posted December 23, 2013 02:49 PM            

Mum - Scorpio 4deg Sun/Merc
Dad - Leo Sun 4 deg and Mars 10deg, Saturn Sco 7 deg
Me - Aqu Sun/Merc 2 deg, Uranus 7 deg Sco

posted December 23, 2013 03:09 PM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:

I think having that conjunction on my ascendant with Jupiter and Uranus gave me a lot of nerve verbally. I did have a smart mouth and got slapped a lot.

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I can relate.

I have Mars square my ASC. Sun trine Uranus also. So I was a very independent child in some ways. Add in Saturn sextile ASC - I thought I was grown!!

posted December 23, 2013 03:21 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
I have Mars square Uranus.
When I turned 15 I was pretty much doing my own thing..
They could not really tell me what I can or can't do because I use to move out LMFAO.. They would rather me be around so they can look out for me etc..

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Do you have a ton of Uranus influence?

I guess the double Gemini could be the culprit too, though.

posted December 23, 2013 03:39 PM            

I have mars in the 4th. 4th house ruler oppose chiron, conjunct Saturn n Uranus.

Mom's 4th is in gem, mercury opposition to Uranus and conjunct mars. Her 5th house is in cancer, moon in the 1st.

Dad has moon in the 5th. 4th house is in pisces, Neptune opposition moon and square mars. 5th house is in aries, mars opposition Uranus .

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When I lived with them it seemed like there could never be a normal conversation lol. It was always surrounded by small dramas to big things like me getting kicked out of school, dramas with the extended family...etc...

sun conj Uranus, I've had a problem with the culture and a lot of other things. I pretty much gave them headaches just being me.

I was angry, then I became exasperated and I was like "Ok I give up".

posted December 23, 2013 05:22 PM            

When I was little I honestly worshipped my mom (cancer asc & moon conj. neptune), did everything for her, and used to follow her all the time, but she was verbally and physically (sometimes) abusive for me so I ran away a few times, with my teddy bear and everything

Each time everything came back the same, but when I was a teenager I became distant & she responded with more attacks (mostly verbal).
Then I decided I wasn't gonna take her crap no mo' and responded with biting sarcasm (mercury in scorpio conj. pluto... this is MY s***).
Then she starts painting herself as the victim and becomes nicer all of a sudden.

Last year, we had a very strained relationship; now I act much more friendly towards her but I don't feel that way. I feel numb, actually.
She has gemini sun and virgo moon conj. uranus/pluto. Our composite and synastry chart reflect our relationship.

My dad has leo sun and capricorn moon, and while I understand his goals because of our synastry, he's manipulative (obsessed with career) and chilly- didn't feel a lot of love from him.

I feel ambivalent about my blood relations in general.

posted December 23, 2013 08:50 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
I can relate.

I have Mars square my ASC. Sun trine Uranus also. So I was a very independent child in some ways. Add in Saturn sextile ASC - I thought I was grown!!

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posted December 23, 2013 08:59 PM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:

Me too! I was convinced I knew EVERYTHING!

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You know what though??

We *DO* know everything - everything that's important.

Looking back, I was right most of the time. I was too young though, so I needed to STFU still. Haha.

posted December 23, 2013 09:45 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
You know what though??

We *DO* know everything - everything that's important.

Looking back, I was right most of the time. I was too young though, so I needed to STFU still. Haha.

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posted December 24, 2013 05:57 AM            

I still love her more when she's away from me, even getting older. I appreciate her presence and I love her dearly, but we clash so badly that it's best we don't see each other often. I find it hard to enjoy talking to her because it seems like she doesn't actually listen to what I say, just thinks about what she'll say next.. Drives me up the freaking wall. But I still do get the pangs and twinges of wanting to talk to her. She is my mother after all

I think this little configuration has something to do with it:

Sag Mars/Uranus conjunct in 5H is quincunx my Taurus Moon in 10H, which in turn sextiles my Pisces Merc in 9H..And to complete the circle, my Mercury squares my Mars/Uranus conjunction.

Knowing the influence of all these aspects, and combining them into one, almost perfectly describes my relationship with my mother.

posted December 24, 2013 06:06 AM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
LOL if you read my post it is not that complex.
it's not the age difference etc.
The things is..they are humans and can possess really annoying traits.

My personality is not very patient but I try not to explode on them..

Oh I would never hit my parents... that would be the end of me 0____0
I think the only reason he hit her is because she spares the rod and spoils the child lol.

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I was thinking about this. I want to know how many Gemini or Gemini influenced people were frustrated with their parents growing up. Think about it - Geminis question everything. Sometimes just to poke, and sometimes because of active minds, etc. That pretty much goes against society's idea of "good" parenting which is your kids never question you, and obey your orders without grief. It wouldn't surprise me to find out Gemini children were seen as rebellious and became frustrated from being misunderstood. They / we just want to be informed is all. I have Mars conj. ASC - yes, I've been in physical fights with my parents. Some you could consider abuse, others weren't necessary but happened anyway.

I have Sun conjunct Mercury, Virgo IC, and Moon opposition Pluto (Pluto in the 5th house.) I also have Sun square Saturn and Neptune. I was a mean kid because I was advanced for my age but often times stifled because of my age. I want to say I resented my mom for being cold towards me growing up and that's why I was mean to her, but I don't really know if i can. I love my mother and would defend her (it's like the state you're from - you can say what you want about it, but anyone else does and those are fightin' words!) but I don't like her. She never liked me either.

posted December 24, 2013 06:56 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I was thinking about this. I want to know how many Gemini or Gemini influenced people were frustrated with their parents growing up. Think about it - Geminis question everything. Sometimes just to poke, and sometimes because of active minds, etc. That pretty much goes against society's idea of "good" parenting which is your kids never question you, and obey your orders without grief. It wouldn't surprise me to find out Gemini children were seen as rebellious and became frustrated from being misunderstood. They / we just want to be informed is all. I have Mars conj. ASC - yes, I've been in physical fights with my parents. Some you could consider abuse, others weren't necessary but happened anyway.

I have Sun conjunct Mercury, Virgo IC, and Moon opposition Pluto (Pluto in the 5th house.) I also have Sun square Saturn and Neptune. I was a mean kid because I was advanced for my age but often times stifled because of my age. I want to say I resented my mom for being cold towards me growing up and that's why I was mean to her, but I don't really know if i can. I love my mother and would defend her (it's like the state you're from - you can say what you want about it, but anyone else does and those are fightin' words!) but I don't like her. She never liked me either.

And yeah I remember that Dr. Phil show. Everyone is so quick to call the kid a brat and it amazes me because you can obviously see the fear in his face after he hits her, leading me to believe it was pure impulse. It's stupid to hold a child to an average standard of behavior when everybody matures differently.

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Good post! I think anyway.

I'm Leo with Gem moon.
Mars and pluto both conjunct Asc. (12th and 1st house respectively)
Mars/Mercury square moon
Sun square Jupiter (rebellion against authority kind of aspect I think?)

I never had TOO much trouble with my parents. Certainly I never physically fought with them. Older siblings though.... different story!

Just like, if I didn't want to go to school I'd walk outside alright but would hide from the bus and walk back in. LOL
If I didn't want to take a test, I didn't. I remember handing one in without even my name on it. She figured it out through process of elimination. (I took school much more seriously in college and had a 3.98 GPA)

posted December 24, 2013 07:21 AM            

Sun square Jupiter - I can see the logic in that, but on the contrary it's like having a Sagittarius sun, and Sagittarius may rebel against traditional authority, or embrace it but they feel strongly about whatever side they DO take. Did you view your dad as not very fun or funny?

posted December 24, 2013 07:41 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Mars and Pluto both conjunct your ASC? Interesting. I suppose that would give you a sort of Mars in Scorpio, but also Scorpio rising or Aries rising - but you displayed the Scorpio traits instead with your parents - self-control.

Sun square Jupiter - I can see the logic in that, but on the contrary it's like having a Sagittarius sun, and Sagittarius may rebel against traditional authority, or embrace it but they feel strongly about whatever side they DO take. Did you view your dad as not very fun or funny?

And GOOD point - siblings vs. only children and how they function in adulthood! I was an only child, so I was used to standing up to adults and it never phased me (well, that one time when I was 18 and stepped in between a New Jersey trucker and a McDonald's cashier phased me but once you're in, you're in - ya know?) but I was terrible about sassing other kids. So I always had friends sticking up for me. Was it the opposite for you? You picked on kids but never challenged adults?

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Hmmm... that's a good call! I still very strongly take a side when it comes to authority, either one way or the other. My father, for a good portion of my life I did not find him to be very funny. Not like he wasn't every funny, but mostly not. His later years were really great though.

As a kid, yeah I never really challenged adults. Other kids, yes. I was my best friends "body guard". LOL Adults it was more strategy than direct confrontation.
I have two older sisters who were no slouches. (5'10" and 5'9" and strong) All three of us would fight like mad. They would physically fight our mom but I never did. I just fought them.

posted December 24, 2013 03:02 PM            

Anyway, the Leo sister. Man... she would fight boys in high school, everything. She didn't care. She'd take on anybody. LOL

Finally, when I was 12 and big enough. She took a swing at me. I ducked and then shoved her. She went flying down the hall into the bathroom. (It was like, take a step, two hand SHOVE real hard) She never messed me again after that. LOL

posted December 24, 2013 03:17 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:

The only people I was physical with were my parents.

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Do you feel bad for physically fighting your parents?