posted November 03, 2014 11:01 AM            

Hey, 5th housers (Sun, Venus or personal planet stellium in the 5th), are you interested in flings only? Are your loves ephemeral?

posted November 03, 2014 11:12 AM            

I think Mars and Uranus in this house would be most likely to result in such an attitude.

posted November 03, 2014 01:11 PM            

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Originally posted by bansheequeen:

However I need my relationship to keep that fresh flirty infatuated feeling. Like when you first start going out with someone and you can't keep your hands off and you are dizzy from thinking about them all the time.

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that's what I think the 5th house brings, among other things. I am the same, I can't be with someone anymore if that feeling goes away, at least not until now; no 5th placements though, but my 5th house is duplicated and in Gem, with Mercury in Libra/8th.

However, the 5th is the house of love, romance and passion, creativity - it's a Fixed house. Not flingy. But there's this strong need for romance, for feeling infatuated, as described above.

Can't wait to read more testimonials

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posted November 03, 2014 01:28 PM            

Not interested in flings personally and I'd rather be in long-term relationships. My 5th house Cusp is Scorpio and I have Capricorn DESC so maybe that helps?

posted November 03, 2014 01:32 PM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
that's what I think the 5th house brings, among other things. I am the same, I can't be with someone anymore if that feeling goes away, at least not until now; no 5th placements though, but my 5th house is duplicated and in Gem, with Mercury in Libra/8th.

However, the 5th is the house of love, romance and passion, creativity - it's a Fixed house. Not flingy. But there's this strong need for romance, for feeling infatuated, as described above.

Can't wait to read more testimonials

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posted November 03, 2014 01:44 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
You also have Moon in LEO.

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That's right! You remember? How nice. And Moon in 7th sextile Mercury in Libra

I'm saying about Libra because Libra likes constant romance too.

posted November 03, 2014 01:53 PM            

I have had so many smaller flings, and a couple of long-therms. I'm in a long-therm now and my boyfriend has Sun, Merc and Venus in 5th house (sun and venus in libra!)

I think the romance is very important for us! The day the romance truly dies, I'm afraid the relationship will die too... we enjoy going out on "dates" or just doing some activity together, that includes romance. We are both romantic too

In the past I really enjoyed the compliments and the "rush" that follow with a flirt.. I crave a lot of compliments in general lol... without some compliments I get insecure... I need some intensity to feel the romance - long stares, hot sex, deep conversations (about the relationship itself). In general I also love to talk about relationship stuff, sex and drama haha!

posted November 03, 2014 02:25 PM            

I have my experience with flings.

I prefer the new form of a faithful closed relationship. I do not like the old or new form of the open relationship. It is a difference. I will stay creative, childish and love to play around in a relationship, but always faithful. The 5th house is defined by more words. Even more than one fling can become boring and clingy by the time.

posted November 03, 2014 02:26 PM            

Im not a fliger, but I like to have attention, but you also better keep your distance.
Lets not make this awkward, just smile and acknowledge.. make decent small talk.. lets move on.

Ive been in a relationship for 11 years and Im perfectly content.. just like to be appreciated

posted November 03, 2014 02:33 PM            

If I had to describe the relationship I'd like to have in signs, it would be a mixture of Scorpio, Aries, Pisces and Aqua as the main ingredients.

posted November 03, 2014 02:51 PM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
I like how you guys describe this need for romance, for being romanticized and for romancing, for being treated like a Leo

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posted November 03, 2014 02:55 PM            

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Originally posted by Selenite:
It's weird, I feel like I imagine that I want this kind of treatment, but then when it actually happens, it freaks me out.
I fantasize about being treated like this a lot actually. But it almost makes me sick because it feels like it's being forced..
Maybe it is because my ascendant is in leo, but it's square the nodes in scorpio?

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posted November 03, 2014 04:48 PM            

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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
I don't have that need

If I had to describe the relationship I'd like to have in signs, it would be a mixture of Scorpio, Aries, Pisces and Aqua as the main ingredients.

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I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy.

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You mean this type of relationship or these placements in a man?

posted November 03, 2014 09:41 PM            

I don't confuse love with sex anymore than I confuse peanut butter with jelly. And I'm open minded...I've always wanted to experiment with a polyamorous (not "open") relationship but never found a partner willing so I didn't. But during my sexually experimental phase I sought out sex with no strings attached and didn't think it was asking too much. I did finally get invited to a sex club with very high standards that made me feel safe enough to join and that's where I really went nuts. But after I decided I learned all there was know (not so much about sex itself but about myself and the human condition) I moved on.

I could describe a lot of relationships before that but it would take too long to bypass the incorrect assumptions that would be made about them so I'll skip.

After that I've been in dedicated relationships, no flings. Not that I resolved to never have a fling again, I was just more demisexual and my energies went elsewhere than into sex so without someone intentionally redirecting the flow back to sex then it was something I was over. I did enter a fling once but mainly it was to avoid hurt feelings and I thought it would be therapeutic for the person and was surprised when it grew into a very deep relationship of love.

I also want to point out that my being open to the idea doesn't mean I'm a player. If I agree to something then I stick by it. It's the people who go on and on about the importance of monogamy who are the likely cheaters. People who think otherwise simply have so self-control or discipline as they believe that you have no choice but to act out on what you feel, but just because that's true for them doesn't mean it's true for everyone else.