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Topic: Why do people put so much emphasis on the sign of their North Node?
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PlutoSurvivor Moderator Posts: 360 From: USA Registered: Sep 2011
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posted February 14, 2014 02:54 AM
There are books on the Nodes by Jan Spiller based on a database of 4,000 charts when written. It may help answer your question about why the North Node is so important. We come here from a collective past experience represented by our South Node and move forward toward our North Node to balance our experience, all for our own individual soul's development, according to these books. If we can move away from what is most comfortable for us and take the best qualities of our South Node forward we will have half the battle won. Then if we can embrace new life experience based on our North Node we will grow our souls in a conscious way. A lot of folks i know are really good at releasing SN tendencies that are holding them back, or really good at developing new NN tendencies, but not real successful doing both. How wonderful it is to understand our Souls' purpose through the Nodes, both Nodes, in order to bring balance to our life experience! Have some fun and challenge yourself to answer truthfully to what you've accomplished so far in life according to the checklists given in the Jan Spiller book on the Nodes. IP: Logged |
SunMoonStars Knowflake Posts: 81 From: Mercury Registered: Aug 2013
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posted February 14, 2014 03:49 AM
Thank you, Pluto Survivor.IP: Logged |
jupitersgirl Knowflake Posts: 303 From: Registered: Oct 2009
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posted February 14, 2014 05:01 AM
You can never relate to your North Node. South Node is our collective behavior pattern from our past karmas. If you act in accordance with your South Node, you keep facing the same karma test from your past. You always relate to your SN more than you do to your NN, because SN is the way you are inclined to act in life, it's how you always acted and created karma in your past lives. It's always easier to act like your SN but it will always cause you more karma and difficulties. It's always harder to act like the NN because that's the way you have to go in order to overcome past karmic debts in this life. When you have the choice to act like your SN or NN ( it can be about anything), it's your instinct to be like your SN. So be careful. Even it's hard to act like your NN, (you will have to persuade yourself and/or you may have to confront some people, overcoming karmas is tricky , a strong self awareness is necessary) once you start acting like your NN, life will give you its rewards. I strongly advise everyone to analyze their Node positions and raise self awareness about it.Edit: The aspects to your Nodes are also very important. They may make everything harder or easier or trickier for you. IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 6983 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 14, 2014 09:21 AM
I like the book The Secret Language of Destiny, which is about the nodes.It's free online, so if you're curious, just enter your birthday and be sure to include the year. The section that begins with "Way" is about your nodal axis. www.thesecretlanguage.com The Secret Language books divide the year into 48 signs, and likewise divides each nodal axis. So for example, there is not one kind of Scorpio NN but five, in that system. Ditto for the other signs. *edited IP: Logged |
AriesLilith Knowflake Posts: 608 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted February 14, 2014 11:46 AM
NN/SN's sign is as relevant as any other chart element's sign. Pluto and Neptune are even more slow moving, but their sign placements are still valid.But not all will relate to their NN/SN's sign position with the same intensity, just like any other element's sign positions. It depends a lot on the house, the aspects to it, and even the aspects to their rulers. For example, my NN in Taurus in the 9th house is about understanding life in the material plane and make peace with it, realizing the preciousness of life and gratefulness, and reach a higher spiritual awareness that way, yet maybe for other fellow Taurus NNs their life lessons can be finding their own personal values, financial securities, and so on. Also, my SN karmic things that I need to overcome might be different compared to other fellow Scorpio SNs. For example, I have a packed 8th house, and I have mostly being dealing with some darkness and what it means to bond deeper with someone, psychological and unconscious dynamics, some obsessions and dark emotions, and even issues related to letting go and death; but I haven't dealt with other Scorpio things such as power and manipulation issues, sexual desire issues, and so on. IP: Logged |
livictori Knowflake Posts: 76 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted February 14, 2014 02:07 PM
my NN is in Libra/ SS in Aries but in the 1st house. IDK if it's becuase my ASC is also Libra but after looking this up today, I understand my relationships with men and friends. I am really a loner. As a pisces, I am always there for others but I remember when my nephew once asked my why I never ask for help. He said people don't know what to do because I always looked like I've got things handled. This has kind of been a sticking point in my relationships with men but I could never really articulate it. Add that my Venus is in Aries in the 7th, I really understand my recent aggression towards men. I have almost been demanding to make sure my needs are met before I am willing to give up anything. I was always a confused push over, I thought my age had something to do with it------------------ Pisces Sun, Leo Moon, Libra Rising. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 4744 From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron) Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 14, 2014 02:30 PM
Thanks, Faith! It's quite accurate.------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 37990 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 14, 2014 02:36 PM
The NN is why you are here, so it's important as far as one's purpose is, and it's read it two ways: the House and the Sign. It can make for an interesting combination. For example, mine are in stark contrast and conflict to one another. One makes me Spiritual, and the other makers me skeptical. I'm always being pulled in two diametrically opposed directions.IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 6983 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 14, 2014 07:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: Thanks, Faith! It's quite accurate.
Glad you liked it!  @Randall: I kinda know what you mean. I have my SN in the 10th house. As a Capricorn sun, it's difficult for me to ever really feel "at home" at home (NN 4H.) IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 7643 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted February 14, 2014 07:44 PM
The NN is where we're "supposed" to go. Naturally most of us are more comfy with our SN but when we fall back into it too much, it creates inner turmoil or uneasiness (because we can sense that we're not doing "the right thing").Jeff Green has a slightly different vision of things if I understand correctly - in Evolutionary astrology, they use Pluto as the soul's significator (desires and what motivates us) and the Nodes represent our ways of getting our desires met. Something like that... I haven't read his work yet but planning on doing it. But in any case, the North Node is a crucial point in our chart because it's supposed to make us grow and bring us positive things (based on our soul's urge to evolve) so it's important to pay attention to it. Personally I can see myself in my SN a whole lot, but I'm also very drawn to my NN. I can feel the pull but it's very, very difficult to follow that path. My Nodes square my Moon/Chiron conjunction so it's not an easy path. I feel like pain and frustration are inevitable and it's quite disheartening. But, what can you do? Gotta keep going. Faith  Thanks for putting that link on here. quote: Originally posted by Randall: I'm always being pulled in two diametrically opposed directions.
Me tooooo. It's so frustrating! My Sag NN contradicts *everything* in my chart. What a challenge, eh. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 7715 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 14, 2014 08:05 PM
Doux - I can see a lot of your North Node in how you post on LL. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 7643 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted February 14, 2014 08:23 PM
Oh really? Hm maybe you're picking up on the Gem instead but I guess that's a good thing if that's what you see.  I try to be more Sag-like but whoaaa my 12H/1H Gem SN is being all possessive and doesn't wanna let me go. It's like: "What do you think you're doing? It's too unsafe there in the 6th/7th/Sag territory... Come back to mama! I have cookies for you, and some cake, too! Come on, you know you want it; don't resist and just come back home - we'll play over-thinking and rationalization games together " *sigh* IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 7715 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 14, 2014 09:11 PM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: Oh really? Hm maybe you're picking up on the Gem instead but I guess that's a good thing if that's what you see.  I try to be more Sag-like but whoaaa my 12H/1H Gem SN is being all possessive and doesn't wanna let me go. It's like: "What do you think you're doing? It's too unsafe there in the 6th/7th/Sag territory... Come back to mama! I have cookies for you, and some cake, too! Come on, you know you want it; don't resist and just come back home - we'll play over-thinking and rationalization games together " *sigh*
This sweet, cute post reminds me of both Sagittarius and Venus in Libra. They go perfect together! IP: Logged |
SerpeantKing Knowflake Posts: 165 From: Virginia Beach Registered: Apr 2011
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posted February 14, 2014 11:12 PM
I'm really curious about the Transits of North Node. IP: Logged |
unforgiven_soul Knowflake Posts: 245 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted February 15, 2014 03:38 AM
I agree! I think it's important to show you only in which way you will feel whole. The house is the key. It depends though and on your aspects. For example my South Node is more important cause its in conjunction with my Sun, so in this life my purpose is to heal all those karmic relationships with people.IP: Logged |
Odette Knowflake Posts: 3632 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted February 15, 2014 07:12 AM
I see the NN and SN as related to patterns of behaviour, rather than the core of the personality... the 'how' - not the 'who'.. If someone asks: Who are you? Most people would identify with a mix of their Sun/Moon/AC. But if they ask: How did you live your life? How did you get from A to Z? Then the nodes usually apply. I mostly know about my own NN/SN axis: Taurus/Scorpio. It probably affects me more so, because I have Venus exactly conj NN & opposite Pluto in a wider conj to my SN. But I also know others around my age and a couple of people who are 19 yrs older .. who have the exact same axis & no conjunctions to it. What I've always found interesting is that these people do have some significant life patterns in common. They generally come from a hectic and emotional home environment. Their background stories are different but there are always several emotionally intense, insane experiences in their past. Basically they come from a psychologically warped environment and try their best to escape that and find some inner peace and calm, which they usually find through physical self-improvement (Taurus). The ones I know who are older than me have a fitness routine that they stick to religiously (Taurus loves routine). They put a lot emphasis on their physical body .. feeling their best, looking their best .. which is all Venusian. There is an element of superficiality and self-centeredness to the Venusian/personal sign of Taurus that does not sit well with Scorpio. People with this axis struggle to accept their physical beauty and enjoy their physical body --- but in the end they seem to find happiness and healing in the very 'superficial' things they shunned in their youth. They also learn to build a new life for themselves from scratch.. a stable life that is not dependent on anyone but themselves. This is very much in contrast with their childhood and younger years when they can go from crisis to crisis. Scorpio has this vibe that reminds me of a writer who is a perfectionist and in a fit of rage throws out an entire manuscript they worked on for months or even years. Taurus would never do that. Taurus would continue down the road they began. This is a hard lesson for Scorpio SN-- to stick to things (on a practical/earthy level). Scorpio is a fixed sign but it's a water sign so their emotions can be fixed and stable - eg Scorpio is the most likely sign to love one person their whole lives... But they are not fixed on a practical level like Taurus is. Anyway sorry to go off on a tangent .. I've thought a lot about this Nodal axis and how it affects me and others. But my point was that the Nodes do *show*.. They are no invisible.. but they don't exactly colour the personality either. It's almost like the Nodes describe environmental factors, outer factors, lessons to learn, the attitude/reaction/behaviour the individual has or engages in as a result of those lessons.. etc IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 6983 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 15, 2014 08:05 AM
^Interesting.My friend has a 24 Taurus NN (I have a 20 Taurus SN) and she and I are so similar in many ways, it is remarkable. (Other synastry factors apply.) Sometimes she is trying to get me to become "more Scorpio," ie she starts drilling things into my head, like, "this is serious, worry about this, stop flaking out," and then I can surprise her by turning the tables: "Oh, but have you worried about this yet? I'm not sure you're aware of how serious that is." LOL But she loves it, I can tell. She is almost 50 and keeps insisting that she "finally" has a personal sense of style. She's been refurbishing her house with a vengeance for the past year or so (with transiting node in Scorpio, hmm.) Her house is becoming very Taurus: earthy colors, smooth-textured sofas, beautiful lights. Meanwhile, my Scorpio NN husband and I are minimalists and talk about moving into an RV or onto a boat after the kids grow up...or maybe sooner. To do so we would have to sell or give away the massive number of things Mr. Taurus SN acquired in his youth. IP: Logged |
hodad Knowflake Posts: 190 From: tiburon ca usa Registered: May 2009
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posted February 15, 2014 10:54 AM
It seems as if the NN indicates how you are supposed to evolve.It's a pretty important part of your chart,I think,as important as the Sun/Moon/Ascendant.It reflects your evolutionary path,a key indication of the direction of how you can grow and evolve.That's the way it's laid out anyway,it doesn't always turn out that way of course. The SN seems to indicate habits,behavioral patterns etc, you relied on in the past.The NN indicates new patterns of behavior you should follow in the present/future.It also reflects a lot of your personality traits. No matter how many planets someone may have in other signs,someone with a Virgo NN will always have a lot of Virgo in them---- with a Pisces SN they have spent a lot of time spacing out,now they have be more focused,more organized--- Say then there is someone with a lot of planets in Leo and Aries,very outgoing and self-centered in general,but with a Pisces NN a large part of them would be Piscean,they would be compassionate,sensitive,and be drawn to helping those less fortunate.There would always be that Piscean element to their personality--- There are some good books on the Nodes--they are worth reading.
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astrofan Knowflake Posts: 49 From: Earth Registered: Jan 2014
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posted February 26, 2014 12:11 AM
quote: Originally posted by jupitersgirl: You can never relate to your North Node. South Node is our collective behavior pattern from our past karmas. If you act in accordance with your South Node, you keep facing the same karma test from your past. You always relate to your SN more than you do to your NN, because SN is the way you are inclined to act in life, it's how you always acted and created karma in your past lives. It's always easier to act like your SN but it will always cause you more karma and difficulties. It's always harder to act like the NN because that's the way you have to go in order to overcome past karmic debts in this life. When you have the choice to act like your SN or NN ( it can be about anything), it's your instinct to be like your SN. So be careful. Even it's hard to act like your NN, (you will have to persuade yourself and/or you may have to confront some people, overcoming karmas is tricky , a strong self awareness is necessary) once you start acting like your NN, life will give you its rewards. I strongly advise everyone to analyze their Node positions and raise self awareness about it.Edit: The aspects to your Nodes are also very important. They may make everything harder or easier or trickier for you.
------------------ old ID astrofan123 Leo sun Scorpio rising IP: Logged |
AscTaurus Knowflake Posts: 865 From: Pretoria, Gauteng,South Africa Registered: May 2009
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posted February 26, 2014 02:41 AM
The North Node and South Node are very much like the slow-moving planets; more collective than subjective.This, however, is rebutted if the either Nodes make aspects to the personal planets. My NN is in Gemini and this gives communication, being expressive, having a voice, having an opinion and relating to the opinions of others a central theme. Now my NN forms a quincunx to Mercury in Capricorn, a quincunx to Venus in Scorpio, a trine to Mars in Libra, an opposition to Uranus in Sagittarius and a quintile to Pluto in Scorpio. I'm still paying attention to how these energies manifest themselves as often the "minor" aspects are said to suggest "hidden talents" as well as areas of "destiny". In due time, I'll be more informed. IP: Logged |
Heartsong11 Knowflake Posts: 148 From: RainbowPlace Registered: Dec 2013
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posted February 26, 2014 05:58 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ellynlvx: North Node shows the direction of the Life Path.Pay attention to which (South or North) has the most emphasis, heavily Aspected, Fixed Stars, House. All these things will tell you about the Direction in which your Path will lie.
Ok I'm very late getting involved here but I'm interested in what you said here Ellyn. My south node is far more aspected but north node isn't really. What would that mean? Will it be harder for me to follow the direction of my path? Feels like that. Feels like I get sucked back to old patterns a lot even though I know better lol. IP: Logged |
Ellynlvx Moderator Posts: 5678 From: Mountain Gate Registered: Aug 2013
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posted February 26, 2014 06:06 AM
Yup.You're still working on the past. The Moon, Venus and Mars are in good Aspect to both, so they help you work it out and move forward. Especially Venus, as it is Dignified (by Sign.) Mars too, sort of (by House.) They sort of exchange, where one falls short, the other takes charge and vice versa IP: Logged |
Ellynlvx Moderator Posts: 5678 From: Mountain Gate Registered: Aug 2013
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posted February 26, 2014 06:08 AM
Here is some North Node stuff: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum33/HTML/000151.html IP: Logged |
Heartsong11 Knowflake Posts: 148 From: RainbowPlace Registered: Dec 2013
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posted February 26, 2014 07:01 AM
Thanks Ellyn. Helpful as always . Will read later. Back to minding kids for now IP: Logged |
Sibyl Knowflake Posts: 126 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted February 26, 2014 07:26 AM
I'm a little confused when it comes to the North and the South Node to be honest. My North Node is the same as my Sun Sign, and my South Node is the same as my Ascendant, so I'm just not really sure how to... "Find" them or isolate them in my behavior. Most of the time I just ignore the placements. I guess I should probably look closer at the houses though.IP: Logged |