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fairaqua
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posted November 13, 2014 07:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for fairaqua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am generally disliked by women.

They will smile at my face but I can feel their dislike for me radiating off of them.
Sometimes I'm completely ignored by them.

Not all though. There are very few that will actually accept my friendship, but mostly men are much more accepting of me.


Which house and planet represents nonfamily women?

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posted November 13, 2014 07:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaminess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hard pluto aspects to moon or venus or maybe venus or moon in scorpio. Scorpio rising females too i have also noticed tend to get negative reactions from females. Strong aries/mars influence can also make one not get along so well with women.

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posted November 13, 2014 07:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Enneline     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
my friend is quite unpopular with women and she has moon square mars.

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fairaqua
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posted November 13, 2014 09:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for fairaqua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
But what house and planet?

For example
sun = father
moon = mother
Jupiter = teachers


I finally found my notes and it says venus represents the female relationships that you'll have in life. I knew it represented a wife in a man's chart, just wasnt sure about a woman's chart.


Venus rules Taurus and libra making its natural houses 2nd & 7th.


Alight so in my chart....
Venus is sitting in the 6th house of friends and enemies.

Aquarius rules my 6th house.
Venus is kind of netral with Aquarius but does not like being in the 6th house.

It does like that libra and Taurus are ruling over the 2nd and 9th houses though.


Hmm
so let me look at who is aspecting venus.....


Ah, I have an unhappy Saturn sitting in the 4th house aspecting my venus.
I guess this can make me come off as a cold person towards females? Maybe unnurturing in a lovey dovey kind of way?

Since the 4th house is the natural house of mother (moon) and my mom is "misurable" over there in the 8th house of Aries im guessing she's not helping the situation out either.


Mars in 3rd house scorpio is also aspecting my Venus.
This probably makes me come of as sexually intimidating.

Mehh.

Venus is aspecting my 12th house of Leo.
12th house is loss and isolation

Does this make sense to anyone else?

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posted November 13, 2014 09:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Enneline     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
that's the chart of my friend. I wouldn't say she's an unpopular person in general, she is well liked by men and older ladies but she is really hated by more than a few women (her age); I haven't seen that before; once a woman almost run over her. I really was like
She really faces bitchiness & cattines pretty often.

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posted November 13, 2014 10:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nemesis conj Moon.

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posted November 13, 2014 10:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for bansheequeen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Harsh aspects to moon. Moon pluto. Moon venus. I know in men harsh aspects to the moon is supposed to make him not be big with women so I'd assume the same for women. Also if she is very strongly Martian or has a lot of aspects to her sun. They are masculine planets that will get along bettwe with men. Also mars is very competitive. I also think people that have thier personAL planets extremely aspected by outer planets have a harder time getting along with anyone.

Also a lot of women make dislike them. There was a Taurus/aries girl at work that thought girls hated her because they were so jealous blah blah blah. But she like... made them hate her by assuming she was better and more attractive than them. She wasnt. But it's that attitude that makes girls not like her. I didn't really hate her because I think my moon in Cancer trine Pluto makes me very warm towards women and it's hard to me to truly hate someone when they haven't personally attacked me over and over again.

But usually. Women thay say other women hate her... are doing somehing to make that happen. It's not really out of petty competition or jealousy which I think is what these women would like to think...

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posted November 13, 2014 10:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Enneline     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have moon semi-square mars and my mars is strongly aspected but I have no problems with women at all. As a matter of fact I get along with women far better than with men and it has always been like that.
But I am strongly cancerian (sun & venus & asc in cancer); that could be one of the reasons and my sun receives no hard aspects (except a wide square from the moon) at all and my moon is quintile venus.

As for my friend: you can see moon sq mars, lilith conj asc and some planets in the 10. You could read it as follows: friction with woman that is increased by her sexy looks and her huge confidence...

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posted November 13, 2014 10:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I get that too but i'm a man! I think it's because I have an afflicted moon and venus. I've noticed that women tend to be extremely short/ brusque or even downright rude towards me but they'll be friendly and sweet to everyone else.

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posted November 13, 2014 10:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for fairaqua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In my case I know they don't like me.
I will make conversation and they usually cut it off quickly. Will say hey to everyone else but avoid me even if I'm smiling right at them.

I even have a few on Facebook who will skip over my comments or NEVER like or comment on my pictures/posts that are relevent to both our lives, but they are very vocal with mutual friends in the same subject.
I know that sounds Facebook petty, but it just, also carries over into actual life, Facebook just confirms how much they can dislike me.

Its gone on since elementary school.
Always played with my self or the boys because the girls were shooting me dirty looks.

I've always felt pretty isolated by females.
Im not the kind to get my nails and hair done, but I like coffee and I bet we share some common realities.
Can't we just get along?
lol

But then there are some females who I get along great with. We bond immediately and hold friendships for years.
But sometimes I can still feel friction at times, it's just not as prominent

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posted November 13, 2014 10:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for fairaqua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I get that too but i'm a man! I think it's because I have an afflicted moon and venus. I've noticed that women tend to be extremely short/ brusque or even downright rude towards me but they'll be friendly and sweet to everyone else.

Aww, a damaged Venus in a man's chart had to be rough.
Is it strangers or aquantences?

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posted November 13, 2014 10:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Enneline     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by fairaqua:

Alight so in my chart....
Venus is sitting in the 6th house of friends and enemies.



I thought enemies are to be found in 7h and friends in 11h?

And what about ur moon?

Saturn in 4h could cause friction with the home/Family but it's no indicator for issues with femals I think

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posted November 13, 2014 10:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by bansheequeen:

But usually. Women thay say other women hate her... are doing somehing to make that happen. It's not really out of petty competition or jealousy which I think is what these women would like to think...



I disagree. As a man I feel that I can objectively comment on dynamics between women and I can honestly say I see women being b*tches to other women for no good reason all the time. One thing I have really noticed is if you are a man and you are around a group of girls/women and you say that a certain girl is attractive the women in the group will all try to find a physical flaw and say something like "but her nose is huuuuugggee!" Or "her forehead is huge! She looks like an alien but I guess she is kind of cute". Women can be extremely insecure and feel threatened by women they think are more attractive than themselves. But then again they can also be petty for other reasons. This can also be true of men but it's not nearly as common as it is with women.

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posted November 13, 2014 10:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by fairaqua:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[b]I get that too but i'm a man! I think it's because I have an afflicted moon and venus. I've noticed that women tend to be extremely short/ brusque or even downright rude towards me but they'll be friendly and sweet to everyone else.


Aww, a damaged Venus in a man's chart had to be rough.
Is it strangers or aquantences?[/B][/QUOTE]
Both.... Basically I have never really had a real female friend and haven't dated that much. Most women don't seem to want anything to do with me and kind of shut me out. I have been to many a social gathering/party with my guy friends and they will always find a woman who will dance and socialize with them but I almost always end up by myself despite trying to socialize with the women like an straight guy with a pulse. The thing is i'm not brad pitt looks wise but i'm not ugly either.I'm tall, more or less average looking, and always try to dress nice and make sure i'm clean and smelling good but women treat me like i'm a spider or something. Lol this even happens with my friends girlfriends/wives... Most of the time they won't even be civil. One of my friend's wife will even leave the room and won't even acknowledge me when I come over but when my friend's other friends are there she is friendly and bubbly. Frankly.. I don't get it... I'm friendly, down to earth, and all my guy friends think i'm funny and entertaining to hang out with but women act as if i'm a mean and evil person. Strangely enough this is only the case with girls around my age or younger. older women will usually atleast be polite and civil.

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posted November 13, 2014 10:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for bansheequeen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by bansheequeen:
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But usually. Women thay say other women hate her... are doing somehing to make that happen. It's not really out of petty competition or jealousy which I think is what these women would like to think...



I disagree. As a man I feel that I can objectively comment on dynamics between women and I can honestly say I see women being b*tches to other women for no good reason all the time. One thing I have really noticed is if you are a man and you are around a group of girls/women and you say that a certain girl is attractive the women in the group will all try to find a physical flaw and say something like "but her nose is huuuuugggee!" Or "her forehead is huge! She looks like an alien but I guess she is kind of cute". Women can be extremely insecure and feel threatened by women they think are more attractive than themselves. But then again they can also be petty for other reasons. This can also be true of men but it's not nearly as common as it is with women. [/B][/QUOTE]

I guess I never really hang out with groups of women. And in my experience women that are actually trying to compete with you do other things. And maybe it's just what I do or where I grew up because seriously like everyone is a model or at least tries to be on instagram. Theres no room for silly **** like calling a girl that everyone knows is beautiful, ugly or trying to find flaws in her. I know it's different for girls that grew up somewhere else. They need to feel like the prettiest girl in the room or they'll just run into the bathroom to put on another pound of makeup and throw off thier panties. It's harah being the prettiest girl in a class of 100 then moving somewhere pretty girls are a dime a dozen, a commodity.

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posted November 13, 2014 11:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for wheresthemoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would say you're probably right to think your venus sitting in the sixth house has something to do with it.

I just looked at one of the charts of one of my male friends who is unlucky in love. He has dated of course, but he is not generally well liked by women. He gives off a very creepy vibe when you first meet him. When you get to know him he's a great guy, but I could still never bring myself to think of him that way. He has Venus square Uranus and Jupiter sitting in his sixth house.

I have my moon sitting in my sixth house, and while I don't have terrible problems with women in general, I do have a very difficult relationship with my mother. I do also have a strange relationship with women. I crave (platonic) relationships with other females, but there is sort of this blocked feeling there...I always have this feeling that I won't be well received by other women. Of course I want to be pretty and all that, but if people make a big deal about my appearance, I feel hated by whatever women happened to hear it. I have Venus opposite pluto sitting in my eleventh house, which is supposed to be a good place for Venus. However, I have read that while women can have a huge impact on your life with this placement, it can also mean jealousies among female friends, and I have found that to be true, both for me and for them.

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posted November 13, 2014 01:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wheresthemoon,
What do you mean when you say he has a "creepy vibe"? Is that code for physically unattractive?

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posted November 13, 2014 01:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GoingDutch     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted November 13, 2014 03:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fairaqua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Dutch!
I feel so bad!


And I know a guy who's not bad looking but gives of a super creepy vibe.
Nice as he can be, creepy just seeps out his pours

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posted November 13, 2014 03:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for florence     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by fairaqua:
In my case I know they don't like me.
I will make conversation and they usually cut it off quickly. Will say hey to everyone else but avoid me even if I'm smiling right at them.

I even have a few on Facebook who will skip over my comments or NEVER like or comment on my pictures/posts that are relevent to both our lives, but they are very vocal with mutual friends in the same subject.
I know that sounds Facebook petty, but it just, also carries over into actual life, Facebook just confirms how much they can dislike me.

Its gone on since elementary school.
Always played with my self or the boys because the girls were shooting me dirty looks.

I've always felt pretty isolated by females.
Im not the kind to get my nails and hair done, but I like coffee and I bet we share some common realities.
Can't we just get along?
lol

But then there are some females who I get along great with. We bond immediately and hold friendships for years.
But sometimes I can still feel friction at times, it's just not as prominent


It could be picking up low self-esteem or self-questioning in social situations. Unfortunately , it seems to me a common human behaviour that if someone detects you care about their opinion of you more than have having a strong sense of self, they categorize their worth higher automatically. The good thing is, the really interesting people worth knowing see beyond that so in some ways it's a helpful selection process.

I've mars square sun and asc and do believe this can be a factor. Also as mentioned Scorpio rising which is as much creating a response to my reserved nature. And I think mentioned in other related threads a prominent Uranus, conj ascendant onto which people project all their fears of choices alternative to theirs - i.e potentially threatening to their life narrative

I also feel it is moon afflictions and maybe when the moon and sun are not harmonious because I think I shut down parts of me that seemed inharmonious but the more I grow into my moon than sun the easier it becomes. It's as if women don't know how to relate to other women who haven't tuned into moon in a way and vv

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posted November 13, 2014 04:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Vajra     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted November 13, 2014 04:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for wheresthemoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Wheresthemoon,
What do you mean when you say he has a "creepy vibe"? Is that code for physically unattractive?

No not at all. He is not ugly or anything like that. He's no supermodel or anything, but he does this thing where he doesn't talk much when he first meets people, but he'll stare. When I met him, I just took it as him being shy, but a lot of girls I know called him a creeper and they said he gave them a creepy feeling.

Not to mention when we were teenagers, he dated someone about four years younger than him, which earned him the title of "creep" for a long long time after.

When we started texting each other, he would go on and on about her, talking about her perfect lips were and send me pictures and stuff. I thought it was strange for him to go on and on to me about how perfect she was. I mean, that's great for him and everything...but why tell a girl/friend (and a brand new one at that...it was our first conversation) all about how gorgeous your girlfriend is? I think he just doesn't know how to talk to girls, which could be because of his venus in the sixth.

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posted November 13, 2014 04:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for wheresthemoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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waves at wheresthemoon,
I have Moon in the 12th House, and that is a worst placement for a moon to be under.
I have very bad relationship wtih my mother. As this say in the 12th House Moon people often have problems with their mom.

My mom is the most dictatorship/controlling Asian woman you ever see. She went to the extreme of digging through, checking through my trash and my drawers. There other things she do that even worser than this. It sad if you think about it. How would you reacts if you were in my situation?

I feel like I am her prisoner and not her daughter, so I end up move out of the house as soon as I can. I never regret my decission though, she is really tough to live with. My only regret is my father, I do love my dad more than my mom.

My mom just drain me emotionally. Believe me when you swallow your own tears while eating rice, it pretty bad. I move out at age 18 though, and now I'm 30, and I haven't find myself cry again. I love the freedom and independent away from my mom.


I'm so glad my daughter has her moon in the seventh house! lol.
I'm sorry you went through that with your mom. Trust me, I feel your pain. I've heard that moon in the sixth is a bad placement for mother daughter relationships too, because the sixth is the house of friends and enemies.
My mom used to "kick me out" over stupid things regularly. She put me in bad and/or uncomfortable situations growing up and continues to be a difficult person in my life even to this day, and I'm 23 and have been living away from home for three years.
It's sad because your parents are supposed to be there for you no matter what, but both of mine make me feel very unstable. I don't feel that I can trust or depend on either one of them.

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posted November 13, 2014 04:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GoingDutch     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted November 13, 2014 04:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for wheresthemoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Talking about creepy, picture this
a girl just come back from work, then find a guy in her neighborhood, he sit outside her staircase wait to ask for her phone number.
now that the definition of creepy, lol

oh wheresthemoon, you have a daughter? whoa, really? Your pic you share on the Asc thread you looks like 20-21, and you already have a daughter?


Yes I'm 23, but I have a daughter=) She is nine months old and PERFECT<3

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