posted October 03, 2014 05:29 PM            

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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:
I'm so happy to read that some of you have great relationships with your mother! My baby's moon squares pluto and venus and that really freaks me out, lol.

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Yeah, I'll add to that. Capricorn Moon square Scorpio Pluto (out of sign). Pluto also square Cancer Sun and Leo Mercury (in opposition to Moon). Moon in 9th, Pluto in 6th.

How is your relationship with your mother?

Great. I love my mother, she is one of the most important people to me thick and thin. I always felt so much love and devotion from her, and like her as a person, too. The problem was she had some emotional problems, and she would attract darker people and situations into our lives; make poor decisions. She was almost murdered in front of me when I was 13 by our roommate, for instance, and married an ex-convict who was abusive towards her (and a Scorpio Sun/Cancer Moon).

How strong are your emotions?

Been in therapy since I was 5 because of them.

Have you ever had depression in your life? Thoughts of suicide?

Yes, starting at 11. For both. But I was more like Vajra, where I didn't want to die so much as I was interested in what dying was like. However, the thoughts were compulsive (I was diagnosed with OCD) and terrifying because I'd actually try to feel what it would be like to suffer and die in various ways.

Do you get proper amounts of sleep? Or do you or have you ever suffered from Insomnia?

Didn't sleep even as a baby. When I was 15 or so it went in the opposite direction and I slept too much (12 - 16 hrs). It's actually much better now, though!

How is your sensuality? How do you view sex? How do you view sexual taboos?

Had first fantasy at 4 or 5 yrs. I don't know if that is normal? I mean, people don't usually talk about that stuff. So, pretty strong sex drive. Taboos are fine, people can do what they like (unless it hurts someone else). I'm not terribly into weird stuff though, personally. Just as long as it's passionate, or at least in good humor.

posted October 03, 2014 05:37 PM            

My story is complicated as I have an 'adoptive' mom who took care of me and that lady who birthed me. I had a relationship with both and I had the best mom in the world and spent time in hell with the birth lady.

I'm not sure how to answer this question, however, the birth lady had a lot of Scorpio/Pluto traits in the negative. With her, I spent a lot of time trying to escape her and run away from her. Extremely toxic to me. For a while she had me trapped in a bad household and being a minor at that time, I had no way out.

This was in my mid teens and i went into a very deep depression that lasted 14 to 15 years. During that time, I had bouts of feeling and being suicidal. I separated many times from that lady, but kept in touch with my mom.

The lady was a highly unforgiving and vengeful person. A lot of triangulation and backstabbing. She would talk to my friends and sabotage my friendships etc.....there would be hidden, false accusations against me as well.

How is your relationship with your mother?

How strong are your emotions?
- I have deep and strong emotions. I feel things to the core. I am highly sensitive and very intuitive.

Have you ever had depression in your life? Thoughts of suicide?

Do you get proper amounts of sleep? Or do you or have you ever suffered from Insomnia?
- Most of the time I go to bed okay, however, there are some times, I find it hard to fall asleep. Those nights, I go downstairs, turn the tv on and eventually fall asleep on the couch.

How is your sensuality? How do you view sex? How do you view sexual taboos?
- Sex is overrated. I would be graysexual. I go from treasuring celibacy to a little bit sexual.

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posted October 03, 2014 06:41 PM              

I have a complicated relationship with my mother. I love her but I can't be around her for too long. She has never been emotionally supportive and she actually puts me down a lot. If I show emotion she either ignores it, tells me to stop or makes fun of it. She too critical and nagging. She tries to control me but I just realized not long ago that she has no basis for it. I don't ever even need to talk to her if I wanted.

My emotions are very strong, they are the driving force of my psyche and the compass to my life.

Yes. I'm never really sure if I've gotten over my depression or not. I don't remember the last time I felt normal or truly happy or even comfortable. I'm either numb or sad. I used to be suicidal but not anymore, I've had some attempts but it just made moralize that death really is final, and it's scary not knowing what's on th other side. I'm not sure what I'm looking forward to but I figure why not wait it out, if I'm still depressed in ten years I'll do it then.

No. I go through waves if either sleeping Too uch or too little. I can never fall asleep, even when I'm dead tired, for some reason I sleep better the later into the am it is, prob a,y because my mind feels like I'm pushing it and like I'm getting more private time?

I'm very sensual but I have a hard time letting it out or even trusting anyone enough to let it out. Being honest win myself, I haven't been able to trust anyone enough to really be my full self in terms of sex and sensuality, I want to merge with someone and for sex to really be an act of true love, and I don't think I can every find someone else that treats it that way.

posted October 03, 2014 07:45 PM            

My relationship with mother is fine and always have been. She's been ill though and sometimes I get the feeling she actually doesn't know me. (No she doesn't, but I'm fine with that)

My feelings are deep. I think they were stronger when I was younger, but nowadays I would call them deep rather than strong.

Depression yes. Thought of suicide? No.
Or, of course I've thought about it (who hasn't?) but I never considered it an option.

I sleep to much...

posted October 03, 2014 08:46 PM            

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Originally posted by Gemini30:
I have such a fascination with this aspect. I gave it nataly, Moon conj pluto in scorpio in the 1st house.

After all I have read about it, it really relates to me big time. Im a male and I had mother issues. She was and still is a total control freak and there are times I wish she was never my mother.

My questions for fellow moon/pluto folks are:

How is your relationship with your mother?

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Getting back to good. It was broken for a while. I have Moon/Venus trine Pluto.

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How strong are your emotions?

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Depends on the day, and the situation. I've been calmer, lately.

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Have you ever had depression in your life? Thoughts of suicide?

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Yes.

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Do you get proper amounts of sleep? Or do you or have you ever suffered from Insomnia?

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Yes.

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How is your sensuality? How do you view sex? How do you view sexual taboos?

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posted October 04, 2014 12:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Vajra:
The orb of my Moon-Pluto square is 1'59. It is also part of a T-Square structure, because Pluto is also square the 8th House Sun (orb 2'38). Pluto is my chart ruler, maybe that's why the effect of the hard aspects to both Luminaries has not been so negative in my case.

Interestingy, a man I know has a very wide Moon-Pluto trine (orb 9'30), and his answers to the questions would likely be much more in line with the majority here - problematic relationship with mother: check; nature of emotions: overwhelming; history of depression/thoughts of suicide: check; trouble falling asleep/insomnia: check; strong sensuality/interest in taboo topics: check. But then, this could be the combined result of Moon/Pluto with his Sun-Moon-Saturn T-Square...

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Interesting! See i think even if it's not in orb, as long as the signs "match" there is the tension. Hence, my aunt has her Moon in Cancer at 23 degrees and her pluto in Libra at 9 degrees and she too would answer yes to all my questions.

posted March 26, 2016 04:05 AM            

How is your relationship with your mother?
Horrendous until I moved out. We can't be around each other for more than 5 days, but the distance between us has unexpectedly made us really close! Living together any time we spoke to each other would turn into a violent argument (didn't help that I have Mars square Saturn as well), but now we talk like really good friends and have a lot more fun and bonding ahead of us.

How strong are your emotions?
They have been unstable in the past, especially growing up. I really feel for my mother raising me practically alone. But I feel like I have a great grasp on them now and feel like I'm capable of more than I ever expected.

Have you ever had depression in your life? Thoughts of suicide?
Puberty wasn't fun, but I never seriously considered suicide until somebody who I had been romantically attached to hung himself. I went through a short stunt of anorexia and drug addiction and that was the closest I came to it, but I've improved in all areas as a person since then and am much happier with who I am today.

Do you get proper amounts of sleep? Or do you or have you ever suffered from Insomnia?
I have problems breathing in my sleep, and I used to have frequent sleep paralysis - but not so much any more.

posted March 26, 2016 06:35 AM            

How is your relationship with your mother?

She is very controlling and obsessive, but I accept that and I have very good bond with her, she is the only person that I trust 100 percent and I always know that she is going to be there for me. She has Moon in Scorpio.

How strong are your emotions?

I have Pisces moon, so my emotions are quite strong, also my progressed moon right now is in Scorpio, so everything is so intensified that sometimes I don't understand and even fear myself. Also I have this very weird fear of falling in love, because I feel like that the other person will get scared of my intense emotions :/

Have you ever had depression in your life? Thoughts of suicide?

I have always struggled with mood swings and being negative. My teenage years were quite difficult. And yes I have had depression, also I get sad very easily.

Do you get proper amounts of sleep? Or do you or have you ever suffered from Insomnia?

OMG!!! Last spring till about beginning of this year I had crazy insomnia and I couldn't sleep without sleeping pills. I was so stressed out at that time that it felt like different reality.

How is your sensuality? How do you view sex? How do you view sexual taboos?

posted March 27, 2016 09:45 AM            

I have Pluto/Moon sesquiquadrate.

I have STRONG emotions.
My mother is STRONG, independent absolutely no control freak. I have a very good bond with her. My Moon is in my 5th house. She is VERY creative! She did everything in and around the house. Helped my dad in his business, painted the house, did the garden, made our clothes (from scratch), made a BIG barbie doll house and the little furniture, always busy. She is GREAT and very Neptunian and social.

Mild depressions that couldn't be called depression, more dips, but because I am also a very optimistic person it never lasted long.
No suicidal thoughts.
No insomnia, a very easy sleeper.
I won't go into my sexual thoughts and feelings.

posted March 27, 2016 12:44 PM            

How is your relationship with your mother?

Lots of unresolved issues from my childhood currently, but not the worst. And now that I'm older I can kind of understand why she did the things she did during my childhood growing up.

How strong are your emotions?

Now sure I get this question? I guess you could say my emotions are strong in the fact that I can be very black/white about certain things? Like if I cut someone off/cease contact with someone, it's literally FOR GOOD. After I've given someone another chance and they mess up they turn into someone who's never existed.

Have you ever had depression in your life? Thoughts of suicide?

Currently seeing a therapist. Not suicidal though.

Do you get proper amounts of sleep? Or do you or have you ever suffered from Insomnia?

Lately my sleeping habits have been a mess. I always wake up in the middle of the night.

How is your sensuality? How do you view sex? How do you view sexual taboos?

"Live and let live".

I enjoy sex and I did for a short stint have hang ups regarding sex but that's back when I believed in religion due to my upbringing. I don't subscribe to putting any belief that sex is some almighty sacred act or that it's for "love" and/or procreation only.

posted March 27, 2016 01:25 PM            

How is your relationship with your mother?
Very complicated.

How strong are your emotions?
Intense and complicated.

Have you ever had depression in your life? Thoughts of suicide?
Yes, frequently.

Do you get proper amounts of sleep? Or do you or have you ever suffered from Insomnia?
I go through cycles of extreme sleep patterns. Sometimes they are circumstantial but many times I'm just too excited about projects / ideas to sleep properly. Other times it seems like I can't get enough sleep to function even if it's 10 hours a night.

posted March 27, 2016 01:46 PM              

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Originally posted by Sylven:
A friend of mine has Pluto conjunct Moon in Libra (also square Saturn). She has a very good bond with her mom!! Quite close. Her mother is a chatterbox, very social.

Just the mom part here...

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THANK you for this. Im sick of people always implying that if you have moon conjunct pluto your mother tortured you.

posted March 27, 2016 02:44 PM            

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Originally posted by Spongebob:
THANK you for this. Im sick of people always implying that if you have moon conjunct pluto your mother tortured you.

I have moon conjunct pluto in libra in the eighth house and i was crazy about my mother, we were together alot, enough that i think my siblngs started to resent me and thought i was the favorite child. We were close and had a good relationship.

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posted March 27, 2016 03:05 PM            

How is your relationship with your mother?
Fantastic. I'm a bit secretive and it drives her nuts, but if I need her for something she's there to listen.

How strong are your emotions?
2000/10. Disturbed? Well, you see, I normally keep my emotions contained in a spiritual wooden box in the deepest parts of my soul. At times, however, the peace gets to me so I let my emotions out to play, but only if I'm alone.

Have you ever had depression in your life? Thoughts of suicide?
I've been professionally diagnosed with depression since I was 10 years old. I do think about suicide, but I only attempted it once and even then I didn't get very far before I decided not to do it.

Do you get proper amounts of sleep? Or do you or have you ever suffered from Insomnia?
I go to bed for 8-9 hours per night, but it takes me like 3 hours to wake up and this is with medication and a consistent sleep schedule. I think something is messing with my ability to sleep properly. I even experienced Insomnia at one point.

posted March 28, 2016 11:10 AM            

How is your relationship with your mother?
We have a good relationship. She's passive-aggressive at times and has a Cancer Moon in the fourth, so the emotional context for her is easy to understand.

How strong are your emotions?
Powerful enough to detonate the entire earth if they were to be unleashed. They resonate within my body at the highest of extremes.

Have you ever had depression in your life? Thoughts of suicide?
I just came out of a depression. This was most likely due to Saturn Opposite Moon & Conjunct Pluto transit, but it was the kind where you're full of anger all the time. No good thoughts, just hatred for everyone that lingers around you.
Suicide? Never. I've thought about the idea, but it's never been an option because I see it as a personal failure to withstand life's weight.

Do you get proper amounts of sleep? Or do you or have you ever suffered from Insomnia?
I've suffered from Insomnia many of times, but I typically get good amounts of sleep. At the moment though, I'm getting 7 hours a week and it's not the best thing to experience.

posted March 29, 2016 12:24 AM              

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Originally posted by Sylven:
And thank YOU! My daughter has Pluto sq Moon. I have noticed that Pluto can create such a deep loving bond!! As your example!! It's lovely to hear you were crazy about your mother. She passed away?
My daughter and I are very close!! With my Pluto conjunct her Moon exactly and her Neptune conjunct my Moon.
Thanks again!

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Yeah she did...unexpectedly although moon in the eighth does make that a possibility in retrospect.