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Topic: bad synastry but happy together?
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LucieLemonade
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posted April 23, 2014 01:22 PM
  
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
BTW, if you don't have lovey-dovey aspects, I don't know who has...you have Moon/Venus DW and Moon/Neptune DW 
Plus they have all the angles touching. That's good too. Shows they are headed in the same direction in life.
ETA: And they have the nodes on the angles... That's good too, no? I can't tell the degrees. And Saturn trine Venus is good. That, iirc, is a stabilizing aspect. Gem, who told you you have bad synastry? IP: Logged |
geminigal2805
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posted April 23, 2014 01:39 PM
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My x stabilized me too. It's a very good thing, IMO. It's Saturn. Maybe others don't want that in a relationship. Perhaps you have to find excitement in your life and maybe not expect it from him. Or maybe you need to generate the excitement for the both of you.
Yess! Thing is he works seven days a week. Almost everyday of the yr. When I met him he was a sales person. Second week of our marriage, ppl he wanted to do business with came to our house n invested money. Now he bought a car showroom. He has been super busy. But he does give me time. Though I feel it's not enough. But he is extremely good to me. He also has changed a lot for me. We both started with almost nothing n now we r good. Touchwood.
N I'm happy we have good synastry. Ppl consider us a good couple and all.
King of cups did a reading. N he said it's not long term. He gave a short reading only. He said there are too many oppositions n squares. N I'm a bit too straight foraward n independent type. Squares n oppositions r fine cuz I need some fire. My husband does too. After all he is an Aries sun, mercury n Asc. Also he is very passionate.
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geminigal2805
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posted April 23, 2014 01:46 PM
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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
Plus they have all the angles touching. That's good too. Shows they are headed in the same direction in life.
ETA: And they have the nodes on the angles... That's good too, no? I can't tell the degrees. And Saturn trine Venus is good. That, iirc, is a stabilizing aspect. Gem, who told you you have bad synastry?
I always thought sun-moon n moon-moon to be lover dovey : ) as in the aspect to have for love.
My Saturn sits on his desc. During transit Saturn on my natal Saturn will it affect us badly? I'm very scared of Saturn transits.
How to know about our finances? Should I look at a composite chart for that? I never used to worry about money. All of sudden here I'm worrying n being stingy. I have no clue why this sudden switch happened.
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geminigal2805
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posted April 23, 2014 01:53 PM
My Asc n NN conjuncts his IC and my desc n SN conjuncts his MC. His nodal axis r close to my IC/mc axis.
Yayyy! I'm soooo happy now : ) Thank u Leeleo n Lucie lemonade .Also Solar Leo. U guys r great. I did feel very bad when I was told the synastry was bad. I know u guys skipped all the hard aspects hehehehe sweet of u guys. Still u have made me smile n I feel so much better. Thank u. IP: Logged |
LucieLemonade
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posted April 23, 2014 02:02 PM
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Originally posted by geminigal2805:
My Asc n NN conjuncts his IC and my desc n SN conjuncts his MC. His nodal axis r close to my IC/mc axis.
Yayyy! I'm soooo happy now : ) Thank u Leeleo n Lucie lemonade .Also Solar Leo. U guys r great. I did feel very bad when I was told the synastry was bad. I know u guys skipped all the hard aspects hehehehe sweet of u guys. Still u have made me smile n I feel so much better. Thank u.
I don't know. I just looked at it quickly. It would take me ages to do it in depth as I'm still new to this. Anyway, if you know that Saturn is coming so you can be prepared. I didn't know and it hit both of us at the same time. So we sort of go blind sided by it. I think though you maybe have to be the one that puts the excitement in and perhaps you have to make the time for you two to be together. Maybe go to him for lunch, etc. Or maybe help him with his work? There is a lot to be said for someone who is good to us! Nothing to throw away, IMO. I think we learn about astrology to grow and deal with the things that need work or the things that could be a problem, not to throw out a relationship because of some things that aren't perfect.
But you know, you are the one living it! I'd never want to tell you what you have to do.  IP: Logged |
geminigal2805
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posted April 23, 2014 02:24 PM
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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
I don't know. I just looked at it quickly. It would take me ages to do it in depth as I'm still new to this. Anyway, if you know that Saturn is coming so you can be prepared. I didn't know and it hit both of us at the same time. So we sort of go blind sided by it. I think though you maybe have to be the one that puts the excitement in and perhaps you have to make the time for you two to be together. Maybe go to him for lunch, etc. Or maybe help him with his work? There is a lot to be said for someone who is good to us! Nothing to throw away, IMO. I think we learn about astrology to grow and deal with the things that need work or the things that could be a problem, not to throw out a relationship because of some things that aren't perfect.
But you know, you are the one living it! I'd never want to tell you what you have to do.
We dine out as often as possible. Lunch is not possible. He has crazy lunch hours but I have a strict schedule to follow at work. N yes I am the one who is more demanding n brings excitement in our relationship. He loves to stay in n eat home cooked food. Must be that Venus in Taurus : ) it's not a difficult life for me LL. Im blessed : )
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posted April 23, 2014 02:47 PM
I've been looking over the synastry. He has both Mars opp Juno and Venus opp Uranus involved in a Grand Cross, and your Moon squares his Venus and Uranus. He might actually like the drama you bring into his life.IP: Logged |
geminigal2805
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posted April 23, 2014 02:54 PM
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Originally posted by page one:
I've been looking over the synastry. He has both Mars opp Juno and Venus opp Uranus involved in a Grand Cross, and your Moon squares his Venus and Uranus. He might actually like the drama you bring into his life.
He does page one! I know he does. Otherwise he would be bored of me by now. I thought that's cuz he is a triple Aries he needs excitement n a chase now n then. IP: Logged |
LucieLemonade
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posted April 23, 2014 03:30 PM
There you go! It's all good.  NOT bad synastry! It's confirmed. LOL IP: Logged |
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posted April 23, 2014 03:30 PM
I've noticed he's also got Lilith conjunct your NN...Maybe part of that same theme.IP: Logged |
geminigal2805
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posted April 23, 2014 11:34 PM
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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
There you go! It's all good. NOT bad synastry! It's confirmed. LOL
Thank u : ) IP: Logged |
geminigal2805
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posted April 23, 2014 11:40 PM
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I've noticed he's also got Lilith conjunct your NN...Maybe part of that same theme.
Yessss osc lilith conjunct Nn n Asc. Ppl tell us we behave like newly married. It must be cuz of the drama : ))
But Pluto conjunct IC is considered bad. Inotice we also have Pluto-moon DW soft aspect, mars-jupiter DW, pluto-saturn Dw along with moon-venus DW n moon-neptunr Dw.But his mars squares my Venus. IP: Logged |
kani
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posted January 01, 2019 07:29 PM
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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
However for someone with Cancer - Moon conjunct Saturn, Venus and Pluto, such an Uranus-square to their Moon might easily be simply dreadful. They would feel abandoned easily, or not being "fed" emotionally.
Lol I have a Cancer moon square PLuto and I definitely do not need anyone to "feed" me emotionally. At all. I'm into long distance relationships and I'm into men who are independent the way I am. Reading these types of things just make me go off astrology to be honest as I can't relate to them at all.
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Hikaru29
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posted January 02, 2019 03:29 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
Another preconception I had was that having an un-aspected Saturn in the composite would mean the relationship wouldn't last. But I found out about a couple who have been together 50 yrs and Saturn is completely un-aspected in the composite.
Goes to show you - everything can work out!
It's encouraging to know because we only have a semi-sextile to Mercury and trine to MC in Davison and I keep wondering if it means we will not stick.
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Ami Anne
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posted January 02, 2019 12:51 PM
Maybe some Moon kind of asteroids like the Child asteroid is strong with them or Psyche, Juno, Ceres etc---all deep soul asteroids.------------------
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Capguy75
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posted January 02, 2019 02:57 PM
My ex-wife and I had a Saturn/Venus conjunct which I've been told is a great long-term relationship signifier. Also great aspects between personal planets. Didn't stop us blowing up 12 years after we got together. Although, ironically, everything *was* great until that final year. Friends and family were shocked. We were great at communicating, at least we were until she decided to deliberately not tell me things... I've still yet to work out why, but looking over our charts Jupiter transiting her natal Uranus and Pluto sticks out like a sore thumb. The last time it happened she dumped her boyfriend for me. Twelve years later it happens and she dumps me for someone else. You can literally match the revelations to the conjunctions, its that close. Pluto was also opposing her natal Venus at the time which only adds to the "Not Good". On the other hand, isn't there thread about Prince Charles and Camilla's synastry hereabouts? Whatever you think about them as lovers, it can't be denied their love has been a love of ages. From what I recall, though, on the face of it, the synastry ain't anything to write home about! IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted January 02, 2019 04:21 PM
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