posted December 28, 2014 08:40 AM            

I actually have more female friends, but this is why; I get along with men very well, too well. I love friendships with them- LOVE, in general those relationships are very fun, and full of friendly competition, but my friendships very quickly and easily slip into romance, so I keep more distance between myself and the opposite sex than I'd actually like to. My Cancer Sun/Venus won't allow me to have flings, so to avoid serious drama and turmoil I stay away, unless I am actually looking.

posted January 08, 2015 03:23 PM            

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Originally posted by venus2tinkerbell:
I've neglected my Mars. I just discovered it in Gemini, and I feel like I am a child who has just discovered her sexual organs.

With my Venus and Sun in Cancer, and my Moon in Taurus, this Gemini Mars explains my endless contradictions.

I want to be possessed, but I also NEED intellectual freedom. I really love to come up with weird possibilities and scenarios. I like to share them with my partner. I don't need to act out on them, until I feel like my partner is not open to my ideas. That's when I'll take things a step further. I am not a cheater, but I am also not necessarily loyal...I love very deeply, but then when it's over, I say it's over and my lover has like 5 minutes to readjust. There were signs that it was ending, of course. I just don't waste time contemplating the brick wall. It's a brick wall!

I want the smartest man in the room, and I feel threatened by the smartest woman in the room.

On one occassion during intimacy, it wasn't going well- I just wasn't aroused, so I started talking. I was talking a lot. I was saying stuff and telling him what to say. I didn't realize how much I was going on until he stopped and was like, 'are you serious'- lol! I DO LOVE SEX TALK.

Do you have this? Do you know this? PLEASE share. If you know how this would play out with Venus in Cancer, please share that too! Thanks!

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Originally posted by MineAgain:
I have Mars and Moon in Gemini coupled with Sun and Scorpio Venus.

My big issue is that I have the "grass is always greener" syndrome. I want to be with someone but when I start dating them, I want out. Then went it's over, I want them all over again. My problem is that I can't feel, I have to rationalize my feelings and turn them into thoughts. I don't feel, I think.

I'm not stable with my emotions at all especially in relationships. I can never make a decision as to whether or not I want to date a certain person. My brain always takes over and I start asking myself questions such as "What if I miss out on a better opportunity?", "What if I can't advance my career?", "I'm not sure I want to be tied down".

I can have strong feelings for someone but run away from these feelings because I don't want to be tied down. The only person who would have been able to tie me down was a Pisces because we had a unique connection but even he couldn't prevent these thoughts from crossing my mind.

I'm one of those people who would love to fall in love but can't be tied down because they prioritize their career and are scared of missing out on better opportunities.

I also don't like "slow" people who don't have a lot going on. I like adventurous, hyperactive, fun people. Homebodies can be a good thing due to my Cancer rising and Scorpio placements, but most of the time, I get bored. I want someone who can make the decision to travel to Kuala Lampur or Mexico out of the blue. Someone I can enjoy exploring new things with!

The Pisces I dated had a Capricorn Mars, a Cancer Moon, a Pisces Sun and an Aqua Venus. Aside from his detachment, he was probably the most boring/one dimensional person I've ever met. He doesn't travel much and is a homebody. He's not super spontaneous.

I also dated a Taurus once. He was a bit too boring for my taste. He loves to travel but he's not a "hyperactive" person. He has a routine and that's it. Ew. I like someone who has tons and tons of things going on. Routine people bore me to death! Y'all need a bit of flavor!

Which explains why I haven't had a proper relationship at 24! I won't lie, I also have high standards which makes it almost impossible for any man to reach those! I'm doomed haha.

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Wow both of these interpretations I can relate to. Moon and Mars in Gemini here.

MineAgain, I've also dated a Sun in Pisces w/ similar placements (can't remember exactly but I know he also had aqua and earth placements as well) and I also found him boring LOL.

venus2tinkerbell: I'm not into the 'dirty' talk in person, but I'll do something close to it over text! Also, I like to create random situations too, but I'll never tell anyone. I feel like it's the best when it's in my mind, but in reality it never plays out quite the way I want it to. Sometimes I have more fun thinking about sex then actually doing it.

posted January 08, 2015 03:25 PM            

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Originally posted by venus2tinkerbell:
I am wondering if Mars in Gemini women find that you have more male friends than female friends or is it about the same?

I actually have more female friends, but this is why; I get along with men very well, too well. I love friendships with them- LOVE, in general those relationships are very fun, and full of friendly competition, but my friendships very quickly and easily slip into romance, so I keep more distance between myself and the opposite sex than I'd actually like to. My Cancer Sun/Venus won't allow me to have flings, so to avoid serious drama and turmoil I stay away, unless I am actually looking.

Anyway, do Mars/Gem women find that there is any particular pattern in the friendships you form.

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posted January 09, 2015 05:11 AM            

Agreed, Aquagembaby. I read that the brain is the top erogenous zone for the lady Gem Mars. It's so true. I have had partners crack up laughing at how turned on I have gotten with word alone. Their laughter is kind of a mood killer, but that's another story.

posted January 09, 2015 10:15 PM            

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Originally posted by venus2tinkerbell:
"I think this placement really emphasizes mind sex, or mind games. I don't mean mind games in a bad way though like leading someone on. But mind games in the sense that sex requires mental stimulation"

Agreed, Aquagembaby. I read that the brain is the top erogenous zone for the lady Gem Mars. It's so true. I have had partners crack up laughing at how turned on I have gotten with word alone. Their laughter is kind of a mood killer, but that's another story.

I think about sex ALOT and I just can't stop trying to bring those great ideas into reality. I always thought some other crazy aspects in my chart are what allow me to form attractions so easily, but if my mind is already on sex, and all it takes is words to get me going, maybe what I need to do is start plugging my ears.

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Haha yeah this placement is actual really unique, but weird and hard for others to understand lol. We're like low-key freaks. Lol.

posted January 10, 2015 12:31 PM            

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Originally posted by aquagembaby:
Haha yeah this placement is actual really unique, but weird and hard for others to understand lol. We're like low-key freaks. Lol.

I don't think I've gotten turned on by just one word though..!! Explain?

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ah- ha ha. "Low-key freaks" loving that term.

Actually "word" was a typo. I meant words.

But say the right word, in the right context, with the right voice...I'm sure that could work too. Voices can paralyze me.

posted January 11, 2015 04:33 PM            

Not me! WEIRDOS!

posted January 11, 2015 05:08 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
^ Same.

If you can get me to shut up...WOW.

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posted January 11, 2015 05:14 PM            

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Originally posted by EmGem:
Hi everyone, newbie here.
Just wanted to chime in and say I've recently met a gemini in mars (aries sun) guy and what everyone has said here is SO on point lol. He loves talking about what he would do sexually and what he would love to hear me say to him. This goes perfectly with my gemini sun and mercury. I love this kind of banter. The texting/sexting gets very heated lol

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EmGem, I'm so jealous- lol.

posted January 11, 2015 05:19 PM            

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Originally posted by 7thGuardian:
Ok, so let me get this straight - people with Mars in Gemini - feel ecstatic when you cover their mouth with duct tape (so they wouldn't be able to speak)? O.o

Not me! WEIRDOS!

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LOL I am a weirdo, but for reasons way worse than that. Duct tape isn't really my thing, but maybe that's because I haven't tried it. I guess if your into bondage, and your Gem Mars is too, then if you only tie their hands and feet and let their tongue go free, they won't feel the full effect. They can still talk (lick, kiss, bite)!!! Don't forget the duct tape if that's your Gem Mar's style.

posted January 12, 2015 01:03 AM            

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Originally posted by venus2tinkerbell:

ah- ha ha. "Low-key freaks" loving that term.

Actually "word" was a typo. I meant words.

But say the right word, in the right context, with the right voice...I'm sure that could work too. Voices can paralyze me.

The funny thing is when I am talking to someone who knows me and knows what makes me tick, they know I'm turned on because I shut up. I talk ALOT. You can see that by the length of most of my posts, but I have had partners crack up laughing because they said just the right thing and I've got nothing to say. 98% of the time, my silence means...good stuff.

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Ohh haha interesting. Mercury in Cap here so I don't actually talk that much, but I still love convos. What house is your mars in? Mine's in 6th house.

posted January 12, 2015 02:06 AM            

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Originally posted by venus2tinkerbell:
EmGem, I'm so jealous- lol.

I text all the time, but when it comes to the sex talk, nothing does it like delivery by voice....I guess texting lets you talk sex when you should be working or studying, which works for me because even though I am a rather productive worker, I love to take mini breaks just to think about sex. So a text would be awesome...

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posted January 12, 2015 09:22 AM            

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Originally posted by aquagembaby:
Ohh haha interesting. Mercury in Cap here so I don't actually talk that much, but I still love convos. What house is your mars in? Mine's in 6th house.

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Hey aquagembaby! My Mars is in the 11th house. Friendships are intensely important to me (my Venus is in 11 too), but I don't make many friends. I am terribly social, but the people I call my friends are few. I am very active in non-profit and humanitarian aid work. I was literally educated and raised by the people in the organization I serve today. So yeah friends, charity (women and children) are my passions. The link below doesn't really go into Mars in the 11th house, but I put it here because it has Mars in all the houses. Does this interpretation of Mars in the 6th resonate with you?
http://www.cafeastrology.com/natal/marsinhouses.html

posted January 12, 2015 09:42 AM            

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Originally posted by EmGem:
its great when in the beginning of the 'chase' and anticipation phase of the dating when voice on voice action is still a little nerve racking Esp for an aries male lol
But once it hits the bedroom, you're right, there's nothing better!
Do mars in gemini talk a lot in general or is that more dependant on mercury?? im not sure where his is, could be pisces, taurus or aries i think. he can talk the socks off anyone.

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Oh that's interesting. How does the talking affect an Aries male?

Like aquagembaby stated, not all mars in gem people are talkers like me. I think my talking has to do with Mercury. It's a big player in my chart, and some sites have shown it to be my chart ruler even though Leo is my Asc....(?) but I have Mercury and Jupiter in Leo, house 1, so I talk to communicate, to connect, and for attention.

And really while I love to talk, when it comes to sex, I rather be talked to. So it's the man who can shut down my word flow with his own sexy, smooth word flow that is the winner in my book.

And I can't be got with thoughtless dribble, like "oh yeah, baby" LOL!!!

I mean, I want to know you're paying attention to who I am. You saw through me, to my soul (Sun in Cancer, maybe), you saw what I need, and now you're telling me how you're going to take care of me. That's it.

I think Mars in Gem is more about engaging the mind in various ways. It doesn't just have to be through words. Anything that draws me in, and makes me want to dig deeper through contemplation- intensity, intensity of movement, eyes, nervousness, shyness, anger, geeky-ness, aloofness. I am easily seduced.

posted January 12, 2015 05:05 PM            

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Originally posted by venus2tinkerbell:
Oh that's interesting. How does the talking affect an Aries male?

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Oh i meant that the chase and anticipation is what aries love, well this one does anyway

posted January 13, 2015 08:30 AM            

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So 7thGaurdian, do you or don't you have Mars in Gemini?

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That was meant as - a sarcastic remark...

posted January 13, 2015 10:00 AM            

Oh, I see. I can remember only one Aries (sun) from my puppy love days. An Aries would be so disappointed with me. I don't play the relationship cat and mouse game very well.

posted January 13, 2015 10:18 AM            

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Originally posted by 7thGuardian:
That was meant as - a sarcastic remark...

To answer your question, Yes - Mars is in Gemini (paired with his big Brother the Sun) - in my chart. What can i say - we Geminis don't talk that much.

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You know, 7thGaurdian, sarcasm is my kryptonite....I just don't get it. I love to talk and play, but I can't do sarcasm. It's embarrassing.

I was eating watermelon one day this summer and someone was like, "you really shouldn't eat watermelon. It'll go right to your stomach" I was SO confused. I also became infatuated with that person...

But I like how you gave me a second chance.

"What can i say - we Geminis don't talk that much"

...that was sarcasm, right?...LOL!!!