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Topic: Has anyone given up on love?
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NeptunianSag Knowflake Posts: 1331 From: Your imagination Registered: Aug 2013
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posted June 22, 2014 10:20 AM
I've decided I'm so happy being single, I get to do what I want, when I want. I'm not bound by expectation, I don't have to fulfill someone else's selfish desires while not being able to fulfill my own. I have given up on the dating game, but I'm happy that I have. If I'm going to be with someone they'll have to accept me as I am, and not make me do things I don't want to do. Aspects: Venus in Aqaurius Moon in Virgo Moon square Venus Venus conjunct Saturn Venus trine Jupiter Venus trine mercury Moon inconjunct Saturn Moon trine Uranus Moon trine Neptune IP: Logged |
LoVeLy Knowflake Posts: 465 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted June 22, 2014 10:24 AM
Are you a Girl or a Guy ?IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag Knowflake Posts: 1331 From: Your imagination Registered: Aug 2013
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posted June 22, 2014 10:25 AM
quote: Originally posted by LoVeLy: Are you a Girl or a Guy ?
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I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 9778 From: Death Star Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 22, 2014 10:30 AM
It doesn't sound like you have given up on love. You just don't feel like bothering to seek it.------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
lvASTRO Knowflake Posts: 342 From: Saturn Registered: Aug 2013
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posted June 22, 2014 10:33 AM
Eh... Tbh I smell someone who hasn't given up on love, is still a romantic, but has given up on the petty bull-**** that comes with trying to fulfill your ideal of love and seeking it. I gave done it, and do it, too. Whys it so hard? Good luck to you, much love, and I'm DRUNK... Ahhhh! Las Vegas EDC, why?!?! :-0 IP: Logged |
LoVeLy Knowflake Posts: 465 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted June 22, 2014 11:02 AM
quote: Originally posted by NeptunianSag: Girl
Oh cool  IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 3260 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted June 22, 2014 11:15 AM
quote: Originally posted by lvASTRO: Eh... Tbh I smell someone who hasn't given up on love, is still a romantic, but has given up on the petty bull-**** that comes with trying to fulfill your ideal of love and seeking it. I gave done it, and do it, too. Whys it so hard? Good luck to you, much love, and I'm DRUNK... Ahhhh! Las Vegas EDC, why?!?! :-0
Drink for me too! Report back IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 9165 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 22, 2014 11:41 AM
This is great news! Always be true to who you are and if they don't like it, too bad! People need to acknowledge others gifts instead of trying to find fault in everything. Nobody's perfect.IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 9430 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 22, 2014 11:45 AM
I've tried, but it's too painful on the long run.So I'm stuck between wanting it badly, and being mad at the world/myself because I can't get it. Oh, I have progressed Venus conjunct Pluto and square Saturn. I think it fits my situation perfectly.
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fishbull11 Knowflake Posts: 215 From: depths Registered: May 2014
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posted June 22, 2014 12:02 PM
Given up in such harsh terms lol, maybe looked the other way. If you find someone you do like just tell them how it is that you are you and take it or leave it..if they're worth your time and like what you're putting down then they will adhere. Not that you asked about yourself giving up on love just saw others responding that way so there you go.IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 9778 From: Death Star Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 22, 2014 01:02 PM
A lot of people would probably think that "I have given up" if I explained to them my situation but I just try to be realistic. I have no idea if I'll ever have a boyfriend, it's much more likely that I won't though. I don't even know if I could fall in love and be willing to have sex. And even if I could it doesn't mean I would end up with that person. It has to be mutual in the first place and I also want someone compatible which is another issue. And then it's a matter of not running away and not scaring the guy away with my weirdness Besides, I think my romantic drive is dying but that doesn't concern me much, I'd rather not be in a relationship during my 20s anyway. Fortunately, I'm totally ok with dying a virgin and I'm ready to be single to the end so I should be fine no matter what. quote: Oh, I have progressed Venus conjunct Pluto and square Saturn. I think it fits my situation perfectly.
pVenus in Pisces in the 5th square Mars, I don't think it fits my situation  ------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Enneline Knowflake Posts: 3567 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 22, 2014 01:47 PM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: A lot of people would probably think that "I have given up" if I explained to them my situation but I just try to be realistic. I have no idea if I'll ever have a boyfriend, it's much more likely that I won't though. I don't even know if I could fall in love and be willing to have sex. And even if I could it doesn't mean I would end up with that person. It has to be mutual in the first place and I also want someone compatible which is another issue. And then it's a matter of not running away and not scaring the guy away with my weirdness Besides, I think my romantic drive is dying but that doesn't concern me much, I'd rather not be in a relationship during my 20s anyway. Fortunately, I'm totally ok with dying a virgin and I'm ready to be single to the end so I should be fine no matter what. pVenus in Pisces in the 5th square Mars, I don't think it fits my situation 
Hey, you should be sticked to another Christian Grey  IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 9778 From: Death Star Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 22, 2014 01:50 PM
quote: Originally posted by Enneline: Hey, you should be sticked to another Christian Grey 
*shoots herself* Btw, I have these too. quote: Venus in Aqaurius Moon square Venus Venus conjunct Saturn
------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy.
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BellaFenice Knowflake Posts: 3382 From: Neptune with PisceanDream, Faith, and Meissieri Registered: Sep 2013
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posted June 22, 2014 02:06 PM
quote: Originally posted by lvASTRO: Eh... Tbh I smell someone who hasn't given up on love, is still a romantic, but has given up on the petty bull-**** that comes with trying to fulfill your ideal of love and seeking it. I gave done it, and do it, too. Whys it so hard? Good luck to you, much love, and I'm DRUNK... Ahhhh! Las Vegas EDC, why?!?! :-0
I agree! I wish I was drunk right now- probably will be during the USA-Portugal football game. IP: Logged |
Enneline Knowflake Posts: 3567 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 22, 2014 02:06 PM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Yeah, you need someone who pushes you, someone who would be able to create some passion in you inner self. I mean sex & love don't hurt normally - you know that, I know that, God knows it IP: Logged |
Enneline Knowflake Posts: 3567 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 22, 2014 02:15 PM
but no one needs sex in his life to have a happy life. I am pretty sure of thatIP: Logged |
ariestaurus Knowflake Posts: 426 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted June 22, 2014 02:16 PM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Oh, I have progressed Venus conjunct Pluto and square Saturn. I think it fits my situation perfectly.
My Progressed Venus square Saturn aspect just went out of orb. It was hard, but there is a light at the end of the tunnel! Hang in there. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 9778 From: Death Star Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 22, 2014 02:18 PM
quote: I mean sex & love don't hurt normally
quote: Originally posted by Enneline: but no one needs sex in his life to have a happy life. I am pretty sure of that
I don't know what about others but I don't. ------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy.IP: Logged |
Enneline Knowflake Posts: 3567 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 22, 2014 02:19 PM
I have to accent the little word "normally"IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 9778 From: Death Star Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 22, 2014 02:21 PM
Normally, that is until the s.hit hits the fan  IP: Logged |
Enneline Knowflake Posts: 3567 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 22, 2014 02:29 PM
Do you need a certificate of guarantee?IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 9778 From: Death Star Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 22, 2014 02:32 PM
Yes  ------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Enneline Knowflake Posts: 3567 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 22, 2014 02:36 PM
But what if you would fall in love with another man?  IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 9778 From: Death Star Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 22, 2014 02:39 PM
Lol, do I look like a Pisces?  ------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Enneline Knowflake Posts: 3567 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 22, 2014 02:43 PM
one thing for sure: nobody would ever be able to give you a certificate of guarantee for never falling in love with someone  IP: Logged |