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Topic: Scorpio Venus....what's the craziest, intense thing you've ever done because of love?
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LucieLemonade
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posted March 26, 2014 03:27 PM
  
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Originally posted by Gabby:
The guy I'm seeing has not played any games, so straight forward and understanding.
I guess I'm shocked because is always read and the few scorpios is met where huge head game players....I can't deal with that!
I have saggy Sun/Merc/Nep, he has saggy Sun/Merc/AC we are both very straight forward in our needs and our feelings...I can't stand game players and I hope he doesn't change.
He has told me in the past he played the game but it was with other water signs that were screwing him over, his pisces ex wife was a notorious cheater and thought it was ok....so I guess he used his scorp Venus to play with her mind. But said he hated doing it and got away from her because he wasn't who he wanted to be with her.
But he's not a Scorp sun? Scorp Venuses don't play games I don't think. I don't and I've never read that we do.
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DeepFreeze
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posted March 26, 2014 03:33 PM
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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
But he's not a Scorp sun? Scorp Venuses don't play games I don't think. I don't and I've never read that we do.
I don't think so either. In fact I don't understand why it's considered an undesirable placement. Myself being on the receiving end of a Venus in Scorpio. IP: Logged |
LucieLemonade
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posted March 26, 2014 03:36 PM
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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
I don't think so either. In fact I don't understand why it's considered an undesirable placement. Myself being on the receiving end of a Venus in Scorpio.
I don't either. It's one of my best features that and my Scorpio Asc.  IP: Logged |
pocaloca
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posted March 26, 2014 03:38 PM
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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
Yes. They run away if you act like you say you did. Like I said, I wouldn't put up with the drama. They like to know where they stand. If there is a hint you're not into them (the push pull thing) they leave. If it's the one, they stay. @ Gabby, is this the Cap?
In my case they always but always came back but too late...So I have now like a line of Scorpio Venus ( also asc etc) behind who are still interested and even more hurt because I moved on, because they feel they lost me with their tests and attempts to dominate me...Lemonade, I am 41 and know what I am talking about. When it comes to a Scorpio ( Venus) man they are like Flies on **** when it comes to me. They smell me, follow me, seduce me, make my life miserable full of mind games an pain and then they eventually loose ( Thanks to my Gemini Sun and Aries hot moon).
Tragic love stories. ..I am Taurus Asc as well so Scorp is on my DC
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Gabby
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posted March 26, 2014 03:50 PM
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
I agree. What they described is not me.
What part are you talking about that isn't like you?
Edit...I reread what you wrote, I got it, understand you were talking about the guy who was acting crazy, n how you wouldn't deal with it!  I've never been crazy or dramatic in relationships but I do deal with intensity that is hard to handle...sometimes it is harder to be in love than it's worth, it's just stressful.
But with this guy he seems to be equally intense and can handle my intensity, or I guess it's more like depth that I need from someone and want to share. It's no light hearted relationship I need, I like that he isn't turned off by that....he's right there with me. I feel validated and understood by him. For me it's really rare to find and I it's really nice!
But I'm pretty low key in relationships on the outside, even if I'm trying so hard to maintain myself on the inside. But he can feel it or sense it...n responds in a way that releases all that pint up energy and I feel balanced again.
My worst thing I do I walk away, no games, no arguments I just leave! But I do have high expectations because i should, n I'm not going to let someone treat me any less than I deserve....but I give the same respect and appreciation that I ask for.
Respect...it's an absolute must, I could not be with someone who flirted a lot in front of me.
Once I walked out on a date n got a cab n went home without telling the guy because he was such a flirt n it got on my nerves. I can't stand that kind of disrespect. IP: Logged |
pocaloca
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posted March 26, 2014 03:51 PM
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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
I don't either. It's one of my best features that and my Scorpio Asc.
?? Scorpio Venus and AScs are the masters of mind games ..at least the dudes. They are addicted to it. Mysterious as they are they usually just send tons of signals expecting from the other to react , ask about etc..Scorpio Venus seldom opens fully in a direct way other then maybe say after first few taks or dates that he would be your husband or father of your children or similar...my exp...and they are not good in giving up even when other moved on. IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted March 26, 2014 03:52 PM
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Originally posted by pocaloca:
I dont know darling...My usual scenario is that they try to dominate me, brake me, make me do what they want and I do not let them..eventually we end up in fight not speaking, suffering and waiting who would give up and obey as first....eventually they come back in to my life, knock on my door, after 6 month or a year of silence like nothing happened and I usually already moved on ( my gemini Sun) after few month of obsession and extreme love pain and suffering...damn this is also funny but true unfortunately .
I couldn't deal with this! I'd be so frustrated n angry!
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pocaloca
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posted March 26, 2014 03:56 PM
Gabby dear..
As I understand your lover man is "only" Venus in Scorp. so he has a lot of other Influences to balance that Scorpio energy..My current "love pain" is Libra ( ya know !) Sun, Venus, Mars and ASC in Scorpio..The one before was Libra ( !) Sun, Venus, Moon in Scorp....The one before..ah! better I stop here  IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted March 26, 2014 03:57 PM
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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
Yes. They run away if you act like you say you did. Like I said, I wouldn't put up with the drama. They like to know where they stand. If there is a hint you're not into them (the push pull thing) they leave. If it's the one, they stay. @ Gabby, is this the Cap?
No, we went out on a date and this girl kept sitting on his lap and he acted like he didn't know what to do....he just let her sit there looking all stressed but still did nothing.
Pisces Venus, no thank you! Too wimpy for me! I mean how hard is it to ask a person to move? I didnt say anything at the time but I never went out with him again and stopped talking to him after I told him I didn't think we had enough in common.
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Barbiegirl19
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posted March 26, 2014 03:57 PM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
What part are you talking about that isn't like you?
I've never been crazy or dramatic in relationships but I do deal with intensity that is hard to handle...sometimes it is harder to be in love than it's worth, it's just stressful.
But with this guy he seems to be equally intense and can handle my intensity, or I guess it's more like depth that I need from someone and want to share. It's no light hearted relationship I need, I like that he turned off by that....he's right there with me. I feel validated and understood by him. For me it's really rare to find and I it's really nice!
But I'm pretty low key in relationships on the outside, even if I'm trying so hard to maintain myself on the inside. But he can feel it or sense it...n responds in a way that releases all that pint up energy and I feel balanced again.
My worst thing I do I walk away, no games, no arguments I just leave! But I do have high expectations because i should, n I'm not going to let someone treat me any less than I deserve....but I give the same respect and appreciation that I ask for.
Respect...it's an absolute must, I could not be with someone who flirted a lot in front of me.
Once I walked out on a date n got a cab n went home without telling the guy because he was such a flirt n it got on my nerves. I can't stand that kind of disrespect.
Not you, what Pocaloca was describing sounds a like Scorpio sun. The venus, sun, moon and ascendant are all completely different. IP: Logged |
pocaloca
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posted March 26, 2014 04:00 PM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
I couldn't deal with this! I'd be so frustrated n angry!
Thats exactly how I get...but with burning strong passion inside ( lasts quite a while) till I eventually burn out.
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theunknown
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posted March 26, 2014 04:10 PM
Do you think sun square pluto (or opposite) also play mind game?The scorp venuses I know don't necessarily play game but scorpio sun and moon do IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted March 26, 2014 04:11 PM
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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
But he's not a Scorp sun? Scorp Venuses don't play games I don't think. I don't and I've never read that we do.
No, he's not a scorp Sun, he's saggy Sun
He is scorp Venus, aqua Mars sq by 4 degrees
Venus is sextile Jupiter by 4 degrees
Saggy sun@15 sq his pisces Moon@13
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pocaloca
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posted March 26, 2014 04:11 PM
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
Not you, what Pocaloca was describing sounds a like Scorpio sun. The venus, sun, moon and ascendant are all completely different.
Barbie, I only had one time love story with a Scorpio Sun..my first boyfriend ever.After I left him for good ( He was cheating on me) I needed police protection cos he started to stalk me, getting jealous, hunting and threatening my friends, love ointerests etc...nightmare.
He needed some 2 years to finally leave me alone..few years later I heard he died from the Heroine overdose btw and I know that he was not taking any drugs while we were together... Scorpio Sun is more likely to attack in a direct way,while other strong Scorpio placements (Venus, Moon, ASC) works more in the background with mystery, patience and manipulative games.
I would never, ever dare to be with Scorpio Sun again after my experience btw. IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted March 26, 2014 04:13 PM
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Originally posted by Astro keen:
So funny Gabby . Glad to hear that you did not get hung up on the Chiron on Dsc guy. I need to learn a thing or two.
Eventually you get tired of waiting on someone to build their empire n make their billions, it gets really lonely and really boring! IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted March 26, 2014 04:18 PM
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
Not you, what Pocaloca was describing sounds a like Scorpio sun. The venus, sun, moon and ascendant are all completely different.
I would have to agree, I have not met any scorp suns that I could deal with....I'm so happy to hear scorp Venus is different!
Tell Deepfreeze I have to agree with him....it seems like a placement I will also like to be on the receiving end of!! IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted March 26, 2014 04:20 PM
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Originally posted by pocaloca:
Gabby dear..
As I understand your lover man is "only" Venus in Scorp. so he has a lot of other Influences to balance that Scorpio energy..My current "love pain" is Libra ( ya know !) Sun, Venus, Mars and ASC in Scorpio..The one before was Libra ( !) Sun, Venus, Moon in Scorp....The one before..ah! better I stop here
I'm kind of thanking God it's only scorp Venus, anything else and they sound like such a handful! Lol IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted March 26, 2014 04:26 PM
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Originally posted by pocaloca:
Barbie, I only had one time love story with a Scorpio Sun..my first boyfriend ever.After I left him for good ( He was cheating on me) I needed police protection cos he started to stalk me, getting jealous, hunting and threatening my friends, love ointerests etc...nightmare.
He needed some 2 years to finally leave me alone..few years later I heard he died from the Heroine overdose btw and I know that he was not taking any drugs while we were together... Scorpio Sun is more likely to attack in a direct way,while other strong Scorpio placements (Venus, Moon, ASC) works more in the background with mystery, patience and manipulative games.
I would never, ever dare to be with Scorpio Sun again after my experience btw.
I met a scorpio sun/moon years ago we went out on one date, he pressured me for sex...I said no.
He kept calling and even showed up at my work insisting I had sex with him.
One night I'm leaving work n he's standing outside my car and tells me he got us a room and I needed to go with him....I turned around and walked back into work and called the cops! He was psycho!
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pocaloca
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posted March 26, 2014 04:38 PM
@Gabby..
Scorpio Venus Man def. has his charm and as long as not with to many other Scorp placements or bad contacts to that Venus he can for shore be amazing, deep, loving, sexy and less pain in the neck kinda demon from the dark ..but they def. like strong minded females with a dark mysterious side that they can not manipulate so easy..Not one I knew was in to "soft" easy going, easy get kinda girls.IP: Logged |
pocaloca
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posted March 26, 2014 04:40 PM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
I met a scorpio sun/moon years ago we went out on one date, he pressured me for sex...I said no.
He kept calling and even showed up at my work insisting I had sex with him.
One night I'm leaving work n he's standing outside my car and tells me he got us a room and I needed to go with him....I turned around and walked back into work and called the cops! He was psycho!
Yes..Scorpio Sun...they attack in a direct way if they want something or someone..Venus in Scorpio and AScs is more subtile, they do it quiet and with well planed strategy, game.
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LucieLemonade
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posted March 26, 2014 05:03 PM
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
Not you, what Pocaloca was describing sounds a like Scorpio sun. The venus, sun, moon and ascendant are all completely different.
Agreed. But maybe she just smells really good. quote:
Originally posted by Gabby:
No, he's not a scorp Sun, he's saggy Sun
He is scorp Venus,
Ah... that's why he sounds like me. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted March 26, 2014 05:11 PM
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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
I'm a Venus in Scorpio and if you did this and what you described above I'd be out of there in a flash.
What Gabby describes in her guy is more like me. I'm not particularly jealous and respect and trust people. I'm quite intense internally. I generally just know if it's a short thing and my interest will easily wane or someone I'm going to pine over for a long time.
I've never done anything crazy as asked in the first post. I take a long time to say I love you and I usually keep the depth of my feelings to myself. But i'm honest and open with my "interest". The other person will normally know I'm interested, just not how much I'm interested. Could be a mix of my Venus and my Sag sun & moon. Wait... I read further and you talk about games. Is he as Scorpio venus or sun? I never play games. Though my Mars is in Libra.
That's also my experience with Scorpio placements, including Venus. They are intense, real and don't play games -which I love about them.
I don't like childish people because of my Cap placements and I see games as childish. The ones who said they play games probably have other things in their chart that overshadow their Venus.. Or.. They had crappy synastry with the object of their attraction and they were too distrusting to be honest. With good synastry Scorpio just doesn't behave this way. IP: Logged |
pocaloca
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posted March 26, 2014 05:19 PM
ahahaha...@Lemonade Maybe I should change my perfume, not a bad idea at all ..I am kinda fed up with Libra Suns and strong Scorpio placements after 20 years of disaster, heart brake and time waste with them ,,,but then I ask my self would other then them be able to handle me in the first place. I (shxt ) was married and I had some long stories behind me with those "flies" IP: Logged |
dadoo
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posted March 26, 2014 05:36 PM
I had started seeing a Scorpio (Sun/Venus), as in "let's be friends first and see what happens" (I'm Aqua ruled after all).
Then I heard about some dating(+) behind my back thru a common friend. So I started wondering how to get rid of Dear Scorpio.
But then I received a "let's not meet again" message. Such a relief! I was like "Wow! Great timing!! That's exactly what I wanted to tell you!!"
It's been two years now. I still regularly receive messages telling me I'm the one.IP: Logged |
pocaloca
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posted March 26, 2014 05:44 PM
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Originally posted by dadoo:
I had started seeing a Scorpio (Sun/Venus), as in "let's be friends first and see what happens" (I'm Aqua ruled after all).
Then I heard about some dating(+) behind my back thru a common friend. So I started wondering how to get rid of Dear Scorpio.
But then I received a "let's not meet again" message. Such a relief! I was like "Wow! Great timing!! That's exactly what I wanted to tell you!!"
It's been two years now. I still regularly receive messages telling me I'm the one.
exactly..classic.
That " letīs not meet again" was his test, or let me call it bite to see how you would react..But you did not which made him want you even more Aqua.
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