posted May 07, 2014 09:05 AM            

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Originally posted by moonstruck87:
Having the upper hand in what regard?

We have been seeing eachother for months now & I know he's shy so I thought by putting my feelings out there that would make him feel secure with me

Still no response. Silence is excruciating. Makes me wonder if he ever cared honestly. This is quite selfish of him IMO. Has he considered how vulnerable I was to put all that on the line?

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Omg girl, welcome to my world..

It's really annoying to wait for them to come back. I also thought by telling him how I felt, he'd feel more secure. In the end, I think it did because he has opened up a tiny bit lol. But literally every time I start talking about emotional stuff, he shuts down. He's fine when I talk about non-emotional stuff. In fact, it was great for a while, but I just couldn't help but jump back in to the emotional stuff after a while ('do you miss meeee? how do you feel about meee?') lol.

Honestly, I'm sure your guy will be back. I haven't seen your synastry, but the fact tha tyou've been seeing each other for a while is good. Just beware that whenever you bring up your feelings, he'll disappear for a bit.

posted May 07, 2014 11:05 AM            

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Originally posted by ariestaurus:
Omg girl, welcome to my world..

It's really annoying to wait for them to come back. I also thought by telling him how I felt, he'd feel more secure. In the end, I think it did because he has opened up a tiny bit lol. But literally every time I start talking about emotional stuff, he shuts down. He's fine when I talk about non-emotional stuff. In fact, it was great for a while, but I just couldn't help but jump back in to the emotional stuff after a while ('do you miss meeee? how do you feel about meee?') lol.

Honestly, I'm sure your guy will be back. I haven't seen your synastry, but the fact tha tyou've been seeing each other for a while is good. Just beware that whenever you bring up your feelings, he'll disappear for a bit.

Be patient! I know where you're coming from! Mine is on a silent spell now, too! lol

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Thank you for reaching out and the kind words

posted May 07, 2014 06:33 PM            

He may be escaping a bit because his feelings aren't on that level yet, and he probably is a) afraid of hurting you, b) a bit insecure because of your expression, c) doesn't want to deal with it right now.

He probably cares for you, just not in the way you expressed/ (yet).

I used to do this, so this is the only reason I could fathom as to why (I have some hard Scorpio aspects).

posted May 07, 2014 07:39 PM            

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Originally posted by lvASTRO:
IMO, I think if the feelings were on the same level as you expressed, there'd be no cooling off period needed and he'd have come back after a quick 'bout of thought to reciprocate.

He may be escaping a bit because his feelings aren't on that level yet, and he probably is a) afraid of hurting you, b) a bit insecure because of your expression, c) doesn't want to deal with it right now.

He probably cares for you, just not in the way you expressed/ (yet).

I used to do this, so this is the only reason I could fathom as to why (I have some hard Scorpio aspects).

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That makes sense

posted May 07, 2014 09:14 PM            

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Originally posted by fireopal09:
Dissapear. Scorpios/Plutonians always want what they think they can't have. Go out with your friends and pay no mind to him. Post your fun on social media, but don't be obnoxious or tacky about it. Whatever you do DO NOT ALLUDE to him. I am handing you a cup o' my Sun/Uranus conjunction.

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posted May 08, 2014 05:24 AM            

I was reading carefully all written in here last night.
Needed a time to think and recollect though.
Yes, I am going trough the same experience , was iced out by my scorp rising, Venus, Mars Scorpio man over two month ago...
At first I was hurt, shocked etc...but now, now I am okay, just waiting for him to show up again.
My heart is telling me that he would eventually ( too many unspoken feelings left floating) so I am ready and waiting ..but I think it would be wise for him not to though

posted May 08, 2014 09:45 AM            

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Originally posted by pocaloca:
Dear Moonstruck,

I was reading carefully all written in here last night.
Needed a time to think and recollect though.
Yes, I am going trough the same experience , was iced out by my scorp rising, Venus, Mars Scorpio man over two month ago...
At first I was hurt, shocked etc...but now, now I am okay, just waiting for him to show up again.
My heart is telling me that he would eventually ( too many unspoken feelings left floating) so I am ready and waiting ..but I think it would be wise for him not to though

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I'm sorry poca - it's awful not to have any acknowledgement

I'm just appalled really

posted May 08, 2014 09:50 AM            

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Originally posted by moonstruck87:
I'm sorry poca - it's awful not to have any acknowledgement

I'm just appalled really

Like you have NOTHINGto say? Smh

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Still nothing, huh? Scorpios really know how to test a person's patience, don't they?!

Honestly, I've been at the point where I thought he had given up on us completely, but then he came back. Just live your life and he'll be back, I'm sure!! It's really annoying, and particularly taxing on an impatient Aries Moon, but I guess that's the way they are..

posted May 08, 2014 10:39 AM            

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Originally posted by ariestaurus:
Still nothing, huh? Scorpios really know how to test a person's patience, don't they?!

Honestly, I've been at the point where I thought he had given up on us completely, but then he came back. Just live your life and he'll be back, I'm sure!! It's really annoying, and particularly taxing on an impatient Aries Moon, but I guess that's the way they are..

I wonder also what kind of transits your guy is experiencing at the moment? Transits could certainly explain things, as well!

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I somehow think you talk to me AriesTaurus...I have Aries moon and its def. killing me when i must/ need to be patient.

Still nothing, yes, over 2 month ..
I dont know how to explain but i simply feel it is not over yet....my intuition. But if and when he comes back he would be tortured ( with pleasure), he must feel what he makes other feel!.

posted May 08, 2014 11:37 AM            

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Originally posted by pocaloca:
I somehow think you talk to me AriesTaurus...I have Aries moon and its def. killing me when i must/ need to be patient.

Still nothing, yes, over 2 month ..
I dont know how to explain but i simply feel it is not over yet....my intuition. But if and when he comes back he would be tortured ( with pleasure), he must feel what he makes other feel!.

He punished me because he felt weak, not able to control and dominate me as he desired but then, he actually found me and liked me exactly because I was so "wild" and stubborn, rebel in a way..So he made me fall for him to then cut me off?? WTF? actually I am not sad anymore, I am angry and cant wait for the chance to give him knock out ..I still feel love for him though ahahah, crazy !

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Omg WTF we all have Aries Moons?!

posted May 08, 2014 11:44 AM            

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Originally posted by ariestaurus:
Omg WTF we all have Aries Moons?!

Post his chart and your synastry!

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ahahaha, yes, looks like they exactly choose fiery moons to then torment us damn!

Here, take a look and tell me do you seriously think this guy can easily forget me, get over me...naaah ! ( or at least i do not accept that as option, not yet ahaha)

Tell me do you agree AriesTaurus?

I am outside he is inside btw..

posted May 08, 2014 11:49 AM            

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Originally posted by moonstruck87:
Lol Aries moon club represent!!!

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Woot!

Well, with Our Moons in quincunx aspect to their suns, it's no wonder we find it hard to understand them.

posted May 08, 2014 11:53 AM            

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Originally posted by moonstruck87:
Lol Aries moon club represent!!!

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posted May 08, 2014 11:56 AM            

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Originally posted by ariestaurus:
Woot!

Well, with Our Moons in quincunx aspect to their suns, it's no wonder we find it hard to understand them.

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posted May 08, 2014 11:58 AM            

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Originally posted by pocaloca:
Well my heartache is actually Libra Sun but Scorp rising, Mars, venus in Scorpio..hello!! He is like more Scorpio then some Scorpio suns..Dominator and dictator par excellence..Mysterious mind fuxxer ...well all the other great scorp treats included as well.

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I know a libra w/these placements- and yes very Scorpio

posted May 08, 2014 12:00 PM            

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Originally posted by pocaloca:
ahahaha, yes, looks like they exactly choose fiery moons to then torment us damn!

Here, take a look and tell me do you seriously think this guy can easily forget me, get over me...naaah ! ( or at least i do not accept that as option, not yet ahaha)

Tell me do you agree AriesTaurus?

I am outside he is inside btw..

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Wow! So I see your Moon is on his South Node, which is an amazing connection! Means you were his mother in a past life lol or you had a very nurturing, caring relationship.

Your DC/Asc are conjunct, which is a soul mate indication.

I really like the trine from your Sun/Mercury/Saturn to his Libra Stellium- that's really nice

Your Mars is square his Libra Stellium, so I'm guessing there is a lot of sexual energy between you! Maybe some conflicts/arguments as well?

Man, you have a lot of planets in his 8th house! YOu really affect him deeply, and probably scare the crap out of him! (in the good way!)

Yup, very good synastry!

posted May 08, 2014 12:01 PM            

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Originally posted by moonstruck87:
I know a libra w/these placements- and yes very Scorpio

Is that his accurate time of birth? I would post charts for our synastry but I don't know this guy's exact TOB

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posted May 08, 2014 12:09 PM            

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Originally posted by ariestaurus:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by moonstruck87:
[b] I know a libra w/these placements- and yes very Scorpio

Is that his accurate time of birth? I would post charts for our synastry but I don't know this guy's exact TOB

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Post it anyway! Put your chart on the inside[/B][/QUOTE]

posted May 08, 2014 12:10 PM            

poor guy - has a girl who cares about him telling him she wants him around and misses talking to him daily

I thought for sure that would make him feel more secure. I didn't expect a withdrawal!

posted May 08, 2014 12:10 PM            

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Originally posted by moonstruck87:
what time do you use when TOB is unknown?

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Just use 12pm.

posted May 08, 2014 12:16 PM            

this makes him a cap asc...which I don't think is right

I've guessed him to be a taurus/virgo or cancer asc