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Topic: Mars in Pisces men
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Solar_Leo_Queen
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posted November 03, 2014 10:54 AM
  
How do men with this Mars placement pursue their desires? How are they sexually? What provokes them to go after what they want?IP: Logged |
jupitersgirl
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posted November 03, 2014 11:19 AM
From what I've observed so far, They don't go after they want, the other person has to take The first step and make an effort to establish a relationship. They are not even passive pursuers. They play the victim when they get in fights. It doesn't mean that they are faking it, I think they really feel that way but they have a subconscious tendency to escape arguments. Mars is not comfortabe expressing its energy in Pisces and these are the disadvantages I've noticed.IP: Logged |
DrewMann
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posted November 03, 2014 12:43 PM
That sounds like sterotype. Read straight from a book.IP: Logged |
jupitersgirl
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posted November 03, 2014 01:16 PM
However these are my observations. I know three of them closely. One of them is the husband of a close friend. The other is the fiance of one of my best friends. The other is a friend of mine from university. Different people, different placements and they have Mars in pisces in common. I know their how their relationships started, how they react during arguments.
This is why I don't like to answer threads concerning one specific placement because the first reaction you get is always like that. Of course everyone has a different chart and the effects of the same placement is modified according to the chart. I've written the common traits of these people and I explained how pisces mars acts according to my point of view. I'm sure of what I' saying.
Besides I want to my make point about the "stereotype" issue that comes up in threads from time to time. Everyone who knows a little astrology knows that when you interpret a chart, you cannot interpret aspects and placements seperately, they are all part of one single enstity and they are modified and altered by each other. The people I've written about do not act exactly the same but they have some very obvious common behavior that's caused by their Mars in pisces.When we speak technically about a placement or an aspect you are by nature classifying. The sign qualities, plaket energies, exaltations, debilities, aspects... are all basis for astrology. We should not forget that astrology's main backbone are twelve stereotypes otherwise it would always be subjective and unreliable. The important thing is when you are actually reading a chart you should really understand how these typical descriptions are altered, modified, shadowed or highlighted by each other to make the "story" of an individual. Other than that I see no problem generalizing the common or prominent qualities of a placement while speaking technically about one single placement without a specific person's chart in my hand.IP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted November 03, 2014 02:19 PM
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Originally posted by jupitersgirl:
From what I've observed so far, They don't go after they want, the other person has to take The first step and make an effort to establish a relationship. They are not even passive pursuers. They play the victim when they get in fights. It doesn't mean that they are faking it, I think they really feel that way but they have a subconscious tendency to escape arguments. Mars is not comfortabe expressing its energy in Pisces and these are the disadvantages I've noticed.
have to agree. have - sadly - dated two of these men. one for a year and another for two years. terribly lazy, never pursued me, i did all the relationship work. sexually both were very passive as well, liked to just lay there and 'absorb.' they always seem to be in a trance of some sort, wanting to be 'otherworldy' and experience other stuff. both were spiritual/religious in nature although not church-goers. neither was addicted to anything, as i have often heard with this placement can happen. both were very artistic; one was a painter and one was a writer, and they loved water stuff, both of them. they never, not once, were eager to pursue that though - both were content in low-paying jobs and were happy to dream rather than do. they are definitely not manly in the common sense, and need a very mellow partner. any type of fighting just kills their mojo. pisces mars for a guy is really bad placement imo, it definitely gives the empathy/compassion, etc. but is way too passive for a man and makes him uber-feminine. some women might like that though. i saw both of them motivated by poor people, homeless people, etc. whenever they felt someone was being treated poorly they stepped in and tried to fix that situation. IP: Logged |
DrewMann
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posted November 03, 2014 03:56 PM
Those discriptions were probably due to the persons sun sign. I am a pisces mars and for sure that don't discribe me!!!!IP: Logged |
AmelieRose81
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posted November 03, 2014 03:59 PM
I dated one with a Pisces Sun, Mars and Venus. Aqua moon and mercury. Promiscuous, lying, passive, which of his girlfriends hasn't he cheated on..... IP: Logged |
DrewMann
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posted November 03, 2014 04:05 PM
Promiscuous sounds good. The negatives must be the aqua moon.IP: Logged |
lvASTRO
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posted November 03, 2014 04:33 PM
Me ex-husband had Pisces Mars. Lazy. Self indulgent. Liar. Delusional.A sweetheart, but man, very skewed sense of the truth. No physical drive. In bed, I had to do all the work. He was so passive. The sponge image fits perfectly. He was busy transcending while I was left to witness his rapture. Hello? I'm here, too. IP: Logged |
AmelieRose81
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posted November 03, 2014 04:34 PM
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Promiscuous sounds good. The negatives must be the aqua moon.
The promiscuity didnt bother me. Im not one to judge. I just wish he'd throw more of the promiscuity this way lol. What makes you say the aqua moon is the negative? IP: Logged |
Marandana
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posted November 03, 2014 05:35 PM
My dad has this placement and somewhere I read it makes the man weak-willed. I think it's true, he has a strong temper but he feels sorry for almost everyone and can collect guilt easily. On the other hand, he is soft and forgives easily as well, the anger vanishes quickly. IP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted November 03, 2014 06:09 PM
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Originally posted by lvASTRO:
Me ex-husband had Pisces Mars. Lazy. Self indulgent. Liar. Delusional.A sweetheart, but man, very skewed sense of the truth. No physical drive. In bed, I had to do all the work. He was so passive. The sponge image fits perfectly. He was busy transcending while I was left to witness his rapture. Hello? I'm here, too.
lol. spot on. IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen
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posted November 03, 2014 07:28 PM
Will these tendencies amplify if the guy had Pisces Sun and Mercury? He has Cap moon and venus, though. I'm hoping that would give him a little more drive.IP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted November 03, 2014 08:14 PM
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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
Will these tendencies amplify if the guy had Pisces Sun and Mercury? He has Cap moon and venus, though. I'm hoping that would give him a little more drive.
this may sound simplistic, but moon could be inner ambition we have and mars is the way we pursue that inner desire/ambition. with a cap moon he'd probably be quite ambitious and goal-oriented and want to achieve things. he might place a lot of emphasis on stability and connections, and accumulating security. cap moon is actually a dedicated, hard-working moon, and good for fidelity and security overall. but, while the thoughts to do that might be there, unless this guy's moon is in flowing aspect to his mars he might not have the motivation to achieve his dreams. he'd likely be more stable than the average pisces though, given the cap placements. my opinion would be still lazy though, in the sense that once he achieves something (the cap placements), he might stop striving for more (the pisces mars and sun). just my opinion from having been around quite a few. romantically still crippled. cap moon is critical and a bit shy and the pisces as you;ve already read, isn't aggressive IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted November 03, 2014 09:51 PM
My boss has Mars in Pisces. He's completely heterosexual but so many people initially think he's gay. He has feminine mannerisms, gentle demeanor. He avoids confrontation, REAL confrontation, like the plague, but is more sassy and whatnot. My ex-boyfriend had Mars in Capricorn either trine or conjunct Neptune and was the same way. The difference is that I get the feeling my boss is gentle and passive, but because my ex's Mars was in Capricorn that gave him more drive and a more forward energy to work with. IP: Logged |
LovelyKitty
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posted November 04, 2014 02:21 AM
It's not always that pisces mars can't be persuede.I knew one guys . He is pisces mars , cancer -venus ,sun, and mercury , saggi moon . He is a go getter person with his very sensitive emotional. When you see pisces mars , you need to look closely to the whole chart . Then you 'll know all of the dynamic of his personality. I 'll tell you later who he is  He is not afraid to persue anythings in his life or love life with his ambition and strainght forward personality .I guess his planets has many trine/sextile and it play out very well. He is libra AC , pluto conjunct AC , sun-saturn conjunct MC , venus conjunct mercury in 10th H .
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A chief of police in my country
Just so you know , any Mars can be strong , you must look fir the rest of the chart and understand those dynamic 
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LovelyKitty
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posted November 04, 2014 02:23 AM
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hannaramaa
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posted November 04, 2014 02:34 AM
Just remembered my dad also has MiP and he's definitely accomplished in his career! He literally started at the bottom and earned awards for most arrests within a certain quarter. Eventually almost became the director of Secret Service and he always knew what he wanted to do since college. He's got a fixed sun and a cardinal moon.IP: Logged |
jupitersgirl
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posted November 04, 2014 03:27 AM
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They are all successful people, no problem about that.They are also very social, I'm just pointing out the common traits which irriate me. They are usually passive aggressive and even when they are "active-aggressive" it's still passive because when they start to scream and shout, get really mad in relationships, they say things like I'm never good enough for you, I don't deserve you, I am so incapable of making you happy.etc etc which is still passive aggressiveness in my opinion.IP: Logged |
Iced8Ace
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posted November 04, 2014 08:40 AM
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Originally posted by lvASTRO:
He was busy transcending while I was left to witness his rapture. Hello? I'm here, too.
Lol. Excellent description. I had a recent run in with a Pisces Mars, Venus in Capricorn guy so maybe this can help. He would stare so much until I approached him to be nice. I know him from work so we got to chatting a lot but I'd ALWAYS have to initiate. His mars conjunct my Venus and Moon in 7th and conjunct my DSC exact, and that couldn't get him going. The thing is, he was honestly the BIGGEST sweetheart I ever met. We'd always get into little arguments and he'd get really angry because he cared too much but he'd hold back from any insults etc. I think it was the pluto on top of our moon-mars-venus stuff though. So yes, look for that spark of flame that will get him going. But even then he will always be really shy at the start, it's just how they are, I think. Capricorn Venus tend to size you up. If you're suitable to be on his arm, are ambitious etc. He was definitely money ambitious but I upfront told him I was the complete opposite. I don't go changing myself to please people, I think it's my Aries Sun. So in sum total my advice is to have Scorpio placements or a lot of patience. I cut this guy off because I didn't have time for him to make up his mind. If he ever does, I'll friend zone him. Can't bear to even imagine having a man who is forever like that. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted November 04, 2014 12:54 PM
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Originally posted by jupitersgirl:
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They are all successful people, no problem about that.They are also very social, I'm just pointing out the common traits which irriate me. They are usually passive aggressive and even when they are "active-aggressive" it's still passive because when they start to scream and shout, get really mad in relationships, they say things like I'm never good enough for you, I don't deserve you, I am so incapable of making you happy.etc etc which is still passive aggressiveness in my opinion.
That's martyrdom / victimization more than passive-aggressive. Passive-aggressive is being more *** -for-tat, like "My tire is flat so now I'm going to slash yours so both of ours can get fixed," instead of just asking for help fixing the tire. Just as an exaggerated example. Still I know what you mean. Is that Pisces placements in general? Because I know two people with Venus in Pisces as well and all of this is sounding way too familiar. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted November 04, 2014 12:56 PM
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Originally posted by Iced8Ace:
Lol. Excellent description.I had a recent run in with a Pisces Mars, Venus in Capricorn guy so maybe this can help. He would stare so much until I approached him to be nice. I know him from work so we got to chatting a lot but I'd ALWAYS have to initiate. His mars conjunct my Venus and Moon in 7th and conjunct my DSC exact, and that couldn't get him going. The thing is, he was honestly the BIGGEST sweetheart I ever met. We'd always get into little arguments and he'd get really angry because he cared too much but he'd hold back from any insults etc. I think it was the pluto on top of our moon-mars-venus stuff though. So yes, look for that spark of flame that will get him going. But even then he will always be really shy at the start, it's just how they are, I think. Capricorn Venus tend to size you up. If you're suitable to be on his arm, are ambitious etc. He was definitely money ambitious but I upfront told him I was the complete opposite. I don't go changing myself to please people, I think it's my Aries Sun. So in sum total my advice is to have Scorpio placements or a lot of patience. I cut this guy off because I didn't have time for him to make up his mind. If he ever does, I'll friend zone him. Can't bear to even imagine having a man who is forever like that.
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LucieLemonade
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posted November 04, 2014 01:25 PM
I'm dating a Pisces Mars. He was very successful in his career from a young age. Now he's a bit older, has a bit of money and has a young child so he is playing house dad. He is the one that pursued me and sexually he is the one that takes control, which I'm not used to but I love. My x was a Sag Mars and never initiated. However, the other day we were talking and he said the next time we see each other I have to do all the "work". I laughed and thought... "Ah, there is the Pisces Mars everyone is talking about". He's also not at all feminine. He's certainly sweet and charming. But he has his temper flare ups. I assumed that was his Leo Moon. Oh, I forgot the promiscuous part... He certainly has had loooots of girlfriends in his life. He seems to be a serial monogamist though and stays in relationships much longer than he should, in that they are dead long before he creates enough drama for the women to leave. You know, so he doesn't actually have to confront the issue and break up with someone, including cheating and getting caught. Though the last one he did break up with her. Shocking! Maybe he's growing up a bit?  IP: Logged |
jupitersgirl
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posted November 05, 2014 06:03 AM
Hannaramaa,
yes you are right, English is not my native language so sometimes I mix up similar concepts (my mercury is also a bit problematic lol).
I see this behavior in mercury and mars in pisces. I didn't observe this behavior in other pisces placements.IP: Logged |
DrewMann
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posted November 05, 2014 07:16 AM
The truth hurts.IP: Logged |
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