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Topic: Characteristics of a Gemini
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Brobian Knowflake Posts: 53 From: Brewster , Ohio USA Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 14, 2014 04:31 PM
Good day, everyone. I've recently started to delve into astrology. I've never really looked fully into it before, up until about a month ago. Once I had don't my own personal natal chart, I was absolutely fascinated to it's accuracy towards me. Then with a new found interest in astrology, I explored the World Wide Web seeking any knowledge I could gain about astrology, and a better understanding of my own personal chart. During that adventure I happened to stumble upon a website, which I at first thought was really cool, however that didn't last. This was a social type website but it was centered around astrology, having various chat rooms you could enter. These rooms were plentiful and touched on all thing astrology. This was like an astrology noobs paradise. Within a couple hours of being in this site, I started being attacked, literally. These people didn't know me from Adam, yet they, in their own righteous minds, had me all figured. Within two hours of being there, I was a liar, a cheat, a player, a storyteller, and a Gemini ******* . I had later found out that certain people there had a personal goal to keep male Gemini's out of there. My question for everyone is, are male Gemini's looked poorly at throughout the entire astrology world or was it just this particular site? Are their any male Gemini in this site? IP: Logged |
PeterPan Knowflake Posts: 290 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted March 14, 2014 04:37 PM
I'm a male Gemini, they keep bullying me :'(IP: Logged |
Brobian Knowflake Posts: 53 From: Brewster , Ohio USA Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 14, 2014 04:42 PM
Lol I definitely don't feel bullied. I figured out how to easily deal with bullies, way back in high school. IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen Knowflake Posts: 508 From: Planet Earth Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 14, 2014 04:52 PM
Well, I'd say people say that Geminis are liars and cheaters because of what it symbolizes. It's the sign of the twins, after all. Most Geminis have two sides to their personalities. As for being cheaters, maybe they are, maybe they aren't. It depends on the chart. Those cheating Gems are probably ones that have a heavy Gemini influence in their chart and might have heavily afflicted planets--especially ones with Venus in Gemini (afflicted, of course).Personally, I don't hate Geminis. Heck, I'm a Gem rising. I like being somewhat a Gemini because it gives me good communication and social skills. That's something. I'm also blessed with a good sense of humor which is really helpful because I always demand people's attention (damn Leo). And I can't say I don't lie--everybody does it. I'd think of it more like "stretching the truth". Geminis can be pretty smart, too. ------------------ Gemini Ascendant Sun in Leo Moon in Cancer Mercury in Virgo Venus in Virgo Mars in Libra "You were born a lion. Don't die a sheep." ~ Leos ♌️ IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows Moderator Posts: 2269 From: UNITED STATES, BABY Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 14, 2014 05:06 PM
I lie a lot too, lol. Gemini Ascendant here  But I think that all of the signs have their own personal defects and you just happened to have found a bad experience, that's all. ------------------ My Chart! " Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift. That's why it is called the present." -Joan Rivers "Be who u r and say what u feel cuz those who matter dont mind & those who mind don't matter" -Dr.Seuss "Never mistake silence for ignorance, calmness for acceptance, or kindness for weakness." -Carson Kolhoff IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 1036 From: Mercury Registered: Aug 2013
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posted March 14, 2014 05:08 PM
I'm sorry that you get this impression but to be honest I don't think that gemini have the easiest time, I mean it's a really cool sign IRL, but astrology-people mostly view gemini as a bit too manipulating, talkative and just overall hot n' cold! This is just some of the generalizations that people assume fits on all geminis! But as you learn about astrology, hopefully you'll discover that there is so much more than just the sun sign. The moon, venus, mars and ascendant also plays a very big role, then the aspects will tell probably the most important informations and the placements of your planets also plays a role. Astrology is very complex and you can never know it all… so those people from that chatroom (which site is this anyways?) clearly doesn't know astrology in depth. IP: Logged |
Brobian Knowflake Posts: 53 From: Brewster , Ohio USA Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 14, 2014 05:11 PM
I'm still trying to learn my whole chart, which is a work in progress. Personally, I'm a single father of three. I'm out for conversation and maybe learn something and pass the IP: Logged |
Brobian Knowflake Posts: 53 From: Brewster , Ohio USA Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 14, 2014 05:18 PM
I honestly don't lie that much. I mean everyone on this planet has told a lie at some point or another, which I'm not saying I haven't, but it's definitely not like a second nature to me. Plus I've always been extremely loyal and faithful. Actually, I'm usually the one having my hear tramped on. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 1165 From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19 Registered: Nov 2013
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posted March 14, 2014 05:25 PM
I'm Gemini moon One.... I don't lie. I have and I can in certain situations but it's rare. Usually I simply can't. Gemini sun males. I won't blindly write then off for being Gemini males. But I haven't honestly liked one yet. Sort of for a bit but it fell apart quickly. IP: Logged |
Brobian Knowflake Posts: 53 From: Brewster , Ohio USA Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 14, 2014 05:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by DeepFreeze: I'm Gemini moon One.... I don't lie. I have and I can in certain situations but it's rare. Usually I simply can't. Gemini sun males. I won't blindly write then off for being Gemini males. But I haven't honestly liked one yet. Sort of for a bit but it fell apart quickly.
If I may ask, what is it that you don't like?
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Brobian Knowflake Posts: 53 From: Brewster , Ohio USA Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 14, 2014 05:31 PM
quote: Originally posted by DeepFreeze: I'm Gemini moon One.... I don't lie. I have and I can in certain situations but it's rare. Usually I simply can't. Gemini sun males. I won't blindly write then off for being Gemini males. But I haven't honestly liked one yet. Sort of for a bit but it fell apart quickly.
If I may ask, what is it that you don't like?
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Solar_Leo_Queen Knowflake Posts: 508 From: Planet Earth Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 14, 2014 05:36 PM
You have a bunch of Earth placements. That should keep you steady with everything. You probably don't talk as much as other Geminis or even socialize too much. I'd say you are more grounded and practical in the things that you do.IP: Logged |
Brobian Knowflake Posts: 53 From: Brewster , Ohio USA Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 14, 2014 05:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen: You have a bunch of Earth placements. That should keep you steady with everything. You probably don't talk as much as other Geminis or even socialize too much. I'd say you are more grounded and practical in the things that you do.
Actually, I'm very talkative but only to people I trust. I'm very emotional and tend to get hurt easy and because of that I tend to stay at home. I have a hard time dealing with dramatic or negative people, so I diligently keep them pushed far away from me. IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen Knowflake Posts: 508 From: Planet Earth Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 14, 2014 05:47 PM
quote: Originally posted by Brobian: Actually, I'm very talkative but only to people I trust. I'm very emotional and tend to get hurt easy and because of that I tend to stay at home. I have a hard time dealing with dramatic or negative people, so I diligently keep them pushed far away from me.
As far as I know, you only show your Sun sign qualities to people who are close to you--thus, you're only talkative to people you're comfortable with. It is the core of your personality and only a few will be able to see it. Pisces moons are usually very sensitive. This is why you 'get hurt' a lot. Pisces is a water sign and these signs rule emotions. You are very emotional because of this. And since moon rules the 4th house, which is the house that rules homes and family, you feel more emotionally secure when you're at home. It is where you retreat from reality. May I ask what your rising/ascendant sign is? IP: Logged |
Brobian Knowflake Posts: 53 From: Brewster , Ohio USA Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 14, 2014 05:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen: As far as I know, you only show your Sun sign qualities to people who are close to you--thus, you're only talkative to people you're comfortable with. It is the core of your personality and only a few will be able to see it. Pisces moons are usually very sensitive. This is why you 'get hurt' a lot. Pisces is a water sign and these signs rule emotions. You are very emotional because of this. And since moon rules the 4th house, which is the house that rules homes and family, you feel more emotionally secure when you're at home. It is where you retreat from reality. May I ask what your rising/ascendant sign is?
My ascendant is Scorpio.
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KingofCups Knowflake Posts: 155 From: Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 14, 2014 05:54 PM
quote: Originally posted by Brobian: Actually, I'm very talkative but only to people I trust. I'm very emotional and tend to get hurt easy and because of that I tend to stay at home. I have a hard time dealing with dramatic or negative people, so I diligently keep them pushed far away from me.
That could probably attributed to your Pisces Moon for the most part, outside of being talkative, which is a very Gemini-like thing. Geminis aren't all liars and cheats. They have the potential to be. And with a Pisces Moon, you have a pretty great potential to be. But that doesn't mean that you will be, especially because of the dominance of Taurus in your chart. You like stability and harmony. You want things to stay peaceful. And that probably involves telling the truth most of the time. Another thing is that those of certain signs, like Pisces, who have high morals or are highly in tune with themselves, are definitely not going to be chronic liars. On the contrary, they can be spiritual leaders. Geminis are good at lying because they are great with communicating and communicating in exactly the way they want to, making for excellent lying skills. Whether you choose to make use of this skill in this way is your choice. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 1165 From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19 Registered: Nov 2013
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posted March 14, 2014 05:58 PM
quote: Originally posted by Brobian: If I may ask, what is it that you don't like?
Sure. I don't mean to be, oh this is how it is, but it's my take. They seem very secretive, yet judgmental. A holier than thou attitude. For a while while it seems as though they like me when actually it's a front while they size me up to see if they actually do. It feels like a game. Talking behind my back and that sort of thing. Then it seems like they never do figure out if they do like me or not. As if they just never know really what it is they want. Even their confidence seems to go back and forth. One guy would share things with his wife, who in turn shared things with me because we were close. She didn't mean it to hurt him, just taking to a friend. But she indicated that he would feel inferior to me yet the way he acted was that he was superior to everybody! Just very confusing people who seem to not care what happens to others while they figure things out, how they feel about you. The women seem much more stable and direct - more chatty even. The males seem to talk much less and think in their head more. Women just come out directly with how they feel. Granted, I'm a guy so that could influence how each interacts with me also. IP: Logged |
Brobian Knowflake Posts: 53 From: Brewster , Ohio USA Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 14, 2014 06:10 PM
I am actually very mind strong, meaning I like to think things through. However, my heart controls me. I have been at the very bottom of life, down where the meaning of life is easily lost. I've made bad decisions and have paid for them. I climbed back out of that low a very humbled man. I am superior to no one. I'm not judgmental, not even a bit. Who someone is or what they have done doesn't even enter my mind. I'm definitely no where near a perfect soul. I can be secretive, depending on how well I know you and if you've proven to me your trustworthy. I learned at a young age not to just throw trust out and let people walk right in your heart. Unfortunately a lot of humans aren't merciful.
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Solar_Leo_Queen Knowflake Posts: 508 From: Planet Earth Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 14, 2014 06:34 PM
quote: Originally posted by Brobian: I am actually very mind strong, meaning I like to think things through.
This is a contribution of your Mercury, Venus, and Mars being in Taurus. Taurus likes to plan things before they act on them. You won't be prone to cheating unless Venus and the Moon is heavily afflicted. quote: I can be secretive, depending on how well I know you and if you've proven to me your trustworthy. I learned at a young age not to just throw trust out and let people walk right in your heart. Unfortunately a lot of humans aren't merciful.
That's your Scorpio ascendant acting out. Scorpios like to keep things to themselves and don't easily open up. Just like its sign, the Scorpion, you like to test people before you start getting comfortable with them. IP: Logged |
Brobian Knowflake Posts: 53 From: Brewster , Ohio USA Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 14, 2014 06:42 PM
quote: Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen: That's your Scorpio ascendant acting out. Scorpios like to keep things to themselves and don't easily open up. Just like its sign, the Scorpion, you like to test people before you start getting comfortable with them.
I've never cheated on anyone in my life and I doubt I ever will. I am extremely compassionate to everyone else and not to much at me. If you were in need of 20 bucks and all I had was 20 bucks, you'd be given it. even if I did go hungry for a few days. IP: Logged |
Brobian Knowflake Posts: 53 From: Brewster , Ohio USA Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 14, 2014 06:44 PM
If I might ask, in my chart, which part of it makes me unable to commit to a relationship?IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3151 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted March 14, 2014 06:46 PM
quote: Originally posted by Brobian: If I might ask, in my chart, which part of it makes me unable to commit to a relationship?
Unable to commit? Gemini IP: Logged |
Brobian Knowflake Posts: 53 From: Brewster , Ohio USA Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 14, 2014 06:50 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: Unable to commit? Gemini
I've only been in one relationship my entire life lol, which was my marriage. It had lasted 13 years and since my divorce 7 years ago, I've been single. However, I was very heartbroken after the divorce.
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Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3151 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted March 14, 2014 06:51 PM
Aw I'm sorry to hear that. It could be your ascendant not being able to let it go and not allowing you to want to commit in other relationships. IP: Logged |
Brobian Knowflake Posts: 53 From: Brewster , Ohio USA Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 14, 2014 06:57 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: Aw I'm sorry to hear that. It could be your ascendant not being able to let it go and not allowing you to want to commit in other relationships.
I actually believe in true love,(please don't laugh to hard lol) I have written numerous poems and songs about it. I sometimes feel like I was born 800 years to late. I believe you are right though. I am over her, by all means. However, I cannot forget the pain, it's always there, always aching. IP: Logged |