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Topic: Can a transit ruin your relationship?
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LoadedPistil
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From: NJ, USA
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 31, 2014 11:14 PM
  
Its a bit painful to bring this up, but you didn't think this when you wanted that 3-some?------------------
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Supreme cT
Knowflake Posts: 202
From: NJ
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 31, 2014 11:19 PM
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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
Its a bit painful to bring this up, but you didn't think this when you wanted that 3-some?
My girlfriend and i did not have the 3sum to be honest i just did not want to follow through with doing that i men it sounds awesome but i just cant do it besides she knew i wanted to break up with her and she told me she would have a 3sum with me to keep me and i realized that if i really loved her i wouldnt want anybody else but her, i had been thinking long and hard and i honestly feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders now that im single IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted March 31, 2014 11:20 PM
I agree with LoadedPistil.She seems like she had low self esteem if she wanted the threesome. You should be very gentle with the breakup. From what you described of her she seems extremely sensitive. You may have just made her suicidal who knows. So be very careful. Honestly, you have been pretty inconsiderate with her.
If I were you I would show her this thread so that she can at least read and understand why you're breaking up woth her and that youre not doing it with the intention of hurting her. ------------------
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MsPrism
Knowflake Posts: 1338
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posted March 31, 2014 11:21 PM
I hope that everything works out for you!Make sure that she doesn't mind that you've told other people before you show her this though. I don't like my business shown to others, I think that would **** me off. Just another perspective.  IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted March 31, 2014 11:21 PM
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Supreme cT
Knowflake Posts: 202
From: NJ
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 31, 2014 11:25 PM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
I agree with LoadedPistil.She seems like she had low self esteem if she wanted the threesome. You should be very gentle with the breakup. From what you described of her she seems extremely sensitive. You may have just made her suicidal who knows. So be very careful. Honestly, you have been pretty inconsiderate with her.
If I were you I would show her this thread so that she can at least read and understand why you're breaking up woth her and that youre not doing it with the intention of hurting her.
i had a long nice talk with her i was very nice and caring of her feelings and i reassured her my reason for the breakup was not becuase of any outside force or anything she has done to me i could never be rude or mean to her i mean shes a cancer moon nd so sweet and sensitive thats why it took me so long to tell her because i care about her and will always have her back for anything she may need in the future she wasnt mad at me at all just very upset which i understand its just that im so unhappy being in a relationship its just to serious for me i have been with her since since i was 18 and now im 21 in college and i feel like im 45 years old and married i dont wnt that feeling i want to live life IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil
Knowflake Posts: 820
From: NJ, USA
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 31, 2014 11:50 PM
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Originally posted by Supreme cT:
My girlfriend and i did not have the 3sum to be honest i just did not want to follow through with doing that i men it sounds awesome but i just cant do it besides she knew i wanted to break up with her and she told me she would have a 3sum with me to keep me and i realized that if i really loved her i wouldnt want anybody else but her, i had been thinking long and hard and i honestly feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders now that im single
This is not what you told us. Is there a bulls**t-calling transit? Because im on a streak this month.
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LoadedPistil
Knowflake Posts: 820
From: NJ, USA
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 31, 2014 11:52 PM
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Originally posted by MsPrism:
I hope that everything works out for you!Make sure that she doesn't mind that you've told other people before you show her this though. I don't like my business shown to others, I think that would **** me off. Just another perspective.
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Supreme cT
Knowflake Posts: 202
From: NJ
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 31, 2014 11:57 PM
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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Supreme cT:
[b] My girlfriend and i did not have the 3sum to be honest i just did not want to follow through with doing that i men it sounds awesome but i just cant do it besides she knew i wanted to break up with her and she told me she would have a 3sum with me to keep me and i realized that if i really loved her i wouldnt want anybody else but her, i had been thinking long and hard and i honestly feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders now that im single
This is not what you told us. Is there a bulls**t-calling transit? Because im on a streak this month.
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what do you mean my post about the 3sum was me showing you the chart of the girl that i was "going" to do it with and i said before that i liked her to much and i even said i wasnt going to do it lol i erased what i wrote in that post because i didnt want it just out there for people to read like that and in this post i asked about transits because i really was "Not feeling" my gf and i just really longed to be single so i asked if any transits would encourage that feeling
i dont see where i could have bulls*** you lol IP: Logged |
FireMoon
Knowflake Posts: 1486
From: Minnesota
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted March 31, 2014 11:58 PM
Wow you guys are sooooo harsh. Girls come on here all the time sharing intimate details I'm sure their s.o.'s would not want to be shared. If the issue is with the threesome... I'm sorry but what guy wouldn't want to have a threesome if his gf was into it? You have it all wrong. Stop assuming things you know nothing about. Supreme cT, I hope that in breaking up with her you've done what's best for yourself (and by extension for her) by not dragging things out. Sorry you seem to bring out so many haters here for no reason, I can tell you're being honest... Maybe it's the sag and aqua placements ppl don't like but that's their problem lol IP: Logged |
Supreme cT
Knowflake Posts: 202
From: NJ
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 01, 2014 12:00 AM
i feel comfortable telling you guys this over my friends because all my boys want me to be single so whatever i tell them they always jst say yea man break up with her nd thats not usefull advice at least when i talk to you guys on the forum its not biased i just asked what transits could be pushing me to the point that i just want to end the relationship trust me i dont have time to lie and BS especially on an astrology forum whatever i post im being real about itIP: Logged |
Supreme cT
Knowflake Posts: 202
From: NJ
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 01, 2014 12:03 AM
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Originally posted by FireMoon:
Wow you guys are sooooo harsh. Girls come on here all the time sharing intimate details I'm sure their s.o.'s would not want to be shared. If the issue is with the threesome... I'm sorry but what guy wouldn't want to have a threesome if his gf was into it? You have it all wrong. Stop assuming things you know nothing about. Supreme cT, I hope that in breaking up with her you've done what's best for yourself (and by extension for her) by not dragging things out. Sorry you seem to bring out so many haters here for no reason, I can tell you're being honest... Maybe it's the sag and aqua placements ppl don't like but that's their problem lol
thank you and yes i really feel so much better and my gut instinct is telling me i made the correct choice i just like to vent out some thoughts and feelings i have on here i dont want to get my friends involved they are all single so there relationship advice sucks haha IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 9784
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted April 01, 2014 12:05 AM
You guys are kinda harsh on him..
You actually seem sweet and compromising not defensive at all but get pinned often as a douchebag player because people often judge superficially...IP: Logged |
MsPrism
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posted April 01, 2014 12:09 AM
I'm just saying that you probably won't want to hurt her more by telling her about the thread if she's anything like me. I don't really care what people do and in your case I think you know in your heart that you want to be single. Whether that's considered selfish or not has nothing to do with it, it's about being true to yourself. People get hurt in love, it's just how it is.IP: Logged |
Supreme cT
Knowflake Posts: 202
From: NJ
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 01, 2014 12:10 AM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
You guys are kinda harsh on him..
You actually seem sweet and compromising not defensive at all but get pinned often as a douchebag player because people often judge superficially...
Thanks kero its true lmao every girl i have gotten to know personally always told me that my first impression gives off that look like im some player type when im actually far from that IP: Logged |
Supreme cT
Knowflake Posts: 202
From: NJ
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 01, 2014 12:13 AM
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Originally posted by MsPrism:
I'm just saying that you probably won't want to hurt her more by telling her about the thread if she's anything like me. I don't really care what people do and in your case I think you know in your heart that you want to be single. Whether that's considered selfish or not has nothing to do with it, it's about being true to yourself. People get hurt in love, it's just how it is.
yes that what i really was aiming for i have to be true to my self and what i want and not suppress it for someone else its hard to feel like the bad guy but like i told her where my decision came from was not from a bad place IP: Logged |
FireMoon
Knowflake Posts: 1486
From: Minnesota
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 01, 2014 12:16 AM
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Originally posted by Supreme cT:
thank you and yes i really feel so much better and my gut instinct is telling me i made the correct choice i just like to vent out some thoughts and feelings i have on here i dont want to get my friends involved they are all single so there relationship advice sucks haha
No problem and yes this is an astrology forum and you were asking advice based on astrology, I don't see what the problem is... I can tell an arrogant player even over the internet and that's not what's going on so don't listen to the haters!
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RunAroundScreaming
Moderator Posts: 8042
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posted April 01, 2014 12:16 AM
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Originally posted by Supreme cT:
Thanks kero its true lmao every girl i have gotten to know personally always told me that my first impression gives off that look like im some player type when im actually far from that
If thats the way u dress then thats the impression you'll give off. Which is why you got that reaction in that other thread. Just sayin. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted April 01, 2014 12:18 AM
Sigh im pretty tired of seeing the kind of behavior women will put up with. *shrugs* its outta my hands...IP: Logged |
FireMoon
Knowflake Posts: 1486
From: Minnesota
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 01, 2014 12:20 AM
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FireMoon
Knowflake Posts: 1486
From: Minnesota
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posted April 01, 2014 12:22 AM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
If thats the way u dress then thats the impression you'll give off. Which is why you got that reaction in that other thread. Just sayin.
The way he dresses? What does that even mean?? Don't get me wrong I have mad respect for you RAS, I just think you have the wrong impression of him... IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 9784
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted April 01, 2014 12:25 AM
SORRY OP,APPARENTLY THERE ARE NO HOT GUYS ALLOWED IN LL.it gets all these girls panties in a bunch and few guys all jelly..
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MsPrism
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posted April 01, 2014 12:26 AM
It's weird how much of a stir he creates, huh?It's like he comes in and is completely respectable. Shows a pic. . . A-hole! IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 9784
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted April 01, 2014 12:27 AM
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Originally posted by FireMoon:
The way he dresses? What does that even mean??Don't get me wrong I have mad respect for you RAS, I just think you have the wrong impression of him...
I know he was not even wearing anything.....
I mean maybe he's all dapper and wears micheal kors ties on a good day. IP: Logged |
FireMoon
Knowflake Posts: 1486
From: Minnesota
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 01, 2014 12:27 AM
^Exacly lol. I think you're hot but that's not clouding my judgment on this...IP: Logged |
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