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Topic: Survey: 5th House and flings
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LeeLoo2014 Knowflake Posts: 18288 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted November 04, 2014 07:07 AM
quote: Originally posted by Enneline: So could be a highly aspected Neptune in the 5th house lead to many illusions in love life? 
Not really....more like being a great artist, IMO, or someone strongly connected to art 
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Enneline Knowflake Posts: 6140 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 04, 2014 07:21 AM
Ok, good. My day's saved  IMO: Luminaries/personal planets in the 5th house could be an indicator (along with other indicators) for unfaithfulness  IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014 Knowflake Posts: 18288 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted November 04, 2014 08:05 AM
quote: Originally posted by Enneline:
IMO: Luminaries/personal planets in the 5th house could be an indicator (along with other indicators) for unfaithfulness 
Why? Well, that's the topic of the thread, if 5th housers are players. ------------------
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Enneline Knowflake Posts: 6140 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 04, 2014 08:44 AM
quote: Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: Why? Well, that's the topic of the thread, if 5th housers are players.
don't know why; maybe they want to have that feelings of romance all the time and as soon as the daily routine pops up, they are looking for new opportunities. But as I said I think you'd need more indicators than a packed 5th house  IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014 Knowflake Posts: 18288 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted November 04, 2014 08:57 AM
quote: Originally posted by Enneline: don't know why; maybe they want to have that feelings of romance all the time and as soon as the daily routine pops up, they are looking for new opportunities. But as I said I think you'd need more indicators than a packed 5th house 
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Vajra Knowflake Posts: 1738 From: Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 04, 2014 09:37 AM
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Faith Knowflake Posts: 20055 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted November 04, 2014 09:39 AM
5H Sag Venus conjunct NeptuneI've never been interested in flings. I did have a couple of flings when I was young, but that wasn't my intention when I began them. When it began, I thought, "This is the beginning of an Epic, Storybook Romance!" But of course it wasn't. So I moved on, or I didn't, it depended more on how good the guy was in guilt-tripping me into sticking around, when I was single. (Venus trine 12H Saturn.)
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AmelieRose81 Knowflake Posts: 425 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 04, 2014 09:43 AM
My 5th house is Pisces. Get very attached to people and crave guys I cant have.
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Faith Knowflake Posts: 20055 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted November 04, 2014 09:55 AM
Again, 'loved your comment, Vajra.Are you a Cancer sun? And I see you have Aries Jupiter like me...are you a Rabbit? IP: Logged |
Sunnya Knowflake Posts: 595 From: Sunnyland Registered: Jun 2014
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posted November 04, 2014 10:01 AM
5th house in Aries, Moon in Taurus in the 5th.Not many flings and no way I could cheat. Indeed, great comment Vajra.  IP: Logged |
Enneline Knowflake Posts: 6140 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 04, 2014 10:08 AM
Varja,sun/saturn in the 8h squaring the stuff in the 5th house could also mean that you take sex & romance really serious and that you need ur time to find out what kind of relationships are best for you I have some indicators for being a cheater, like venus in 12h, very aspected mars in gemini but I never cheated...at least not physically. I always cheated in my imagination though. I think what keeps me away from cheating on my partner are my cancer placements (=clingy) and saturn sextiling my Venus. That provides stability. IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014 Knowflake Posts: 18288 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted November 04, 2014 10:32 AM
quote: Originally posted by Enneline: I always cheated in my imagination though.
What did you do? Was it Fassy? ------------------
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LeeLoo2014 Knowflake Posts: 18288 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted November 04, 2014 10:33 AM
Vajra, we're so much alike in what you describe  IP: Logged |
PixieJane Moderator Posts: 8526 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted November 04, 2014 10:56 AM
quote: Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: What is a polyamorous relationship?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polyamory In my case I wanted to be in more than one relationship at the same time, sort of a "group monogamy." That is, no one outside the designated group with standards on who to allow someone else into our group. This may or may not include sex with multiple partners at the same time and not everyone in the group has to be as connected to the others though ideally they'd all at least be close emotionally, but (at least for me) does NOT mean "swinging" or "open relationship" (an open relationship means you can act as if still single, but in what I wanted to try it's still possible to cheat as there would be rules and boundaries). Had I took up that offered threesome I mentioned and it turned into a committed relationship (as opposed to a fling) between the 3 of us, then that would be an example of a polyamorous relationship. IP: Logged |
Enneline Knowflake Posts: 6140 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 04, 2014 11:17 AM
quote: Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: What did you do? Was it Fassy?
No, either they were men I had little flirtations with or men without face who were created in my imagination  I strangely always imagine sex with famous men like Fassy as boring and disappointing  And I've always been thinking how it would be like to put up with them and leaving my current partner- but I never did. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 69095 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 04, 2014 11:29 AM
Thank you, Lee.  I was just coming to post on this thread. There is a really gorgeous guy I happened to meet and of course, I go right to the charts. He has a HUGE 5th House stellium of Sun, Mars, Venus and something else. To top it off, he has Sun combust venus with Nessus sitting in the middle LOL Every Forum needs music so here goes 
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LeeLoo2014 Knowflake Posts: 18288 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted November 04, 2014 04:41 PM
Thanks for the explanation, Pixie  ------------------
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theunknown Knowflake Posts: 3089 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted November 04, 2014 04:47 PM
My housemate has retrograde mars and moon in 5th opp sun/merc/neptune/uranus. Not a cheater. She got cheated on by a sag tho. And since he is a sag, I don't know if it's her aspects ... doubt itIP: Logged |
Vajra Knowflake Posts: 1738 From: Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 04, 2014 05:23 PM
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posted November 04, 2014 05:47 PM
Gem Moon in the 5th here square Venus in the 1st and trine Mars in the 1st... I get so bored of men very easily. In fact, there have been times where I find myself on a roll, one guy to the next. Somehow they appear out of nowhere (I never pursue them), but I don't stop myself from engaging them. When they catch feelings, I get really anxious and agitated and flighty, especially if they hadn't made a strong mental/emotional impression on me. Because to me, it was only meant to be fun and light-hearted and chatty. The flings are very cerebral, all part of the mental fun that comes with flirting and romance. I hardly get physical because I take sexual matters very seriously. I don't commit easily because I also take commitment EXTREMELY seriously. I guess I just love the banter and the feeling of having someone to dissect and flirt with and talk to in the wee hours of the night... Until there is no more for me to extract to cure my boredom and curiosity. LOL. IP: Logged |
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posted November 05, 2014 01:02 AM
I've had a few flings in my day lol, some were short-lived and carefree, while other(s) were intense and drawn out and soul consuming- scorpio pluto and eros, sag moon and vertex in 5th...I guess I have unconventional views on relationships to begin with lol but as others said I can separate lust from love and wouldn't say my loves are ephemeral.. IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014 Knowflake Posts: 18288 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted November 05, 2014 06:18 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Thank you, Lee.  I was just coming to post on this thread. There is a really gorgeous guy I happened to meet and of course, I go right to the charts. He has a HUGE 5th House stellium of Sun, Mars, Venus and something else. To top it off, he has Sun combust venus with Nessus sitting in the middle LOL Every Forum needs music so here goes 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=siwpn14IE7E
Thank you for the song, Ami  So how is your guy? ------------------
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LeeLoo2014 Knowflake Posts: 18288 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted November 05, 2014 06:22 AM
quote: Originally posted by PisceanDream: Gem Moon in the 5th here square Venus in the 1st and trine Mars in the 1st... I get so bored of men very easily. In fact, there have been times where I find myself on a roll, one guy to the next. Somehow they appear out of nowhere (I never pursue them), but I don't stop myself from engaging them. When they catch feelings, I get really anxious and agitated and flighty, especially if they hadn't made a strong mental/emotional impression on me. Because to me, it was only meant to be fun and light-hearted and chatty. The flings are very cerebral, all part of the mental fun that comes with flirting and romance. I hardly get physical because I take sexual matters very seriously. I don't commit easily because I also take commitment EXTREMELY seriously. I guess I just love the banter and the feeling of having someone to dissect and flirt with and talk to in the wee hours of the night... Until there is no more for me to extract to cure my boredom and curiosity. LOL.
I think what you describe is your Gem Moon in combination with the 5th sq Venus Is your Venus in Pisces or Virgo? ------------------
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LeeLoo2014 Knowflake Posts: 18288 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted November 05, 2014 06:29 AM
quote: Originally posted by FireMoon: I've had a few flings in my day lol, some were short-lived and carefree, while other(s) were intense and drawn out and soul consuming- scorpio pluto and eros, sag moon and vertex in 5th...I guess I have unconventional views on relationships to begin with lol but as others said I can separate lust from love and wouldn't say my loves are ephemeral..
I think it's very possible that Moon in the 5th gives this need for solar, light-hearted emotional interaction, especially in combination with a mutable Moon  My ex had Moon conj Mercury in the 5th and despite it being in Aqua, it behaved like a Gem Moon (as the description says) and in combination with the 5th house, it gave him this constant need to keep things flighty as a butterfly - even at funerals, he was laughing and joking. Like he had a bet with himself to always look at the bright side - like a role play, in fact. That's why everyone saw in him the clown of the party, and nothing else. Despite having strong Leo and mutable myself, I couldn't stand it, in the long run - it was artificial, forced.
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Ceridwen Knowflake Posts: 29974 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted November 05, 2014 07:17 AM
My best friend has a Stellium in 5th house ofMercury 7 libra Venus 11 Libra Mars 11 Libra Pluto 11 Libra and Uranus-NN conjunction in beginning of Scorpio in 5th as well she was never one for flings. In fact she does not even like "romantic" love or passion (in terms of Hollywood understanding). She`s been together with her husband for 15 years now, and they are totally stable (the priest actually called them boring and said their vows were more equipped to an elderly couple, but not for young people. lol)
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