming it at anyone. IP: Logged |
birdy
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posted November 10, 2013 08:38 PM
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Just so you know I love you all that gave me advice! The rest of you who stood by and didn't say anything but had something to say...to hell with ya! Oh and I will keep you all posted! I have my doubts about this whole thing and don't think it will be the results I had hoped and sorry if I come off flirting didn't know that was against the rules here....BIRDY!!!!
This is a Astrology forum. Flirting isnt against the rules. I just found your approach strange. If you have a sincere interest, then welcome.
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Barbiegirl19
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posted November 10, 2013 08:39 PM
Hahahahahaha cooooooome on really. Now I see someone's taking that a bit too personally. IP: Logged |
Josh LA
Knowflake Posts: 69
From: Dale City, Va
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 10, 2013 09:03 PM
Hey I just needed some advice..how was my approach wrong? And whats with the picture!?! Is that to me? I guess I need to leave here, I thought you all would be able to help me and most of you gave me good advice, but I don't need this **** ! I know the basics about Astrology but am wondering about the other stuff in the chart I was using my own situation as an example. Sorry I guess I don't belong here.IP: Logged |
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