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Topic: Attracting Sexual Attention
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Nicole401
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From: CA, USA
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posted March 07, 2014 07:28 PM
  
What makes a person more likely to get more sexual attention than normal/average? Aspects, Placements? Certain Combinations?Also what kind of transits could cause this? One of my friend has been asking me this for a while LOL, he says lately there's random people, including guys going uo to him going like "DANG! You got big cakes!" LOL
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StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted March 07, 2014 07:29 PM
I think it might be progressed Scorpio ascendant?IP: Logged |
Nicole401
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posted March 07, 2014 07:31 PM
Doesn't the ASC take a while to progress though? LOL I doubt I'd get any attention by the time I'm 80 when my ASC progresses into Scorpio.I could see how that'd happen with Libra ASC though .. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted March 07, 2014 07:33 PM
Guys go up to him and say this? Isn't Mars in Scorpio now?IP: Logged |
Nicole401
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posted March 07, 2014 07:48 PM
Yes, I get the same kind of stuff all the time too lol, from older men though, but I'm a lady so ... that's not too uncommon?Oh, and Mars is retrograde in Libra right now. IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows
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posted March 07, 2014 09:15 PM
Astrology is so true in so many ways.  My friend is in a relationship with her boyfriend, right and the boyfriend texts my friend AND ME a picture of his penis. Get this, our synastry has my mars falling in his first house... So of course the reason he feels this way towards me is totally astrologically correct.  ------------------
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Odette
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posted March 08, 2014 12:09 AM
Aries and Scorpio personal planets (maybe not Mercury.. but all the others)IP: Logged |
SmilingHeart
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posted March 08, 2014 08:22 AM
I'd say Aries, Gemini and Taurus placements.I disagree with Scorpio. They are intense but more privately.
I've known a guy with Sun/Moon/Mars in Scorpio and he has no game and attracts almost no one. IP: Logged |
vickymadness
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From: Minnesota
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posted March 08, 2014 08:53 AM
Scorpio guard their sexuality. Aries exert it.
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MagnumJoe
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posted March 08, 2014 09:29 AM
Hmmm... That's tricky. I have venus in scorpio and i tend to be very seductive at every detail when i want someone. I think this creates attraction. If you are aware of your seductiveness and market for it, even through body language only, it will be perceived, and put out for out for anyone who desires. And who does, will see you as sexually attractive.So it's about awareness and projection more than style. IP: Logged |
LucieLemonade
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posted March 08, 2014 12:31 PM
I have Venus conj Asc (Scorpio). I've always gotten a lot of guys interested in me in a sexual way. They didn't always want anything more. I'm not the prettiest of my group of friends but I seem to get more guys trying to hit on me than they do. So I've had a lot of years learning to spot the difference between guys who are interested in me for my personality and those who just want to sleep with me. IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted March 08, 2014 12:47 PM
Pluto/AC/Venus will do this, esp in a sexual sign like scorpio or the ruler of love, libra.
I think in any sign though if your AC has progressed to your Pluto and it's aspecting Venus or if you have it in your natal chart, it will get someone attention!Transit or progressed Lilith on AC, in a woman's chart can being out her sexuality. IP: Logged |
next to neptune
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posted March 08, 2014 12:50 PM
I have venus conjunct pluto in scorpio, and guys almost never approach me unless I really make an effort at looking sexy…
I think being approachable is more about being outgoing… In theory lots of guys would maybe wan't me because of my venus-pluto conjunction, but they don't dare to approach me, because I don't look outgoing and is privateOnly the guys who is more daring and cannot handle themselves, would approach me, while someone with maybe libra ascendant or leo ascendant would look more promising and friendly, so it wouldn't be so frightening to approach them… my cancer ascendant conjunct jupiter makes me kinda sweet looking and not so frightening though, but the scorpio venus makes me a bit too intense IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted March 08, 2014 12:58 PM
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
I have venus conjunct pluto in scorpio, and guys almost never approach me unless I really make an effort at looking sexy…
I think being approachable is more about being outgoing… In theory lots of guys would maybe wan't me because of my venus-pluto conjunction, but they don't dare to approach me, because I don't look outgoing and is privateOnly the guys who is more daring and cannot handle themselves, would approach me, while someone with maybe libra ascendant or leo ascendant would look more promising and friendly, so it wouldn't be so frightening to approach them… my cancer ascendant conjunct jupiter makes me kinda sweet looking and not so frightening though, but the scorpio venus makes me a bit too intense
Wow, lol!! I know what you mean! My Pluto/Venus is on my AC....it's an aspect that immediately separates the men from the boys!!
Only the ones with guts and a lot of self confidence(or big ego) will approach you....the others just watch, like something big is about to go down! Lol
What do they think we bite peoples heads off or something?
We must come off like the black widow spider who eats her mate after she's done with him! Oops, lol
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Mystic_Cat
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From: Jupiter.
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 08, 2014 01:31 PM
Mars in Leo/Scopio, 5th/8th houses, Passionate ascendantsEros & Nympthe. IP: Logged |
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From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted March 08, 2014 02:01 PM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
Wow, lol!! I know what you mean! My Pluto/Venus is on my AC....it's an aspect that immediately separates the men from the boys!!
Only the ones with guts and a lot of self confidence(or big ego) will approach you....the others just watch, like something big is about to go down! Lol
What do they think we bite peoples heads off or something?
We must come off like the black widow spider who eats her mate after she's done with him! Oops, lol
Yeah I got ascendant trine pluto too, so the scorpio is shining through maybe! I also do tend to attract guys who is either extremely talkative and easy (like the air signs) or guys that has some fire or passion (like scorpio or aries placements) But I think my libra in 5th house apparently speeks to the libra guys, cause those are always the ones I meet to parties or in town… I mean it's really 5 out of 8 guys who is libras… and my current boyfriend is also a libra (oh and I did approach him, not the other way around lol) IP: Logged |
Nicole401
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From: CA, USA
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted March 08, 2014 02:15 PM
I think this is a wee bit off topic (/.\) LOL, By attracting sexual attention I mean there's a bunch of people (opposite sex and maybe even of the same sex) giving you weird sexual looks and sexually hitting on you (like cat-calling?) nearly EVERYWHERE you go.I think a better term would be More-than-average-and-unwanted-sexual-attention IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted March 08, 2014 04:39 PM
Oh ... unwanted??Definitely not Aries then. Scrap Aries  IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted March 08, 2014 04:41 PM
The only sign I've noticed gets a bit taken aback by sexual attraction is Cancer.. They are not very happy with their sexuality.
I'm thinking Cancer Venus or Mars might feel intimidated or invaded by too much sexual attraction. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted March 08, 2014 05:39 PM
Like I don't mind if people find me attractive... like flirt with me.. even if you get a little bit raunchy I may find it amusing. People think they are allowed to invade my person space... without my permission.
That's unacceptable.. I think With Gemini Venus and Aries mars people think I'm game... just because I'm fun and chill.
One you are either too sloppy drunk and maybe I don't find you attractive enough  That's why I don't like going to parties there always one person who thirsty as hell.
It's literally me pushing some drunk idiot that has been following me around and trying back me in a corner...and getting in an altercation of sorts. but then again I have male friends that try and get fresh when their drunk too..
Idk I feel a lot safer around females because they don't typical try and rape you... maybe just seduce you -_-
but I'm more inclined to fool around with a female friend who seduced me. IP: Logged |
LucieLemonade
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posted March 09, 2014 08:43 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Nicole401:
I think this is a wee bit off topic (/.\) LOL, By attracting sexual attention I mean there's a bunch of people (opposite sex and maybe even of the same sex) giving you weird sexual looks and sexually hitting on you (like cat-calling?) nearly EVERYWHERE you go.I think a better term would be More-than-average-and-unwanted-sexual-attention
Yes. I get this. Not absolutely everywhere at all times. Sometimes I leave the house looking like Sasquatch and sometimes I go to places that are filled with old bitties, so I think there are limits. I definitely get more than my fair share of both wanted and unwanted sexual attention.
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
I have venus conjunct pluto in scorpio, and guys almost never approach me unless I really make an effort at looking sexy…
I think being approachable is more about being outgoing… In theory lots of guys would maybe wan't me because of my venus-pluto conjunction, but they don't dare to approach me, because I don't look outgoing and is privateOnly the guys who is more daring and cannot handle themselves, would approach me, while someone with maybe libra ascendant or leo ascendant would look more promising and friendly, so it wouldn't be so frightening to approach them… my cancer ascendant conjunct jupiter makes me kinda sweet looking and not so frightening though, but the scorpio venus makes me a bit too intense
I can see this. I'm a Sag so generally upbeat and laughing/joking/friends/good mood sort of person when I go out, with a bit of scorpio intensity in the eyes. So I can see that making me seem more approachable. IP: Logged |
Celestica
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From: Los Angeles, California
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted March 09, 2014 09:44 AM
I get lots of attention where ever I go, although usually I don't really want it. I don't mind positive attention like people telling me I have nice hair or they like my style but I more often get stares and whistles and even really perverted things blurted at me, people are nasty keep them away. I blame Venus conj. Jupiter in Scorpio in 10HIP: Logged |
next to neptune
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From: Mercury
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posted March 09, 2014 10:58 AM
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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
I can see this. I'm a Sag so generally upbeat and laughing/joking/friends/good mood sort of person when I go out, with a bit of scorpio intensity in the eyes. So I can see that making me seem more approachable.
Yes it also plays a role, that you can actually not only grab the ball, but sending it back… when people approach me I'm just like "Are you talking to me?" And I'm not answering back, unless I really know what to say IP: Logged |
LucieLemonade
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posted March 09, 2014 04:09 PM
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
Yes it also plays a role, that you can actually not only grab the ball, but sending it back… when people approach me I'm just like "Are you talking to me?" And I'm not answering back, unless I really know what to say
LOL. I don't normally know what to say... I just open my mouth and random stuff comes out. I will generally chat a bit to anyone who approaches me. Unless it's really unwanted attention (sometimes guys can be really creepy). Then I just smile and nod until they get bored and go away, play the "I don't speak the language" card or just say, "I'm speaking with my friends right now". IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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posted March 09, 2014 04:13 PM
For a guy I do. Leo Sun exact Sextile Gem moon
Pluto in 1st conjunct Asc are probably the main two contributors. IP: Logged |
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