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Topic: Men who are/aren't "the hunter" aspects
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moonstruck87 Knowflake Posts: 2309 From: USA Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 27, 2014 09:27 PM
I saw a little "meme" or whatever those things are called on FB saying Ladies if a man wants you, he will chase you. If you have to ask where the relationship goes or who you are to him then the answer is NOWHEREI feel like this is true in some cases of course and not true in others... For example, my brother is rather shy and his mars in cancer, although a cardinal placement makes him tip toe around his feelings and he kinda side steps his way into letting his female interest know he likes her So, in your experience what placements are the hunters and which placements are not?
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Leorpio Knowflake Posts: 695 From: Cypress Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 27, 2014 09:34 PM
Well Lions love the thrill of a chase But we also like being chased. So Leo sun definitely, and probably Leo venus since I have both. Scorpio venus also seems to be a chaser.------------------ Leo Sun Scorpio Moon Capricorn Rising Leo Mercury Leo Venus Sagittarius Jupiter Pisces Saturn Capricorn Uranus Capricorn Neptune Scorpio Pluto Virgo Chiron IP: Logged |
MsPrism Knowflake Posts: 1710 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted March 27, 2014 09:40 PM
I am always the chaser in the relationship. I am an Aries rising with Mars in Aquarius and my Descendant ruler Venus in Gemini 3rd House.I start the relationship but then I'm the first to know when it's time to leave and they're the ones holding on. It's largely because the men I'm interested in are heavy on the feminine signs Taurus, Scorpio and are ruled by Saturn. So I usually have to fight very hard to get the man that I want. It's good because if he isn't hard to get, it's basically not the person for me. Easy to figure out haha. Earth and Water are usually not too big on starting things so I would think a man that chases would have a good dose of fire and for a long chase, earth too. IP: Logged |
doubletaurus Knowflake Posts: 161 From: USA Registered: Jan 2011
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posted March 27, 2014 10:08 PM
I enjoy the chase! Aqua mars and Gemini Venus but I like it more on a mental level. I tend to initiate and focus on you. But it's rare i'm interested in a guy pursuing me. I'm also lazy at times... Most fire placements seem to be the chaser. Especially fire sun and or moon...IP: Logged |
SaturnineMoth Knowflake Posts: 2438 From: Gaea's Omphalos Registered: Aug 2012
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posted March 27, 2014 11:35 PM
Those with Aqua Mars...  They do initiate the chase, taunt, and engage their prey directly - Which is probably why they rank so darn high with me as far as Mars signs go! It's a brave, determined, and intriguing Mars placement, imo. They're clever ones, some Martians will treat all their prey with the same strategy, but Aqua Martians tend to analyze and treat each mark as an individual, using what they determine on the fly to ensnare their victim. ^^ I don't have much in way of experience with the placement, but I can't imagine anyone loving the hunt more than Sagittarius Mars, (except for the occasional Dioscuri Native on the polar end of that alliance, but in my little experience there, they seem to go for a reverse psychology method and lure along what they hunt... kinda like playing with ones food)! I love to chase and be chased, so hunter and hunted... prey and predator dynamic is an absolute must to even get my attention (and keep it)... I blame that on Venus in Sagittarius, Venus on SN cnj Uranus 4h.... I'm all for hunting, but I don't have the same ingenious maneuvers that I've seen come from those Aqua Martians, or the mischievous Leo and Gemini Martians. Scorpio Mars-Pluto in the 3rd translates to a colder and more calculated strategy to the chase, where Aqua will engage directly, Scorpio will do it surreptitiously, of course... I think, most of us... we like the tug-of-war dynamic, (most Scorpio Mars or Mars-Plutonians even). House will have its own effect over the strategy or lack thereof for a natal too... My Mars is 3rd ruling 8th. Everything needs to be measured out first, and my hunting usually involves mental gymnastics of some sort to both test the hunted, and keep myself fully intrigued. It's either on or off - can't have both. Which puts off and casts out a lot of riffraff. I've no problem doing the initial chasing, but do not feel comfortable with those who kinda hang back... never really stepping up. I've only experienced that with the Marses Pisces and Virgo. At least in one of those cases I think it was more do to with his laziness/abundance of women willing to do all the hunt/chasing, as well as hard Neptune aspects to all his personal planets. There was no excuse for the Pisces Martians I've met who didn't care for the hunter/chase game... Fish like to be caught though, I guess? lol Fish are definitely different. It surely has to do with a person's Mars, and the synastry in each case. Cancer and Taurus Martians that I've known are by far the most reliable with their intentions. Or maybe the ones I know are blessed with little affliction in this area. lol But, they always know where they want to go with someone and for how long. And, generally they are up front about it with that person, sometimes (Taurus Mars) brutally so. But, they don't really hunt-hunt... it's not like other Martians, where there is a game being played and someone has an advantage (or thinks they do) over the other... it always (from the outside at least) looks fair. But, with Taurus and Cancer influence (be it Mars or any other body) - these are signs where the Moon's powers are clearest, purest. So maybe that's why these signs natives usually do have the clearest intentions of all the zodiac. (If you get what I mean here... I may not have explained what my thoughts are well.) Just from my experience - I'd say Sags and Aquas are natural hunters; and Leo, Gem, Libra too... they'd probably employ a "hunt"-like approach if it were enjoyable at the time (just to pass the time, make them feel better, a mental diversion). Whereas Scorpio, Capricorn, and Aries Mars will probably really need to be convinced or have to convince themselves before they engage in the hunt, and well... by then it is more of a battle (and you gotta kinda feel sorry for the prey). *bias* ^^; Pisces and Virgo axis really doesn't promise a hunt, I don't think they play with rules, they kinda make them up as they go on their own... so, maybe in their mind they are "hunting"??? it's hard to say with my strange experiences with either of these two. And, then Taurus and Cancer - who will often say what they mean, mean what they say, and only expect the same from you in return. Or at least that is, (again), my humble experience with them. (Like your brother with his Cancer Mars, he's probably shy at first - but, the second he has revealed his intentions to a love interest he's probably going to deviate from them very little if at all, unless he is completely rejected. That's the Cancer Martian that I know anyway... they slowly wear into their prey, the more they crawl out of their shell the deeper they crawl under your skin. lol) Bulls too but not such a placid change, bull Martians can go from a similar docile state of interest with someone to being potentially relentless and adamantly consuming of their s.o.. The biggest commonality in them is the sense of reserve and selfishness behind their intention, innocent but also potentially menacing. lol that's my general overview of who hunts or -doesn't(doesn't need to). X) IP: Logged |
Odette Knowflake Posts: 7034 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted March 27, 2014 11:50 PM
quote: I feel like this is true in some cases of course and not true in others...
That's true. quote: So, in your experience what placements are the hunters and which placements are not?
Ok.. I am only posting this based on my own experience - not generalisations about the different signs.. Guys who try very hard to get chased (i.e. seduce you in a 'feminine' way.. rather than go after you in a masculine way): Aries Venus, Taurus Mars, Taurus anything actually - they are just lazy, Cancer Mars, Pisces Mars, Sagittarius influence Guys who can go either way, but are generally laid back.. and don't mind the woman chasing: Leo influence Gemini influence Virgo influence Libra influence Capricorn influence Aquarius influence ^ By "influence"... I mean mostly personal planets in those signs.. Mars is big for men.. so Mars would be the first thing to look at. Guys who definitely prefer to chase: Aries Sun Scorpio Sun, Mars Leos can have a slight preference.. but they are just too laid back to care ultimately.. Leo women are much feistier and energetic lol Capricorn Sun, Mars also can have a slight preference towards initiating but they are not hellbent on this. hmmmm yup... I think that's all I can think of 
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CatMote Knowflake Posts: 839 From: Fighting Neptune for his trident Registered: Apr 2013
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posted March 27, 2014 11:56 PM
i definitely prefer to chase, even though it goes against the nature of my pisces mars and venus. i guess its the aries sun. but its gotta be a little of both. if im putting myself out there, i have to feel the confirmation for me to continue. i once was with a sag mars girl and i remember our first kiss together was her saying "kiss me dammit!" i liked that surprisingly. i was really layin on the fire but its so hard for a man to tell if its OK this day and age to make any sort of physical move on a woman. her being upfront and honest and blunt was great. sometimes they can give you all the signs that they are ready, but then when the time comes they look at you like you have 3 heads for trying something. ------------------ "Perhaps there are new plateaus to reach, even greater heights to which I must ascend." IP: Logged |
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posted March 27, 2014 11:56 PM
Yeah I agree it's easy to tell if someone is into you if he's checking you out LOL.Yeah sometimes guys are subtle and wait for an opportunity unfortunately that does not always happen. Sometimes I tell my friends.. like that cute guy is checking you out and they're blushing and I'm just smile or something.. JEEEZ 9/10 he will probably come over if you acknowledge him unless he's a complete pussycat.. UH again I lost astrology.... IP: Logged |
Odette Knowflake Posts: 7034 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted March 27, 2014 11:56 PM
[b]Disclaimer: Nothing I said ^ is interchangeable with women. Absolutely nothing LOL[b]e.g. Aries Venus women are completely opposite the Aries Venus men in behaviour.. and they are big on chasing. IP: Logged |
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posted March 28, 2014 12:01 AM
I mean i have mars in aries but I never chase because..I'm not a beast LOL.. but I don't mind if other people chase me if I'm attracted to them.. I think it boosts my ego or something.. If we exchange glances sometimes I smile or smirk and if I get similar response I'll ease into it and just be very casual and maybe a bit vague or witty. But i have moon-venus in Gemini and air signs are about civility I guess. I think In general I'm really perceptive to expressions and postures I feel like being chaser requires you to be unaware of that... Like you just don't care etc. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze unregistered
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posted March 28, 2014 12:04 AM
I haven't needed to chase much at all. LOL IP: Logged |
MsPrism Knowflake Posts: 1710 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted March 28, 2014 12:30 AM
^ That's cause Scorps just sit there stewing in their juices until someone notices the smell and comes walking over. Dang Scorpios!IP: Logged |
ricardo_a Newflake Posts: 13 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 28, 2014 06:14 AM
Venus in Virgo Mars in Cancer Pisces risingIP: Logged |
ricardo_a Newflake Posts: 13 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 28, 2014 06:31 AM
Venus in Virgo Mars in Cancer Pisces RisingIP: Logged |
LucieLemonade Knowflake Posts: 1592 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted March 28, 2014 11:14 AM
The only guy I know who admits himself that he won't chase is a Leo sun (cusp), Leo moon, Aqua Mars, Cancer Venus. IP: Logged |
SDragon Moderator Posts: 826 From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada Registered: Sep 2012
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posted March 28, 2014 11:16 AM
Taurus Sun/Mars/VenusI chase with my eyes and then expect you to give me a hug :-) IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 3104 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted March 28, 2014 11:50 AM
Venus in scorpio Mars in virgoI realized that I actually like to be the chaser a little bit… If I'm in love with someone, I'll never stop trying to impress them lol… Once I lose interest I couldn't care less about if the person want's me, but then I know were are never gonna be "us" IP: Logged |
Jo B unregistered
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posted March 28, 2014 12:05 PM
In my experience...Taurus/cusp Gemini or Gemini men... always chased me in the early stages. (Cooled off later though, haha) Libra - will chase when and if they feel like it.  Aquarius - cunning chasers who make you feel like you've chased THEM. lol Scorpio - not much chasing from them, we usually just sort of "happened". lol Virgo (my sun sign) and Pisces - as with Scorpio but even more laid back/cool. lol Aries - chased initially and continued to take the iniative throughout the relationship. Personally I'm very wary of being "hunted" by guys who don't really know much about me and are just going for the surface looks. My Leo Venus/Mars/MC and Aquarius moon means that once I see someone I really like, I somehow manage to work them into my life! IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 7206 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted March 28, 2014 12:05 PM
Non-chaser here.Not sure I like being chased either. IP: Logged |
Supreme cT Knowflake Posts: 927 From: NJ Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 28, 2014 12:23 PM
Scorpio sun Sagittarius venus Aquarius ascendant Cancer marsI love to try and impress a girl always try to make them laugh and give them compliments on their outfits while giving eye contact lol "i have to give eye contact" deff cuz of my scorpio nd i like to be the one that starts the convo i dont like the feeling of being reeled in i like to know i got her because i wanted to lol IP: Logged |
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posted March 28, 2014 12:29 PM
quote: Originally posted by Supreme cT: I love to try and impress a girl always try to make them laugh and give them compliments on their outfits while giving eye contact lol "i have to give eye contact" deff cuz of my scorpio nd i like to be the one that starts the convo i dont like the feeling of being reeled in i like to know i got her because i wanted to lol
Yeah that's the thing about Scorpio men which is pretty appealing, imo. They don't really "hunt", they just "are", behave naturally and are unaffectedly charming in a compelling way. I've fallen heavily for a few of them! Virgo/Scorpio down to earth sexuality I guess. Never works out of course! lol
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moonstruck87 Knowflake Posts: 2309 From: USA Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 28, 2014 01:20 PM
quote: Originally posted by LucieLemonade: The only guy I know who admits himself that he won't chase is a Leo sun (cusp), Aqua Mars, Cancer Moon.
I'm dating a Scorpio with aqua mars an cancer moon and he is def taking his precious time and he is consistent with communication but I wouldn't describe him as a hunter at all lol
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Supreme cT Knowflake Posts: 927 From: NJ Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 28, 2014 01:31 PM
quote: Originally posted by moonstruck87: [QUOTE]Originally posted by LucieLemonade: [b]The only guy I know who admits himself that he won't chase is a Leo sun (cusp), Aqua Mars, Cancer Moon.
I'm dating a Scorpio with aqua mars an cancer moon and he is def taking his precious time and he is consistent with communication but I wouldn't describe him as a hunter at all lol[/B][/QUOTE]My boy is a scorpio sun, mars leo and cancer moon and he is the shyest guy i kno hes so scared to start a convo with any girl! I just dont get it especially since he has leo mars! I kno alot of girls that like him but he will Never make the first move he told me he wants girls to come after him lmao
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posted March 28, 2014 01:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by Jo B: Yeah that's the thing about Scorpio men which is pretty appealing, imo. They don't really "hunt", they just "are", behave naturally and are unaffectedly charming in a compelling way.I've fallen heavily for a few of them! Virgo/Scorpio down to earth sexuality I guess. Never works out of course! lol
I'm simply plutonic I guess you might say. (Pluto conjunct asc) Virgo Venus, Mars, mercury (12th) I'm very very happily taken but I've always been sly I guess. Just be present but friendly, a good listener, interested... Smile, etc. I've actually been told that they like to talk to me because I'm just being a friend and not "wanting" anything. There's a trust that occurs that I don't really try to create. It just happens. Idk... Barbie and I talked about it the other day. I may not be like this model type attractive guy (but attractive). There's just some... Thing... Underneath that creates this sex appeal... A desire to get closer. Probably Pluto I guess. But maybe Leo fire and Libra asc charm... Gem moon randomness and humor.
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LucieLemonade Knowflake Posts: 1592 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted March 28, 2014 02:00 PM
quote: Originally posted by LucieLemonade: The only guy I know who admits himself that he won't chase is a Leo sun (cusp), Leo moon, Cancer Venus, Aqua Mars,.
Ok... sometimes I think my synapses in my brain don't synapse.... My X is a Leo sun, Gemini moon, Cancer Venus, Sag Mars, he doesn't chase either. And I made a mistake in my post above on my friend who admits he doesn't chase and his planets. I've fixed them. Leo sun, Leo moon, Cancer Venus, Aqua Mars I've finally found a pattern! I've had two Leo sun/Cancer Venus's in my life. One was the first boy to fall in love with me, the second is the last... for now.... I hope not the last, last, last ever! :-O
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