posted February 11, 2014 02:29 PM            

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Originally posted by eyes_like_pisces:
Im a scorpio rising, and I always get overshadowed by other people. Like others have stated, you probably just need to work on your confidence and self-expression a bit more. If anything I would assume earth ascendants are the lucky one's because they naturally blend into society and their environment. They would easy to grasp. As a scorp rising, Pisces sun I feel very out of place in public, just different and unrelatable. Maybe you need to try getting evolved with different social scenes that appeal to you and you excel in. What are your hobbies?

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My friend says the same thing. He doesn't want to be noticed or anything, but people do that. Like when someone comes up to talk to us they're always talking to him, but what he doesn't get is that its worse for me. I'm not interested in any hobbies anymore. I used to play guitar, but i lost inspiration. I tried making a band, but i just dont like making new friends.

posted February 11, 2014 02:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
You know, you really gotta work on your self-esteem more. Like for me, it's true that people notice her more the first time they meet both of us, but when I start talking, I tend to draw in more crowds than she does. I agree about people telling you to put the effort to grab attention. Like actually try to get people to notice you using something else other than your looks. This is what I do to cope up with my insecurities. If I can't be confident about my looks, then I will be confident about my intellect and my talents. People like confidence whether you're better-looking or not. If you project an image of a confident person, you won't have trouble getting the attention that you need. And with practice, it will come as easily as it came to other people. You just gotta work on boosting your self-esteem. Instead of focusing on what he has that you don't have, focus more on yourself. Make everything about you. Just don't get too self-absorbed in the process. Don't play the victim, 'cause you'll only get more victimized. Think to yourself that if he can do it, you can do it better. Positive thinking always helps attract what you want to you. Never have doubts in the universe. Ever heard of the law of attraction? Positive thoughts attract positive things and vice versa. If you're gonna keep looking down on yourself, chances are, people will keep looking down on you as well. I say, chin up and be the best that you can be

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I've tried that before , but no one still really cares. A few years ago i got this bad habit of actually raising my voice a lot more because no one would notice me. Next thing i realize people are asking me why I'm talking really loud lol. So i just kinda gave up on even talking since no one pays attention. Then my family and friends ask why i stop talking, but i dont want to sound like I'm complaining so i just make up some random excuse. Now the only times i talk are when i know I'm going to be heard, but it feels like Sh** limiting myself to when i can talk.

posted February 11, 2014 02:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Libra5643:
My friend says the same thing. He doesn't want to be noticed or anything, but people do that. Like when someone comes up to talk to us they're always talking to him, but what he doesn't get is that its worse for me. I'm not interested in any hobbies anymore. I used to play guitar, but i lost inspiration. I tried making a band, but i just dont like making new friends.

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posted February 11, 2014 04:07 PM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
That is very atypical for a libra, saying you don't wan't new friends:S You make friends your whole life, hopefully… there is many people out there who is friendly, interesting and nice I'm sure there is some people you find interesting?

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I find things interesting, but I just don't have any motivation to meet new people, because i truly love the friends i have right now. They are great people. It would also take me forever to be myself around new people.

posted February 11, 2014 04:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Libra5643:
I find things interesting, but I just don't have any motivation to meet new people, because i truly love the friends i have right now. They are great people. It would also take me forever to be myself around new people.

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posted February 11, 2014 04:25 PM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
How many close friends do you have? Maybe you should try hanging out with your other close friends, but not the guy that makes you feel like you have no self-confidence…
he cannot help it, but you need to think what is the best for you right now, and that is to hang out with more people, so you can gain some self-confidence ?

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posted February 11, 2014 04:37 PM            

My whole motto or the way I look at astrology and birth charts is that they make us who we are. If you wish to change one small thing in your chart it'll change who you are as a person tremendously. You have to appreciate and value what you have because it's simply you. Don't comparing yourself to your friend. That's one thing some Libras have to learn to stop doing. We have friends to friend not to strive to be exactly alike. Your friends I'm sure like you for many reasons, many of those being that you are yourself.

posted February 11, 2014 04:56 PM            

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
How old are you if you don't mind me asking?

My whole motto or the way I look at astrology and birth charts is that they make us who we are. If you wish to change one small thing in your chart it'll change who you are as a person tremendously. You have to appreciate and value what you have because it's simply you. Don't comparing yourself to your friend. That's one thing some Libras have to learn to stop doing. We have friends to friend not to strive to be exactly alike. Your friends I'm sure like you for many reasons, many of those being that [b]you are yourself.

The way to get people to treat you equally to him is by simply not worrying or giving a damn what he's doing. Worry about yourself and what's going on with you and then everything will fall into place that is meant to. He can't help people liking him and being drawn to him and you shouldn't let it bother you. Be happy and live your life. You only get one, make the most out of it. [/B]

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posted February 11, 2014 05:08 PM            

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
How do you know you're not more attractive than he is? Just because all of the girls go to him doesn't mean he's more attractive. It's his confidence and knowing who he is that gets him all that you want. I'm sorry that you feel that way. Wish there was some way I could help. Don't give up though you're young your time will come I promise. Just don't give up!

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posted February 11, 2014 05:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Libra5643:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
[b]How do you know you're not more attractive than he is? Just because all of the girls go to him doesn't mean he's more attractive. It's his confidence and knowing who he is that gets him all that you want. I'm sorry that you feel that way. Wish there was some way I could help. Don't give up though you're young your time will come I promise. Just don't give up!

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posted February 11, 2014 05:57 PM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
Isn't this guy sounding a bit annoying?
But seriously, you're 19, you probably haven't even evolved your grown up features yet.
Things always change, that is for sure. Especially around that age.
But one thing that is worrying me a little bit, is that he is your only friend? That sounds dull to run around with only 1 friend who is kinda annoying too, though he maybe can't help it, because "he's so wonderful" and all. You sound like your almost in love with this guy??

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posted February 11, 2014 05:59 PM            

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Originally posted by summerlite:
Libra problems.

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posted February 11, 2014 06:08 PM              

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Originally posted by Libra5643:
My friend has Scorpio rising with Mars and Pluto in first house. I have Capricorn rising with Neptune and Uranus in first house. He's like a brother to me and we hang out a lot, but everyone always gives their attention to him and I'm always that second person that no one cares about..I cant even get a girlfriend without the fear of her becoming interested in him. Its not that i dont want him to have any attention, because I'm actually happy for him..its just that i want to be treated equal and seen as equal. Its a terrible feeling when your in public and some people look at him like hes really interesting and im just some regular kid or his side kick.Its like hes more special than me and im just some background person. It makes me feel worthless and i shouldnt exist. I already have low self esteem and my moon in scorpio just makes it worse. the only times a girl will approach me is to ask me questions about him. Even if i meet a friend before him they start liking him more than me..I dont want to be better than him, i just want people to care about me and treat us equally. Is there any way i can get a psychic or something to change my rising sign?

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posted February 11, 2014 06:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
I knew sooner or later the Libra hater would come around! You are hilarious. Did a libra hurt you, burn you maybe? Or is it all just envy

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libra sun placement is the only placement I'm really happy with

posted February 11, 2014 06:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Libra5643:
libra sun placement is the only placement I'm really happy with

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posted February 11, 2014 06:15 PM            

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
Isn't it the best sun sign?!

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posted February 11, 2014 06:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Libra5643:
yes it really is

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posted February 11, 2014 06:23 PM            

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Originally posted by summerlite:
Told you Libra's denial is strong.
You aren't here to learn.
Continue to weep then.

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