posted February 11, 2014 06:27 PM            

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Originally posted by summerlite:
Told you Libra's denial is strong.
You aren't here to learn.
Continue to weep then.

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posted February 11, 2014 06:32 PM            

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
Shut up summerlite. After insulting him I'd ignore your ignorant crazy @ss too.

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posted February 11, 2014 06:45 PM            

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
He's the biggest hater of all time here. Lol and I agree it does. I'd really be interested in seeing what your chart looks like and what else you have going on that makes you feel so bad. Do you have a lot going on with Virgo?

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posted February 12, 2014 02:13 AM            

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Originally posted by Libra5643:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by next to neptune:
[b] Isn't this guy sounding a bit annoying?
But seriously, you're 19, you probably haven't even evolved your grown up features yet.
Things always change, that is for sure. Especially around that age.
But one thing that is worrying me a little bit, is that he is your only friend? That sounds dull to run around with only 1 friend who is kinda annoying too, though he maybe can't help it, because "he's so wonderful" and all. You sound like your almost in love with this guy??

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Ok sorry for that, I understand a lot better now, when you say you have all those planets in scorpio.
But you did write you only had 1 close friend?? But if you also have other friends, maybe you should try to strengthen your friendship with them also. Not that you shouldn't be his friend, but just making sure you also have other people close to you Hey, I'm only trying to help, not making you annoyed with me!

And with all that scorpio energy I could imagine how hard it could be to let go of jealousy…I have a scorpio venus and scorpio pluto myself, and I remember how jealous I was when I was younger! But I really decided to not being jealous anymore because it made a lot of conflict with others and it only made me sad…

posted February 12, 2014 03:20 AM            

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Originally posted by Libra5643:
My friend has Scorpio rising with Mars and Pluto in first house. I have Capricorn rising with Neptune and Uranus in first house. He's like a brother to me and we hang out a lot, but everyone always gives their attention to him and I'm always that second person that no one cares about..I cant even get a girlfriend without the fear of her becoming interested in him. Its not that i dont want him to have any attention, because I'm actually happy for him..its just that i want to be treated equal and seen as equal. Its a terrible feeling when your in public and some people look at him like hes really interesting and im just some regular kid or his side kick.Its like hes more special than me and im just some background person. It makes me feel worthless and i shouldnt exist. I already have low self esteem and my moon in scorpio just makes it worse. the only times a girl will approach me is to ask me questions about him. Even if i meet a friend before him they start liking him more than me..I dont want to be better than him, i just want people to care about me and treat us equally. Is there any way i can get a psychic or something to change my rising sign?

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*Hugs*

I know that a lot of people judge according to looks and nowadays and looks seem to be everything. If you want to, you can experiment with your image and see how you feel.

But I still maintain that all the real "work" you may want to do is the thoughts/feelings and energy that you project on yourself.

I also have some self -esteem issues from childhood(especially on physical appearance).

Validation from others became paramount and it is only now that I have started to grow into myself years later(Venus conjunct Saturn).

Suddenly I am "handsome", "sexy" and "desirable". People double take when they see me now and it felt good at first:Especially as a gay man.

But with this "sexiness" came a brand new ego. I started to think that being "sexy" was ME. And felt threatened when other people were given attention on that basis.So I'd workout that much harder and compete with people on a "physique" level.

Now I am slowly learning to switch into "I am the wittiest and most engaging person in this room" and put that into action.

Essentially really,that is who I am. It is effortless for me to engage others in conversation and get them to open up. This is a personal skill that I get no external praise from.

What I am saying is, you need to find a personal skill that would make you unique and interesting.

Yes, I still use my body to get attention. I wear muscle vests and groom myself (but its sooo much effort geesh!). But the one thing that I use now consciously is to engage them in conversation. This is the real ME.

posted February 12, 2014 07:17 PM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
Ok sorry for that, I understand a lot better now, when you say you have all those planets in scorpio.
But you did write you only had 1 close friend?? But if you also have other friends, maybe you should try to strengthen your friendship with them also. Not that you shouldn't be his friend, but just making sure you also have other people close to you Hey, I'm only trying to help, not making you annoyed with me!

And with all that scorpio energy I could imagine how hard it could be to let go of jealousy…I have a scorpio venus and scorpio pluto myself, and I remember how jealous I was when I was younger! But I really decided to not being jealous anymore because it made a lot of conflict with others and it only made me sad…

And by the way, you have probably no idea about how you may come of to other people. Cap rising AND a lot of scorpio. You may seem totally out of reach for girls, though they probably think you are really sexy and mysterious. You should try to be more open minded and not so shy… girls like bad boys, who dare to give them compliments:P If you give those girls some compliment, I'm sure they find you very interesting and would be all obsessed with you even!

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posted February 13, 2014 03:19 AM            

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Originally posted by Libra5643:
Oh yeah, i also have venus in scorpio to. I forgot to include that haha. I said i had one close friend, but i have many other friends that I'm with as well. And really? i didn't know that scorpio in other planets could make someone like that. Thanks!

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Haha, yeah scorpio venus is definitely the problem! How is it aspected? Does it make conjunctions to pluto, mercury, jupiter or something else?

posted February 13, 2014 07:32 AM            

@OP: my sister is a libra with cap rising too and tbh having an aries 4th house is better than an aqua one. I think because you are libra, you obviously emphasize the need to be liked. Cap risings I know act like you too. They want the world to respect them, yet they have nothing to be respected for. They think the whole world is against them when in many instances, they had it better than others and they rarely make an effort to reach out. When ppl reach out to them, they say the most insensitive things. I'm sorry to say that if you don't want to make new friends, then why the hell are you worrying about whether most ppl like you better than your friend or not. It's not like you are all that social any way. What a big fat contradiction! My sister is exactly like you! Just complain complain complain. It's like her cancer Asc side is dominating her. All of us have a load of other problems that are more serious than being liked better than out friends (I.e., attracting the wrong people, emotional hangup, death of loved ones, career and money probs).

posted February 13, 2014 11:43 AM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
Haha, yeah scorpio venus is definitely the problem! How is it aspected? Does it make conjunctions to pluto, mercury, jupiter or something else?

The few people I know with scorpio venus is very introverted and intense looking…but they look good! I wonder if we come of the same way:P

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I have Venus conjunct jupiter, pluto and moon. sextile neptune and uranus. unfortunately its not in the 1st house haha. I think the one i feel the most is definitely moon conjunct venus out of all of them.

posted February 13, 2014 11:43 AM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
Haha, yeah scorpio venus is definitely the problem! How is it aspected? Does it make conjunctions to pluto, mercury, jupiter or something else?

The few people I know with scorpio venus is very introverted and intense looking…but they look good! I wonder if we come of the same way:P

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I have Venus conjunct jupiter, pluto and moon. sextile neptune and uranus. unfortunately its not in the 1st house haha. I think the one i feel the most is definitely moon conjunct venus out of all of them.

posted February 13, 2014 01:06 PM            

The reason cap risings are more likable as they age is that they stop thinking they are the biggest deal on earth and everybody has to pay attention to them first despite their rude behaviors![/B][/QUOTE]

You saying I can't be sad about this because theres worse issues in this world is like saying i can't be happy because people have it better than me in this world. I don't think I'm the biggest deal on this Earth, if you knew me in real life you'd understand that i put everyone i care about before myself. Its funny because you're like a lot of people i know. Assuming that i complain for no reason.But i never let anyone see that I put up with so much Sh** and never complain about it and then once i snap, everyone looks at me like a lunatic as if they have never complained before. This is my first time actually complaining about anything in a long time. Usually i just say alright I'll put up with it. but i just can't take it anymore. its been going on for like 6 years and this is my first time complaining about it. Look at what i said in my later replies and i have started to take consideration of things and opened up a bit. but things like "be confident, Make more friends" like yeah i haven't tried that before! Though i truly appreciate the effort. everything i say can be justified, you're just too stupid to understand it yourself. if you need an explanation to why the reason i don't want to approach people first if thats what you're refering to as 'respect' is because i hate when i put out the effort to get to know people and they ALWAYS end up liking my other friends more than me. It makes me look vulnerable. Thats why if someone approaches me first I'm the one who doesn't look like an idiot even if they start liking my other friends more than me. No one approaches me first though so thats why making friends isn't an option. It has nothing to do with respect, thats just a rude judgement.
when i got into astrology i promised myself I'd never judge someone based off things in their chart, because i feel thats not right And here you are calling me rude while judging me off a few posts and my ascendant sign. You're the one whos a big fat contradiction.