posted February 08, 2014 06:44 PM            

The right girl wouldn't ditch you for your friend. That's a bit**. Not the type of girl you want to attract.

I always personally zero in on the ones who blend. Much more interesting, almost every time.

posted February 09, 2014 11:01 AM            

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Body language and attitude are EVERYTHING. People sense it.

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Definitely!

posted February 09, 2014 12:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Libra5643:
I have Capricorn rising with Neptune and Uranus in first house. (

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So do I...I think it is awesome! Trust me, as you get older you will start to enjoy your Cap rising and see it as a blessing.

I have a Cap stellium in 1st and I wouldn't change it for the world. I used to be really, really shy and now you cannot shut me up.

posted February 09, 2014 07:59 PM            

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Originally posted by Libra5643:
My friend has Scorpio rising with Mars and Pluto in first house. I have Capricorn rising with Neptune and Uranus in first house. He's like a brother to me and we hang out a lot, but everyone always gives their attention to him and I'm always that second person that no one cares about..I cant even get a girlfriend without the fear of her becoming interested in him. Its not that i dont want him to have any attention, because I'm actually happy for him..its just that i want to be treated equal and seen as equal. Its a terrible feeling when your in public and some people look at him like hes really interesting and im just some regular kid or his side kick.Its like hes more special than me and im just some background person. It makes me feel worthless and i shouldnt exist. I already have low self esteem and my moon in scorpio just makes it worse. the only times a girl will approach me is to ask me questions about him. Even if i meet a friend before him they start liking him more than me..I dont want to be better than him, i just want people to care about me and treat us equally. Is there any way i can get a psychic or something to change my rising sign?

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I have Cap rising and can command the attention of a room. Astrology plays a small role, but what will attract attention is showing confidence. If you want to attract attention, you need to show confidence through your body language. Don't walk over all hunched over. Stand up straight. Walk like you own the place! Also, don't forget to smile. Smiling makes you look 10x more attractive and friendly. People like to be around those who exhibit positive vibes. If you don't feel like you measure up to your friend, then other people will pick up on it.

posted February 09, 2014 08:06 PM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
The sexiest man I've ever met is a cap rising!! He says he wasn't sexy when he was younger, he still doesn't think he is sexy at all!

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posted February 09, 2014 10:11 PM            

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Sun in Leo
Moon in Cancer
Mercury in Virgo
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Libra

posted February 09, 2014 11:41 PM            

About your rising sign, I knew a Cap Asc-Scorpio sun guy who was really attractive and got plenty of female attention, but it was like he was too reserved or held back for whatever reason to really appreciate or even believe it was happening. I was pretty forward with telling him I find him attractive and interesting, etc. (Sag moon and mercury, can't help it sometimes lol) and he literally said something along the lines of "yeah well you're the only girl who thinks that". And I was just thinking... you're either blind or you know you're actually hot and are fishing for compliments lol.

posted February 10, 2014 05:44 AM            

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Originally posted by Libra5643:
@Solar_Leo_Queen i kinda get you. its really a sad feeling and I'm glad you understand that cus i feel like theres seriously almost no one who understands. I am better at certain things than him, but i feel like those things I'm good at don't really matter. I feel like its worse because he's better looking, smarter, and just overall a better human being than i am. I guess I'm happy for him though..i wouldnt want him to feel how i feel.

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You know, you really gotta work on your self-esteem more. Like for me, it's true that people notice her more the first time they meet both of us, but when I start talking, I tend to draw in more crowds than she does. I agree about people telling you to put the effort to grab attention. Like actually try to get people to notice you using something else other than your looks. This is what I do to cope up with my insecurities. If I can't be confident about my looks, then I will be confident about my intellect and my talents. People like confidence whether you're better-looking or not. If you project an image of a confident person, you won't have trouble getting the attention that you need. And with practice, it will come as easily as it came to other people. You just gotta work on boosting your self-esteem. Instead of focusing on what he has that you don't have, focus more on yourself. Make everything about you. Just don't get too self-absorbed in the process. Don't play the victim, 'cause you'll only get more victimized. Think to yourself that if he can do it, you can do it better. Positive thinking always helps attract what you want to you. Never have doubts in the universe. Ever heard of the law of attraction? Positive thoughts attract positive things and vice versa. If you're gonna keep looking down on yourself, chances are, people will keep looking down on you as well. I say, chin up and be the best that you can be

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Moon in Cancer
Mercury in Virgo
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Libra

posted February 10, 2014 11:29 AM            

I got a bit tired of this actually…once we met a man in the city who randomly approached us. He actually tried to tell me why I would be hanging out with my best friend, because she was so much prettier than me, and it was so obviously that I was just her doormat. I didn't even got angry with him, cause I could never believe what he said, but he was true about one thing that was between the lines. She was shining more than me at that time, but that's probably because I had so low self-confidence.

Through the years I've also made other friend-groups to hang out with, and slowly I realized that I'm ok looking and maybe my 1 friend was something out of the ordinary.
But I cannot compare myself to her, and I doesn't want to? It's exiting to be with her, cause we meet all these nice people all the time, and maybe they noticed her first and think she's prettier, but whatever?
Some other days I go out with other people and now I'm the prettiest girl, where people would rather approach me and that's fine.
It's not a competition, and I really learned that it doesn't matter, those people who really like you will get to you, no matter who you are together with.
And those people you like who doesn't like you, won't like you more if you were alone or with some other friends.

I also noticed that if I feel good one night, I get so much more attention than if I feel bad. It's really about how you feel inside that counts. And getting attention is sure nice SOME days, but it's actually really hard to get too much attention all the time. My 1 friend is often complaining about it, cause it's hard to always being looked at, like they are waiting that my friend will do something special. It's also hard to turn a lot of people down and it creates conflicts with people!