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Topic: Signs and casual sex.
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orocairion
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posted January 17, 2014 02:12 PM
  
As we all are aware, signs have their particularities about casual sex and sex in general.
I've seen some signs being described as capable of doing anything that moves as long it is legal, like Sags and Aquas; while others seem more conservative.
So, out of curiousity, I started to survey a few sites dedicated to casual sex hook ups(honestly!). Assuming most of profiles are real people and truthful, I was surprised to see that the largest percentage of people in these sites seemed to be Cappys, followed closely by Cancers and then a mix of Virgo's, Gemini's and Libra's. I've often read Cappy's as being pretty conservative when it comes to sex and Cancers only doing it if there is an emotional connection, so what gives? IP: Logged |
charlie
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posted January 17, 2014 02:45 PM
Cancer Sun/Cap MoonBeen very promiscuous. Intellect turns me on. Words words words all day and all night. And please, for the love of all things sexual: do NOT be repetitive with those words.. As for emotions.. money on ponies is a safer bet should you want some from me. At least stable emotions. IP: Logged |
PixieJane
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posted January 17, 2014 05:55 PM
Maybe Sags aren't inclined to use the computer to find hookups, they prefer to get out of the house instead, generally speaking. Cappies, Virgos, and the like, OTOH, might find it an efficient means, especially as they're inclined to look to other responsibilities first (and thus less time, money, and energy to flitter away looking for casual sex outside the home the way a Sag would be prone to do). And I'd think Gemini would just find it natural, perhaps mixing OL and off with ease (and I hadn't heard of them being conservative). And I'm not surprised Libra would be a frequent user for casual sex (at least until the wild oats gets sewn, curiosity satisfied). As for Aquarius...I don't know any into casual sex and perhaps for all their affinity for computers they have grander uses for them than something so trivial from an Aqua perspective. Granted, they can be very open minded, but being open minded doesn't mean that they're therefore libertine about it, that is just because they think society needs to loosen up doesn't mean they think everyone should join an orgy. IOW, it's not a "Madonna or ***** " complex, but rather it should be more in the background, if it happens, great, if not, no big. Or put another way having a casual attitude toward sex doesn't mean you therefore seek out casual sex. IP: Logged |
Nine
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From: The Cusp of Love
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posted January 17, 2014 06:01 PM
Sun in Pisces is notably missing from that list. As well as Venus in Aries.IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted January 17, 2014 06:08 PM
Gemini mars is also missing?IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted January 17, 2014 06:28 PM
If you have their dob - you could check the whole chart.
If you are only checking Sun signs - it likely won't tell you much.
Capricorn is not always or often conservative. They simply attach no emotion to sex. They can view sex as a purely physical experience, much like drinking, eating etc.
This applies mostly to having sexual planets in Cap - not necessarily the Sun.IP: Logged |
lvASTRO
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posted January 17, 2014 06:41 PM
I have both of those placements, Nine, and yes, casual can be good. :-)IP: Logged |
dadoo
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Registered: Nov 2013
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posted January 17, 2014 06:47 PM
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Originally posted by lvASTRO:
I have both of those placements, Nine, and yes, casual can be good. :-)
I have them as well, and casual, ewwwww no way... IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted January 17, 2014 06:47 PM
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Originally posted by charlie:
Cancer Sun/Cap MoonBeen very promiscuous. Intellect turns me on. Words words words all day and all night. And please, for the love of all things sexual: do NOT be repetitive with those words.. As for emotions.. money on ponies is a safer bet should you want some from me. At least stable emotions.
Are you a venus in Gemini with the words thing, Charlie 
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Lehia2
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posted January 17, 2014 08:01 PM
quote:
Originally posted by charlie:
Cancer Sun/Cap MoonBeen very promiscuous. Intellect turns me on. Words words words all day and all night. And please, for the love of all things sexual: do NOT be repetitive with those words.. As for emotions.. money on ponies is a safer bet should you want some from me. At least stable emotions.
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Cancer Sun/Cappy mooner too and I agree 110% with everything you've said. Except, I wouldn't call myself promiscuous but I was into casual sex when I was younger and could completely separate the sex from the emotions.
I haven't done it again since I've been in a serious relationship but I'd have no problem going back to it if things didn't work out. Also there's nothing sexier to me that an intelligent man that can talk about anything. I thought that was my Mars in Gem but I guess not, or at least not entirely. IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
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posted January 17, 2014 08:57 PM
I definitely had casual sex in my early 20s when i was single. But never when i was in a relationship. Too old for that crap now.
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lalalinda
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posted January 18, 2014 02:21 AM
In this day and age casual sex can be scary.
I don't count men because it's in their DNA to plant their seeds in as many gardens as possible  Women on the other hand may be masking self esteem issues which I don't like to see. It is my sincere wish for all women to realize their self worth as well as their power because when you come down to it power is in their hands until they make themselves vulnerable.  ------------------ "For all those who believe, expect a miracle.”
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LucieLemonade
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posted January 18, 2014 03:16 AM
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charlie
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posted January 18, 2014 04:49 AM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Are you a venus in Gemini with the words thing, Charlie
No. I have Vesta and Eros in Gemini 10H that seem to ignite the word-spark. I am a Draconic Gem Moon and Sidereal Gem Sun, Venus, Mercury but not sure how poignant that is. I am extremely Mercurial though so that's where that might play a factor. IP: Logged |
Anisa
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Registered: Jan 2014
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posted January 18, 2014 06:45 PM
Moon, venus, and mars indicate whether or not you're up for casual sex. Especially the aspects to those planets. Maybe those cappi's had aqua or sag in their chart, or maybe the cancers had a gem mars or venus, etc...I'm a libra sun, with scorp moon virgo venus and leo mars and casual sex is a no no for me.IP: Logged |
Nine
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posted January 18, 2014 07:41 PM
I'm working on a "study" of 120-something prostitutes. I undertook this study to try and pinpoint a "casual sex" placement or aspect. Of course the study is flawed - some aspects and placements were left out. It's also incomplete, but here is what I've found so far.Mutable Mars dominate. I looked at aspects of Mars to Jupiter, Saturn, & Neptune. So far the tense aspects (square/opposition/conjunction) show up more often than softer ones.
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PixieJane
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posted January 18, 2014 07:55 PM
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Originally posted by Nine:
I'm working on a "study" of 120-something prostitutes. I undertook this study to try and pinpoint a "casual sex" placement or aspect. Of course the study is flawed.
What's also flawed is that many wouldn't be prostitutes if they felt they didn't have to be (including under violent force) and/or hadn't been conditioned for it from birth (by say sexual abuse). That is, prostitution is about survival, not about casual sex. And I bet if you went a week eating only 2 meals the entire time and not enough sleep that $40 would start to seem worth it no matter how you feel toward casual sex, certainly a lot of people rationalize it under those circumstances when it's offered to them though they hate themselves for it during and after. That includes lesbians with men and straight guys with men, too. That is unless you were very careful about screening who you were counting. I do know that as someone who has mixed with prostitutes I'd view your study with extreme skepticism unless you could explain just how careful you were to find people who chose to live a life of prostitution as opposed to those having it forced on them by the demands of survival rather than philosophy & convenience.
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Canadiangirl
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posted January 18, 2014 08:05 PM
PixieJane: What's also flawed is that many wouldn't be prostitutes if they felt they didn't have to be (including under violent force) and/or hadn't been conditioned for it from birth (by say sexual abuse). That is, prostitution is about survival, not about casual sex. And I bet if you went a week eating only 2 meals the entire time and not enough sleep that $40 would start to seem worth it no matter how you feel toward casual sex, certainly a lot of people rationalize it under those circumstances when it's offered to them though they hate themselves for it during and after. That includes lesbians with men and straight guys with men, too. That is unless you were very careful about screening who you were counting. I do know that as someone who has mixed with prostitutes I'd view your study with extreme skepticism unless you could explain just how careful you were to find people who chose to live a life of prostitution as opposed to those having it forced on them by the demands of survival rather than philosophy & convenience. ---I totally agree with this. Perhaps use College students instead as there is always an element of casual sex. You're more likely to find people with more of a choice to be promiscuous rather than someone who may have a substance or abuse problem. IP: Logged |
Nine
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posted January 18, 2014 08:06 PM
I found their charts from a link posted on this site. I believe it was the Sex Worker thread.IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted January 18, 2014 08:53 PM
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What's also flawed is that many wouldn't be prostitutes if they felt they didn't have to be
^ That. Not everyone is Belle de Jour. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted January 18, 2014 11:42 PM
I have Gemini stellium.
I don't have any issues with casual sex.
I'm not that comfortable being that intimate with strangers..I think with Gemini's they usually get to know someone within an hour of meeting then **** . LOL that might seem strange but not for a Gemini Like I totally had a heart to heart with a Capricorn I met yesterday... which is not rare occurrence for me.
I tend to make a lot of friends this way too since people tend to share their intimate life with me.. All their issues, struggles, dreams/desires.. I sort of just listen and try and give them advice or make them feel better or what have you. But yeah if things got romantic, I probably would not have an issue getting sexual...
I mean I basically know this person, though I usually don't anyways.
So for Gemini relationships I'd imagine just progress really quickly. IP: Logged |
GypseeWind
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From: Love Street, she lingers long on Love Street..
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posted January 19, 2014 01:38 AM
In my life and with the people I know, Cappies- male and female take the lead on casual sex.Virgos, esp. females are right behind them. I have some Aries girlfriends that are really into casual sex, but they are really good at keeping it secret, which I wouldn't normally attribute to an Aries. Aquarius women also seem to be able to do the deed without a relationship and have no qualms with it. Can't say about Aqua men because I only know a couple of them. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
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posted January 19, 2014 01:43 AM
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Originally posted by PixieJane:
What's also flawed is that many wouldn't be prostitutes if they felt they didn't have to be (including under violent force) and/or hadn't been conditioned for it from birth (by say sexual abuse). That is, prostitution is about survival, not about casual sex. And I bet if you went a week eating only 2 meals the entire time and not enough sleep that $40 would start to seem worth it no matter how you feel toward casual sex, certainly a lot of people rationalize it under those circumstances when it's offered to them though they hate themselves for it during and after. That includes lesbians with men and straight guys with men, too. That is unless you were very careful about screening who you were counting. I do know that as someone who has mixed with prostitutes I'd view your study with extreme skepticism unless you could explain just how careful you were to find people who chose to live a life of prostitution as opposed to those having it forced on them by the demands of survival rather than philosophy & convenience.
Or ..... They could just view it as an easy way to make tons of cash. IP: Logged |
PixieJane
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posted January 19, 2014 02:34 AM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Or ..... They could just view it as an easy way to make tons of cash.
They could. But most don't, and I'm not going to assume they do. Life is not like it's shown in the porno movies. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted January 19, 2014 03:00 AM
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Originally posted by PixieJane:
They could. But most don't, and I'm not going to assume they do. Life is not like it's shown in the porno movies.
That's all a bunch of feminist propaganda. I would wager that the majority of prostitutes do it willingly. Just think about it.... Men want sex and are willing to pay tons of money to get it. All a woman has to do is make herself available and poof she already made a grand. A prostitute can make more money in a few hours time than just about any job that doesn't require a college education. It's very easy to see why lots of women choose to do it.IP: Logged |
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