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Topic: Man with Mars in Libra = Feminine (Sort of?)
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rockwell Knowflake Posts: 107 From: Mars ♈︎ Registered: Sep 2021
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posted December 06, 2023 07:32 PM
quote: Originally posted by Librapurr: [QUOTE]Originally posted by rockwell: [b] Capricorn is about rules, Aries is not! The constellation Aries resembles a reclining ram that turns its head backward. The ram sits there majestically and watches to see whether the other eleven signs of the zodiac will follow him. And that's exactly how Aries and Mars in Aries is. They're natural leaders and radiate their claim to leadership. Aries has the task of taking responsibility on this planet, of leading, guiding, and making decisions. It is usually the case that when Aries leads, things are actually moved forward. Aries are active. They are always in action, restless, combative, but also competitive, but not in a malicious sense. Aries and Mars in Aries have the idea that they can organize their own lives and are completely independent. We don't like to be put in situations where we feel completely helpless and can't do anything about it. Therefore Aries has to learn to let himself be led by fate. Otherwise, we may end up running and working ourselves into the ground, having to start all over again and take detours.
I started to confuse who wants rules, or power, or just mindlessly lead somewhere lol Organize theirs energy and direction is something Aries need to learn also. Usually, if I hear 5 calls in a row and it’s often someone with Aries placements. (Especially, mars) And I usually know there’s no emergency at all somebody just cannot wait 2 minutes between calls lol[/B][/QUOTE] Aries Mars in a nutshell  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KrhfClIcfYM IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 6268 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted December 07, 2023 09:13 AM
I’m currently dating a Mars in Libra man and having sex with a Mars in Aries man. The difference is like night and day. Mars in Libra man (unless in contact with Pluto or Saturn) doesn’t like rough sex. Also doesn’t like to get dirty if you know what I mean. He likes making love and intimacy (he does have Mars in the 2nd house). I personally don’t think he’s masculine in regards to how he carries himself. He comes across as gentle. I haven’t actually had sex with him but I’ve asked him what he’s into. He’s a Sagittarius and yet he still doesn’t seem masculine to me. The Mars in Aries on the other hand likes it rough and dirty I like his masculine energy. I like the way he carries himself. It trines my Saturn so that could be why. But I just like how he moves and the active energy. Though it’s square to Saturn he likes to be in control. I can tell he holds himself back. But I think he’s opening up a little more. So aspects make a difference. As a Gemini Mars I know I’m supposed to automatically be compatible with Mars in Libra. And I actually slept with one who has Mars conjunct Pluto. He was rough and dirty and I believe it’s the Pluto influence that makes the difference. This is why aspects are important. Also it seems like the Libra Mars thinks he can sweet talk or smooth talk his way into getting me to change your mind. Just thought I’d share my experience. IP: Logged |
PixieJane Knowflake Posts: 9896 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted December 07, 2023 07:27 PM
I can only think of one Libra Mars at the moment, and she is female. While I'd attribute much of her activities and personality to her Cancer positions, it would fit Libra Mars.Her everyday life is making a better world (and has even worked long and sometimes dangerous hours on park lands at times), something she has tried to do since a child. She knows better than many in her generation that throwing a tantrum won't do anything, and she's pragmatically trying to find a way to help the world that is profitable (not necessarily to her, but she knows it will only work if it's more profitable than destroying the world). She accepts the flaws of humanity and accounts for them, even as she still tries to be better than that herself and inspire others to be. Interesting, at least as a child, she (more often than not) had some academic types gravitate to her, which drove me crazy as they needed her blessing (delivered by text) for every tiny thing. I think a man would need to be committed to ideals as well, as in it's not just about them. I think she has a tendency to be elegant and classy without being gaudy, and attractive in the "girl next door" way. I did have to help her get rid of a violent stalker when she was a teen (did not seem at all amused or turned on or making excuses for his behavior, and was a one time thing as far as I'm aware). And though she cringes about it now, her childhood crush was Peeta from The Hunger Games. To sum up the character (which she apparently embraced herself), “That what I need to survive is not Gale's fire, kindled with rage and hatred. I have plenty of fire myself. What I need is the dandelion in the spring. The bright yellow that means rebirth instead of destruction. The promise that life can go on, no matter how bad our losses. That it can be good again. And only Peeta can give me that.” (It could just be hotness that drew her, not caring about the reasons given in the book, but other ways in which she acted, and those she later dated, make me think she sympathizes with that paragraph.) IP: Logged |
Librapurr Knowflake Posts: 2403 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted December 08, 2023 01:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by rockwell: Aries Mars in a nutshell  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KrhfClIcfYM
Ha-ha, it does look like Aries mars ( or other Aries with prominent mars) - very straightforward and doesn’t know when to stop.😄 Libra mars I’ve met was very different, but desire to show off and dress well was similar. They could compensate many things with good style. The rest of charts matters. One had much fire and water so had less desire to be polite.
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rockwell Knowflake Posts: 107 From: Mars ♈︎ Registered: Sep 2021
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posted December 11, 2023 11:58 AM
@Librapurr: The little ram is adorable, isn't he? How can one be so angry and friendly (he waits until the man is ready) at the same time? 😂 However, the clip contains a truth about rams (and Aries). Never ever turn your back on them. I grew up on the countryside and therefore know how dangerous that can be. The same goes for Aries prominent people. Aries bond by friendly competition. Turning your back on them makes them either even more angry or they'll loose respect.@ChildofVenus called Mars in Libra individuals GENTLE which nails it. (Aries in contrast is efficient and fast. A good example of Aries Mars is Daniel Craig with his Mars, Moon, Saturn, and North node in Aries). Mars in Libra number one I know is a priest. A lovely and very pleasant man. Very good at building bridges between people and different ideas. He has a lovely smile. Handsome man. Number two is a surgeon. He has Mars conjunct both Saturn and Pluto. He has tremendous stamina and does everything to be successful in his professional life but still comes overall across as very pleasant and Librarish. He avoids confrontation and would rather "Shhh" than engage into arguments He is physically not very attractive and does not dress in fancy clothes but has an eye for beauty and symmetry in others. Libra Mars number three that comes to my mind is the German comedian Otto Waalkes. He isn't attractive but had a beautiful wife! Interestingly, he once said that he got girls by being funny and therefore made up for the lack of physical beauty. Mars in Libra number four: John Lennon. His song "woman" sounds so Librarish. He wasn't the most faithful husband (must be Mars conjunct Neptune but artsy). Mars in Libra number five: Freddy Mercury. Had according to temporary witnesses the wildest party nights. Interesting is that Mercury leaned strongly toward 'classical rock' and not the harsh heavy Metall stuff. What I noticed about Libra Mars is that they seem to appreciate small romantic gestures more than the sexual stuff. In a woman's chart, Mars (or Venus) in Libra individuals seem to like more artificial beauty (Kylie Jenner, Nicole Kidman) or at least like it to dress up nicely (Duchess of Wales). IP: Logged |
rockwell Knowflake Posts: 107 From: Mars ♈︎ Registered: Sep 2021
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posted December 11, 2023 05:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by ChildofVenus: I’m currently dating a Mars in Libra man and having sex with a Mars in Aries man. The difference is like night and day. Mars in Libra man (unless in contact with Pluto or Saturn) doesn’t like rough sex. Also doesn’t like to get dirty if you know what I mean. He likes making love and intimacy (he does have Mars in the 2nd house). I personally don’t think he’s masculine in regards to how he carries himself. He comes across as gentle. I haven’t actually had sex with him but I’ve asked him what he’s into. He’s a Sagittarius and yet he still doesn’t seem masculine to me. The Mars in Aries on the other hand likes it rough and dirty I like his masculine energy. I like the way he carries himself. It trines my Saturn so that could be why. But I just like how he moves and the active energy. Though it’s square to Saturn he likes to be in control. I can tell he holds himself back. But I think he’s opening up a little more. So aspects make a difference. As a Gemini Mars I know I’m supposed to automatically be compatible with Mars in Libra. And I actually slept with one who has Mars conjunct Pluto. He was rough and dirty and I believe it’s the Pluto influence that makes the difference. This is why aspects are important. Also it seems like the Libra Mars thinks he can sweet talk or smooth talk his way into getting me to change your mind. Just thought I’d share my experience.
Nailed it. Sweet talk or smooth talk is their way of getting things. It seems to me that these individuals prefer the indirect route to get what they want. I have a female friend with Libra Mars and it is exactly as you described. It's as if they don't dare to come out with their opinions unfiltered or they do things in a zick-zack way. I can give you an example. My Libra Mars friend was treated miserably on one occasion by another woman when she went shopping. Instead of addressing the issue directly and saying this to the woman's face, the friend accidentally stepped on her overlong skirt and then said it was all just an accident. Of course it was not, she later told me. About Libra Mars conjunct Pluto. I know a Mars conjunct Pluto and Saturn man and he likes horror movies. He has also channeled his energies mostly into his profession (surgery). I've never slept with him and can't say what he likes sexually, but imagine that he favors a powerful and planned approach. Pluto could indicate that he's the type who's secretly into extreme stuff but Libra is an air (mental) sign and very partner-orientated. So I wonder whether the fetishes just remain fantasies when they notice that their partner wouldn't like it. On the outside, he still comes across as Libraish (very social + conflict-shy). IP: Logged | |