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LeeLoo2014
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posted November 04, 2014 07:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Enneline:
So could be a highly aspected Neptune in the 5th house lead to many illusions in love life?


Not really....more like being a great artist, IMO, or someone strongly connected to art

Plus, I think the more aspected a planet is, the higher the chances to integrate its "good" vibrations, instead of its "inferior" ones.

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Enneline
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posted November 04, 2014 07:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Enneline     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok, good. My day's saved

IMO: Luminaries/personal planets in the 5th house could be an indicator (along with other indicators) for unfaithfulness

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LeeLoo2014
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posted November 04, 2014 08:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Enneline:

IMO: Luminaries/personal planets in the 5th house could be an indicator (along with other indicators) for unfaithfulness


Why? Well, that's the topic of the thread, if 5th housers are players.

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posted November 04, 2014 08:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Enneline     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Why? Well, that's the topic of the thread, if 5th housers are players.


don't know why; maybe they want to have that feelings of romance all the time and as soon as the daily routine pops up, they are looking for new opportunities.
But as I said I think you'd need more indicators than a packed 5th house

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LeeLoo2014
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posted November 04, 2014 08:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Enneline:
don't know why; maybe they want to have that feelings of romance all the time and as soon as the daily routine pops up, they are looking for new opportunities.
But as I said I think you'd need more indicators than a packed 5th house

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Vajra
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posted November 04, 2014 09:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Vajra     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Faith
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posted November 04, 2014 09:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
5H Sag Venus conjunct Neptune

I've never been interested in flings. I did have a couple of flings when I was young, but that wasn't my intention when I began them. When it began, I thought, "This is the beginning of an Epic, Storybook Romance!"

But of course it wasn't.

So I moved on, or I didn't, it depended more on how good the guy was in guilt-tripping me into sticking around, when I was single. (Venus trine 12H Saturn.)

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AmelieRose81
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posted November 04, 2014 09:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AmelieRose81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My 5th house is Pisces.


Get very attached to people and crave guys I cant have.

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Faith
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posted November 04, 2014 09:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Again, 'loved your comment, Vajra.

Are you a Cancer sun? And I see you have Aries Jupiter like me...are you a Rabbit?

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posted November 04, 2014 10:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sunnya     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
5th house in Aries, Moon in Taurus in the 5th.

Not many flings and no way I could cheat.

Indeed, great comment Vajra.

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posted November 04, 2014 10:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Enneline     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Varja,

sun/saturn in the 8h squaring the stuff in the 5th house could also mean that you take sex & romance really serious and that you need ur time to find out what kind of relationships are best for you

I have some indicators for being a cheater, like venus in 12h, very aspected mars in gemini but I never cheated...at least not physically. I always cheated in my imagination though.

I think what keeps me away from cheating on my partner are my cancer placements (=clingy) and saturn sextiling my Venus. That provides stability.

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LeeLoo2014
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posted November 04, 2014 10:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Enneline:
I always cheated in my imagination though.


What did you do? Was it Fassy?

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LeeLoo2014
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posted November 04, 2014 10:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Vajra, we're so much alike in what you describe

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posted November 04, 2014 10:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
What is a polyamorous relationship?



http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polyamory

In my case I wanted to be in more than one relationship at the same time, sort of a "group monogamy." That is, no one outside the designated group with standards on who to allow someone else into our group. This may or may not include sex with multiple partners at the same time and not everyone in the group has to be as connected to the others though ideally they'd all at least be close emotionally, but (at least for me) does NOT mean "swinging" or "open relationship" (an open relationship means you can act as if still single, but in what I wanted to try it's still possible to cheat as there would be rules and boundaries).

Had I took up that offered threesome I mentioned and it turned into a committed relationship (as opposed to a fling) between the 3 of us, then that would be an example of a polyamorous relationship.

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posted November 04, 2014 11:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Enneline     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
What did you do? Was it Fassy?


No, either they were men I had little flirtations with or men without face who were created in my imagination
I strangely always imagine sex with famous men like Fassy as boring and disappointing
And I've always been thinking how it would be like to put up with them and leaving my current partner- but I never did.

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posted November 04, 2014 11:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you, Lee.

I was just coming to post on this thread. There is a really gorgeous guy I happened to meet and of course, I go right to the charts.

He has a HUGE 5th House stellium of Sun, Mars, Venus and something else.

To top it off, he has Sun combust venus with Nessus sitting in the middle LOL


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posted November 04, 2014 04:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for the explanation, Pixie

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posted November 04, 2014 04:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for theunknown     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My housemate has retrograde mars and moon in 5th opp sun/merc/neptune/uranus. Not a cheater. She got cheated on by a sag tho. And since he is a sag, I don't know if it's her aspects ... doubt it

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Vajra
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posted November 04, 2014 05:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Vajra     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Gem Moon in the 5th here square Venus in the 1st and trine Mars in the 1st... I get so bored of men very easily. In fact, there have been times where I find myself on a roll, one guy to the next. Somehow they appear out of nowhere (I never pursue them), but I don't stop myself from engaging them. When they catch feelings, I get really anxious and agitated and flighty, especially if they hadn't made a strong mental/emotional impression on me. Because to me, it was only meant to be fun and light-hearted and chatty. The flings are very cerebral, all part of the mental fun that comes with flirting and romance. I hardly get physical because I take sexual matters very seriously. I don't commit easily because I also take commitment EXTREMELY seriously.

I guess I just love the banter and the feeling of having someone to dissect and flirt with and talk to in the wee hours of the night... Until there is no more for me to extract to cure my boredom and curiosity. LOL.

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I've had a few flings in my day lol, some were short-lived and carefree, while other(s) were intense and drawn out and soul consuming- scorpio pluto and eros, sag moon and vertex in 5th...

I guess I have unconventional views on relationships to begin with lol but as others said I can separate lust from love and wouldn't say my loves are ephemeral..

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posted November 05, 2014 06:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Thank you, Lee.

I was just coming to post on this thread. There is a really gorgeous guy I happened to meet and of course, I go right to the charts.

He has a HUGE 5th House stellium of Sun, Mars, Venus and something else.

To top it off, he has Sun combust venus with Nessus sitting in the middle LOL


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LeeLoo2014
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posted November 05, 2014 06:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by PisceanDream:
Gem Moon in the 5th here square Venus in the 1st and trine Mars in the 1st... I get so bored of men very easily. In fact, there have been times where I find myself on a roll, one guy to the next. Somehow they appear out of nowhere (I never pursue them), but I don't stop myself from engaging them. When they catch feelings, I get really anxious and agitated and flighty, especially if they hadn't made a strong mental/emotional impression on me. Because to me, it was only meant to be fun and light-hearted and chatty. The flings are very cerebral, all part of the mental fun that comes with flirting and romance. I hardly get physical because I take sexual matters very seriously. I don't commit easily because I also take commitment EXTREMELY seriously.

I guess I just love the banter and the feeling of having someone to dissect and flirt with and talk to in the wee hours of the night... Until there is no more for me to extract to cure my boredom and curiosity. LOL.


I think what you describe is your Gem Moon in combination with the 5th sq Venus Is your Venus in Pisces or Virgo?

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LeeLoo2014
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posted November 05, 2014 06:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by FireMoon:
I've had a few flings in my day lol, some were short-lived and carefree, while other(s) were intense and drawn out and soul consuming- scorpio pluto and eros, sag moon and vertex in 5th...

I guess I have unconventional views on relationships to begin with lol but as others said I can separate lust from love and wouldn't say my loves are ephemeral..


I think it's very possible that Moon in the 5th gives this need for solar, light-hearted emotional interaction, especially in combination with a mutable Moon


My ex had Moon conj Mercury in the 5th and despite it being in Aqua, it behaved like a Gem Moon (as the description says) and in combination with the 5th house, it gave him this constant need to keep things flighty as a butterfly - even at funerals, he was laughing and joking. Like he had a bet with himself to always look at the bright side - like a role play, in fact. That's why everyone saw in him the clown of the party, and nothing else. Despite having strong Leo and mutable myself, I couldn't stand it, in the long run - it was artificial, forced.

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posted November 05, 2014 07:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My best friend has a Stellium in 5th house of

Mercury 7 libra
Venus 11 Libra
Mars 11 Libra
Pluto 11 Libra

and Uranus-NN conjunction in beginning of Scorpio in 5th as well


she was never one for flings. In fact she does not even like "romantic" love or passion (in terms of Hollywood understanding).
She`s been together with her husband for 15 years now, and they are totally stable (the priest actually called them boring and said their vows were more equipped to an elderly couple, but not for young people. lol)

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