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Topic: Has anyone given up on love?
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I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 9778 From: Death Star Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 23, 2014 01:38 PM
Naaah. My 5th house stellium is happy to have entertained you  ------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 2880 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted June 23, 2014 01:42 PM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: Hmmm. Currently there's no human I love in any way and it may never change.
what kind of creature won your heart, then? don't be shy, spill the beans.. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 9778 From: Death Star Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 23, 2014 01:48 PM
------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
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posted June 23, 2014 01:57 PM
OP Funny enough.... That's the kind of attitude that might land you the love of your life.  IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 2880 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted June 23, 2014 02:04 PM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
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I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 9778 From: Death Star Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 23, 2014 02:06 PM
^lolAm I the only one here who shudders at the thought of being invited on a date? I hope I could hide my negative reaction at least. ------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
LostTaurus Knowflake Posts: 1529 From: Conway, AR, USA Registered: Jan 2014
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posted June 23, 2014 02:29 PM
Yes. Yes I have. IP: Logged |
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posted June 23, 2014 02:30 PM
I must be missing something here. Perhaps this is the "love rebellion" thread? IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 9430 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 23, 2014 02:46 PM
quote: Originally posted by DeepFreeze: Funny enough.... That's the kind of attitude that might land you the love of your life. 
You know that goes against the law of attraction, right? har har...  (Nah I know it doesn't always work the way we think it works. Just poking holes here and there, cause it's so fun.) quote: Originally posted by Orange:
Lool. Don't let that Neptunian heart of yours die ever, O. @ Caps,
It wasn't dramatic... It was inspiring! But only people with a beating heart could see it that way.  I don't understand why someone would want to give up on romantic love for good... Lol I mean, have you seen me?? I'm like, the worst candidate ever, and yet I haven't given up on it, no matter the challenges I face... Yah, I know for you it's even more complicated, but it doesn't have to be.
I mean, stop fooling yourselves, seriously.
One can see right through the disappointment and hurt... You think you're being all mighty by 'giving up' on love... romantic love included... And that's just not the way it is. You're trying to pull a veil over your own eyes. Sure, if you do it long enough, it feels real. You don't even notice your own trap. But guess what? It's precisely because of people like you that the world suffers. That people get hurt. Because you refuse to let your heart speak for you. You think you're doing yourself a favor... You think you're being rational and it's the best thing you could do for yourself. Meanwhile you deprive yourself of the most important thing in the world, and you don't give others a chance to feel your love, either. Besides, there are plenty of people out there who are awesome and capable of loving others... It's like seeing a little part of something and making this huge generalization. Romantic love is amazing. When you look into someone's eyes, and you see them sparkle, and you see their face illuminate because of your presence, and you feel the same... And you hold hands, kiss each other and hug, and you feel peaceful and uplifted, and energized and powerful. Who cares it's the hormones? It feels good. When you have sex, your body too, reacts. Does it feel less "real" to you? Well it's the same when you feel love. Your body reacts to it. It's natural. Omg so much preaching...
Anyway... I'm done with this... You wanna live your own lie, fine. But make sure you're being brutally honest with yourself. All I see here is a bunch of people who are so disillusioned that they're trying to make up all kinds of excuses for their own frustrated desires and fear of getting burned and disappointed again. Throw all the rocks you want at me... But I've just spoken my truth righ there, kids.
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Orange Knowflake Posts: 2880 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted June 23, 2014 03:01 PM
^^^ I can see little Doucette is in love again..maybe..? mmeow *brushing against your leg*  IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 9778 From: Death Star Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 23, 2014 03:01 PM
quote: But guess what? It's precisely because of people like you that the world suffers. That people get hurt. Because you refuse to let your heart speak for you. You think you're doing yourself a favor... You think you're being rational and it's the best thing you could do for yourself. Meanwhile you deprive yourself of the most important thing in the world, and you don't give others a chance to feel your love, either.
Excuse me? I don't owe anyone my love. And I'm not even a player so be so kind and don't blame me for the world's suffering. quote: I mean, stop fooling yourselves, seriously.
I don't recall myself saying I never want to be in a relationship. quote: Originally posted by Orange: ^^^ I can see little Doucette is in love again..maybe..? mmeow *brushing against your leg*
No, she's just being hyper  ------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 2880 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted June 23, 2014 03:10 PM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: don't blame me for the world's suffering.
and why not? It's very convinient. which also means that I, that am always in love, feed the world, including love-less parasites like you, Mademoiselle. You better go out and do your duty now, Private Caps ..  IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 9430 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 23, 2014 03:17 PM
Hey the "you" was general... Look, I don't mean to offend anyone. (and if you're offended... ask yourself why...) Someone's gotta cut through the BS. And today that person is me.  Miss Orange,
Ahah! Does it really come across that way? Neeh, I've just decided to be true to myself and my desires, regardless of the fear and all the internal and external BS. It's always easier in theory but hey, that's a first step. 
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I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 9778 From: Death Star Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 23, 2014 03:18 PM
------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
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posted June 23, 2014 03:20 PM
Cap you are a capricorn, of course you want a relationship. I know you like to put up the mask and act like you don't but I don't think it's possible for you be anymore obvious. A guy is totally gonna sweep you off your feet.  IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 9430 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 23, 2014 03:22 PM
Shh, don't expose the vulnerable side too much... IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 2880 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted June 23, 2014 03:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Someone's gotta cut through the BS. And today that person is me. 
you tell them, Doucette! anyway, my love tank is overflowing as always and I am sending some your way, becauz I luuuuv you
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I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 9778 From: Death Star Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 23, 2014 03:25 PM
I don't want to be loved if I can't reciprocate it. And I don't want to love if it can't be returned.------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
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posted June 23, 2014 03:27 PM
That sounds really cancer do you have any cancer in your chart?IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 9778 From: Death Star Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 23, 2014 03:28 PM
No, a Libra Moon is enough Wait, actually I have a Cancer SN. Now go annoy someone else ------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 9430 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 23, 2014 03:33 PM
quote: Originally posted by Orange: anyway, my love tank is overflowing as always and I am sending some your way, becauz I luuuuv you
Yeaaaah! Mmm feels good! A good cocktail right now on the beach would be perfect. Sending you love back, missy.  IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 9430 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 23, 2014 03:36 PM
NeptunianSag must be seething in a corner right now... Look at what we've done to her anti-love thread. IP: Logged |
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posted June 23, 2014 03:37 PM
Hahaha oh ya duh I forgot you had libraaa moon. My lips are sealed. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 9778 From: Death Star Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 23, 2014 03:39 PM
So now you're excited because of this fact? lol...Thankfully my Moon is a different species to yours.------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 9778 From: Death Star Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 23, 2014 03:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: NeptunianSag must be seething in a corner right now... Look at what we've done to her anti-love thread.
We? What YOU've done, Miss Luv Expert  ------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |