posted November 10, 2013 09:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Josh LA:
Hey I just needed some advice..how was my approach wrong? And whats with the picture!?! Is that to me? I guess I need to leave here, I thought you all would be able to help me and most of you gave me good advice, but I don't need this **** ! I know the basics about Astrology but am wondering about the other stuff in the chart I was using my own situation as an example. Sorry I guess I don't belong here.

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posted November 10, 2013 09:17 PM            

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Originally posted by birdy:
I dont think you have a sincere interest in Astrology. I think you're here to flirt.

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posted November 10, 2013 09:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Josh LA:
New member..so I am male and this is what I know so far..
Sun: Sag
Moon: Cap
Rising: Taurus
..from that tell me what you know about that placement or if you need more info, thanks! Oh and happy to be on this page and to become enlightened. Please feel free to introduce yourselves to me.

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Hello, I'm a Cap Sun, Sag Moon... I've never met someone with the reverse combo before

Lol sorry just adding fuel the fire, but on a more serious note, if you really are interested in it don't give up on astrology because of one thread!

posted November 10, 2013 10:03 PM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
Hello, I'm a Cap Sun, Sag Moon... I've never met someone with the reverse combo before

Lol sorry just adding fuel the fire, but on a more serious note, if you really are interested in it don't give up on astrology because of one thread!

As for your girl problems, Capricorn wants consistency and security in a relationship, but Sag is afraid of feeling trapped and always has one eye on the door. Sometimes it's easier to be "in love" with someone who is unobtainable but still in your life on a somewhat regular basis (at least this is something I've been prone to doing if I'm completely honest with myself lol) So my advice would be if you know it's not going to work or aren't willing to have that conversation, move on sooner than later before you end up even more hurt...

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posted November 10, 2013 10:24 PM            

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Originally posted by Josh LA:
Thanks for the advice I been toying with that idea for a long while here its difficult to just ignore someone completely, on top of that just very rude and not like me but that may have to happen sooner rather than later. Hate to give up so easily especially with so much time invested. As for this website ...some people already think im here trolling for dates and flirting..I am wondering how that's bad or how is that any of their business. So I may be outta here soon.

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Aww don't leave, you stubborn Taurus ASC lol It's an online forum so there's always gonna be misunderstandings and people who disagree, you just have to take in what's useful and ignore the rest

About the girl, can I ask what's holding you back from telling her how you feel? Even if things don't work out romantically, it's not like you need to ignore her completely.. maybe just find a way to distance yourself a bit, at least emotionally. If you guys are close she should understand if you say you need to take a step back or that the friendship is painful for the time being and you need a little break...

posted November 11, 2013 12:11 AM            

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Originally posted by Josh LA:
http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?lang=e&cid=a4xfile1sd0 vV-u1384047154&nhor=1&btyp=2&stx2=s=outs=24;mth=gw;ls=1;rs=3

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Seriously, you were born like 17 days before me... Only your Moon is at 5 degrees Capricorn while my Sun is at 5 Capricorn, and I have Sagittarius rising. I'm a quiet type of person but I'm also very curious, and I love to study astrology... The Sag intellect is there.

posted November 11, 2013 12:43 AM            

Here's your chart. Okay I just re-read this thread and you kind of answered my question about feeling more Caprilcorn-like.

Okay, our charts show what we're attracted to in others, and I couldn't see any evidence of Aries in the 5th, 7th, and 8th houses which refers to our relationship tastes in three major areas... Romance (5th), partnership (7th), and Intimacy (8th). Well, your Aug 8th Leo ex's personality shows in your chart with you having Leo on the 5th house cusp (which I suppose is good to know).

However, there's this thing called the Vertex Axis in astrology... People who aspect our Vertex Axis, have very head-turning, life-altering impact on us that feels very 'fated', like there's some kind of Synchronicity at hand. It's an electric connection, that hits us like BAM! Even if the relationship doesn't work out, or goes bad, people who influence our Vertex Axis often have a memorable effect on us, and change our perspective in important ways somehow.

In your chart your Vertex is at 19 Libra, and your Antivertex is at 19 Aries! It's an Axis so planets on either end have the same impact! This may be a reason you're so drawn to the Aries ladies. I can't help but wonder if the current one you like has a planet on your Vertex Axis?

Do you want to post your synastry?

posted November 11, 2013 01:18 PM            

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Originally posted by Lotis White:

Here's your chart. Okay I just re-read this thread and you kind of answered my question about feeling more Caprilcorn-like.

Okay, our charts show what we're attracted to in others, and I couldn't see any evidence of Aries in the 5th, 7th, and 8th houses which refers to our relationship tastes in three major areas... Romance (5th), partnership (7th), and Intimacy (8th). Well, your Aug 8th Leo ex's personality shows in your chart with you having Leo on the 5th house cusp (which I suppose is good to know).

However, there's this thing called the Vertex Axis in astrology... People who aspect our Vertex Axis, have very head-turning, life-altering impact on us that feels very 'fated', like there's some kind of Synchronicity at hand. It's an electric connection, that hits us like BAM! Even if the relationship doesn't work out, or goes bad, people who influence our Vertex Axis often have a memorable effect on us, and change our perspective in important ways somehow.

In your chart your Vertex is at 19 Libra, and your Antivertex is at 19 Aries! It's an Axis so planets on either end have the same impact! This may be a reason you're so drawn to the Aries ladies. I can't help but wonder if the current one you like has a planet on your Vertex Axis?

Do you want to post your synastry?

Interestingly, I've got Aries on the 5th house cusp and I just love that sign too. Your Leo on the 5th explains your ex, but the Vertex Axis may explain you current love interest.

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The Leo's exact birthday is 8/8/73 the Aries is 4/8/82

posted November 11, 2013 03:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Josh LA:
Well for a little while I guess, and who said I was playing hard to get? Lol, switch that around.

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Oh, you meant you think she's playing hard to get. Well, that's entirely possible The way it was worded I thought it was you doing the playing. My bad

I still think Vicky has the right idea, though. Like I said...just don't be RUDE about it. If she's really into you, not hearing from you except to tell her you'll talk to her later is going to drive her batty. My ex Leo used to do it to me before we got together and it just made me want him that much more when I finally got my paws on him lol

posted November 11, 2013 03:19 PM            

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Originally posted by vickymadness:
lol, really? I'm pretty sure any Aries will see that period normal. There's actually more to it ...
case1: I know you like me, and if you pull away for so long, then I can take it, I just like it when a tension is increasing and the yearning is growing fonder.

case2: I don't know that you like me, then not contacting me for so long will send me the wrong signals and I will assume that you lost interest, and I will definitely move on ..."who's next ?"

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posted November 11, 2013 04:31 PM            

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Originally posted by Josh LA:
The Leo's exact birthday is 8/8/73 the Aries is 4/8/82

Yea I feel more earthy, I am silly and loved to laugh and make ppl laugh though but with my own preoccupations im usually very serious especially about things I am interested in.

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Hi

I looked up miss Aries's chart for you. Her Moon will not be correct because we don't know her birth time.

As you may remember I mentioned that your Vertex Axis is 19 Libra/19 Aries. Wow, was I ever on to something when I guessed that it was this that drew you to her.

Here are her placements...

Planetary positions
planet sign degree
Sun Aries 18°31'43
Moon Libra 21°48'39
Mercury Aries 15°15'19
Venus Pisces 2°14'07
Mars Libra 7°12'01
Jupiter Scorpio 7°35'25
Saturn Libra 18°56'53
Uranus Sagittarius 4°14'42
Neptune Sagittarius 27°00'58
Pluto Libra 25°45'02
True Node Cancer 17°47'30

posted November 11, 2013 04:35 PM            

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Originally posted by JudyVanTassel:
LotisWhite wow where can i know where is my vetex axis in my chart??

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posted November 11, 2013 07:19 PM            

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Hi

I looked up miss Aries's chart for you. Her Moon will not be correct because we don't know her birth time.

As you may remember I mentioned that your Vertex Axis is 19 Libra/19 Aries. Wow, was I ever on to something when I guessed that it was this that drew you to her.

Here are her placements...

[b]Planetary positions
planet sign degree
Sun Aries 18°31'43
Moon Libra 21°48'39
Mercury Aries 15°15'19
Venus Pisces 2°14'07
Mars Libra 7°12'01
Jupiter Scorpio 7°35'25
Saturn Libra 18°56'53
Uranus Sagittarius 4°14'42
Neptune Sagittarius 27°00'58
Pluto Libra 25°45'02
True Node Cancer 17°47'30

She has a Sun/Saturn opposition. Her Sun at 18 Aries is opposite her Saturn at 18 Libra... This opposition is almost exactly on your Vertex Axis! (only 1 degree of difference) So yeah, it's not the 5th, 7th, and 8th houses that attracted you to her mostly, but rather the Vertex Axis.[/B]

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posted November 11, 2013 08:09 PM            

"In synastry when a person has their Mercury (conscious mind) in your 12th house (unconscious mind) it can be a confusing and unsettling placement for both parties. This can cause major confusion in the communication between partners. The perplexing conversations this position ignites often leaves one or both parties uncertain of the other's intentions. The odd feeling of uncertainty causes all sorts of illusions or feelings thereof. Paranoia is common, something just doesn't feel right. Whether or not these inklings are accurate or not really depends on the personal natures of the people involved. If one or the other person is a "deceptive person" than deception is likely or at least very possible. You would need to look at the individual charts of the parties involved for signs of this and also the composite. It is important to seek the truth and not get lost in the smoke and mirrors. It is also important that you communicate with each other as best and honestly as possible. Separate the fact from illusion. Don't sabotage and bring to fruition the very nature of your paranoia by making accusations that are not there as well. Caution does need to be implemented however, because this person has a key to your backdoor. They will know things about you that you may not have known yourself, they have access to your unconscious mind. "

posted November 11, 2013 08:28 PM            

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Her sun and mercury are in your 12th house (Aries/libra is also intercepted in your chart) which might be partly responsible for the difficulty in knowing where things stand...

"In synastry when a person has their Mercury (conscious mind) in your 12th house (unconscious mind) it can be a confusing and unsettling placement for both parties. This can cause major confusion in the communication between partners. The perplexing conversations this position ignites often leaves one or both parties uncertain of the other's intentions. The odd feeling of uncertainty causes all sorts of illusions or feelings thereof. Paranoia is common, something just doesn't feel right. Whether or not these inklings are accurate or not really depends on the personal natures of the people involved. If one or the other person is a "deceptive person" than deception is likely or at least very possible. You would need to look at the individual charts of the parties involved for signs of this and also the composite. It is important to seek the truth and not get lost in the smoke and mirrors. It is also important that you communicate with each other as best and honestly as possible. Separate the fact from illusion. Don't sabotage and bring to fruition the very nature of your paranoia by making accusations that are not there as well. Caution does need to be implemented however, because this person has a key to your backdoor. They will know things about you that you may not have known yourself, they have access to your unconscious mind. "

http://illumeastrology.blogspot.com/2012/05/synastry-mercury-in-12th-house-mental.ht ml?m=1

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posted November 12, 2013 03:04 PM            

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[QUOTE]Whats with the Aries/Libra placements? Why is that confusing or why can that be confusing? I know that Aries/Libra are opposites..don't know alot about Libras they seem odd to me, don't even know alot of Libras. We know alot of personal things about each other, it was easy to open up and especially on her end. But I think I am a very easy person to talk to and open up to.Would one of us be covering something up or lying to the other?

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Well I can see why you’d be drawn to Aries… Your South Node (traits you’ve strongly developed and feel most comfortable with, but need to move away from in order to grow/evolve) is in Aries, and the North Node is always opposite the SN, so in your case it’s in Libra. (NN shows what we need to develop, sort of a main “life lesson”)

As for why it would be confusing, 12th house is one of the hardest to understand since it’s the house of the unconscious, so it is things that are “in the shadows” so to speak which can be fears, self-undoing, spirituality, etc. When someone has planets in your 12th house it’s easy for them to see what you have “hidden” or vice-versa, which might be unsettling for one or both of you, but can still create a deep, other worldly type of bond.. In my experience the planet person usually has the upper hand in some way, and trust can become an issue because feeling like there’s nothing you can hide from someone, whether or not you know their own intentions, puts you in a vulnerable position… It doesn’t mean there will automatically be lying or deception, just that if this were the case, it would be easy to use that deep understanding of the other person to your advantage. On the flip side, the relationship itself can be “hidden” from others in some way, so 12th house synastry can sometimes be associated with affairs or secretive relationships, although of course that’s not always the case…

Anyway, in general I’d say Aries might not be the best match for you, but it really depends on the individual person/circumstances and the chart overall. Feel free to post the synastry and composite if you want!