posted January 19, 2015 11:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Gemini30:
Hmmm so I guess the moon does play a role. After all its the emotions and they come into play when deciding if they should go casual or not.

Geeky if you dont mind me asking, what is your mars and venus sign?

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Here's the rundown and what qualities I think each of these contributes to how I approach sex:

Virgo (grounding energy, keeps me safe)
Leo Asc (outgoing, ready to pursue what I want)
Sag Moon (fun, flirty, easily bored, embraces adventure)
Scorpio Venus (romantic at heart, loves to love and be loved, intense focus on sex)
Libra Mars (fairness, open-minded, non-judgemental, likes similar minded people)

posted January 20, 2015 05:27 PM            

I have 5H Sag Venus trine Leo ASC and never wanted casual sex or a one night stand.

posted January 21, 2015 12:47 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
^ LOL

I have 5H Sag Venus trine Leo ASC and never wanted casual sex or a one night stand.

Venus conjunct Neptune
Venus trine Saturn

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Interesting! Your one of the rare ones! What is your mars and moon sign?

posted January 21, 2015 12:51 PM            

Well, not me certainly.
But my Venus is in CApricorn. Maybe if Venus was in SAgittarius?

oh my Mars and ASC are in Sag, as well.

posted January 21, 2015 12:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
They just keep talking about it... on and on... like a broken record.
Either they don't know whether they should have sex, or whether they did the right thing by having sex or whether they want to have more sex...or they are proud of how much sex they're having.
Expect to hear their entire (drunken) life philosophy on sex before you ever even have sex, if you ever do - that is
Gemini/Sagittarius are the axis of: talking the talk - whilst not - walking the walk.
So, don't believe everything you hear about their one night stands.

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posted January 21, 2015 07:39 PM            

I prefer to be in a relationship, but that's only because I love to be loved.

posted January 21, 2015 08:29 PM            

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Originally posted by Gemini30:
Interesting! Your one of the rare ones! What is your mars and moon sign?

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Here you are:

18 Pisces moon
16 Gemini Mars, retrograde
12 Sag Neptune
6 Sag Venus

Venus doesn't aspect my moon or Mars. It's just hanging out with Neptune, dreaming.

And you can see how my Mars isn't going to jump in and go for it, either, not with that t-square.

But above all things...I have a 6H sun and STD paranoia.

posted January 21, 2015 10:22 PM            

My stellium is in Capricorn, however, but in 3rd SAG. Wouldmthis give me a Sagittarian approach to love/hooking up? I often wonder... People who activate my third usually do it for me, since it generally activates 4th-8th, as well.

posted January 22, 2015 02:44 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Here you are:

18 Pisces moon
16 Gemini Mars, retrograde
12 Sag Neptune
6 Sag Venus

Venus doesn't aspect my moon or Mars. It's just hanging out with Neptune, dreaming.

And you can see how my Mars isn't going to jump in and go for it, either, not with that t-square.

But above all things...I have a 6H sun and STD paranoia.

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posted January 22, 2015 08:42 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Here you are:

18 Pisces moon
16 Gemini Mars, retrograde
12 Sag Neptune
6 Sag Venus

Venus doesn't aspect my moon or Mars. It's just hanging out with Neptune, dreaming.

And you can see how my Mars isn't going to jump in and go for it, either, not with that t-square.

But above all things...I have a 6H sun and STD paranoia.

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posted January 22, 2015 04:46 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:

I have the feeling there is more than a little truth in it . at least for some of the species.

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posted January 22, 2015 04:58 PM            

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Originally posted by lilting:
We have a few of the same placements. I have a 6H sun, pisces moon and sagittarius venus and I get the whole STDs thing I'm paranoid too lol and I've never had any significant longings for a one night stand.

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posted January 22, 2015 05:04 PM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
Lol Yeah, I'm sure it's true for some... but there's a good percentage of Sag men out there who blow their own horn from here to England - and make up or exaggerate sexual stories that only happened in their imagination.

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posted January 22, 2015 05:04 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Neptune on your Moon/Venus-mp - sooo emotional and sappy. I mean that in a good way btw. And sensivity, romantic, at least at heart.

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Are you really calling me sappy, Ceri?

Holy crud I guess you have my back to a wall with the astrology...I'm caught red-handed

But aha! I see the way out!

posted January 22, 2015 08:00 PM            

Im incapable of dating casualy, I cant do one night stands
but I want people to think im that kind of person, I love flirting and seducing and proving to the world how wild and free I am.
But the truth is Im not interesting in having sex just for the sake of it, it bores me immensily.
Im not seeking relationships either, im scared of commitment and I dont like relationships I love freedom. what I like is passion whether it lasts or not doesnt matter but I want something "real" to have a real bond with the person for the time it lasts, to feel something emotionaly.

So I guess im just an intense sagittarius.

posted January 22, 2015 08:34 PM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
It occurred to me that almost always nearly (if not every) post (LL and many other boards I've been on) will be about how impossible it is to have casual sex or one night stands and given how society is that didn't make sense to me...until I realized the people who are fine with it (or at least it will do for the moment) are right now getting laid or checking their hook up accounts hoping to soon.

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Thought I'd share this for fun, if gay guys acted in real life like many do on sites as Grindr (an infamous and very popular hook up app for gay men):
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Zk5XC8tu64

posted January 22, 2015 08:50 PM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
Thought I'd share this for fun, if gay guys acted in real life like many do on sites as Grindr (an infamous and very popular hook up app for gay men):
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Zk5XC8tu64

Btw, women (lesbian, bi, straight) respond to Grindr (and notice how one says the gay men are actually more polite and slightly less vulgar than straight men are to her on the dating sites for straights):
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N4CWiQIegWU

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posted January 22, 2015 10:15 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
My gay friend tells me that gay guys are much worse than straight guys and will regularly say sh*t to other gay guys that would get straight guys slapped if they said the same things to women they were into.

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I don't dispute that, but there's still a difference of looking for a BJ by saying you're a "top looking for oral" (and letting those interested come to you) and telling a specific person (OL) "those look like dick sucking lips, lol." The latter being directed at females despite that it's harder to find women who would act like all too many on Grindr (perhaps the straights feel she'll either buy it or metaphorically slap his face regardless of how delicate he puts it and is looking for a woman with low self esteem anyway, unlike the gay guy who knows if he offends then the one he's talking dirty to can just find someone else?)

'Course I have yet to hear of a dating/hook up app for straights in which so many were extremely rude (and often racist, etc) in saying what they were looking for ('course just because I haven't heard of them doesn't mean they don't exist).