posted March 14, 2014 07:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
I am a soul believer in true love and soul mates. They are real, they're just waiting for you like them for you. I found my true love here of all places and haven't looked back. You'll find the right person who will make you want to commit, don't give up.

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To me, It's about having someone give their heart to you, and no matter what perils lay in wait, no matter what turmoil's are encountered, no matter how many dragon's need be slayed, that love remains strong. It's about finding someone whom you are comfortable with and telling them; To you, I give my heart, my love, my loyalty, my romance, my attention, my pride, my passion, my compassion, my trust, and my honor and to actually have them give it all back in return, unconditionally.

It's about a type of love, a love that, like the dodo bird, has been extinct for a very long time.

Bellow is a paragraph from my natal chart:

Your humor and charm usually draws the opposite sex to you. Even though you need to be exceptionally careful in choosing a partner, you have an extremely romantic character. Finding someone would be easy. Finding the right one would probably not. You generally know what is best for you so it should be quite easy to use your intuition. Listen to your sixth sense and keep your independence.

This, simple, paragraph defines me in a whole. It's about finding that one heart, the one that will lock in place with mine, and then be my forever.

posted March 14, 2014 07:15 PM            

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Originally posted by fairaqua:
My SO is a gemini. Weve been together going n 11 years now and I would never ever see him as a cheater.. like, ever.

The most consistent lie he tells is his time frame. For example, his dad will call asking where hes at and hell put himself 5 miles up the road.
I dont get it.. I really dont.
And when I point it out he gets flustered

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I am definitely eager to please and spoil all that I care for, so I can see myself doing this same thing.

posted March 14, 2014 07:16 PM            

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Originally posted by fairaqua:
Now my sister. Shes also a gem.
Shell lie and "cheat" (but in her world shell twist it around and lie to herself so its not really cheating)

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posted March 14, 2014 07:21 PM            

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Originally posted by Brobian:
Lol I definitely don't feel bullied. I figured out how to easily deal with bullies, way back in high school.

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posted March 14, 2014 07:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Brobian:
I've never cheated on anyone in my life and I doubt I ever will. I am extremely compassionate to everyone else and not to much at me.

If you were in need of 20 bucks and all I had was 20 bucks, you'd be given it. even if I did go hungry for a few days.

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It's your Moon in Pisces being compassionate. Pisces is the sign of compassion and self-sacrifice. And I doubt you will ever cheat. Too much Taurus lol. That's enough to keep you from ever doing so.

posted March 14, 2014 07:29 PM            

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Originally posted by Brobian:
If I might ask, in my chart, which part of it makes me unable to commit to a relationship?

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posted March 14, 2014 07:32 PM            

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
If you can post your whole chart, I can definitely have a look at it and see which planetary aspects or house placements are responsible for that.

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posted March 14, 2014 07:39 PM            

I haven't much experience with Gemini males outside the internet (that I'm particularly aware of anyway). And, these are just a few of the menfolk from that Sun sign that I can honestly say I love having around since being part of LL's community. Again, just Suns of this sign. I can think of several menfolk with their Mars and/or Moon in Gem as well that are also fascinating people in my humble opinion. (YTA, Aquaguy, Anonymidarkness)<3

Bunch of quirky sobs, but gawd luv yas... and, all the happy squares and oppositions you make in my chart too!

Gemini gets a bum rap, in the same way their polar opposite sign does, being given characteristics that make them out to be eternally juvenile, tactless, deceptive, and fickle.

In modern astrology, people get hooked on cliches and extremes (stereotyping)... positive are only touted when someone is searching to confirm their love interest with a person of that placement, and the second things don't pan out the way they liked they turn to the extreme faults so it will confirm their new found prejudice and disdain with not just that person, but that placement. This happens everywhere, and is often on the front page of astro 2.0; at regular intervals, one sign will be taken out of the box and either put on a pedestal or demolished by those active during that week here... until the next week, when it is put back on the shelf while we have a go at some other sign. :/ meh, it happens!

I haven't encountered anyone with extreme prejudice against Gemini suns here. So far, I've actually only encountered maybe 1 or 2 people who had a particular hatred toward a single sun sign over all others. And, it wasn't Gemini (yet). lol

There are times when each of the mutable signs will be picked apart, but generally those threads/topics are just there for the OP to vent their anguish with some recent experience, and within those same threads everyone can have a debate or conversation that does serve to enlighten others at least on some level.

I think you'll be safe here, at LL, from extreme prejudices. People here are everywhere in their studies of astrology, from extremely professional, both orthodox and new age, Eastern and Western systems, to the very novice, and simply curious... LL manages to fit everyone into some niche or other.

The mods keep things nice and tidy, and the community is generally welcoming and helpful, if not always harmonious, it is still full of amicable people.

I'm already a fan - I like your placements, we have some pretty cool and conflicting synastry (combination of two natal charts). lol

As for commitment issues - there are a few suspect aspects in your chart that I can discern. The most prominent being the conjunction of Venus-Mars on the DSC - (I'd rather see the chart in astro.com wheel, but yeah...) Venus in Taurus, that alone spells out wanting and waiting for absolute perfection in your partner before giving the full commitment. Or, such has been my experience... Natals with the Ven-Mars conjunction are usually not lacking for admirers either. The Sun-Neptune opposition is certainly at play here too, not to mention the overall mutable energy in conflict with the fixed energy of your chart.

Your ideal partner is out there, but some of these placements would likely make you susceptible to falling for ones that appear to be the "real deal" only to have the rug torn out from beneath you. Your Neptune opposition but Jupiter conjunct Sun and Piscean Moon will definitely call for someone who has pleasant Moon-Neptune and Sun-Jupiter (aspects or placements) in their own chart.

But, there is so much more to it than that...
I wonder (you don't have to answer this, it's just me thinking aloud) how long you lived with your spouse before realizing it was over... don't waste your time trying to make things right with people who are themselves unhappy. It will drain the heck out of your Jupiter-Sun. You have a lot of electricity in your chart, and these charts make you a magnet for those who would rather leech away at those vibrations than contribute to them in the long-run of things.

If anything your chart shows someone who isn't so fickle, and isn't inclined to deceive (at least not purposefully), but a stable and mature individual with a mildly erratic, but unselfish romantic streak. That, and I bet you're a damn good daddy to those kiddos!

It's kinda funny that this other place slighted you on simply being a Gemini...
You seem to be Tauro-Sag dominant. (likely, Pluto, Venus *Jupiter/Neptune dominant by Pullen too, eh...)

~shrug~

Sun signs are one tiny fraction of who anyone is, pity that so many people get hung up on them all the damn time.

Anywho, it's nice to have you with us Brobian, welcome to LL~

I'm the mouse in the corner, quietly lurking these days, call me Moth... I'll be drifting around the asteroid forums more oftem than here though, so if you venture into that branch of astrology and need any help with things, just wave down the lot of us 'roid buffs... (roids...ahem... yup, I said it.)

There're good people here, honest. ^^

posted March 14, 2014 07:45 PM            

With Pisces Moon and a lot of Taurus - you're not a typical Gemini - i give you that. The Moon's ok, though - the Taurus energy slows you down and and makes you focused on one thing at a time - while the Gemini energy is very dynamic and out of focus.

posted March 14, 2014 08:07 PM            

I actually have full custody of our children now and have been raising them entirely alone for 5 years now, she has no visitation rights. I'm not a good dad, I work to much to be but I am an everyday dad.
Today, I went to have my income taxes filed. I've kinda been putting it off this year, for no reason. I usually get a fair amount back, which is spent on new clothes, new shoes, and dental work updates, for my kids. I will use what's left, to pay up on all my bills, just to get a nice financial cushion to start the new year with.

I have been the sole custodian parent of my three children for many years now. Certain events had occurred at their mothers house, that I felt were unhealthy for my children, both physically and mentally, thus I fought for and was granted full custody. Unfortunately, their mother was only granted supervised visitation.

Over the past 6 years, my children's mother has been a non-factor in their lives. They are lucky to see her, on average, once a month. She never calls them, never tells them she loves them, often times birthdays come and go without a word, from mommy. I have held each of my three children, at least once, as they bawled on my shoulder, sobbing that their mommy doesn't love them.

Now here I am, sitting at my tax professionals desk, as she sends my information to the IRS. However, about halfway through the sharing process, it stops and an error messages pops on the screen. The message reads that "the three child dependents have already been claimed on another tax return". I'm stunned at first, I told my advisor that it must be a mistake and I ask her to retry it. She retries it, but it popped up again.

I knew right away who had claimed them. There is only one other person, on this earth, that knows my kids SS numbers, besides me.

This selfish woman, had taken it upon herself, to take money that she had absolutely no right too. By doing this, she has taken clothes off her children's back, taken shoes off of their feet, taken food out of their bellies, and taken their excitement and enthusiasm that usually comes during this time of year.

posted March 14, 2014 08:09 PM            

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Originally posted by 7thGuardian:
Try: www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi - for your natal chart, it's more accurate than Cafe Astrology.

With Pisces Moon and a lot of Taurus - you're not a typical Gemini - i give you that. The Moon's ok, though - the Taurus energy slows you down and and makes you focused on one thing at a time - while the Gemini energy is very dynamic and out of focus.

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posted March 14, 2014 08:39 PM            

For someone who doesn't have much Gemini in her chart - you exude a lot of Gemini energy - especially in terms of writing. Then again - if i remember correctly, your MC was in Gemini - which supposedly, has a lot to do with the way we interact on the internet. To some extent you were like an archenemy with PixieJane - from this point of view. HA! Different writing styles - though, both of you had a lot to write about and wasn't a boring read. :P

Things have changed a bit around this parts since you left (as the world is ever-changing and same goes for people... i changed too :P). Some oldies left as you did, others joined (different vibes) - some became more positive, wiser more open minded - others didn't change that much - even took the opposite direction while dabbling with negativity for most part - and as we all get better at what we practice (you get the idea). So, i kinda left too - that being one of the main reasons (there was simply to much negativity around this parts). Anyway - it's good to see you speeding around.

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posted March 14, 2014 08:44 PM            

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Originally posted by Brobian:
The I am prescribed adderal because my mind is so hyperactive and unfocused.

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posted March 14, 2014 08:52 PM            

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
Your chart says your ascendant is in Virgo, not Scorpio. But I'd definitely still give it a look.

Your 7th house ruler is in the 4th house and it's opposing Jupiter and the Sun. This could mean you like to look for relationships especially ones with a dreamy-like quality to them, but may find it hard to commit to a relationship. Plus, those three planets are in a mutable sign, meaning you need crave a lot of change and variety in your relationships. But then your Saturn trines your Neptune, so this could really bring you back to reality whenever you need to and will probably lessen your need for change and variety. Saturn squares Uranus and Venus and Mars opposes Uranus, so you may find that your relationships have a lot of suddden changes in them that you do not expect. Most of them will be disappointments in your relationships.

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I have always been quite the days dreamer. I can easily loose hours of time wrapped up in my own mind. Lol

posted March 14, 2014 09:17 PM            

Gem has that duality and honestly I think there are two kinds of Geminis (could be said of any sign but especially true for Gem and Sag) There are some who skim over the surface of everything and just want to flutter around having a good time (can be huge flirts and pseudo-intellectuals) but not all are like that. I honestly don't think there's a more intelligent sign than Gem, I definitely have respect. The only downside is that with some Geminis it's a little bit of false advertising... They can have you and themselves convinced they're experts on something, but dig a little deeper or ask a few more questions and turns out they mostly just knew a few random facts about the topic. On the other hand, when they do know what they're talking about or are actually intellectual it can be impressive...

Generally Gems will always know the right thing to say though, Sags love words and *ideas* too, but with Sag it can get sloppy sometimes. Anyway since they're witty and naturally charming those communication skills can be used manipulatively or not depending on the person/situation.. The other thing Gems get criticism for is constantly changing their mind, which sometimes has some truth to it... It's interesting though. Seems kind of similar to how Libra has a reputation for being indecisive since they try to balance out every situation by equally considering both sides of things. Gemini has a similar approach except everything is always in 3D, way more than just two sides... So I can see how it would be conflicting, but it can still be difficult for others to handle the unpredictability.

posted March 14, 2014 09:26 PM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
Ok generally I appreciate Gemini energy, but just to rant a little bit...

Gem has that duality and honestly I think there are two kinds of Geminis (could be said of any sign but especially true for Gem and Sag) There are some who skim over the surface of everything and just want to flutter around having a good time (can be huge flirts and pseudo-intellectuals) but not all are like that. I honestly don't think there's a more intelligent sign than Gem, I definitely have respect. The only downside is that with some Geminis it's a little bit of false advertising... They can have you and themselves convinced they're experts on something, but dig a little deeper or ask a few more questions and turns out they mostly just knew a few random facts about the topic. On the other hand, when they do know what they're talking about or are actually intellectual it can be impressive...

Generally Gems will always know the right thing to say though, Sags love words and *ideas* too, but with Sag it can get sloppy sometimes. Anyway since they're witty and naturally charming those communication skills can be used manipulatively or not depending on the person/situation.. The other thing Gems get criticism for is constantly changing their mind, which sometimes has some truth to it... It's interesting though. Seems kind of similar to how Libra has a reputation for being indecisive since they try to balance out every situation by equally considering both sides of things. Gemini has a similar approach except everything is always in 3D, way more than just two sides... So I can see how it would be conflicting, but it can still be difficult for others to handle the unpredictability.

Sooo anyway sorry for the long post (I'm bored lol) but overall I really do like Gems. And on a side note, I've noticed Venus sign actually says more about if someone will cheat than Sun (have to consider the house and aspects too). Mars to an extent, but Venus shows our views on relationships...

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You've no need to be sorry. I quite enjoyed reading what you had to say. Thank you.

I actually do have a good intelligence (I dropped out of school in the 9th grade, so I have self educated myself), I have a firm intellect, and I'm witty. I can be flirtatious, but I find it harmless and I'm single. In a relationship however, I wouldn't even speak with the opposite sex out of respect for my SO.

posted March 14, 2014 09:28 PM            

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
I suggest you use astro.com. They don't do free interpretations, but they have the most accurate charts online.

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posted March 14, 2014 09:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Brobian:
I believe I did, yet I've no way of understanding it lol.
http://www.astro.com/tmpd/cmobile-vhjfile7wumWS-u1393406473/astro_w2g w_01_philip_schafer_hp.2551.8965.pdf

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posted March 14, 2014 09:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Brobian:
I have read about moon in Pisces people being empathic, or so sinusitis that they can actually absorb the emotions of others. Do any of you by chance have any knowledge on this? Is this really true?

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