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theunknown
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posted October 31, 2014 05:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for theunknown     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So I read another article on Astro.com wanna open up another thread to discuss different rising since I only have one and do not get to meet all rising signs.
http://www.astro.com/astrology/in_dgfirsthouse_e.htm

In the article, Dana Gerhardt says your rising sign is indicative of how you were born and the role you are perceived to play in your family.

My sister has a cap rising with saturn-uranus-neptune conjunct her asc almost exact. She was born when all my immediate family (aunts, uncles, grandparents...) still lived in my former house. So she was born in a house full of adults. She was always viewed as the capable (cap rising), independent (uranus). When my parents punished her, she just went off to do her own things. She never cried, ate at the right time and self-disciplined even as a child. My parents always commented on how she was the adult.

Now, I have taurus rising. When I was born, there were just my parents and my sister. But we were a lot more economically stable. I was supposed to be the luxurious child who only liked to eat and wear expensive things.

Dana Gerhardt mentioned if one has pisces rising, one can be perceived as the lost child. Sag rising - the clown. Cancer rising, the family caretakers or the ones needed to be taken care off.

My mother is a scorp rising with 3 younger siblings all have cancer risings.

So anyway, does any of this resonate with you? Share your stories!

EDIT: Summing up responses from everyone so far:
o sum up some responses we have here:

Taurus: abundant, stable home; homebody/practical, the one that receives family's "investment"

Gem: born early, the "young" one

Cancer Asc: the one who need to be taken care of,
Leo Asc: birth received lots of attention; the happy one

Virgo: the one who is constantly working, or never good enough; birth when people are distressed; the one who is always put-together

Scorpio: conception in controlling/manipulative circumstances
Do you scorp rising have strong relationship with your grandmom?

Cap rising: expected to be the capable one, delay in birth, hard birth (maybe C-section falls into this);

Aqua: the odd one out; similar to leo - receives attention

Aspect to ASC:
It seems that Pluto and Saturn hard aspect give delayed birth and childhood with health issues

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posted October 31, 2014 09:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12muddy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cap asc.

It explains the circumstances that my parents were thrown into after my birth (or in some ways, my birth was the cause of those circumstances).

The whole family tree expected a male child. Discord, extreme stress, power struggle, deaths...etc.. followed my birth and poured onto my parents' shoulders. Too heavy for them, they held it together admirably, but it broke them mentally and emotionally for a while.

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posted October 31, 2014 10:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I was born blue and almost dead...they thought they would lose me...but I came back to life.

Like Jesus.

Not bad for a Leo ASC.

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posted October 31, 2014 10:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted October 31, 2014 11:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for etherealsaturn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I always thought myself the most responsible, next to my brother, who is also a Capricorn Sun. I felt the need to always be there. My mother is a Gemini Sun, father is a Sagittarius Sun. I feel that I never had the chance to just be young. I was always too afraid to let loose, I grew up so uptight, at least in my teen years.

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posted October 31, 2014 11:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12muddy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Faithhhhh........

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posted October 31, 2014 11:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for florence     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I was conceived when my dad was in a relationship with someone other who his family liked. He loved my mum so he broke up with his gf and my parents were married. My dad's sister disliked my mum and they had horrendous arguments - she transferred this hatred to me.
As the first grandchild there was some resentment of my paternal grandmas love.

In my nuclear family I didn't have a role other than we all lived pleasantly doing our own thing, very separate. I caused a lot more problems than my brother though & dramatics. I can't really figure my ascendant in other than conception in clandestine circumstances and that I happened to figure in family battles in the extended family by having brought my parents together. I suppose always sensing tension between families could be it because I always felt I had to be careful not to give ammunition to each party so some censorship

Scorpio rising

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posted October 31, 2014 11:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12th_House_Gal     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am the youngest of 4. I have two older half brothers that I am not close to at all. I have an older sister (18 mo older to the day), who is my full sister.

When she was born my parents were pooooor. My dad is a true rags to riches story, he literally "hit his jackpot" before they had me and right after they had sister, he came into all of his wealth in his mid 30's. My sister is a Taurus Ascendant. She has been financially supported by my Dad to the extreme. Anything she wants she gets. She lived in one of his condos for years for free, had her 4 years at art school paid for, is engaged and he is paying for a very ritzy destination wedding, she's always been very "comfortable" in that regard. Prior to her birth, and after her birth is when my parents went from living in a very small home in a bad neighborhood, to building a big house in one of the nicest neighborhoods in town. My sister's birth video is exciting, my grandparents are there. The whole family looks happy to have this little bitty in their life!

I was born after they built this new house. I am a Virgo Ascendant. My parents had a very abusive relationship, and my mom went into labor because my father threw a telephone book at her. It "shocked" her body into labor. My "birth" video is depressing, no one looks happy. Not one family member came to see me at the hospital. It's like "oh ok there she is", I cried when I saw it for the first time because no one even remotely appears happy to see me! Now my mom said that after I was born my Dad did not even stay at the hospital with her. When it was time for her to be discharged, he never picked her up. Mind you he has two sons that are about 16 years my senior, so by the time I came he was just over it. He literally left me and her at the hospital, and the hospital staff had to track his a$$ down to come get us. Mind you they were married and living together! Nothing has ever come to me easy, ever. I have always had work for everything. I wanted to go to the same art school as my sister but my father refused to pay. I moved out of my parents home when I was 18 and have not borrowed a dime from my dad since then, paying for my own living and food, etc. I am very different from my sister. I believe in hard work, I do not take handouts. Additionally, when I got married he did not pay a dime for my wedding. I went to our local city hall and was married by the mayor. It was a sweet little day, but vastly different from my older sister's massive beach wedding that is happening with her $5k wedding dress! lol - mine came from Macy's and I bought it myself!

This different between my sister's life and mine has also been noticed by everyone in our family and our close family friends. My parents eventually began apologizing ot me in my mid 20's for just "giving me a hard time" or "sorry we should have really been harder on your sister not you".

Mom also says that when I was born I had a giant "lump" on my forehead (actually at my third eye point) and my tear ducts were clogged. I actually look like a little old person as a baby!!! Seriously!! The clogged tear ducts basically prevented me from fully opening my eyes for several days. It was as if my real sight was hidden and my true "minds eye" was present. I have a heavy 12th House, Neptune in my 4th, and Neptune does a lot in my chart. They consulted a plastic surgeon about the lump, who said I would just grow into it (which I did - no lumps lol). Mom has always said it was my third eye!

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posted November 01, 2014 02:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Leo ASC.
Way too much attention for my own good.
Thankfully life changed when I was 7.
But I guess by then the damage had already been done

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posted November 01, 2014 03:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for theunknown     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Muddy and 12_house: Awww...in both my birth and my sisteŕ's, my mom was expecting a boy too. I have saturn square Asc.

All the virgo Asc I know work really hard!!!!

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posted November 01, 2014 04:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's late and I've had a busy day so I'm tired...but this weekend is potentially hectic as well so if I don't answer now I might not ever do so.

I'm not sure what I think but it can fit. I can think of a Virgo ASC kid who is very proper and hardworking (she reminds of Hermione Granger in her bearing and general attitude) and one with an Aquarius ASC who is something of a wild card with his ASC showing at times.

Me and my mom are both Leo ASC yet we showed it in different ways. But thing was we both got a lot of attention whether we wanted it or not. I agreed with others about my cousin being a happy go lucky kid and prankster (but don't get him mad) and he has a Sag ASC. He remembers me as a "favorite" and even a "princess" (which is NOT my memory at all, makes me wonder if he's from some alternate universe) and I'm a Leo ASC. I got invited to a high school keg party when I was 13 because high schoolers were curious about me (actually my cousin was asked to bring me rather than I was invited) and that's almost unprecedented. My cousin later married a woman who remembers me from that keg party and knew a lot about me...I felt bad because I barely remembered her at all.

Mom had some bad experiences and it made her thick Scorpio & Leo energy (she had a stellium as well as ASC in Leo) go bad...like both a Scorpio and a Leo (gone bad and in an intolerable sitch) she learned to steal power and then wield it ruthlessly over others. She was a lot more into fashion as a kid than I was (she even chose the brand of cigarettes she smoked as it was what all the models seemed to smoke and she thought it helped control one's appetite best) and pretty much felt destined for stardom. It didn't happen though she did enjoy a few years as a professional model and I don't think it would've surprised anyone if she made the big time (not that they'd have forgiven her). Even when I was growing up Mom had a regal bearing, I imagine it was much more pronounced as a kid before she was disillusioned.

That said, I do see the other aspects of the chart playing out in me, my mom, cousin, and the two kids I mentioned...and therefore am not sure. Perhaps because kids tend to hide much of themselves from adults and even tattling or bullying siblings they remember the ASC (mask) much more than the sun, moon, etc, which creates the false impression that inspired that article. And yet there is a poetic touch to it that makes me think it COULD be true.

Not sure yet, my scales will have to spend some time weighing it. Hope I don't forget this over the weekend.

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posted November 01, 2014 08:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aqua Venus Conjunct Aqua Ascendant. I was the last of 3 kids, so I was "the baby". When I was born I was unique to my family because I was the only one of my mom's kids that was born completely healthy. My brother had almost died when he was born but I was born hale and hearty and was 22 inches long and weighed about 8 pounds. As for my role in the family, I have always been the oddball.

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posted November 01, 2014 08:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Faith:
.they thought they would lose me...but I came back to life.

Like Jesus.




Uh....
Not even sure how to respond to this.

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posted November 01, 2014 08:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^^

Just being goofy...

ETA: Oh I never answered the question right. My mom had five kids in six years, paused for a few years, then had me (the youngest). There's a picture of me when I came home from the hospital, propped up on a white blanket, surrounded by my siblings, with everyone beaming. I was even smiling myself. My mom had copies made and mailed this out to people.

Very Leo.

But I dunno, I have Pluto in the 3rd house, sextile ASC, and by the time I was four or five, I had some troubles.

*edited...not in the mood to complain.

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posted November 01, 2014 09:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for nove731     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have a Virgo rising...I never actually had to work very hard as a kid. Things mostly came really easily to me. My childhood was only difficult in the sense that it was pretty emotionally and financially barren and my mother and I have always had a somewhat strained relationship.

That said, I have always lived with the feeling of being not up to par in some way in the eyes of my family. Nothing I did as a child - no matter how successful - was ever really good enough. There is/was always something that I should have somehow known to do better, more correctly, more properly. Some matter of etiquette that I was silly or stupid for having forgotten about or some grade that should have been higher. As a teen/young adult, even though I'm the youngest of my familial generation (and the first one to finish college, at that!), I became the one to be truly burdened with the weight of family responsibilities and suddenly hard work became my life. Because of the weight of expectation, I can't say that I've ever really felt as though I could have a childhood (or even young adult-hood). It's all work, responsibility, duty, and obligation (and perfection in the process)!

The "proper-ness" that others have mentioned for Virgo rising kids was definitely noted in me as a child as well. I grew up in a part of the South, where to be "proper" was almost akin to being a "Yankee". Unsurprisingly, I was teased mercilessly for it.

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posted November 01, 2014 10:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12th_House_Gal     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I'm not sure what I think but it can fit. I can think of a Virgo ASC kid who is very proper and hardworking (she reminds of Hermione Granger in her bearing and general attitude) and one with an Aquarius ASC who is something of a wild card with his ASC showing at times.

Yes, I was extremely "put together". As a child I was obsessive about everything being perfect. My body, my skin, my hair. I would get up so early for school just to make everything fit together just so. I was ridiculously hard on myself! What frustrated me the most, is that my sister was constantly CONSTANTLY attracting attention from boys. She was the beautiful sister and I was kind of the ugly sister lol - I had horrible acne, my teeth grew in all weird, my hair was all funny. I was just super awkward. My handwriting was very rigid, perfect, and straight. I wanted everything to be "just so". Then I hit the 9th grade, got my braces off, my acne cleared up, I suddenly grew into my looks and my hair and my everything, and for the first time I actually didn't think I was horribly ugly. I was getting attention from boys, and actually had my first boyfriend. My handwriting also started to change, people now say that I have the coolest handwriting, and at the risk of sounding conceited I think I do! Its like I unwound in a way.

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My cousin later married a woman who remembers me from that keg party and knew a lot about me...I felt bad because I barely remembered her at all.

I have Venus/Mercury/Mars in Leo. I also have Apollo/Sekhmet conjunct my Asc exact, and Aten (sun disk) conj my Sun. I am SUPER solar, and give off that vibe. I also just adore Leo people, except Leo Moons I sometimes have a weird time with (only the ones who subconsciously react to things with such a "me first" attitude - not all do). But anyway, the reason I say this is your description of this was very fitting to me. I have this happens to me a lot. It's like I naturally have this "magnanimous" energy, and people like that.

Here's the thing though, I really REALLY grew out of my "super oober perfectionist" mask. I think we grow out of it being a "mask" (at least some of us do), and grow into the true higher embodiment of that sign. If that even makes sense. I think our planetary ruler also has a lot to do with this, so Mercury sits in my 12th at 29 degrees Leo, and trines Neptune. I have really grown into this overtime, I am nothing like that little girl I was.

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posted November 01, 2014 10:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12th_House_Gal     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by nove731:

That said, I have always lived with the feeling of being not up to par in some way in the eyes of my family. Nothing I did as a child - no matter how successful - was ever really good enough. There is/was always something that I should have somehow known to do better, more correctly, more properly. Some matter of etiquette that I was silly or stupid for having forgotten about or some grade that should have been higher. As a teen/young adult, even though I'm the youngest of my familial generation (and the first one to finish college, at that!), I became the one to be truly burdened with the weight of family responsibilities and suddenly hard work became my life. Because of the weight of expectation, I can't say that I've ever really felt as though I could have a childhood (or even young adult-hood). It's all work, responsibility, duty, and obligation (and perfection in the process)!

The "proper-ness" that others have mentioned for Virgo rising kids was definitely noted in me as a child as well. I grew up in a part of the South, where to be "proper" was almost akin to being a "Yankee". Unsurprisingly, I was teased mercilessly for it.[/B]


Haha hey fellow southerner! My Dad is an Arkansas boy, and my mom is a "Yankee" from Illinois. I am a blend! I honestly don't relate to either parent.

Everything you said resonates with me too. I have felt "burdened", and NOTHING I have ever done has felt good enough. Ever. Which has in turn made me work harder and harder.

However I eventually hit a place where, my constant desire to work to attain "praise" from my parents (which time after time just never came) just came to a head and eventually I cracked. I realized, "I am working to make them proud", and did a whole "f*ck it" number, and now I'm going in my direction. Both of my parents think I'm nuts. My mom is a Cap Sun/Leo Moon/Libra Rising - She's all about staying well put together, succeeding, etc. Dad is SUPER Virgo/Leo and is the President of a Bank. They both think I should have been working for a bank, and I did for a while. I climbed the ladder, I worked my way up, and I was so miserable.

EDIT: Here's another addition. My dad helped my oldest brother get a job at a bank by using his "connections", he helped my second oldest brother get a job twice and has supported him after he crashed and burned several times, including just giving him a credit card with "free spending". He has called in favors for my sister, at a bank in Philly where she lives tryign to get her a job. Now has that man EVER EVER EVER done me a favor? Nope. He has never once "called in a favor" or helped me out, or thrown me a bone. The bank that I worked for in town, he knows the president of that bank very well, but nope NADA never did me a favor. They didn't even know I was his daughter!! However although I felt the sense of "I was treated different than my siblings", I never wanted the handouts. I did not see the whole "let me call in a favor" as beneficial, I didnt like that. I saw it to be much more rewarding knowing you worked that hard yourself. Like, where someone got a nice job by having "daddy help", I got that job by working my d*mn butt off, learning the ropes, knowing the system, etc. That is better in my eyes.

Now that I am doing Shamanic Journeying and Astrology for a living neither one can even handle it. I dont talk to my Mom right now, and rarely talk to my dad. But you know what? I'm proud of what I am doing, which I think is a really big asset to Virgos. Once they can do work that makes them proud (as opposed to making others proud), it really connects a lot of meaning to that work.

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Hmm... I'm an Aqua ASC and my family was really excited to have me because my mom and dad wanted a girl so badly. She had four sons, 2 of whom were twins that were born dead . By the time she was pregnant with me, she didn't even wanna find out what my sex was because she was worried I was a boy. So when I came out, my grandma screamed it's a girl, it's a girl!!! And my silly mom jumped out of the bed right after she gave birth, she was so happy and excited!!! Everyone was. I was really spoiled (youngest and only girl). I still am very spoiled by my family. I always felt that I was the odd one out though. Different from the rest of them. I think that feeling made so much sense when I discovered that all of them are water Moons (Mom and older brother Cancer and Dad and eldest Scorpio) and I was the weird little overly-rational, detached air Moon!

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posted November 01, 2014 01:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Faith:
I was born blue and almost dead...they thought they would lose me...but I came back to life.

Like Jesus.

Not bad for a Leo ASC.


So was I. What aspects is your Asc sign/1st house ruler making to planets?

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posted November 01, 2014 04:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leorpio     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmmm I seem to be different than the other cap risings. My parents want to see me as the capable responsible adult, but they don't lol. They definitely see me as a rebel (Uranus in 1st) though, as well as kind of mysterious I would say (Neptune in 1st).

I was born c-section so idk if that has anything to do with it.

Self-discipline has actually always been kind of hard for me cause I was disciplined so much as a child -__- I wonder what Pisces rising means?

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posted November 01, 2014 10:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
So was I. What aspects is your Asc sign/1st house ruler making to planets?

Ahh the Resurrection Club! I'll answer first and then will you answer the same question?

ASC ruler is my 6H Cap sun. It's a singleton...only earth planet.

It forms a t-square with Pluto and Jupiter; it's sextile my 8H Pisces moon; it's in mutual reception with its ruler, 12H Saturn.

So...lots of Pluto and Pisces/12H stuff there.

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posted November 02, 2014 05:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well my 1st house ruler(Venus)is in the 7th, conjunct Saturn.

It seems Cap/Saturn can be the grim reaper heh?

I was born green! Not breathing. They had to run around for a few minutes- my mother was heavily confused.

But it was also an induced birth.I was just refusing to come out and my due date was way overdue.

After my birth the trouble wasn't over. I was quite sickly for up to a year-whilst still an infant.My mother thought that I was knocking on death's door.

But then I paid a visit to my paternal home and BOOM,Bob's your Uncle. I was well. As if nothing ever happened.

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posted November 03, 2014 10:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for theunknown     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My venus (asc ruler) conjunct neptune-uranus and I was very sick as a child. Although I'm guessing it has more to do with pluto opp asc and saturn square asc

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posted November 03, 2014 10:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Well my 1st house ruler(Venus)is in the 7th, conjunct Saturn.

It seems Cap/Saturn can be the grim reaper heh?


I think it might present hardship, like the dead of winter (Capricorn in northern hemisphere) is hardship.

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After my birth the trouble wasn't over. I was quite sickly for up to a year-whilst still an infant.My mother thought that I was knocking on death's door.

Ugh that must have been brutal for her. And do you think these experiences had a lasting impact on your disposition?

I was accident-prone until I was about five: two concussions, multiple stitches, took my brother's prescription drugs and had to have my stomach pumped.

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But then I paid a visit to my paternal home and BOOM,Bob's your Uncle. I was well. As if nothing ever happened.

I never underestimate the mind-body connection.

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posted November 03, 2014 10:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for bansheequeen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hm. My boyfriends a cap ascendant. His mom almost miscarried several times during the pregnancy. He is the hardworking one that takes care of evertone else in the family. I can see that he takes on a lot of burden. He's a pisces sun so I think he's even more of a giver. His mom is always coming to him for help. Not obviously. But she complains to him about something new and he pays for something she needs or tells off a boyfriend. If she needs him to do something he does it. And out of his siblings he's the one she goes to first. But as far as I can see she isn't that warm towards him.

In a virgo ascendant. I can relate to other virgo rising people here with the pressure and cold surroundings. I was lonely. Never had many friends. Not many family members around to play with. I had no emotional support. If I cried I had to suck it up. Nothing I ever did was good enough. But I gave up trying a long time ago. I know I'll never be the best at anything and I know I'll never live up to any expectations.

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