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Topic: Scorpio ignoring me
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pocaloca Knowflake Posts: 375 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted May 08, 2014 12:20 PM
quote: Originally posted by moonstruck87: I know a libra w/these placements- and yes very ScorpioIs that his accurate time of birth?
yes both B-data (Time) are accurate 100 percent quote: Originally posted by ariestaurus: Wow! So I see your Moon is on his South Node, which is an amazing connection! Means you were his mother in a past life lol or you had a very nurturing, caring relationship.
..my @ss nurturing and caring!! I wanted but he drove me nuts so i was like a wild cat all the time..scratching
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Your DC/Asc are conjunct, which is a soul mate indication. I really like the trine from your Sun/Mercury/Saturn to his Libra Stellium- that's really nice 
yes ..and his Mars sits on my DC conjuncting my Lilith while his Chiron conjuncts my AC never had synastry like this with someone.. quote: Your Mars is square his Libra Stellium, so I'm guessing there is a lot of sexual energy between you! Maybe some conflicts/arguments as well?
YES! he is actually very hairy and body like a bulldog but I found him sexy as hell and you say conflicts?! We have Mars ( mine) 90 his Pluto! power struggle big time! quote:
Man, you have a lot of planets in his 8th house! YOu really affect him deeply, and probably scare the crap out of him! (in the good way!)Yup, very good synastry!
Well thats why i hope, think that my impact on him was stronger then he likes or wants to show...eventually my Moon is in his 5th, Venus and Sun in the 8th...they say house person feels more impact then the planet person..I defo feel his Mars on my DC and Venus in 7th..i cant stop thinking the he is the ideal man damn!  quote: I looks like transiting Saturn is conjunct his Venus right now, which may explain why things have cooled off between the two of you.
That Saturn should def come to my Venus and cool me off! yes, please! IP: Logged |
pocaloca Knowflake Posts: 375 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted May 08, 2014 12:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by moonstruck87: I'm just so confused --- poor guy - has a girl who cares about him telling him she wants him around and misses talking to him daily
I thought for sure that would make him feel more secure. I didn't expect a withdrawal! wtf
classic Scorpio , more you open more distant they get..more you chase, more they run away..you run away, lose interest, they hunt you...and so on...IP: Logged |
ariestaurus Knowflake Posts: 172 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted May 08, 2014 12:50 PM
quote: Originally posted by moonstruck87: this makes him a cap asc...which I don't think is right I've guessed him to be a taurus/virgo or cancer asc are you any good at guessing asc from pics? lol I could post some pics of him
Wow, your synastry with him is so similar to mine. You have your Aries Moon on his North Node- me too! lol and pocaloca has her Aries Moon on her guy's South Node. So, we all have Aries Moons which connect to our guys' Nodes- crazy! Anyway, the Moon-North Node conjunction is supposed to be really good. It creates a very strong emotional bond. As the Moon people, we give a lot in terms of emotions and nurturing to our partners. I feel quite motherly to my guy- do you? Well, you're a Cancer, so maybe you feel like that naturally! His Moon near your Sun is really nice (even though we don't know his exact time, but still!) I also see that your Mars is square his Venus and Pluto- again, I have the same aspect with my guy! Man, the sexual desire is so high with this aspect! He sometimes feels I"m too sexual, and I'm certainly very sexually aggressive towards him- are you the same with him? YOur Venus/Mercury trine his Venus/Pluto/Mercury is excellent. HIs Saturn also trines your Moon, which promotes longevity, and maybe he calms you down a bit (my guy and I have the same- I think he makes me more mature).
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moonstruck87 Knowflake Posts: 1220 From: Indianapolis, IN Registered: Mar 2011
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posted May 08, 2014 12:55 PM
I can def relate to the motherly aspect - he brings it out of me And the sexual aggression haha well he's very dominating in that way but yes I've had to be the one to make the first move so to speak and he takes it from there We haven't actually been fully intimate though so there's a lot of underlying tension I feel IP: Logged |
moonstruck87 Knowflake Posts: 1220 From: Indianapolis, IN Registered: Mar 2011
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posted May 08, 2014 01:12 PM
Moon conj NN is interesting! I hadn't paid attention to that beforeBasically says they need to learn from us :P Lol given this situation I would agree!! But without south node contacts it probably won't last IP: Logged |
ariestaurus Knowflake Posts: 172 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted May 08, 2014 01:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by moonstruck87: Moon conj NN is interesting! I hadn't paid attention to that beforeBasically says they need to learn from us :P Lol given this situation I would agree!! But without south node contacts it probably won't last
Well, you don't know his birth time, so there may be a Node-to-angle or Node-to-Vertex conjunction we do not see! Yes, they have TONS to learn from us!! as in, how to be more verbally expressive! My moon is ocnjunct my man's 3rd house North Node, so he really is supposed to learn this from me! lol He's a TERRIBLE student, though!  IP: Logged |
pocaloca Knowflake Posts: 375 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted May 08, 2014 01:21 PM
I have a SN contact but then it did not last...or it still is? or? Over? not Over? ...damn, that drives me nuts actually. If he is certain that we dont match then he would be cool and simply tell me like" honey you know I am not really in to you...or similar" No, my demon iced me totally! He blocked me on facebook , kicked me out of skype etc..all at once and that happened after the night he tried to call me like a mad man and i did not want to pick up cos i was boozed and not in the mood to talk with him while drunk :/ If the person does not care why such drama then?.. I hate thinking that something is over but not feeling it.IP: Logged |
pocaloca Knowflake Posts: 375 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted May 08, 2014 01:23 PM
quote: Originally posted by ariestaurus: Yes, they have TONS to learn from us!! as in, how to be more verbally expressive!
ahahaha, I could not agree more! IP: Logged |
moonstruck87 Knowflake Posts: 1220 From: Indianapolis, IN Registered: Mar 2011
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posted May 08, 2014 01:23 PM
quote: Originally posted by pocaloca: I have a SN contact but then it did not last...or it still is? or? Over? not Over? ...damn, that drives me nuts actually. If he is certain that we dont match then he would be cool and simply tell me like" honey you know I am not really in to you...or similar" No, my demon iced me totally! He blocked me on facebook , kicked me out of skype etc..all at once and that happened after the night he tried to call me like a mad man and i did not want to pick up cos i was boozed and not in the mood to talk with him while drunk :/ If the person does not care why such drama then?.. I hate thinking that something is over but not feeling it.
Yes I totally agree with you bc I feel like things aren't over either with this guy but of course their behavior makes you believe otherwise IP: Logged |
MissPiscesForever unregistered
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posted May 08, 2014 01:24 PM
This kind of thing happened to me, except he didn't ignore me, he just stopped chasing. But I didn't tell him I liked him, I just started going for him. You need to give him space, he probably is unsure of his feelings. After a week or two talk to him again. Scorpios are very emotional, but they also love a good challenge, just don't make it too hard or they'll feel rejected (this happened to me when I didn't tell a scorpio I love him back...he never spoke to me again...tears!)IP: Logged |
moonstruck87 Knowflake Posts: 1220 From: Indianapolis, IN Registered: Mar 2011
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posted May 08, 2014 01:28 PM
quote: Originally posted by MissPiscesForever: This kind of thing happened to me, except he didn't ignore me, he just stopped chasing. But I didn't tell him I liked him, I just started going for him. You need to give him space, he probably is unsure of his feelings. After a week or two talk to him again. Scorpios are very emotional, but they also love a good challenge, just don't make it too hard or they'll feel rejected (this happened to me when I didn't tell a scorpio I love him back...he never spoke to me again...tears!)
Good advice but after putting my neck out there so far I really feel it's best he initiate talking to me IP: Logged |
pocaloca Knowflake Posts: 375 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted May 08, 2014 01:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by moonstruck87: Good advice but after putting my neck out there so far I really feel it's best he initiate talking to me
!! absolutely! Dont even think to bombard him with messages and calls! More you run after them more they run away, trust me on that one. I actually made mine run so madly after me that he freaked eventually and punched me with the fist in the face ( metaphor) ..So, know when to stop as well  IP: Logged |
moonstruck87 Knowflake Posts: 1220 From: Indianapolis, IN Registered: Mar 2011
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posted May 08, 2014 01:55 PM
quote: Originally posted by pocaloca: !! absolutely! Dont even think to bombard him with messages and calls! More you run after them more they run away, trust me on that one. I actually made mine run so madly after me that he freaked eventually and punched me with the fist in the face ( metaphor) ..So, know when to stop as well 
yes this is all discouraging bc before this he was texting me every day, asking me out 2-3x a week and now blah IP: Logged |
moonstruck87 Knowflake Posts: 1220 From: Indianapolis, IN Registered: Mar 2011
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posted May 10, 2014 03:11 AM
Well, he came back around... As predicted and as I felt he would. IP: Logged |
ariestaurus Knowflake Posts: 172 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted May 10, 2014 09:03 PM
quote: Originally posted by moonstruck87: Well, he came back around... As predicted and as I felt he would.
Yay! And..? Did he acknowledge anything about what you said?? IP: Logged |
moonstruck87 Knowflake Posts: 1220 From: Indianapolis, IN Registered: Mar 2011
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posted May 11, 2014 01:15 AM
quote: Originally posted by ariestaurus: Yay! And..? Did he acknowledge anything about what you said??
not at first and he was acting like nothing happened so I told him I was DONE at first he was being snarky but now he's begging to talk to me...smh IP: Logged |
Sibyl Knowflake Posts: 740 From: Uranus Registered: Dec 2010
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posted May 11, 2014 05:19 AM
I think you should leave him hanging. He's so dramatic IP: Logged |
ariestaurus Knowflake Posts: 172 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted May 11, 2014 09:15 AM
quote: Originally posted by moonstruck87: not at first and he was acting like nothing happened so I told him I was DONEat first he was being snarky but now he's begging to talk to me...smh
Well the fact that he came back is good!!!! I don't think he'd come back if he really wasn't interested! I agree with the above! Leave the boy hanging.  IP: Logged |
sag_stellium Knowflake Posts: 307 From: Washington, DC Registered: Mar 2014
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posted May 11, 2014 12:46 PM
quote: Originally posted by pocaloca: That Saturn should def come to my Venus and cool me off! yes, please!
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moonstruck87 Knowflake Posts: 1220 From: Indianapolis, IN Registered: Mar 2011
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posted May 11, 2014 01:47 PM
I didn't leave him hanging. Unfortunately, it's not in my nature. I had been so impatient to hear from him that I answered him back within the hour.I did, however, give him hell. I spoke every piece of my mind possible lol & I didn't give him any hope. But he has asked to see me. We have no set time/date for that & I left that ball in his court. If he brings it up again, then I will talk to him face to face. If he doesn't, well...his loss. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 1533 From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19 Registered: Nov 2013
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posted May 11, 2014 02:33 PM
quote: Originally posted by charlie: To sidestep a little...99% of ALL water signs I have met, known and know are cold as f cuk. Why? Because they cannot control their very deep flowing emotions, much like Capricorns. They don't have the emotional capacity to express feelings like Fire signs for instance. I have met Aqaurius' more emotional, able to show it, than water signs!! We are not in a good frame of mind when forced too quickly to show emotions or if we are being clobbered with others emotions. The waters will become much too deep then and we will retaliate by taking off. After a while we most likely will come back, if we like you, to see if waters are more shallow....and this might take place many times during many months and sometimes years until other person gets it OR if we just give up altogether. Feel free to add your own opinion to this 
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VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 5437 From: Registered: Aug 2010
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posted May 11, 2014 03:20 PM
charlie, You're Cap Moon, right? IP: Logged |