posted July 06, 2014 03:11 PM            

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I totally overlooked the moon conjunct Uranus. That can surely add to the head/heart conflict, and make her emotions more volatile. This is a good interp. on the aspect:
http://astromatrix.org/Horoscopes/Planet-Aspects/Moon-Conjunct-Uranus

If her mars is square Uranus too, that can be pretty bad. It's one of those "red flag" aspects. Outburst can be violent, and they're described as stubborn and accident prone. The same site above has a good description of that aspect too. Some people refer to mars/Uranus hard aspects as the "my way or the highway" aspect, so as for your hard to cooperate with question...
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum33/HTML/000071.html

I was concerned about a mars conjunct Uranus aspect in my friends natal. He would get into fist fights and attack out of nowhere. I have a cousin with a first house Uranus, and OMG he's immovable - stubborn beyond words. For this accommodating gemini to think that, it's bad!!! Lol

This just keeps getting worse and worse. It's no wonder you're so hesitant.

I have a mars sextile Uranus. I don't know if I can really isolate the aspect to describe it.

I don't think Uranus trine venus is so bad, makes her exciting.

My ascendant is conjunct my sun at 16,17 degrees gem.

Moon at 9 degrees cap trine my venus at 10degrees Taurus, so my moon does overlay your first house

My 5th is also ruled by venus, but in libra. I have mars, saturn, and pluto in libra 5,15,20. It's all in my 5th house (except mars, it's conjunct the cusp from the 4th).

Yes, take your time. It's the cap way!

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Your sun and asc conjunct my desc, north node and vesta Just like her.

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm...

You know something? As much as i feel this vibe in her, that vibe of my way or the highway, she is also kind of (just kind of) obedient with her parents!

You know essentially i have middle eastern culture, and her too, so... it's in our culture. But she kinda does it with effort. I mean she puts some effort to be somehow lenient with her parents. But she deals with them with .. some sort of submission, not total, but like.. she doesn't mind it sometimes.

This makes me think that she probably doesn't like her mars much, and doesn't like to address that part of her personality. Or at least, her moon is dwelling with uranus, neptune and her venus. They all play together and leave mars out, lol.

Maybe when i came in picture i activated her mars through attraction, so she started to feel imbalanced? Maybe...

There is something missing though: her house overlay. This could change many things, as mars' energy could be directed somewhere and makes it harmless.

But like we both said: it needs time.

posted July 06, 2014 03:47 PM            

I don't know how much a domicile mars can be ignored. It's supposed to be strong regardless of house placement.

Time is a good strategy. She sounds afflicted by her inner conflict, and she needs to deal with that independently or with a professional. I hope she finds peace.

Good luck, my dear!

posted July 06, 2014 03:56 PM            

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She's a gem rising too? She's my astro twin. Instability and all, I like her!!! My bdays two days before hers, so I knew our suns were close.

Oh, and I know... We have soulmatey synastry!

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No no: i don't know her rising sign That;s the problem actually, it could give me a lot of insight if i knew when she was born.

And yeh: soulmates

Actually me and her have VERY strong soul mate connections:

My pluto trines very tightly her persephone.

We both have double whammy zeus and hera with less than 1 degree apart.

Her zeus conjunct my hera, my zeus opposes her hera.

I will see what i can do, soulmate lindalander

posted July 06, 2014 04:13 PM            

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No no: i don't know her rising sign That;s the problem actually, it could give me a lot of insight if i knew when she was born.

And yeh: soulmates

Actually me and her have VERY strong soul mate connections:

My pluto trines very tightly her persephone.

We both have double whammy zeus and hera with less than 1 degree apart.

Her zeus conjunct my hera, my zeus opposes her hera.

I will see what i can do, soulmate lindalander

If it failed here i guess i will fly to you lol

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Lol. Everyone just loves to vacation where I live. It's paradise after all. I'll cheer you up! Your sun in conjunct my BML!!!! Lol!

That Zeus/Hera sounds significant. I don't think they had a good relationship though. There was too much infidelity unlike Eros/psyche or Pluto/Persephone.

My friend and I have soulmate asteroid connections too: my Persephone makes a nearly exact conjunct to his sun/NN and squares his Pluto by a degree. My Eros/cupido is tightly opposite his psyche, we have a tight Zeus/Hera trine, a wide Isis/Osiris conjunction... It's on and on, but it's just not going to happen. Idk his tob either. That is so frustrating.

You know, your ascendant is also tightly conjunct my groom! Lol. Just saying! I also have Moira on my sun/ascendant. If you don't know, Moira means fate.

posted July 06, 2014 04:20 PM            

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You know, your ascendant is also tightly conjunct my groom! Lol. Just saying! I also have Moira on my sun/ascendant. If you don't know, Moira means fate.

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posted July 06, 2014 04:23 PM            

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Originally posted by MagnumJoe:
What the hell is groom ?

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An asteroid. lol

Groom (5129)
Briede (19029)

posted July 06, 2014 04:38 PM            

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Interesting...

Yes apparently you do lol

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posted July 06, 2014 04:59 PM            

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Well, I am an information gathering gemini. Knowledge is power!

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posted July 06, 2014 05:15 PM            

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And you will use it to rule the world ?

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posted July 06, 2014 05:21 PM            

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I'm revolutionary. I'll use it to change the world.

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posted July 06, 2014 05:40 PM            

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Lol. Yeh i was just messing with you

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Lol. I know you were!

Aw! Am I being too serious for you?!

My moon is conjunct my SN in cap. Hitler had this placement! I think I'll leave that desire for dominion in the past!!

Just imagine, the hitler aspect, and a first house sun... I will burn up any resistance in my path. Hahaha! I'll spare the world from cowering in my glory!

posted July 06, 2014 05:54 PM            

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Lol. I know you were!

Aw! Am I being too serious for you?!

My moon is conjunct my SN in cap. Hitler had this placement! I think I'll leave that desire for dominion in the past!!

Just imagine, the hitler aspect, and a first house sun... I will burn up any resistance in my path. Hahaha! I'll spare the world from cowering in my glory!

Unless you get excited over this kind of stuff... Huh, Leo moon?? Lol

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posted July 06, 2014 06:11 PM            

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Lol. I like it when kitties think they are tigresses

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Ahahahaha! You're so funny!! = )

I'm a master strategist, my dear!! I purr like a kitty, but that makes the element of surprise all the more savory ***licks paws***

posted July 06, 2014 06:16 PM            

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Ahahahaha! You're so funny!! = )

I'm a master strategist, my dear!! I purr like a kitty, but that makes the element of surprise all the more savory ***licks paws***

The battle for this pride is so on!! Lol

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Lol

My dear, i am not easy to fall for looks or even apparent innocence.

But whatever sinister evil you may plan, or imagine, or comes on the back of your mind, it will fall in the category of "Cute Kitty" to me.

posted July 06, 2014 06:20 PM            

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Lol

My dear, i am not easy to fall for looks or even apparent innocence.

But whatever sinister evil you may plan, or imagine, or comes on the back of your mind, it will fall in the category of "Cute Kitty" to me.

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Glad to hear it because it's all in the thrill of the hunt. I don't like my prey to roll over and die!

posted July 06, 2014 06:25 PM            

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Glad to hear it because it's all in the thrill of the hunt. I don't like my prey to roll over and die!

And I am innocent!! Don't accuse me of plotting against you. How dare...

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posted July 06, 2014 06:28 PM            

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Ok innocent kitty Don't worry, the only thing that's gonna roll up here, is a cheese sandwich roll, lol

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posted July 06, 2014 06:43 PM            

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You forgot cute... I'm kidding

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posted July 06, 2014 07:49 PM            

I was talking about being "Hitler" and ruling the world, and crushing resistance I meant that whatever thoughts related to these you may think, it will always come as cute to me.

I appreciate what you said, and i feel for you really, but this is completely out of subject

But it's ok. I understand. It's tough to get married early with the wrong incentive. You live and learn! And maybe this happened so you'd save someone else from repeating what you did.

posted July 06, 2014 07:52 PM            

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What the .... lol?

I was talking about being "Hitler" and ruling the world, and crushing resistance I meant that whatever thoughts related to these you may think, it will always come as cute to me.

I appreciate what you said, and i feel for you really, but this is completely out of subject

But it's ok. I understand. It's tough to get married early with the wrong incentive. You live and learn! And maybe this happened so you'd save someone else from repeating what you did.

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posted July 06, 2014 07:54 PM            

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Sorry. I think it's just less of what you said and more my conscience bothering me. I'm just really critical when it comes to right and wrong.

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It's ok, girl We were just having a nice conversation, that's all

posted July 06, 2014 07:56 PM            

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It's ok, girl We were just having a nice conversation, that's all

Now that's one small "Bout" lol

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posted July 06, 2014 08:06 PM            

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I figure we get our first fight out of the way. Warm you up for an Aries mars!!! Lol

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Oh she should bring it on

And should she do that, she will end up bent on a table receiving the D