posted March 30, 2014 06:56 PM            

Our synastry chart
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My birthchart
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Our composite chart
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posted March 30, 2014 07:11 PM            

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Originally posted by themischievousone:
Where is retro mars transiting in your chart? Just curious.

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posted March 30, 2014 07:31 PM            

Saturn is ruling your 12th House of sacrifice and letting go and your 1st House "it's all about me."

Saturn is transiting over your Pluto which rules your 10th House which could mean that a social status (such as "in a relationship") could need to change.

Saturn is in fact retrograding over your natal Pluto right now and if we look at Bernadette Brady's guide to transits, she says that when an outer planet has gone forward over a sensitive point and then retrogrades back over a sensitive point we take action, we DO something to make the transit manifest.

You could be wanting to change your social status and focus more on yourself because Saturn is ruling that 1st House of YOU.

Also, Pluto is ruling the sign your DSC ruler (Sun) is placed. So with Saturn going over your Pluto, it's also affecting any planets Pluto has control of.

posted March 30, 2014 07:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Supreme cT:
I have been with my gf for 3 years now and idk all of a sudden im just no longer happy being with her, i get along with her great
and we have a great time together but im not really attracted to her anymore i feel weird as hell that i feel this way has anybody else
lost attraction for there partner before? shes a great girl and i trust
and love her very much but honestly i just want to be single and by myself again i feel
like the biggest jerk because she loves me so
much and im literally her rock for everything in her life and i dont want to hurt her but i just have no desire to stay in
this relationship can there be any transits making me feel this way? i dont know what to do especially since mars is retrograde,
doesnt that mean i shouldnt make any relationship choices at the moment? Has anyone else been in a serious relationship and just all of a sudden lost desire to stay in it?

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posted March 30, 2014 07:37 PM            

I don't see how anything astrological can be SO powerful as to ruin a relationship.

I've known people who were married for 65+ years, 35 years.. 20 years and etc.

posted March 30, 2014 07:41 PM            

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Originally posted by MsPrism:
It might be due to progressions, not just transits. If you post up your progressed chart as well, it might help.

Saturn is ruling your 12th House of sacrifice and letting go and your 1st House "it's all about me."

Saturn is transiting over your Pluto which rules your 10th House which could mean that a social status (such as "in a relationship") could need to change.

Saturn is in fact retrograding over your natal Pluto right now and if we look at Bernadette Brady's guide to transits, she says that when an outer planet has gone forward over a sensitive point and then retrogrades back over a sensitive point we take action, we DO something to make the transit manifest.

You could be wanting to change your social status and focus more on yourself because Saturn is ruling that 1st House of YOU.

Also, Pluto is ruling the sign your DSC ruler (Sun) is placed. So with Saturn going over your Pluto, it's also affecting any planets Pluto has control of.

As always, you have control over what you do. Saturn is probably making you think very carefully about your social status (10th House) by transiting over it. Follow what your gut tells you.

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here is my progressed chart Thank you very much for your help i have been really stressing about what i should do

posted March 30, 2014 07:59 PM            

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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
Venus Retrograde ruins it for me every time. If we make it through, which we just did, what happens in venus retro stays in Venus retro. We do not rehash those fight ever. 🙅

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posted March 30, 2014 08:17 PM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Supreme, post the synastry too, it's the most relevant for the overall attraction between you too.

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posted March 30, 2014 08:39 PM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
You need periodic excitement in your relationship (Mars opposite Uranus/Neptune), some sort of adventurous escape, fantasy and periodic new things to keep the spark alive. You may even need some time alone, each one by himself/herself. It's good that she has the same Mars as you, so she probably feels the same.

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posted March 30, 2014 08:52 PM            

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Originally posted by Supreme cT:
That is true im pretty bored with her and i feel so mean and rude to say that about her but its really how i feel :/ we went on a trip to miami last year and after that i was very happy with her i guess i just need to keep goin on trips or try some new things this is a personal problem grr why cant i be happy with being boring in a relationship lmaooo

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posted March 31, 2014 05:03 PM            

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Originally posted by Supreme cT:
I have been with my gf for 3 years now and idk all of a sudden im just no longer happy being with her, i get along with her great
and we have a great time together but im not really attracted to her anymore i feel weird as hell that i feel this way has anybody else
lost attraction for there partner before? shes a great girl and i trust
and love her very much but honestly i just want to be single and by myself again i feel
like the biggest jerk because she loves me so
much and im literally her rock for everything in her life and i dont want to hurt her but i just have no desire to stay in
this relationship can there be any transits making me feel this way? i dont know what to do especially since mars is retrograde,
doesnt that mean i shouldnt make any relationship choices at the moment? Has anyone else been in a serious relationship and just all of a sudden lost desire to stay in it?

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You have Saturn squaring your Sun natally and this means that your life will be focused on "business first and pleasure later".

You will always have to have a sober mind that is free of sentiment in tackling the many challenges that Saturn will bring into your life so that your Sun will realize its full potential.

As such, relationships and sentiment will have to be sacrificed for obligation and duty again and again.

Currently, transiting Saturn hits your natal Moon and Mars by square and trine respectively.

Saturn transiting your moon could lead to your emotional nature generally "cooling off". Or emotional relationships feeling claustrophobic.

You could find things that are "soppy" or sentimental just annoying right now. There are perhaps other more "serious" matters that you want to pay attention to?

The trine of natal Mars to transiting Saturn suggests that there is even more effort now required to be nurturing, loving and caring(Mars in Cancer). Its blocked and not as spontaneous as it used to be.

Also, progressed Moon is flirting very closely on the cusp of the 10th house and again Saturn is traditionally associated with the 10th house and often signifies the "cooling off" of all things sentimental and a more focused approach on business and practical affairs.

Add to that , your progressed moon sits on your natal Saturn by sextile. Again signifying that the emotional nature is cooling and will continue to do so for a while.

posted March 31, 2014 05:26 PM            

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Originally posted by AscTaurus:

You have Saturn squaring your Sun natally and this means that your life will be focused on "business first and pleasure later".

You will always have to have a sober mind that is free of sentiment in tackling the many challenges that Saturn will bring into your life so that your Sun will realize its full potential.

As such, relationships and sentiment will have to be sacrificed for obligation and duty again and again.

Currently, transiting Saturn hits your natal Moon and Mars by square and trine respectively.

Saturn transiting your moon could lead to your emotional nature generally "cooling off". Or emotional relationships feeling claustrophobic.

You could find things that are "soppy" or sentimental just annoying right now. There are perhaps other more "serious" matters that you want to pay attention to?

The trine of natal Mars to transiting Saturn suggests that there is even more effort now required to be nurturing, loving and caring(Mars in Cancer). Its blocked and not as spontaneous as it used to be.

Also, progressed Moon is flirting very closely on the cusp of the 10th house and again Saturn is traditionally associated with the 10th house and often signifies the "cooling off" of all things sentimental and a more focused approach on business and practical affairs.

Add to that , your progressed moon sits on your natal Saturn by sextile. Again signifying that the emotional nature is cooling and will continue to do so for a while.

Sorry my man,the honeymoon phase is drawing to a close.There is some business that will need to be attended to: Work that needs to be done.

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posted March 31, 2014 07:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Supreme cT:
Has anyone else been in a serious relationship and just all of a sudden lost desire to stay in it?

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ummm.... yes.

I have no idea what transits were occurring but I just was suddenly not in love with them anymore. In most cases it was something specific they did or how they behaved that simply turned me off them or made me resent them. When the passion/spark has naturally faded anyway then it's easier to get out.

At least you're being honest with yourself. I know I felt accompanying feelings of guilt but this shouldn't deter you from doing what's right for you if you want to move on with other areas of your life and not necessarily with THEM.

posted March 31, 2014 08:46 PM            

The rest of it is severely afflicted. It is squared by all three outer planets Plus mars.

This was not real love to begin with is what the composite shows. And i think that was obvious to me anyway :P from ur threesome question that one time. Only a sun-venus aspect would be true love. Especially when included in a love stellium (sun-venus-mercury) aspecting each other in the composite)

Next relationship try to look for that.

With sunconjunct jupiter u had a lot of laughs together...good times. Protected each other too. But in there it was like u were playing with each others feelings instead. Like when ud do sexual things together it was mostly to show off to see who can be more sexy ! Very playful for sure as well, as well as with this sexual quality i mentioned. Basically what im trying to get at is it is LUST, not real love. It is not real caring for ur partners feelings and well being.

I had sun conjunct jupiter with a guy once and some other aspects which made us very attracted. I felt so affectionate about him for a while. And what i distinctly remember now is that for a year i obsessed lustfully about him. literally was like lustful fantasies in my head haha. i didnt realize it then but i definitely see now that that couldnt be real love. and what i also found odd is i could say i need you (and yup i needed him soo bad,..for an entire year!) or i want you or i miss you when thinking about him but i could never say "i love you!"

But after that year i totally forgot about him and even DISLIKE him now. And he NEVER did anything to me. we would just talk on facebook once in a while. i just slowly lost interest thru no fault of his own.That would never happen with a love stellium and indeed it never has to me with any of my love stellium crushes. I still love all those guys i had crushes on, its like i see them as my friend at the same time that i have a crush on them, like i couldnt ever turn on them.

posted March 31, 2014 08:50 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Hey. Okay the composite is sun conjunct jupiter and then almost every planet is aspecting pluto (mostly conjunct it!) so that shows your attraction. Sun-jupiter is very happy and afectionate! But its not love! And the pluto is ur sexual attraction each other..among other aspects.

The rest of it is severely afflicted. It is squared by all three outer planets Plus mars.

This was not real love to begin with is what the composite shows. And i think that was obvious to me anyway :P from ur threesome question that one time. Only a sun-venus aspect would be true love. Especially when included in a love stellium (sun-venus-mercury) aspecting each other in the composite)

Next relationship try to look for that.

With sunconjunct jupiter u had a lot of laughs together...good times. Protected each other too. But in there it was like u were playing with each others feelings instead. Like when ud do sexual things together it was mostly to show off to see who can be more sexy ! Very playful for sure as well, as well as with this sexual quality i mentioned. Basically what im trying to get at is it is LUST, not real love. It is not real caring for ur partners feelings and well being.

I had sun conjunct jupiter with a guy once and some other aspects which made us bery attracted. I felt so affectionate about him for a while. But after a year i totally forgot about him and even DISLIKE him now. That would never happen with a love stellium and indeed it never has to me with any of my love stellium crushes. I still love all those guys i had crushes on, its like i see them as my friend at the same time that i have a crush on them, like i couldnt ever turn on them.

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